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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been here a while now and still no luck do you fabbers have any advice for me whether it's profile content or approach

Thanks guys

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I've been here a while now and still no luck do you fabbers have any advice for me whether it's profile content or approach

Thanks guys "

None of us can comment on your approach but ask yourself if your profile represents you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No dick on profile pic helps, especially if you're going to post in the Forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No dick on profile pic helps, especially if you're going to post in the Forum."

Mind you, I'm in mine.. so I can't talk

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By *uriousCouple999Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Your profile text is okay, but just having one picture which is your cock won't help! I delete messages from profiles with just a cock picture Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been here a while now and still no luck do you fabbers have any advice for me whether it's profile content or approach

Thanks guys "

What's your approach?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I normally ask how they are and go in politely rather than straight to the point and dirty talking but this doesn't seem to work

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I normally ask how they are and go in politely rather than straight to the point and dirty talking but this doesn't seem to work "

If you are literally messaging the three word sentence How are you, I would be surprised if anyone replies. I immediately delete anything like that. However, I will answer anyone who makes a reasonable effort in their message, even if it is to thank them for the effort but say no thanks. You need to give someone a reason to answer you back. Women are inundated with messages daily. You have to say something that is going to pique our interest.

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

I’m sure you’re more than a cock but that’s all you’ve chosen to show us. Torso and bum shots are popular with the ladies - just saying...!

Does your profile project your personality? Does it explain what you have to offer as well as what you’re looking for?

A message saying ‘Hi, how are you?’ from a profile with a cock pic = instant delete from me and many others I expect. Try exploring something in the profile text explaining why you messaged or complimenting a tasteful photo, or introducing yourself with a nod towards mutual interests - anything except ‘hi, how are you?’!! Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been here years and am off soon for good once this membership runs out .. and that's the advice I would give my friend ! Go!

The from my experience over a number of years is full of charlatans , escorts , secretly bi men who wont admit it timewasters and operators of clubs who charge for their services ..oh and plenty of people replaying pre recorded video in chat rooms too actually which is another swizz ! according to my records over the last few months at least ..

You will find the only people who comment on the ' Does my profile look ok? am I doing something wrong ? thread seem to have grandiose ideas of this being some kind of elite club ! it isn't and given most of the advice revolves around ; don't put dick picks on profiles /try saying something about yourself/ you need to change the pose etc ? what really is that about ? it is a swinger site not plenty of fish! .,. sadly a lot of women on here think it is though! a cheap plenty of fish dating site and use it accordingly ' there 'has to be a spark' types .. wine me dine me .. and you might get a peck on the cheek ' types .What rubbish!

This really isn't an 'elite' club my friend its a poorly managed electronic cattle market really truth be told . It survives mainly for couples to enjoy and frustrated single men who pay for its upkeep . It would go bust within 3 months if single men were excluded from joining I can bet ! Yet they ( the single man) are the ones constantly being vilified/excluded ignored etc .. doesn't seem fair does it ?

It is not at all in the spirit of the older 'swinger days ' when the people had a bit of class about them , some discretion and were actually going into things with their eyes open .Effort was needed then to meet like minded people and because of that the scene attracted 'proper' people who knew the lifestyle and how to conduct themselves .

Those were 'proper' swinger days . today folk switch on a computer and 'have a go' clearly lots don't have a clue what they are letting themselves in for ! and a lot are very much who they aren't .

There is little in the line of 'monitoring' chat room ops are hard to find when needed and pretty much powerless to do anything as they are mainly people who have invested in the site or on freebie membership . Any form of a 'problem ' or disagreement the advice is 'use the block button' as a filter? really in this day and age of technology there are no other options ? Truth is .. FAB is still after a number of years just 'amateur' at best and needs to be viewed as such .. if you like that bargain basement/ stall type approach ..then yep go for it .. but I think I am going to shell out a few more beans on another site which costs more but hopefully will be a genuine portal into what I am looking for .. and not a doorway to chaos and tissues of lies and fabricated identities to hide from the 'missus' . All that has become too frustrating and such a waste of life !

