FabSwingers.com forum: Messages not even read..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi why would my messages not even be read? I’m new to this site so I know that doesn’t help. Link to profile below any advice would be great.

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/norm4

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Hi why would my messages not even be read? I’m new to this site so I know that doesn’t help. Link to profile below any advice would be great.

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/norm4"

There's a very high ratio of single guys to couples and single females on here. People may look at your profile before deciding to read or answer.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

As ever, try a club or social OP good way to meet people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

myriad reasons, but you will never know, so the best thing to do is delete messages once you have sent them, then you cant chase up when theyve been read, not read, deleted etc...because unless theyve replied, it doesnt really matter and isnt worth worrying about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because people dont have to... dont check your sent messages youll only stress yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I’m that case what’s the issue with my profile? Lol

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Why shuld someone have to read your message...

Dont stress over it fella... comes with the territory.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Well I’m that case what’s the issue with my profile? Lol "

One of your pictures has a man in the background, perhaps take that down

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Well I’m that case what’s the issue with my profile? Lol

One of your pictures has a man in the background, perhaps take that down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Removed good point

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By *j188Couple
over a year ago

aberdeenshire

"Hi why would my messages not even be read? I’m new to this site so I know that doesn’t help. Link to profile below any advice would be great.

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/norm4"

We have looked at your profile...

Definitely wouldn't delete a message from you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the faq section

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"myriad reasons, but you will never know, so the best thing to do is delete messages once you have sent them, then you cant chase up when theyve been read, not read, deleted etc...because unless theyve replied, it doesnt really matter and isnt worth worrying about."

Good advice thank you, I understand all the reasons why it happens but on some level it is frustrating. I've cleared my sent box and feel much more zen

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

My couples profile has 450 unread messages..

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By *exaWoman
over a year ago

newcastle

Non paying members can only see the last 100 messages ish so you simply might have dropped off the bottom of the inbox

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Try a club. You’ll get verifications and people will meet ‘you’ rather than three pics.

Its slow to start then things pick up as they go.

Enjoy. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Clubs alone are a bit intimidating to start off with I’d of thought.. no back up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi why would my messages not even be read? I’m new to this site so I know that doesn’t help. Link to profile below any advice would be great.

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/norm4"

Depends what your message was like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clubs alone are a bit intimidating to start off with I’d of thought.. no back up lol "

Back up??

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By *upcakes123Woman
over a year ago

Wakefield

"My couples profile has 450 unread messages.."

Use filters?

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By *upcakes123Woman
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Clubs alone are a bit intimidating to start off with I’d of thought.. no back up lol "

I wouldn't say no to you in a club lol x

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"Clubs alone are a bit intimidating to start off with I’d of thought.. no back up lol "

What do you mean back up?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"My couples profile has 450 unread messages..

Use filters?"

Can't filter by race unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Support as in if I was there with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Support as in if I was there with someone. "

Do you need support when going to a pub

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"Support as in if I was there with someone. "

Why do you need support from a stranger? Clubs are social places too. Just chat to people. Lots Women go alone. Why can't men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Didn’t really mean a stranger just comparing it to going alone. I have no experience of a club that’s all. Club recommendations?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Didn’t really mean a stranger just comparing it to going alone. I have no experience of a club that’s all. Club recommendations? "

Have a look at the club reviews section on fab that may give you a few ideas for your area.

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

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"Hi why would my messages not even be read? I’m new to this site so I know that doesn’t help. Link to profile below any advice would be great.

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/norm4"

You have entered a new jungle, woman as always have the pick of the crop.

With the amount of men on this site you gotta play hard to get noticed.

Prepare to be highly disapointed... but enjoy the banter and endless possibilities

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

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"Clubs alone are a bit intimidating to start off with I’d of thought.. no back up lol

I wouldn't say no to you in a club lol x"

How does the club surrounding make him less attractive and not deserve a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If im looking to meet and interested in a person the venue wouldn’t matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clubs alone are a bit intimidating to start off with I’d of thought.. no back up lol

I wouldn't say no to you in a club lol x

How does the club surrounding make him less attractive and not deserve a meet?

You what?

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"Clubs alone are a bit intimidating to start off with I’d of thought.. no back up lol

I wouldn't say no to you in a club lol x

How does the club surrounding make him less attractive and not deserve a meet?

That doesnt make sense.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"Hi why would my messages not even be read? I’m new to this site so I know that doesn’t help. Link to profile below any advice would be great.

