FabSwingers.com forum: Hi

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi Iam Liam 27 from Manchester, just thought I'd drop a message on here to introduce myself a little.

Still struggling for that first meet despite having a few people message me, keen then don't turn up or dont reply when you accept their advances. Do love checking out the profiles though, some of you guys have rather interesting ones. The pictures too....

If anyone has any pointers for me on where I could improve my chances, please feel free to direct me.

Thanks and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone has any pointers for me on where I could improve my chances, please feel free to direct me.

Thanks and enjoy

Most of your photo's are similar, same angle and expression. Plus you look very grumpy, nobody wants to meet Mr Grumpy, they want to meet Mr Happy and smiley, Mr I won't murder you in my cab!

Not trying to be harsh, but mix it up a bit, face pics are good, but have some clothed and semi clothed body shots too.

Good luck

Poppy

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hi and welcome to the forums.

Fab can be difficult for single men, simply because there are so many of them.

Have you considered going to an organised social event? People arrange them in all areas of the UK and you just need to ask to be put on the guest list. You can usually find details in the meets and events forum. They are a great way to get to know people and you can get verified easily.

If you want to tweak your profile I would suggest removing the disclaimer at the bottom. It is pointless and a waste of time. I would also remove the stuff about gay/bi men contacting you. Use your message filters to stop them messaging you.

Keep your profile text positive and upbeat. Nobody likes a lost of what people don't like and would rather know what you do like.

Lastly it is lovely to see face pictures but please smile otherwise you look like a grumpy bugger

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you alienating a lot of potential meets by your username?

Don't be shy about your secret fetish.

If anyone stole your pictures or profile text what exactly legal redress would you take?

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By *eothelionMan
over a year ago

chester

I think a few smiles would help. When I take my shots I just laugh about the fact I’m posting on a swingers site and it makes me chuckle every time.

I agree with the point - don’t be shy about your fetish. Someone will love it. Sounds more like a saucy secret to me.

Just keep going and adjusting profile and pics.

Black and white pics work too.

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