I can say truthfully I have had some meetings and chats with genuine women but they have been VERY few and far between .. so they do exist and worth looking for .. but most unfortunately just want a dating service that's cheaper than POF with the odd chance of a legover .. not my scene !

There will be many comments in here in response to this post . some with shock / disbelief etc. and of course huge criticism even sarcasm as obviously no one is 'like that' on here .Also the 'if you don't like it you know what you can do ' which just shows how seriously anyone who complains is looked at ..

To sum up .. its an okay site , its amateur and for a fiver what do you expect ? unfortunately because it is only a fiver or free in many cases it is littered with single men/ idiots who waste everyone's time .. my opinion has always been free membership should not be available .. make people pay for a quality service ! yes there will be less members but it will improve the experience those members have considerably

Too much time needs to be wasted going through idiots , escorts and unopened 'closeteers' and after a good while on here I have decided it is time I wasn't here .

Apologies to all the gen people out there .. but am fed up looking .. the site needs improving , better management and vetting of adds in the disguise of 'meets' another joke! and more consideration shown to people who pay membership .. just my opinion of course .. and no one will care as am off anyway .. Good luck my friend in what you seek but take the profile comments with a pinch of salt .. be who you want to be post those dick pics and be the one who sends messages to whoever you like .. and kind of have fun .. or try to on here ., I just cant be bothered anymore .

tra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been here years and am off soon for good once this membership runs out .. and that's the advice I would give my friend ! Go!

The from my experience over a number of years is full of charlatans , escorts , secretly bi men who wont admit it timewasters and operators of clubs who charge for their services ..oh and plenty of people replaying pre recorded video in chat rooms too actually which is another swizz ! according to my records over the last few months at least ..

You will find the only people who comment on the ' Does my profile look ok? am I doing something wrong ? thread seem to have grandiose ideas of this being some kind of elite club ! it isn't and given most of the advice revolves around ; don't put dick picks on profiles /try saying something about yourself/ you need to change the pose etc ? what really is that about ? it is a swinger site not plenty of fish! .,. sadly a lot of women on here think it is though! a cheap plenty of fish dating site and use it accordingly ' there 'has to be a spark' types .. wine me dine me .. and you might get a peck on the cheek ' types .What rubbish!

This really isn't an 'elite' club my friend its a poorly managed electronic cattle market really truth be told . It survives mainly for couples to enjoy and frustrated single men who pay for its upkeep . It would go bust within 3 months if single men were excluded from joining I can bet ! Yet they ( the single man) are the ones constantly being vilified/excluded ignored etc .. doesn't seem fair does it ?

It is not at all in the spirit of the older 'swinger days ' when the people had a bit of class about them , some discretion and were actually going into things with their eyes open .Effort was needed then to meet like minded people and because of that the scene attracted 'proper' people who knew the lifestyle and how to conduct themselves .

Those were 'proper' swinger days . today folk switch on a computer and 'have a go' clearly lots don't have a clue what they are letting themselves in for ! and a lot are very much who they aren't .

There is little in the line of 'monitoring' chat room ops are hard to find when needed and pretty much powerless to do anything as they are mainly people who have invested in the site or on freebie membership . Any form of a 'problem ' or disagreement the advice is 'use the block button' as a filter? really in this day and age of technology there are no other options ? Truth is .. FAB is still after a number of years just 'amateur' at best and needs to be viewed as such .. if you like that bargain basement/ stall type approach ..then yep go for it .. but I think I am going to shell out a few more beans on another site which costs more but hopefully will be a genuine portal into what I am looking for .. and not a doorway to chaos and tissues of lies and fabricated identities to hide from the 'missus' . All that has become too frustrating and such a waste of life !

I can say truthfully I have had some meetings and chats with genuine women but they have been VERY few and far between .. so they do exist and worth looking for .. but most unfortunately just want a dating service that's cheaper than POF with the odd chance of a legover .. not my scene !

