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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thought I would introduce myself as a person who still has had no nookie from FAB. This is a terrible situation and one of feeling deprived and neglected.

Oh well life goes on.

Have a lovely day, even though it is grey.

Feel free to contact me if you are a female or couple and the odd Fab of a pic wouldn't go a miss either.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

As you have not asked for profile advice we can't give it.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"I thought I would introduce myself as a person who still has had no nookie from FAB. This is a terrible situation and one of feeling deprived and neglected.

Oh well life goes on.

Have a lovely day, even though it is grey.

Feel free to contact me if you are a female or couple and the odd Fab of a pic wouldn't go a miss either. "

Sorry I don't fab cock pics (hint)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As you have not asked for profile advice we can't give it. "

I am not sure if there is too much advice to give. The problem could be down to the environment, structure, attitude of others and the site in itself not totally geared for single guys. But then again it could just be me who isn't worth it.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"As you have not asked for profile advice we can't give it.

I am not sure if there is too much advice to give. The problem could be down to the environment, structure, attitude of others and the site in itself not totally geared for single guys. But then again it could just be me who isn't worth it. "

There's advice on my profile.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"As you have not asked for profile advice we can't give it.

I am not sure if there is too much advice to give. The problem could be down to the environment, structure, attitude of others and the site in itself not totally geared for single guys. But then again it could just be me who isn't worth it. "

You've got no chance then mate if you think your profile doesn't need work but good luck anyway

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I thought I would introduce myself as a person who still has had no nookie from FAB. This is a terrible situation and one of feeling deprived and neglected.

Oh well life goes on.

Have a lovely day, even though it is grey.

Feel free to contact me if you are a female or couple and the odd Fab of a pic wouldn't go a miss either. "

Hi

The tone of your opening post is lovely. The tone of your profile is friendly and chatty. For me, lots of cocks pics is off putting - I get more drawn in by the arty, black and white, part-dressed shots. I hope you find what you’re after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As you have not asked for profile advice we can't give it.

I am not sure if there is too much advice to give. The problem could be down to the environment, structure, attitude of others and the site in itself not totally geared for single guys. But then again it could just be me who isn't worth it. "

your profile is very uninformative...women will usually check a profile first...not much there and they'll move on..thats your choice, not anything to do with who the site is 'geared' to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also, your profile, though pretty brief, asks for your pics to be fab'd 4 times in all. seems that is your main priority rather than any useful info regarding actually meeting someone..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very good, I see Point Number 9 being of some use, but I doubt I would go alone anyway.

No, there is more to it than meets the eye. I think most people somehow get into swinging and meeting people and then visiting clubs. But like so many singles on here to plan it all out might be to plan to fail. My two only swinging experiences with couples were chance meetings and then I never saw them again.

I could consider myself as a swinger who is on Fab but with no results from Fab apart from a social date.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought I would introduce myself as a person who still has had no nookie from FAB. This is a terrible situation and one of feeling deprived and neglected.

Oh well life goes on.

Have a lovely day, even though it is grey.

Feel free to contact me if you are a female or couple and the odd Fab of a pic wouldn't go a miss either.

Hi

The tone of your opening post is lovely. The tone of your profile is friendly and chatty. For me, lots of cocks pics is off putting - I get more drawn in by the arty, black and white, part-dressed shots. I hope you find what you’re after. "

Thanks for the advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As you have not asked for profile advice we can't give it.

I am not sure if there is too much advice to give. The problem could be down to the environment, structure, attitude of others and the site in itself not totally geared for single guys. But then again it could just be me who isn't worth it.

There's advice on my profile. "

choice of photos can make or break your success on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As you have not asked for profile advice we can't give it.

I am not sure if there is too much advice to give. The problem could be down to the environment, structure, attitude of others and the site in itself not totally geared for single guys. But then again it could just be me who isn't worth it.

There's advice on my profile.

choice of photos can make or break your success on here."

As can forum posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As you have not asked for profile advice we can't give it.

I am not sure if there is too much advice to give. The problem could be down to the environment, structure, attitude of others and the site in itself not totally geared for single guys. But then again it could just be me who isn't worth it.

