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A wink or A message

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By *ut4fun6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Hello

I have been on the site for a few weeks now and still have a question. what do people prefer as a method of introduction. A wink or a Message.

I have tried both and can't seem to find the best way. Any ideas

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

A lot of people simply delete winks so I would suggest a message would be the best thing but everyone is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people simply delete winks so I would suggest a message would be the best thing but everyone is different."
your right they do delete them even message most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t respond to winks

I would sooner have a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We delete winks, but respond to ALL messages, even if it’s “no thanks”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try both message and wink but neither work

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I like receiving winks and also send winks. I have received and sent winks which resulted in messages being sent and meets arranged....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky u mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink if I haven't got time to message yet, add to hotlist and follow up. Sometimes they beat me to it after the wink. Most people ignore them and most don't even look. Then again with the amount of winks even I get from single guys (i have a filter on now) I don't blame them. Its like trawling through the valley of dick pics to see who likes you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always reply to mails even if it’s a polite no thanks if we do reply to a wink it’s a return wink then expect a mail

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Winks don't bother us.

We've spoken to men the missus likes after they've winked. And she likes to wink herself when she's browsing.

Seems a lot less stressful for some than messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experience neither work lol. But that could be just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Targeted winks work... see and read your prey ... pick an opportune time and pounce on them with an effective wink followed up by a bantering message... top fab tips from Daddy x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d respond to a wink from a lady but not from a man. I’d respond to a message from a lady but it’s unlikely I’d respond to a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From my experience neither work lol. But that could be just me "

Your experience is two weeks, perhaps give it a bit longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From my experience neither work lol. But that could be just me

Your experience is two weeks, perhaps give it a bit longer "

Perfectly right. Very early days

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