There will be many comments in here in response to this post . some with shock / disbelief etc. and of course huge criticism even sarcasm as obviously no one is 'like that' on here .Also the 'if you don't like it you know what you can do ' which just shows how seriously anyone who complains is looked at ..

To sum up .. its an okay site , its amateur and for a fiver what do you expect ? unfortunately because it is only a fiver or free in many cases it is littered with single men/ idiots who waste everyone's time .. my opinion has always been free membership should not be available .. make people pay for a quality service ! yes there will be less members but it will improve the experience those members have considerably

Too much time needs to be wasted going through idiots , escorts and unopened 'closeteers' and after a good while on here I have decided it is time I wasn't here .

Apologies to all the gen people out there .. but am fed up looking .. the site needs improving , better management and vetting of adds in the disguise of 'meets' another joke! and more consideration shown to people who pay membership .. just my opinion of course .. and no one will care as am off anyway .. Good luck my friend in what you seek but take the profile comments with a pinch of salt .. be who you want to be post those dick pics and be the one who sends messages to whoever you like .. and kind of have fun .. or try to on here ., I just cant be bothered anymore .

tra

"

So, you are going to use paid sites?

Boy, have you got stuff to learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and that is exactly the point I was making !

You clearly didn't read what you just commented on ..

I have been in the lifestyle for 30 years .. ' a lot to learn' LOL

I would suggest you look in the mirror first ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and that is exactly the point I was making !

You clearly didn't read what you just commented on ..

I have been in the lifestyle for 30 years .. ' a lot to learn' LOL

I would suggest you look in the mirror first .. "

"Hopefully will be a genuine portal into what I'm looking for"

Those were the words I was referring to

This is the internet

People tell lies

'Dating' sites are a perfect vehicle for them to do that

Whether they pay to use the site or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and that is exactly the point I was making !

You clearly didn't read what you just commented on ..

I have been in the lifestyle for 30 years .. ' a lot to learn' LOL

I would suggest you look in the mirror first .. "

No need to be nasty bud. You come across as very bitter so it's probably best you do leave the site and move on. If being here made me feel like that, I'd be gone in an instant but fortunately it doesn't. I like this site and between here and clubs, I have a lot of fun. The day I resent anything/anyone etc is the day I press delete. All the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been here years and am off soon for good once this membership runs out .. and that's the advice I would give my friend ! Go!

The from my experience over a number of years is full of charlatans , escorts , secretly bi men who wont admit it timewasters and operators of clubs who charge for their services ..oh and plenty of people replaying pre recorded video in chat rooms too actually which is another swizz ! according to my records over the last few months at least ..

You will find the only people who comment on the ' Does my profile look ok? am I doing something wrong ? thread seem to have grandiose ideas of this being some kind of elite club ! it isn't and given most of the advice revolves around ; don't put dick picks on profiles /try saying something about yourself/ you need to change the pose etc ? what really is that about ? it is a swinger site not plenty of fish! .,. sadly a lot of women on here think it is though! a cheap plenty of fish dating site and use it accordingly ' there 'has to be a spark' types .. wine me dine me .. and you might get a peck on the cheek ' types .What rubbish!

This really isn't an 'elite' club my friend its a poorly managed electronic cattle market really truth be told . It survives mainly for couples to enjoy and frustrated single men who pay for its upkeep . It would go bust within 3 months if single men were excluded from joining I can bet ! Yet they ( the single man) are the ones constantly being vilified/excluded ignored etc .. doesn't seem fair does it ?

It is not at all in the spirit of the older 'swinger days ' when the people had a bit of class about them , some discretion and were actually going into things with their eyes open .Effort was needed then to meet like minded people and because of that the scene attracted 'proper' people who knew the lifestyle and how to conduct themselves .

Those were 'proper' swinger days . today folk switch on a computer and 'have a go' clearly lots don't have a clue what they are letting themselves in for ! and a lot are very much who they aren't .