There's advice on my profile.

choice of photos can make or break your success on here.

As can forum posts"

Very true. Can learn a lot about people on here through the forum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"also, your profile, though pretty brief, asks for your pics to be fab'd 4 times in all. seems that is your main priority rather than any useful info regarding actually meeting someone.."

Good point, noted and problem rectified....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"also, your profile, though pretty brief, asks for your pics to be fab'd 4 times in all. seems that is your main priority rather than any useful info regarding actually meeting someone..

Good point, noted and problem rectified.... "

"Not here for male only connections." set your filters and block them from messaging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"also, your profile, though pretty brief, asks for your pics to be fab'd 4 times in all. seems that is your main priority rather than any useful info regarding actually meeting someone..

Good point, noted and problem rectified....

"Not here for male only connections." set your filters and block them from messaging. "

Comments removed and noted that in edit account, what I am looking for restricts the other profiles not selected anyway. Affirmative this is good information.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Stop blaming the things you can’t change. Look inwards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stop blaming the things you can’t change. Look inwards. "

Nah..

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By *uited for youMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"As you have not asked for profile advice we can't give it. "

Umm yes, he wasn't asking for profile advice!

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By *stwo80Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Don't slam the door on your way out

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Stop blaming the things you can’t change. Look inwards.

Nah.. "

No shags for you then!

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By *stwo80Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire


"Stop blaming the things you can’t change. Look inwards.

Nah..

No shags for you then!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cock pic has to be exceptional for me to fab it! I will sometimes even not fab the prettiest full body pic if the cock is visible, so if ya want fabs...well ya know how it goes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stop blaming the things you can’t change. Look inwards.

Nah..

No shags for you then!

"

Slightly disillusioned as I never asked for advice.....doh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A cock pic has to be exceptional for me to fab it! I will sometimes even not fab the prettiest full body pic if the cock is visible, so if ya want fabs...well ya know how it goes "

Everyone to their own but as it is a swinging site then to check out the goods before contact can only be good. There is none of this surprise bollocks with swinging is there? I am sure the vast majority on here are fakes anyway.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

If your profile is the best representation of you then you will get what you deserve from this site and scene.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"A cock pic has to be exceptional for me to fab it! I will sometimes even not fab the prettiest full body pic if the cock is visible, so if ya want fabs...well ya know how it goes

Everyone to their own but as it is a swinging site then to check out the goods before contact can only be good. There is none of this surprise bollocks with swinging is there? I am sure the vast majority on here are fakes anyway. "

Best of luck with that. Has it worked so far?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cock pic has to be exceptional for me to fab it! I will sometimes even not fab the prettiest full body pic if the cock is visible, so if ya want fabs...well ya know how it goes

Everyone to their own but as it is a swinging site then to check out the goods before contact can only be good. There is none of this surprise bollocks with swinging is there? I am sure the vast majority on here are fakes anyway.

Best of luck with that. Has it worked so far?"

Going by his opening thread, I'd say not. It's not rocket science to work out women would rather see your body type than your cock. Nowt wrong with one cock pic among a variety but all of your cock will probably result in zero interest.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

In real life women find confident men attractive and same applies here, guys that come across as whining or desperate are not attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cock pic has to be exceptional for me to fab it! I will sometimes even not fab the prettiest full body pic if the cock is visible, so if ya want fabs...well ya know how it goes

Everyone to their own but as it is a swinging site then to check out the goods before contact can only be good. There is none of this surprise bollocks with swinging is there? I am sure the vast majority on here are fakes anyway. "

Just think this...there are loads of men on here and you have to stand out. Make an effort with introducing yourself to people. My rule is the first message (unless otherwise stipulated) should be like introducing yourself in a bar or social.

