FabSwingers.com forum: Friends request

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are we there only ones who think it's wrong to send friend request to people you haven't even said hello to

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think it's wrong but I do think it's a bit cheeky.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Maybe that’s something that could be changed. You can’t send a request unless you’ve chatted.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Maybe that’s something that could be changed. You can’t send a request unless you’ve chatted. "

Step in right direction

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you don't delete a friend requests it prevents another being sent.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Personally I think it's bad manners when they do that but haven't even bothered saying hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it's wrong but I do think it's a bit cheeky."

hence why its ignored

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By *23456999Man
over a year ago

york

Hi everyone hows Friday for you?

Friends wanted please x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"If you don't delete a friend requests it prevents another being sent."

This is so handy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete unwanted friends requests and if they send a second they get blocked

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yep drives me mad

Especially when they have no friends pics themselves.

I often wait till they go offline,look at their pics then delete.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. I don’t accept any requests, if I’ve been chatting to someone and want to meet up, I’ll add them.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I think it is cheeky or just pic collectors.

Would i buy someone a drink without even at least a hello... nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they're pretty irrelevant to me, same as with winks, just ignore them...i see no use for either for me personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I delete unwanted friends requests and if they send a second they get blocked "

Blocked at 1st request, just proves they haven’t read profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't delete a friend requests it prevents another being sent."

If it's their first contact without even saying hello then it's an instant block.

Job done... no more requests from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep drives me mad

Especially when they have no friends pics themselves.

I often wait till they go offline,look at their pics then delete.

Miss"

glad I'm not the only one that does this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep drives me mad

Especially when they have no friends pics themselves.

I often wait till they go offline,look at their pics then delete.

Miss

glad I'm not the only one that does this"

And I thought I was just being a miserable bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i treat them like winks to be honest ,if i want to accept it i do , if i dont i decline the request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no it not wrong to sen it but it best to talk to the people before you go and do it i would say

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We just think they're probably picture collectors, so we ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We reply asking when have we spoken / met? Rarely get a reply, but often blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me, I just delete anyone I,m definitely not interested in meeting. I don't very often send requests myself though xxx

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Occasionally I look at their profile, but often I just delete. I think winks and friend requests are just ways of getting round people's filters.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I don't think it's wrong but I do think it's a bit cheeky."

Especially if they have no friends only photo's of themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we there only ones who think it's wrong to send friend request to people you haven't even said hello to"

Photos available to my friends include a face pic so I ignore them unless we have chatted.

If I am interested I may send a message but not agree to the request.

I always ask before sending one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We delete all requests sent if we haven’t chatted first

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By *alphy187Man
over a year ago

cambridge

I admit I sometimes send friend requests without chatting but only to local people when they are online. What surprises me are the ones that accept which implies interest then when I message they delete it. I understand if they look at pictures and decide I'm not their thing but they don't remove me as a friend. Seems strange, anyone else have this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's wrong but I allows message after saying hi

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"If you don't delete a friend requests it prevents another being sent.

This is so handy!!!"

for 3 or 4 weeks then they just resend

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Well that is subjective....some will think it's ok others not so much. Personally I don't think it's a good idea. Let's face it, how many of us would actually accept one from someone we haven't even spoke to? Not many I am guessing.

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By *ipsxxCouple
over a year ago

Got shit loads of friends requests still pending lol bit of a cheek to ask to be friends when you not been chatting and most of them haven’t even read your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say wrong but I'd never do it. To be honest I don't really send requests anyway but I wouldn't accept one from someone I hadn't spoken to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People use fab in diffrent ways, random friend adders will find other random adders and meet.. meet now people find meet now people and social people tend to find other social folk. Obviously the lines blur sometimes... but this was the outcome from my studies at Sydney university

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"People use fab in diffrent ways, random friend adders will find other random adders and meet.. meet now people find meet now people and social people tend to find other social folk. Obviously the lines blur sometimes... but this was the outcome from my studies at Sydney university

Love it - wondered what Sydney was all about seen as so many people are members - pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think it's bad manners when they do that but haven't even bothered saying hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing i hate about friend request when they ask to be add once add they remove you which has not happen loads of time with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a fan of random friend requests x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doing it in real life to someone your want to have sex with takes bravery and may work.

Online it's just a button click, takes no bravery, so will hardly ever work.

It's even lazier than a 'please read my profile and see I'm amazing' message - which also hardly ever works (but while you're reading this, why not read my profile....!)

Si x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not a fan of random friend requests x "
know i agree with u guys its really annoying when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't even remember my last one lol xxx

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"Are we there only ones who think it's wrong to send friend request to people you haven't even said hello to"

Nope I can't stand it either usually send a message or just delete and then update profile status lol

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By *randmrsdisneyCouple
over a year ago

weston-super-mare

I agree its rubbish to send a friend request with out even chatting, we assume they are just pic hunters and block them. How ever a lot of people on here are dissing winks also. I like winks. a wink is a polite way of saying "I like you check me out" with out boring them with some "hi, how are you crap"

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