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/norm4"

I delete all messages where they haven't read my profile simples

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well there’s a difference to me you are comfortable in the surroundings so I guess it’s like walking in a bar

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Well there’s a difference to me you are comfortable in the surroundings so I guess it’s like walking in a bar "

That's pretty much it. Just behave like you would I a normal club or bar

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"Well there’s a difference to me you are comfortable in the surroundings so I guess it’s like walking in a bar "

I wasnt born in a swinging club ffs. Most of us have walked in alone in the beginning.

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

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"Support as in if I was there with someone.

Why do you need support from a stranger? Clubs are social places too. Just chat to people. Lots Women go alone. Why can't men?"

Some of us aren’t brave enough.. need someone to hold my/our hands

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

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"Well there’s a difference to me you are comfortable in the surroundings so I guess it’s like walking in a bar

That's pretty much it. Just behave like you would I a normal club or bar

Lucky I can always rely on my dancing feet lol

But still not found the gung ho spirit to venture in to a club ... yet...need a brave person to lead me in and astray

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Well there’s a difference to me you are comfortable in the surroundings so I guess it’s like walking in a bar

That's pretty much it. Just behave like you would I a normal club or bar

Lucky I can always rely on my dancing feet lol

But still not found the gung ho spirit to venture in to a club ... yet...need a brave person to lead me in and astray "

You don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok calm down lol

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

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"Well there’s a difference to me you are comfortable in the surroundings so I guess it’s like walking in a bar

That's pretty much it. Just behave like you would I a normal club or bar

Lucky I can always rely on my dancing feet lol

But still not found the gung ho spirit to venture in to a club ... yet...need a brave person to lead me in and astray

You don't. "

Like diving head first into a pool without knowing if it’s shallow or deep ?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Well there’s a difference to me you are comfortable in the surroundings so I guess it’s like walking in a bar

That's pretty much it. Just behave like you would I a normal club or bar

Lucky I can always rely on my dancing feet lol

But still not found the gung ho spirit to venture in to a club ... yet...need a brave person to lead me in and astray

You don't.

Like diving head first into a pool without knowing if it’s shallow or deep ?"

Lol bit of a strange comparison but try going you may like it. Just chat to people normally

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

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"Well there’s a difference to me you are comfortable in the surroundings so I guess it’s like walking in a bar

That's pretty much it. Just behave like you would I a normal club or bar

Lucky I can always rely on my dancing feet lol

But still not found the gung ho spirit to venture in to a club ... yet...need a brave person to lead me in and astray

You don't.

Like diving head first into a pool without knowing if it’s shallow or deep ?

Lol bit of a strange comparison but try going you may like it. Just chat to people normally "

As a new experience I feel the comparison is still justifiable.

What if ? Was going to be my question, but guess can’t compile a rational further question.

Just need to have three coffees dress up well, smell like a exotic flower and attend!!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Well there’s a difference to me you are comfortable in the surroundings so I guess it’s like walking in a bar

That's pretty much it. Just behave like you would I a normal club or bar

Lucky I can always rely on my dancing feet lol

But still not found the gung ho spirit to venture in to a club ... yet...need a brave person to lead me in and astray

You don't.

Like diving head first into a pool without knowing if it’s shallow or deep ?

Lol bit of a strange comparison but try going you may like it. Just chat to people normally

As a new experience I feel the comparison is still justifiable.

What if ? Was going to be my question, but guess can’t compile a rational further question.

Just need to have three coffees dress up well, smell like a exotic flower and attend!!"

Exactly

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

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"Hi why would my messages not even be read? I’m new to this site so I know that doesn’t help. Link to profile below any advice would be great.

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/norm4"

Back to your question...

Follow their status and reply linking your message to their post. And according to what I learned today, just turn up to a club and speak to them.

P.s. take me with you bro we can be brave together

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As I thought it’s hit the clubs! Thanks for the advice everyone. It was worth the post.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"As I thought it’s hit the clubs! Thanks for the advice everyone. It was worth the post. "

Very welcome and good luck xx

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

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Still think we all should be pessimistic on here lol

Last word

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I think patience is the key word my friend. I’m going to be on at my single pal to hit a club very soon. Thou shall seek lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Still think we all should be pessimistic on here lol

Last word "

You're a man you don't get the last word

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By *am DavisMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Hi how are you doing? I hope you are OK xxx

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By *am DavisMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"Well there’s a difference to me you are comfortable in the surroundings so I guess it’s like walking in a bar

That's pretty much it. Just behave like you would I a normal club or bar

Lucky I can always rely on my dancing feet lol

But still not found the gung ho spirit to venture in to a club ... yet...need a brave person to lead me in and astray

You don't.

