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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I joined about two weeks ago and i've struggled to get anyone to talk to me. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong as my messages get read. I understand women get lots of messages but what can I do to better my chances?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me dude, two weeks is nothing.

Some people, like me, have to wait months to get a meet. Try looking for local social meets to get to know people.

Also try the chatrooms, lots of banter and sometimes you can get meets via that.

good luck out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and for god sake...SMILE, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So

what were you expecting??

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"So I joined about two weeks ago and i've struggled to get anyone to talk to me. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong as my messages get read. I understand women get lots of messages but what can I do to better my chances? "

Women usually look at a profile before reading a message, so making it as attractive as you can will help.

But sadly OP your age will be a huge factor on here, a lot of us will have children older than you, and currently most that's a huge no go area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take a look at some of the forum threads on profile advice..thats what women will look at first, before your message..

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

2 weeks, you really need to be patient. Send bespoke messages, don't be thirsty.

Work on your profile, and get to some events and I'm sure you'll be fine.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

*HELP FOR NEWBIES/NO MEETS**

This section is especially for you singles and couples that feel the urge to pm me and ask for advice etc, now you don't have to it's all here for you!

1. Read FAQ section, particularly the part about no reply, no interest, it's not considered rude. Do not bother with the Sydney university shit on your profile, it means nothing.

2. Work on your profile: decent pics and a good bio, tick interests. Put a profile pic on.

3. Get photo verified, particularly important if you are a couple or single female.

4. Get cam verified to start, you can go into the cam rooms and ask someone to help you with this. Couples must both be on at the same time. If I'm free to help with this I will post a status update.

5. Read a profile before messaging, it's polite.

6. Read existing forum threads on profile advice, some very good ones.

7. Post your own thread to ask for feedback, (not a whinging, whining entitled one!).

8. Act on said advice.

9. Go to local socials/clubs, meet people in public places.

10. Lastly, enjoy your time on fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nonesense...

You're doing it all wrong. Ditch the face pic... get a penis photo up asap... hey fuck it, better put 10 on...

No need for messages really. Go straight for the unsolicited friend request. Better wink too just to be safe.

If they ignore it then drop a message... get to the point! Something snappy like "lets fuck".

"Want to meet now?"

Try to stick with tx speak and slang... show you're cool.

If that doesn't work update your status to show "how ignorant" everyone is for not relying.

If you don't get a meet with that advice in a week... well you've got no chance. Better just close your account.

You're welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nonesense...

You're doing it all wrong. Ditch the face pic... get a penis photo up asap... hey fuck it, better put 10 on...

No need for messages really. Go straight for the unsolicited friend request. Better wink too just to be safe.

If they ignore it then drop a message... get to the point! Something snappy like "lets fuck".

"Want to meet now?"

Try to stick with tx speak and slang... show you're cool.

If that doesn't work update your status to show "how ignorant" everyone is for not relying.

If you don't get a meet with that advice in a week... well you've got no chance. Better just close your account.

You're welcome! "

????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I joined about two weeks ago and i've struggled to get anyone to talk to me. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong as my messages get read. I understand women get lots of messages but what can I do to better my chances? "
just relax , it is what it is u can’t change it , good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes years chap....you have more chance of getting laid by a fecking snowman ha ha

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By *obbo5703Man
over a year ago

Wrexham

Hi. I’ve been on and off here for a few months, but like most single blokes on here, I’m not having much luck. Could any of you ladies have a quick look at my profile, and let me know what you think? Thanks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nonesense...

You're doing it all wrong. Ditch the face pic... get a penis photo up asap... hey fuck it, better put 10 on...

No need for messages really. Go straight for the unsolicited friend request. Better wink too just to be safe.

If they ignore it then drop a message... get to the point! Something snappy like "lets fuck".

"Want to meet now?"

Try to stick with tx speak and slang... show you're cool.

If that doesn't work update your status to show "how ignorant" everyone is for not relying.

If you don't get a meet with that advice in a week... well you've got no chance. Better just close your account.

You're welcome! "

Bloody brilliant

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By *obbo5703Man
over a year ago

Wrexham

Hahahahaha...if only! x

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By *ireupthequattroCouple
over a year ago

Stratford

If you single guys have no luck on here bat for the other side ,

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