There is little in the line of 'monitoring' chat room ops are hard to find when needed and pretty much powerless to do anything as they are mainly people who have invested in the site or on freebie membership . Any form of a 'problem ' or disagreement the advice is 'use the block button' as a filter? really in this day and age of technology there are no other options ? Truth is .. FAB is still after a number of years just 'amateur' at best and needs to be viewed as such .. if you like that bargain basement/ stall type approach ..then yep go for it .. but I think I am going to shell out a few more beans on another site which costs more but hopefully will be a genuine portal into what I am looking for .. and not a doorway to chaos and tissues of lies and fabricated identities to hide from the 'missus' . All that has become too frustrating and such a waste of life !

I can say truthfully I have had some meetings and chats with genuine women but they have been VERY few and far between .. so they do exist and worth looking for .. but most unfortunately just want a dating service that's cheaper than POF with the odd chance of a legover .. not my scene !

There will be many comments in here in response to this post . some with shock / disbelief etc. and of course huge criticism even sarcasm as obviously no one is 'like that' on here .Also the 'if you don't like it you know what you can do ' which just shows how seriously anyone who complains is looked at ..

To sum up .. its an okay site , its amateur and for a fiver what do you expect ? unfortunately because it is only a fiver or free in many cases it is littered with single men/ idiots who waste everyone's time .. my opinion has always been free membership should not be available .. make people pay for a quality service ! yes there will be less members but it will improve the experience those members have considerably

Too much time needs to be wasted going through idiots , escorts and unopened 'closeteers' and after a good while on here I have decided it is time I wasn't here .

Apologies to all the gen people out there .. but am fed up looking .. the site needs improving , better management and vetting of adds in the disguise of 'meets' another joke! and more consideration shown to people who pay membership .. just my opinion of course .. and no one will care as am off anyway .. Good luck my friend in what you seek but take the profile comments with a pinch of salt .. be who you want to be post those dick pics and be the one who sends messages to whoever you like .. and kind of have fun .. or try to on here ., I just cant be bothered anymore .

tra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and that is exactly the point I was making !

You clearly didn't read what you just commented on ..

I have been in the lifestyle for 30 years .. ' a lot to learn' LOL

I would suggest you look in the mirror first ..

No need to be nasty bud. You come across as very bitter so it's probably best you do leave the site and move on. If being here made me feel like that, I'd be gone in an instant but fortunately it doesn't. I like this site and between here and clubs, I have a lot of fun. The day I resent anything/anyone etc is the day I press delete. All the best."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and that is exactly the point I was making !

You clearly didn't read what you just commented on ..

I have been in the lifestyle for 30 years .. ' a lot to learn' LOL

I would suggest you look in the mirror first ..

No need to be nasty bud. You come across as very bitter so it's probably best you do leave the site and move on. If being here made me feel like that, I'd be gone in an instant but fortunately it doesn't. I like this site and between here and clubs, I have a lot of fun. The day I resent anything/anyone etc is the day I press delete. All the best."

Try using your hand to relieve yourself it might make you less bitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see .. again

not a helpful or productive comment .. which is exactly what I predicted :D

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Have you tried "the crab" approach in real life ?

The women love it and it is scientifically proven to work 9.3 times out of 10.

Spot the lady of your desires across the room, raise both hands up on the air and repeatedly open and shut them like claws and using short sideways steps (sideways is crucial) traverse the room and move sideways left to right continually in front of her while clicking your claws(hands) open and shut

No need to thank me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been here years and am off soon for good once this membership runs out .. and that's the advice I would give my friend ! Go!

The from my experience over a number of years is full of charlatans , escorts , secretly bi men who wont admit it timewasters and operators of clubs who charge for their services ..oh and plenty of people replaying pre recorded video in chat rooms too actually which is another swizz ! according to my records over the last few months at least ..

You will find the only people who comment on the ' Does my profile look ok? am I doing something wrong ? thread seem to have grandiose ideas of this being some kind of elite club ! it isn't and given most of the advice revolves around ; don't put dick picks on profiles /try saying something about yourself/ you need to change the pose etc ? what really is that about ? it is a swinger site not plenty of fish! .,. sadly a lot of women on here think it is though! a cheap plenty of fish dating site and use it accordingly ' there 'has to be a spark' types .. wine me dine me .. and you might get a peck on the cheek ' types .What rubbish!