You've been given the review of your pics. For me it's about attitude. See the site differently and I'm sure you will find the fun you're seeking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cock pic has to be exceptional for me to fab it! I will sometimes even not fab the prettiest full body pic if the cock is visible, so if ya want fabs...well ya know how it goes

Everyone to their own but as it is a swinging site then to check out the goods before contact can only be good. There is none of this surprise bollocks with swinging is there? I am sure the vast majority on here are fakes anyway. "

I never said I don't want to see a cock pic, just that I rarely fab them....and one picture of your cock is plenty, some guys have 40 pics, all of their cock with small variations of distance from the camera, what is the point in that? If your cock is your best bit then , as much fun as it might be, you are not for me. Alot of guys make their profiles how they would like to see a ladies profile and it shows, lots of cock and action shots and not much text, it is the ones that make their profiles how they think the ladies would like to see them that tend to do better I think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cock pic has to be exceptional for me to fab it! I will sometimes even not fab the prettiest full body pic if the cock is visible, so if ya want fabs...well ya know how it goes

Everyone to their own but as it is a swinging site then to check out the goods before contact can only be good. There is none of this surprise bollocks with swinging is there? I am sure the vast majority on here are fakes anyway. "

I wonder why no success !!! swinging does not means cock pictures and fuck! Your little profile with your cock pictures is off putting in my view !

Then you have attitude ! If is only fakes why you here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cock pic has to be exceptional for me to fab it! I will sometimes even not fab the prettiest full body pic if the cock is visible, so if ya want fabs...well ya know how it goes

Everyone to their own but as it is a swinging site then to check out the goods before contact can only be good. There is none of this surprise bollocks with swinging is there? I am sure the vast majority on here are fakes anyway.

I wonder why no success !!! swinging does not means cock pictures and fuck! Your little profile with your cock pictures is off putting in my view !

Then you have attitude ! If is only fakes why you here ? "

must be fake if no one will meet him, for some on here it's always someone else's fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cock pic has to be exceptional for me to fab it! I will sometimes even not fab the prettiest full body pic if the cock is visible, so if ya want fabs...well ya know how it goes

Everyone to their own but as it is a swinging site then to check out the goods before contact can only be good. There is none of this surprise bollocks with swinging is there? I am sure the vast majority on here are fakes anyway.

I wonder why no success !!! swinging does not means cock pictures and fuck! Your little profile with your cock pictures is off putting in my view !

Then you have attitude ! If is only fakes why you here ?

must be fake if no one will meet him, for some on here it's always someone else's fault."

You fake too ! All your meets are fake! And I am a fake ! Fake hair , fake nail and fake tan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cock pic has to be exceptional for me to fab it! I will sometimes even not fab the prettiest full body pic if the cock is visible, so if ya want fabs...well ya know how it goes

Everyone to their own but as it is a swinging site then to check out the goods before contact can only be good. There is none of this surprise bollocks with swinging is there? I am sure the vast majority on here are fakes anyway.

I wonder why no success !!! swinging does not means cock pictures and fuck! Your little profile with your cock pictures is off putting in my view !

Then you have attitude ! If is only fakes why you here ?

must be fake if no one will meet him, for some on here it's always someone else's fault.

You fake too ! All your meets are fake! And I am a fake ! Fake hair , fake nail and fake tan! "

None of this is real, it's all just a figment of our imaginations !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cock pic has to be exceptional for me to fab it! I will sometimes even not fab the prettiest full body pic if the cock is visible, so if ya want fabs...well ya know how it goes

Everyone to their own but as it is a swinging site then to check out the goods before contact can only be good. There is none of this surprise bollocks with swinging is there? I am sure the vast majority on here are fakes anyway.

I wonder why no success !!! swinging does not means cock pictures and fuck! Your little profile with your cock pictures is off putting in my view !

Then you have attitude ! If is only fakes why you here ?

must be fake if no one will meet him, for some on here it's always someone else's fault.

You fake too ! All your meets are fake! And I am a fake ! Fake hair , fake nail and fake tan!