Like diving head first into a pool without knowing if it’s shallow or deep ?

Lol bit of a strange comparison but try going you may like it. Just chat to people normally "
you are so hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From the faq section

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Only the most recent 50 or so show in inbox. If a woman or couple haven’t been online for a few hours or even a day...they could have over 100 messages. They can’t even see 50 or more of them...so they can’t possibly read or answer them.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"[Removed by poster at 18/02/18 20:20:07]"
please come back and let us know how you got on xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Of course it could be free advertising ha x

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

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"From the faq section

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some men get two messages a month... lol

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

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"Of course it could be free advertising ha x "

( he says quietly in his head “ See you in a year asking the same darn question... my fellow Fabswinger meet wanna be ..”)

I mean good luck old chap, happy hunting and all that!!

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Email trophy hunters and fakes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From the faq section

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some men get two messages a month... lol"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good advice. I saw here face and now I’m a deleter...

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By *ackie slut99TV/TS
over a year ago

derbyshire

Thats some really top advice i am going to do this from now on.thanks.x

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By *upcakes123Woman
over a year ago

Wakefield

"My couples profile has 450 unread messages..

Use filters?

Can't filter by race unfortunately. "
lol xx

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By *upcakes123Woman
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Support as in if I was there with someone.

Do you need support when going to a pub "

Why do people always say this. .. even going in a normal night out you go with mates males or females or both very much doubt any ladie or maybe even blokes for that matter have gone out on a good night out on there own x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a thread about this earlier but it got deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi O.P apologises if someone has already said this (didn’t read every single response on here). I wouldn’t take it as anything personal or specific about you/profile. I’ve a few friends who I know from clubs who are single females and coupes. They can get up to something like a 1000 messages a day. (Also I stand to be corrected but think fab has an auto refresh when there are too many messages so any unread just go). Therefore unless a person/couple has hours of spare time it’s very easy to be bulked deleted.

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By *hy_guy89Man
over a year ago

birmingham

"From the faq section

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

How is this not rude?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People look at message sender's profiles typically before reading the message. If they decide you're not for them, they don't read the message.

I'd take off anything in your profile that isn't positively about you. Side comments about the site detract.

Consider splitting into a couple of paragraphs too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi why would my messages not even be read? I’m new to this site so I know that doesn’t help. Link to profile below any advice would be great.

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/norm4"
you've only been here two weeks be patient you appear to have an ok profile maybe its to do with the messages you send and we can't help with that other than to say ,don't send overtly sexual messages as an introduction and send messages based on target profile ,if you don't stand out from the crowd you won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From the faq section

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

How is this not rude?"

Do you answer every unsolicited email and leaflet that comes through your door with a polite no thanks not interested? Perhaps you should try doing it for a week then you will have an idea. No? Thought not.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"From the faq section

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

How is this not rude?"

This is from the site faq.it is what the site owners have decided. You maybe better asking why they they want that ethos on the site.

I totally agree with them it is not rude. Maybe this isnt the site for you if you disagree with the basics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From the faq section

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

How is this not rude?

This is from the site faq.it is what the site owners have decided. You maybe better asking why they they want that ethos on the site.

I totally agree with them it is not rude. Maybe this isnt the site for you if you disagree with the basics."
yes but you know yourself if a guy sends a perfectly good message but you don't physically have time to reply that that is kinda rude ,its only time that allows you to think otherwise,have you read the rules .......all of them ? I haven't

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

Any message with Hey as the subject line gets deleted without being read as do any who clearly can't be bothered to read your profile in full

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"From the faq section

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

How is this not rude?

This is from the site faq.it is what the site owners have decided. You maybe better asking why they they want that ethos on the site.

I totally agree with them it is not rude. Maybe this isnt the site for you if you disagree with the basics.yes but you know yourself if a guy sends a perfectly good message but you don't physically have time to reply that that is kinda rude ,its only time that allows you to think otherwise,have you read the rules .......all of them ? I haven't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From the faq section

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

How is this not rude?

This is from the site faq.it is what the site owners have decided. You maybe better asking why they they want that ethos on the site.