This really isn't an 'elite' club my friend its a poorly managed electronic cattle market really truth be told . It survives mainly for couples to enjoy and frustrated single men who pay for its upkeep . It would go bust within 3 months if single men were excluded from joining I can bet ! Yet they ( the single man) are the ones constantly being vilified/excluded ignored etc .. doesn't seem fair does it ?

It is not at all in the spirit of the older 'swinger days ' when the people had a bit of class about them , some discretion and were actually going into things with their eyes open .Effort was needed then to meet like minded people and because of that the scene attracted 'proper' people who knew the lifestyle and how to conduct themselves .

Those were 'proper' swinger days . today folk switch on a computer and 'have a go' clearly lots don't have a clue what they are letting themselves in for ! and a lot are very much who they aren't .

There is little in the line of 'monitoring' chat room ops are hard to find when needed and pretty much powerless to do anything as they are mainly people who have invested in the site or on freebie membership . Any form of a 'problem ' or disagreement the advice is 'use the block button' as a filter? really in this day and age of technology there are no other options ? Truth is .. FAB is still after a number of years just 'amateur' at best and needs to be viewed as such .. if you like that bargain basement/ stall type approach ..then yep go for it .. but I think I am going to shell out a few more beans on another site which costs more but hopefully will be a genuine portal into what I am looking for .. and not a doorway to chaos and tissues of lies and fabricated identities to hide from the 'missus' . All that has become too frustrating and such a waste of life !

I can say truthfully I have had some meetings and chats with genuine women but they have been VERY few and far between .. so they do exist and worth looking for .. but most unfortunately just want a dating service that's cheaper than POF with the odd chance of a legover .. not my scene !

There will be many comments in here in response to this post . some with shock / disbelief etc. and of course huge criticism even sarcasm as obviously no one is 'like that' on here .Also the 'if you don't like it you know what you can do ' which just shows how seriously anyone who complains is looked at ..

To sum up .. its an okay site , its amateur and for a fiver what do you expect ? unfortunately because it is only a fiver or free in many cases it is littered with single men/ idiots who waste everyone's time .. my opinion has always been free membership should not be available .. make people pay for a quality service ! yes there will be less members but it will improve the experience those members have considerably

Too much time needs to be wasted going through idiots , escorts and unopened 'closeteers' and after a good while on here I have decided it is time I wasn't here .

Apologies to all the gen people out there .. but am fed up looking .. the site needs improving , better management and vetting of adds in the disguise of 'meets' another joke! and more consideration shown to people who pay membership .. just my opinion of course .. and no one will care as am off anyway .. Good luck my friend in what you seek but take the profile comments with a pinch of salt .. be who you want to be post those dick pics and be the one who sends messages to whoever you like .. and kind of have fun .. or try to on here ., I just cant be bothered anymore .

tra

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You make some excellent points amongst the general doom and gloom of your post.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I have been here years and am off soon for good once this membership runs out .. and that's the advice I would give my friend ! Go!

The from my experience over a number of years is full of charlatans , escorts , secretly bi men who wont admit it timewasters and operators of clubs who charge for their services ..oh and plenty of people replaying pre recorded video in chat rooms too actually which is another swizz ! according to my records over the last few months at least ..

You will find the only people who comment on the ' Does my profile look ok? am I doing something wrong ? thread seem to have grandiose ideas of this being some kind of elite club ! it isn't and given most of the advice revolves around ; don't put dick picks on profiles /try saying something about yourself/ you need to change the pose etc ? what really is that about ? it is a swinger site not plenty of fish! .,. sadly a lot of women on here think it is though! a cheap plenty of fish dating site and use it accordingly ' there 'has to be a spark' types .. wine me dine me .. and you might get a peck on the cheek ' types .What rubbish!