None of this is real, it's all just a figment of our imaginations ! "

Just approach the site with fun in mind, I'm a single bloke and I haven't had any success yet but I'm not put off by this and I know I haven't any photos on my profile yet but I certainly wouldn't do cock shots Where's the mystery when you do meet?! Most people I've contacted have been friendly and polite even if it's a no thanks, just have a laugh and take nothing too seriously

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In real life women find confident men attractive and same applies here, guys that come across as whining or desperate are not attractive. "

So many rude people on this site (and I don't mean kinky rude). Oh, and not to mention trouble causers with nothing better to do - the saying goes....get a life, and stop slagging others off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A cock pic has to be exceptional for me to fab it! I will sometimes even not fab the prettiest full body pic if the cock is visible, so if ya want fabs...well ya know how it goes

Everyone to their own but as it is a swinging site then to check out the goods before contact can only be good. There is none of this surprise bollocks with swinging is there? I am sure the vast majority on here are fakes anyway.

I wonder why no success !!! swinging does not means cock pictures and fuck! Your little profile with your cock pictures is off putting in my view !

Then you have attitude ! If is only fakes why you here ?

must be fake if no one will meet him, for some on here it's always someone else's fault.

You fake too ! All your meets are fake! And I am a fake ! Fake hair , fake nail and fake tan!

None of this is real, it's all just a figment of our imaginations !

Just approach the site with fun in mind, I'm a single bloke and I haven't had any success yet but I'm not put off by this and I know I haven't any photos on my profile yet but I certainly wouldn't do cock shots Where's the mystery when you do meet?! Most people I've contacted have been friendly and polite even if it's a no thanks, just have a laugh and take nothing too seriously "

What mystery this is a swinging site not the local youth club?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All photos removed and the profile one gone. This will make some people happy. Should I go an end it all now as well?

FFS

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"A cock pic has to be exceptional for me to fab it! I will sometimes even not fab the prettiest full body pic if the cock is visible, so if ya want fabs...well ya know how it goes

Everyone to their own but as it is a swinging site then to check out the goods before contact can only be good. There is none of this surprise bollocks with swinging is there? I am sure the vast majority on here are fakes anyway.

I wonder why no success !!! swinging does not means cock pictures and fuck! Your little profile with your cock pictures is off putting in my view !

Then you have attitude ! If is only fakes why you here ?

must be fake if no one will meet him, for some on here it's always someone else's fault.

You fake too ! All your meets are fake! And I am a fake ! Fake hair , fake nail and fake tan!

None of this is real, it's all just a figment of our imaginations !

Just approach the site with fun in mind, I'm a single bloke and I haven't had any success yet but I'm not put off by this and I know I haven't any photos on my profile yet but I certainly wouldn't do cock shots Where's the mystery when you do meet?! Most people I've contacted have been friendly and polite even if it's a no thanks, just have a laugh and take nothing too seriously

What mystery this is a swinging site not the local youth club?"

Unsolicited cock pics are a massive turn off for many on here. Respect preferences and you may do ok. Make assumptions just cos this is a swingers site and you will be lost together with the 1000's of other unsuccessful men.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"All photos removed and the profile one gone. This will make some people happy. Should I go an end it all now as well?

FFS "

Yeh cos people will flock to you now that they can see nothing!! Your profile. Your choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Unsolicited cock pics

Discuss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All photos removed and the profile one gone. This will make some people happy. Should I go an end it all now as well?

FFS

Yeh cos people will flock to you now that they can see nothing!! Your profile. Your choice."

The type of comment that makes everything worse.....bravo, very clever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A cock pic has to be exceptional for me to fab it! I will sometimes even not fab the prettiest full body pic if the cock is visible, so if ya want fabs...well ya know how it goes

Everyone to their own but as it is a swinging site then to check out the goods before contact can only be good. There is none of this surprise bollocks with swinging is there? I am sure the vast majority on here are fakes anyway.

I wonder why no success !!! swinging does not means cock pictures and fuck! Your little profile with your cock pictures is off putting in my view !

Then you have attitude ! If is only fakes why you here ?

must be fake if no one will meet him, for some on here it's always someone else's fault.

You fake too ! All your meets are fake! And I am a fake ! Fake hair , fake nail and fake tan! "

Typical garbage.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"All photos removed and the profile one gone. This will make some people happy. Should I go an end it all now as well?

FFS

Yeh cos people will flock to you now that they can see nothing!! Your profile. Your choice.

