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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is it normal for a guy to be on here just looking for a chat and a bit of banter without looking for a sexual relationship or am I out of touch.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Mate one post is enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry...your point is

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Spamming the forums with the same message is what she is getting at.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol...I just noticed that

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

I think quite a few people are just here for the online bit and don't meet up. Nothing wrong with that, do whatever you fancy.

As long as you don't lead people to believe it'll result in meeting up (which is what a lot of them seem to do and that would go under time wasting in my book and result in block list).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's true. would not want to waste someone's valuable time not fair

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’m here for the forums and socials mainly.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

There is nothing wrong with just wanting online chat and not wanting to meet, but you need to be honest and upfront about it on your profile. State you are just here for chat and you're not meeting.

It is so annoying getting talking to someone you like the look of and you would like to meet only to find out they have been stringing you along and have no intention of meeting.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"There is nothing wrong with just wanting online chat and not wanting to meet, but you need to be honest and upfront about it on your profile. State you are just here for chat and you're not meeting.

It is so annoying getting talking to someone you like the look of and you would like to meet only to find out they have been stringing you along and have no intention of meeting. "

I had 'Not Looking No New Meets, only here for freinds, forums & social events' accross the top of my bio. Didn't stop the messages, in fact most started with lines like "I know you're not meeting, but thought I'd take a chance/change your mind"

I decided that some actually saw it as a challenge.

I've removed it now, any along with that, the amount of messages I get has actually dropped!

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


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It is so annoying getting talking to someone you like the look of and you would like to meet only to find out they have been stringing you along and have no intention of meeting. "

This really boils my piss which is why if I don't meet up quickly I stop chat now . Be honest from the start

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

Some of us can't due to home circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it normal for a guy to be on here just looking for a chat and a bit of banter without looking for a sexual relationship or am I out of touch."
its not usual but not unheard of ,people look for all sorts here including a partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't meet any longer but love the site, people and forums.

Nobody has suggested its odd.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I'm a member of a golfing forum and i don't even golf! I just like "the bants".

Disclaimer:

I don't, that would be weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a member of a golfing forum and i don't even golf! I just like "the bants".

Disclaimer:

I don't, that would be weird. "

I'm picturing you do I g what they do on Jackass.. honking an Airhorn before every swing

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I'm a member of a golfing forum and i don't even golf! I just like "the bants".

Disclaimer:

I don't, that would be weird.

I'm picturing you do I g what they do on Jackass.. honking an Airhorn before every swing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably on the wrong site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try friends reunited op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try friends reunited op"

Closed years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try friends reunited op"

Err what? There's loads of people on here just for the forum and chat. The site is for whatever people wish to use it for. I don't see anywhere in Fab rules that you have to fuck people to be a Fab member x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't say anything to the contrary lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says want to meet like minded people. Think that needs changing

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By *akingTheClungeMan
over a year ago

Havant

I'm on here meeting but also enjoy the banter, I don't think you can without the first have the latter though.

It's all in good fun as long as you're being on point with people when you have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it normal for a guy to be on here just looking for a chat and a bit of banter without looking for a sexual relationship or am I out of touch."
Are you asking this on behalf of someone?

As your list in profile says otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I wrote it for myself...

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

As this is the third time you have asked the same question, have you heard what you want to hear?

Is it you OP that doesn't want a physical relationship?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

steady on tiger...The same post 3 times was a mistake. Tried to delete then but couldn't..

So chill out ya rocket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I wrote it for myself..."
Why bother with your exhaustive list of what your into if not looking .. confused I feel. Wrong site fella

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"steady on tiger...The same post 3 times was a mistake. Tried to delete then but couldn't..

So chill out ya rocket"

If you report the duplicate ones to admin they'll take them off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can use fab for whatever you want my darling nothing wrong with bants x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it normal for a guy to be on here just looking for a chat and a bit of banter without looking for a sexual relationship or am I out of touch."

Your profile says your looking to meet people

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By *obnDaniCouple
over a year ago

Crawley

Nothing wrong with a little banter here we do it sometimes ..we can't always meet so banter is cool....like some people have said here just be honest and don't lead people on simple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try friends reunited op

exactly...

Err what? There's loads of people on here just for the forum and chat. The site is for whatever people wish to use it for. I don't see anywhere in Fab rules that you have to fuck people to be a Fab member x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so you can't meet folk and not have Banter without sex ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so you can't meet folk and not have Banter without sex ?"

no one has said that, people have said thats fine, but be clear on your profile, which at the moment says you are looking to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"so you can't meet folk and not have Banter without sex ?

no one has said that, people have said thats fine, but be clear on your profile, which at the moment says you are looking to meet."

Will Have a review of my profile.

Will tweak it when I get time.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"is it normal for a guy to be on here just looking for a chat and a bit of banter without looking for a sexual relationship or am I out of touch."

No. It's not normal on a swinging site. Imo.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

What's normal??

I guess we are all on here for different reasons

I joined the site a few years ago to get my rocks off and I am still on here for sex..

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"What's normal??

I guess we are all on here for different reasons

I joined the site a few years ago to get my rocks off and I am still on here for sex..

"

Standard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We don't meet any longer but love the site, people and forums.

Nobody has suggested its odd."

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