This really isn't an 'elite' club my friend its a poorly managed electronic cattle market really truth be told . It survives mainly for couples to enjoy and frustrated single men who pay for its upkeep . It would go bust within 3 months if single men were excluded from joining I can bet ! Yet they ( the single man) are the ones constantly being vilified/excluded ignored etc .. doesn't seem fair does it ?

It is not at all in the spirit of the older 'swinger days ' when the people had a bit of class about them , some discretion and were actually going into things with their eyes open .Effort was needed then to meet like minded people and because of that the scene attracted 'proper' people who knew the lifestyle and how to conduct themselves .

Those were 'proper' swinger days . today folk switch on a computer and 'have a go' clearly lots don't have a clue what they are letting themselves in for ! and a lot are very much who they aren't .

There is little in the line of 'monitoring' chat room ops are hard to find when needed and pretty much powerless to do anything as they are mainly people who have invested in the site or on freebie membership . Any form of a 'problem ' or disagreement the advice is 'use the block button' as a filter? really in this day and age of technology there are no other options ? Truth is .. FAB is still after a number of years just 'amateur' at best and needs to be viewed as such .. if you like that bargain basement/ stall type approach ..then yep go for it .. but I think I am going to shell out a few more beans on another site which costs more but hopefully will be a genuine portal into what I am looking for .. and not a doorway to chaos and tissues of lies and fabricated identities to hide from the 'missus' . All that has become too frustrating and such a waste of life !

I can say truthfully I have had some meetings and chats with genuine women but they have been VERY few and far between .. so they do exist and worth looking for .. but most unfortunately just want a dating service that's cheaper than POF with the odd chance of a legover .. not my scene !

There will be many comments in here in response to this post . some with shock / disbelief etc. and of course huge criticism even sarcasm as obviously no one is 'like that' on here .Also the 'if you don't like it you know what you can do ' which just shows how seriously anyone who complains is looked at ..

To sum up .. its an okay site , its amateur and for a fiver what do you expect ? unfortunately because it is only a fiver or free in many cases it is littered with single men/ idiots who waste everyone's time .. my opinion has always been free membership should not be available .. make people pay for a quality service ! yes there will be less members but it will improve the experience those members have considerably

Too much time needs to be wasted going through idiots , escorts and unopened 'closeteers' and after a good while on here I have decided it is time I wasn't here .

Apologies to all the gen people out there .. but am fed up looking .. the site needs improving , better management and vetting of adds in the disguise of 'meets' another joke! and more consideration shown to people who pay membership .. just my opinion of course .. and no one will care as am off anyway .. Good luck my friend in what you seek but take the profile comments with a pinch of salt .. be who you want to be post those dick pics and be the one who sends messages to whoever you like .. and kind of have fun .. or try to on here ., I just cant be bothered anymore .

tra

"

Wow. So bitter. And insulting the very people you want to meet. Smart move bud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not aiming to be ' smart'

read the history ! then comment .. and then try and tell me it isn't true ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not aiming to be ' smart'

read the history ! then comment .. and then try and tell me it isn't true ?

"

Didn't think you'd leave !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been here years and am off soon for good once this membership runs out .. and that's the advice I would give my friend ! Go!

The from my experience over a number of years is full of charlatans , escorts , secretly bi men who wont admit it timewasters and operators of clubs who charge for their services ..oh and plenty of people replaying pre recorded video in chat rooms too actually which is another swizz ! according to my records over the last few months at least ..

You will find the only people who comment on the ' Does my profile look ok? am I doing something wrong ? thread seem to have grandiose ideas of this being some kind of elite club ! it isn't and given most of the advice revolves around ; don't put dick picks on profiles /try saying something about yourself/ you need to change the pose etc ? what really is that about ? it is a swinger site not plenty of fish! .,. sadly a lot of women on here think it is though! a cheap plenty of fish dating site and use it accordingly ' there 'has to be a spark' types .. wine me dine me .. and you might get a peck on the cheek ' types .What rubbish!