The type of comment that makes everything worse.....bravo, very clever."

What exactly are you hoping to achieve from your thread?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Changing the title to say life does not go on, when people constantly slag you off.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Changing the title to say life does not go on, when people constantly slag you off."

If you are serious about that then ring the samaritans, friends who know and care about you in real life. Not strangers on a swingers site. Hope you get the help you need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fail to see how people have slagged you off, compared to some threads, I think you've come off lightly. Your responses to what we're just jokes, the fake bit, show that you seem to not take this site with a pinch of salt which is really what you should do. You've actually had some good advice which you again, seem pissed off with. Your profile bud, do what you like, put what pics you like but lack of success in some parts IS due to photo choice. All the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Changing the title to say life does not go on, when people constantly slag you off.

If you are serious about that then ring the samaritans, friends who know and care about you in real life. Not strangers on a swingers site. Hope you get the help you need."

JOKE........

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Changing the title to say life does not go on, when people constantly slag you off.

If you are serious about that then ring the samaritans, friends who know and care about you in real life. Not strangers on a swingers site. Hope you get the help you need.

JOKE........ "

Not funny!! In fact in very poor taste. Attention seeking behaviour at it's best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Changing the title to say life does not go on, when people constantly slag you off.

If you are serious about that then ring the samaritans, friends who know and care about you in real life. Not strangers on a swingers site. Hope you get the help you need.

JOKE........

Not funny!! In fact in very poor taste. Attention seeking behaviour at it's best. "

I actually think you are just a trouble causer. Your comments are enough for a person to become depressed, think about that before you post your nonsense.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Changing the title to say life does not go on, when people constantly slag you off.

If you are serious about that then ring the samaritans, friends who know and care about you in real life. Not strangers on a swingers site. Hope you get the help you need.

JOKE........

Not funny!! In fact in very poor taste. Attention seeking behaviour at it's best.

I actually think you are just a trouble causer. Your comments are enough for a person to become depressed, think about that before you post your nonsense."

This one?

Unsolicited cock pics are a massive turn off for many on here. Respect preferences and you may do ok. Make assumptions just cos this is a swingers site and you will be lost together with the 1000's of other unsuccessful men.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Changing the title to say life does not go on, when people constantly slag you off.

If you are serious about that then ring the samaritans, friends who know and care about you in real life. Not strangers on a swingers site. Hope you get the help you need.

JOKE........

Not funny!! In fact in very poor taste. Attention seeking behaviour at it's best.

I actually think you are just a trouble causer. Your comments are enough for a person to become depressed, think about that before you post your nonsense.

This one?

Unsolicited cock pics are a massive turn off for many on here. Respect preferences and you may do ok. Make assumptions just cos this is a swingers site and you will be lost together with the 1000's of other unsuccessful men."

Or this one?

Yeh cos people will flock to you now that they can see nothing!! Your profile. Your choice

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Changing the title to say life does not go on, when people constantly slag you off.

If you are serious about that then ring the samaritans, friends who know and care about you in real life. Not strangers on a swingers site. Hope you get the help you need.

JOKE........

Not funny!! In fact in very poor taste. Attention seeking behaviour at it's best.

I actually think you are just a trouble causer. Your comments are enough for a person to become depressed, think about that before you post your nonsense.

This one?

Unsolicited cock pics are a massive turn off for many on here. Respect preferences and you may do ok. Make assumptions just cos this is a swingers site and you will be lost together with the 1000's of other unsuccessful men.

Or this one?

Yeh cos people will flock to you now that they can see nothing!! Your profile. Your choice"

Or this one??

Explain how I am a trouble causer?

You have already said it was a joke. Please don't infer I am causing you to be depressed. I have already sign posted if you are. This is my last post on here because you obviously like to twist things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally OP I think maybe you should just hide your profile for a bit and take a break. I think you are taking the advice given the wrong way and making yourself look negative and bitter. People are only trying to help you get more out of this site, gracefully accept it and act on it if you want to, no one is holding a gun to your head, you can carry on just as you were but don't expect anything to change if you don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv'e never heard so much bullshit in all my life. Unsolicited (weird) then in that case I haven't asked for any of your pics either dur. You may find more success yourself on Mumsnet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also to add, the advice has been garbage and not asked for. Is there something that you posters on here don't understand?