I did not ask that guy to send that message. That was his choice. That does not make me rude. It makes him entitled cos he has assumed I will reply. If he knew the number of messages that had been received by that person and had read the faq then that makes him a chancer. It does not make me rude! If it did then that would be victim shaming. Why should I be thought of as rude just because someone thinks with their dick? "
no I never said that I said if he sent a nice message ,I didn't mention dick and I also said if it were time restricting you from replying ,he's constructed a very nice well thought out message based on your profile he's sent a face pic but say for example the woman concerned has 50 messages in inbox but is going to work she hasn't got time to answer ,doesn't make the guy needy or make him the type who thinks with his dick but does make him thoughtful and polite ,the woman may even fancy him but hasn't got time to answer him ' time ' being the emotive word and by time she gets home from work that message has become 201 and dropped over the abyss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a site for people to meet and fuck. The single men membership runs into the hundreds of thousands which out numbers your meeting audience.

You are not Brad Pitt or Idris Elba.................your chances of a replies are slim to non existent.

Anything else I can advise you on?

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

"From the faq section

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

How is this not rude?

But why not delete it then. It’s the same as putting the leaflets in the bin as you wouldn’t leave them on the side would you.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"From the faq section

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

How is this not rude?

This is from the site faq.it is what the site owners have decided. You maybe better asking why they they want that ethos on the site.

I did not ask that guy to send that message. That was his choice. That does not make me rude. It makes him entitled cos he has assumed I will reply. If he knew the number of messages that had been received by that person and had read the faq then that makes him a chancer. It does not make me rude! If it did then that would be victim shaming. Why should I be thought of as rude just because someone thinks with their dick? no I never said that I said if he sent a nice message ,I didn't mention dick and I also said if it were time restricting you from replying ,he's constructed a very nice well thought out message based on your profile he's sent a face pic but say for example the woman concerned has 50 messages in inbox but is going to work she hasn't got time to answer ,doesn't make the guy needy or make him the type who thinks with his dick but does make him thoughtful and polite ,the woman may even fancy him but hasn't got time to answer him ' time ' being the emotive word and by time she gets home from work that message has become 201 and dropped over the abyss

So what is the answer? All men are restricted in the number of messages they send. Charge them per message? All women to put filters on? Probably all or none of them but one thing is certain. It will never change (well maybe after April it will if the age veri has an impact) site membership maybe drastically reduced if those that are here in secret leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From the faq section

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

How is this not rude?

This is from the site faq.it is what the site owners have decided. You maybe better asking why they they want that ethos on the site.

I did not ask that guy to send that message. That was his choice. That does not make me rude. It makes him entitled cos he has assumed I will reply. If he knew the number of messages that had been received by that person and had read the faq then that makes him a chancer. It does not make me rude! If it did then that would be victim shaming. Why should I be thought of as rude just because someone thinks with their dick? no I never said that I said if he sent a nice message ,I didn't mention dick and I also said if it were time restricting you from replying ,he's constructed a very nice well thought out message based on your profile he's sent a face pic but say for example the woman concerned has 50 messages in inbox but is going to work she hasn't got time to answer ,doesn't make the guy needy or make him the type who thinks with his dick but does make him thoughtful and polite ,the woman may even fancy him but hasn't got time to answer him ' time ' being the emotive word and by time she gets home from work that message has become 201 and dropped over the abyss

What’s happening in April o gorgeous one?

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By *quarerootMan
over a year ago

Helston

"Well there’s a difference to me you are comfortable in the surroundings so I guess it’s like walking in a bar

I wasnt born in a swinging club ffs. Most of us have walked in alone in the beginning."

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"From the faq section

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

How is this not rude?

This is from the site faq.it is what the site owners have decided. You maybe better asking why they they want that ethos on the site.

I did not ask that guy to send that message. That was his choice. That does not make me rude. It makes him entitled cos he has assumed I will reply. If he knew the number of messages that had been received by that person and had read the faq then that makes him a chancer. It does not make me rude! If it did then that would be victim shaming. Why should I be thought of as rude just because someone thinks with their dick? no I never said that I said if he sent a nice message ,I didn't mention dick and I also said if it were time restricting you from replying ,he's constructed a very nice well thought out message based on your profile he's sent a face pic but say for example the woman concerned has 50 messages in inbox but is going to work she hasn't got time to answer ,doesn't make the guy needy or make him the type who thinks with his dick but does make him thoughtful and polite ,the woman may even fancy him but hasn't got time to answer him ' time ' being the emotive word and by time she gets home from work that message has become 201 and dropped over the abyss

What’s happening in April o gorgeous one?"

Legislation is being brought in re age validation for sites with sexually explicit content. Fab hasnt clarified how this will impact on the site. There is a thread on it somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can suggest is make a message personal I’m not a woman but can guess they receive hundreds for us guys.

If it’s to generic or doesn’t stand out then it is probably bulk deleted

Just a guess

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