This really isn't an 'elite' club my friend its a poorly managed electronic cattle market really truth be told . It survives mainly for couples to enjoy and frustrated single men who pay for its upkeep . It would go bust within 3 months if single men were excluded from joining I can bet ! Yet they ( the single man) are the ones constantly being vilified/excluded ignored etc .. doesn't seem fair does it ?

It is not at all in the spirit of the older 'swinger days ' when the people had a bit of class about them , some discretion and were actually going into things with their eyes open .Effort was needed then to meet like minded people and because of that the scene attracted 'proper' people who knew the lifestyle and how to conduct themselves .

Those were 'proper' swinger days . today folk switch on a computer and 'have a go' clearly lots don't have a clue what they are letting themselves in for ! and a lot are very much who they aren't .

There is little in the line of 'monitoring' chat room ops are hard to find when needed and pretty much powerless to do anything as they are mainly people who have invested in the site or on freebie membership . Any form of a 'problem ' or disagreement the advice is 'use the block button' as a filter? really in this day and age of technology there are no other options ? Truth is .. FAB is still after a number of years just 'amateur' at best and needs to be viewed as such .. if you like that bargain basement/ stall type approach ..then yep go for it .. but I think I am going to shell out a few more beans on another site which costs more but hopefully will be a genuine portal into what I am looking for .. and not a doorway to chaos and tissues of lies and fabricated identities to hide from the 'missus' . All that has become too frustrating and such a waste of life !

I can say truthfully I have had some meetings and chats with genuine women but they have been VERY few and far between .. so they do exist and worth looking for .. but most unfortunately just want a dating service that's cheaper than POF with the odd chance of a legover .. not my scene !

There will be many comments in here in response to this post . some with shock / disbelief etc. and of course huge criticism even sarcasm as obviously no one is 'like that' on here .Also the 'if you don't like it you know what you can do ' which just shows how seriously anyone who complains is looked at ..

To sum up .. its an okay site , its amateur and for a fiver what do you expect ? unfortunately because it is only a fiver or free in many cases it is littered with single men/ idiots who waste everyone's time .. my opinion has always been free membership should not be available .. make people pay for a quality service ! yes there will be less members but it will improve the experience those members have considerably

Too much time needs to be wasted going through idiots , escorts and unopened 'closeteers' and after a good while on here I have decided it is time I wasn't here .

Apologies to all the gen people out there .. but am fed up looking .. the site needs improving , better management and vetting of adds in the disguise of 'meets' another joke! and more consideration shown to people who pay membership .. just my opinion of course .. and no one will care as am off anyway .. Good luck my friend in what you seek but take the profile comments with a pinch of salt .. be who you want to be post those dick pics and be the one who sends messages to whoever you like .. and kind of have fun .. or try to on here ., I just cant be bothered anymore .

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Obviously you have a lot of resentment towards the site, but you're still here. Do you know that you don't have to log in?? You can just let your membership expire & go on with finding what you're looking for & forget all about fab.

Really you should have started your own thread instead of hijacking this one.

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over a year ago


"I've been here a while now and still no luck do you fabbers have any advice for me whether it's profile content or approach

Thanks guys "

Text is grand mostly. You say you're in to all sorts but you have just a few interests ticked. Revisit the interests or state your interests if they aren't listed. Everything else is good.

A few more pics of your body, clothed & unclothed.

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over a year ago


"I am not aiming to be ' smart'

read the history ! then comment .. and then try and tell me it isn't true ?

Didn't think you'd leave !"

People bitch and moan about this site then announce to the world they are leaving but they never do, it's attention seeking. Fab is like the Hotel California, you can check out any time you like but you can never leave!

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over a year ago

all I will say is that sounds a little conceited where it was meant to be or not The other is that people will believe all sorts of bullshit if they aren't aware there are alternatives .. the alternatives and living a life that continually looks for them are what make life interesting

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over a year ago


"I've been here a while now and still no luck do you fabbers have any advice for me whether it's profile content or approach

Thanks guys "
your profile is your advert and you have two cock pics and no information

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