Hop it, and advise yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Typical, the most views today, a count of 16 all noseying after this post but because I have removed the pics due to the so called advice here I have had no fabs or messages. As I said....garbage, no results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typical, the most views today, a count of 16 all noseying after this post but because I have removed the pics due to the so called advice here I have had no fabs or messages. As I said....garbage, no results."

Your had no results before according to your OP. Just do what you want, your profile but this thread and your reactions to some replies are doing you no favours. This is all bullshit never to be taken seriously, lighten up and have fun. All the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Let's be honest the people who have replied here are of no interest to me, whining and moaning on about something I haven't asked for.

I made a statement about no success but life goes on,.......think about it before giving advice.

Thank you for anyone with good intentions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's be honest the people who have replied here are of no interest to me, whining and moaning on about something I haven't asked for.

I made a statement about no success but life goes on,.......think about it before giving advice.

Thank you for anyone with good intentions."

Exactly, no one gives a shit if you get a fuck or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Let's be honest the people who have replied here are of no interest to me, whining and moaning on about something I haven't asked for.

I made a statement about no success but life goes on,.......think about it before giving advice.

Thank you for anyone with good intentions.

Exactly, no one gives a shit if you get a fuck or not. "

Why do you keep replying to this, clear off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's be honest the people who have replied here are of no interest to me, whining and moaning on about something I haven't asked for.

I made a statement about no success but life goes on,.......think about it before giving advice.

Thank you for anyone with good intentions.

Exactly, no one gives a shit if you get a fuck or not.

Why do you keep replying to this, clear off?"

It's an open forum you freely posted on, anyone can post on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

FFS you have to have the last word don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this has gone well. Take a chill pill my lovey, as someone else said, none of this shit is real, don't let it wind you up. Good luck with future meets hun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

18 viewings (the most in a day) and counting but because I have no pics now then how can people check me out?

So here is the latest advice guys, put lots of cock pics on and don't listen to the profiles that moan and say they don't like cock pics.

Sorted....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well this has gone well. Take a chill pill my lovey, as someone else said, none of this shit is real, don't let it wind you up. Good luck with future meets hun."

please advise which chill pills over the counter as Calms have a funny way of making you more anxious (a little off topic I know)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"18 viewings (the most in a day) and counting but because I have no pics now then how can people check me out?

So here is the latest advice guys, put lots of cock pics on and don't listen to the profiles that moan and say they don't like cock pics.

Sorted.... "

They are probably looking because of this thread. Views mean nothing if it results in no meets but glad you are happier now. Carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this has gone well. Take a chill pill my lovey, as someone else said, none of this shit is real, don't let it wind you up. Good luck with future meets hun.

please advise which chill pills over the counter as Calms have a funny way of making you more anxious (a little off topic I know)?"

The blue triangular ones lol

On second thoughts, maybe not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The poor bloody bloke!

he was clearly being humerous and at the same time dropping hints .. from the flick through the thread I saw not one of you actually sysmpathised with the mean .. the level of patronising is ridiculous .. anyone would think you were all shareholders or something in the company .. give the guy a leg up .. not criticise him . and for the record blokes like to wave their dicks about from time to time it gives a sense of empowerment maybe ? who knows ! .. some people on these sites need to get used to the idea that people are different .you are not supportive at all ! makes great research for me and my writings but seriously out of order behaviour to a fellow 'member' of a club ..

I wish the bloke every success .. being himself no one has to change to suit anyone else .. surely non conformity is a staple building block of what swinging is about ? .. seriously feel sorry for the bloke you gave him a right cyber kicking .. unnecessary on every level!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll ignore the stupid replies then. Be careful of those pills too they can give you a head ache, now that would be unproductive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll ignore the stupid replies then. Be careful of those pills too they can give you a head ache, now that would be unproductive."

Yes very counter productive indeed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The poor bloody bloke!

he was clearly being humerous and at the same time dropping hints .. from the flick through the thread I saw not one of you actually sysmpathised with the mean .. the level of patronising is ridiculous .. anyone would think you were all shareholders or something in the company .. give the guy a leg up .. not criticise him . and for the record blokes like to wave their dicks about from time to time it gives a sense of empowerment maybe ? who knows ! .. some people on these sites need to get used to the idea that people are different .you are not supportive at all ! makes great research for me and my writings but seriously out of order behaviour to a fellow 'member' of a club ..

I wish the bloke every success .. being himself no one has to change to suit anyone else .. surely non conformity is a staple building block of what swinging is about ? .. seriously feel sorry for the bloke you gave him a right cyber kicking .. unnecessary on every level! "

Thank you for the support. The usual Forum Trolls here are probably not getting anything either.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"The poor bloody bloke!

he was clearly being humerous and at the same time dropping hints .. from the flick through the thread I saw not one of you actually sysmpathised with the mean .. the level of patronising is ridiculous .. anyone would think you were all shareholders or something in the company .. give the guy a leg up .. not criticise him . and for the record blokes like to wave their dicks about from time to time it gives a sense of empowerment maybe ? who knows ! .. some people on these sites need to get used to the idea that people are different .you are not supportive at all ! makes great research for me and my writings but seriously out of order behaviour to a fellow 'member' of a club ..

I wish the bloke every success .. being himself no one has to change to suit anyone else .. surely non conformity is a staple building block of what swinging is about ? .. seriously feel sorry for the bloke you gave him a right cyber kicking .. unnecessary on every level!

)"

This

For the people who can't be civil or are fed up with these threads, stay off them. You are making yourselves look like it is a hobby to make people feel stupid.I am sure sometimes it is like a baiting sport to see if you get a reaction so you can then say no wonder you have no success, I am not sure why you think people won't react

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP, there is some good advice on the thread, concentrate on those posts. Obviously you still don't need to take that advice no matter how many people say you have to.

Your header suggests you were wondering why you had no success so why you had advice.

Some of us like a cock pic on a profile and it isn't unsolicited if it is on your profile, just like any pic on a profile. Be yourself, show who you are rather than try and conform to what everyone else wants

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By *tew2009Man
over a year ago

wakefield

Nothing to be alarmed about, years ago when the site was in it's infancy you could log on, chat and meet up usually within a couple of hours depending on locality, but like anything else, when something's good, word gets round and everyone jumps on the bandwagon and everything gets saturated, unfortunately not many people actually meet on here these days so your chances of meeting someone genuine are roughly zero!

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By *ertsRobMan
over a year ago

Rickmansworth


"Nothing to be alarmed about, years ago when the site was in it's infancy you could log on, chat and meet up usually within a couple of hours depending on locality, but like anything else, when something's good, word gets round and everyone jumps on the bandwagon and everything gets saturated, unfortunately not many people actually meet on here these days so your chances of meeting someone genuine are roughly zero!"

Chances are definitely not zero, you make your own luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As you have not asked for profile advice we can't give it.

I am not sure if there is too much advice to give. The problem could be down to the environment, structure, attitude of others and the site in itself not totally geared for single guys. But then again it could just be me who isn't worth it.

your profile is very uninformative...women will usually check a profile first...not much there and they'll move on..thats your choice, not anything to do with who the site is 'geared' to."
but not all women read profile some go straight to pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To the OP, there is some good advice on the thread, concentrate on those posts. Obviously you still don't need to take that advice no matter how many people say you have to.

Your header suggests you were wondering why you had no success so why you had advice.

Some of us like a cock pic on a profile and it isn't unsolicited if it is on your profile, just like any pic on a profile. Be yourself, show who you are rather than try and conform to what everyone else wants"

Thank you, but again I don't require any advice and wasn't actually wondering. It was a statement to suggest the vast majority of single blokes will struggle on here. I am fully aware why as a single guy why I have no success, so am just stating the fact for responses and agreement and not a solution. The problem goes deeper than me and my pics.

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