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Maybe your clothes pic looks too professional, try some candid ones in front of the mirror with the phone obscuring you face ie something lol | |||
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"Dont know whats going on lately but really struggling to get conversation out of women which is making it near impossible to meet. Most arnt even bothering to read messages I send. Recently changed my user name, could my name be the reason? Or is there a problem with the message service on here that im not aware of? Are my pictures unappealing maybe? Not had a problem in the past but im getting bored of this now... "Lose the dismembered cock pic and add half a dozen good body pics!! I like your avatar pic but it really irritates me to have a cock pic 'poking my eye out' as the first thing I see on a profile before I've found out anything about the man or decided of I like him. It makes you come across like a flasher, feels like it's been forced upon me, and it makes me back space and hit delete in a knee jerk reaction almost every time!! I actually want to see the goods but as part of a torso/whole body shot, NOT a close up, and the LAST thing I see scrolling through your pics. Men need to understand this - they are putting women off!! Good luck. | |||
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"Dont know whats going on lately but really struggling to get conversation out of women which is making it near impossible to meet. Most arnt even bothering to read messages I send. Recently changed my user name, could my name be the reason? Or is there a problem with the message service on here that im not aware of? Are my pictures unappealing maybe? Not had a problem in the past but im getting bored of this now...
Lose the dismembered cock pic and add half a dozen good body pics!! I like your avatar pic but it really irritates me to have a cock pic 'poking my eye out' as the first thing I see on a profile before I've found out anything about the man or decided of I like him. It makes you come across like a flasher, feels like it's been forced upon me, and it makes me back space and hit delete in a knee jerk reaction almost every time!!
I actually want to see the goods but as part of a torso/whole body shot, NOT a close up, and the LAST thing I see scrolling through your pics. Men need to understand this - they are putting women off!! Good luck. "You feel quite strongly about that don't you! 
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"Dont know whats going on lately but really struggling to get conversation out of women which is making it near impossible to meet. Most arnt even bothering to read messages I send. Recently changed my user name, could my name be the reason? Or is there a problem with the message service on here that im not aware of? Are my pictures unappealing maybe? Not had a problem in the past but im getting bored of this now...
Lose the dismembered cock pic and add half a dozen good body pics!! I like your avatar pic but it really irritates me to have a cock pic 'poking my eye out' as the first thing I see on a profile before I've found out anything about the man or decided of I like him. It makes you come across like a flasher, feels like it's been forced upon me, and it makes me back space and hit delete in a knee jerk reaction almost every time!!
I actually want to see the goods but as part of a torso/whole body shot, NOT a close up, and the LAST thing I see scrolling through your pics. Men need to understand this - they are putting women off!! Good luck.
You feel quite strongly about that don't you!
I don’t mind that particular one in fairness."That's why I posted - it even looks like a good cock, but I just didn't want to see it before my morning cuppa and before I've seen a couple of body pics that make me think 'ooh hello' and want to see more!! They shoot themselves in the foot! If I were a fella I doubt I'd want to see close up pussy shots first either!   | |||
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I can't really help with the rest of it, it's just the fab way. Either just keep sending out messages or just join in the forums more .  | |||
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"Your profile starts off explaining that you understand how fab works with the whole message thing, so why post about a lack of messages? I would be very surprised if people would send a friend request as an expression of interest when there are winks available... I haven't looked at your pics so couldn't comment there. Boots, jeans and top? may be seen as workwear, might appeal to some, not for others. Congratulations on beating me to the first new "why no replies" thread of the day. It is a daily occurence, the general advice doesn't change!" I do understand but there is a lot less activity lately thats all. Well you will be very surprised to know i get at least one friend request a week of a women but not really worth bragging about. And if you did bother seeing my pic you would see it wasnt work wear just smart casual. And this was not me moaning about not getting replies. I was wondering if there was a problem with the message service as it is unuasual not to hear from people. But thanks for the criticism, always appreciated. | |||
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"Without knowing the content of the messages you are Ending we couldn't ooss6say why the change. Wouldn't have thought that the name change was to blame.... It's not cuntmuncher69, that would put me off
Maybe your clothes pic looks too professional, try some candid ones in front of the mirror with the phone obscuring you face ie something lol "Ha thanks, will take some and see how that goes. And thanks for saying it looks professional, took it myself as I do photography, was for my instagram account really trying to sell myself to clients as i have a huge follow base but put it on here as I dont tend to have many pictures of myself on my phone. | |||
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"I like the clothed pic and I think the profile is ok too "Thank you | |||
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"Dont know whats going on lately but really struggling to get conversation out of women which is making it near impossible to meet. Most arnt even bothering to read messages I send. Recently changed my user name, could my name be the reason? Or is there a problem with the message service on here that im not aware of? Are my pictures unappealing maybe? Not had a problem in the past but im getting bored of this now...
Lose the dismembered cock pic and add half a dozen good body pics!! I like your avatar pic but it really irritates me to have a cock pic 'poking my eye out' as the first thing I see on a profile before I've found out anything about the man or decided of I like him. It makes you come across like a flasher, feels like it's been forced upon me, and it makes me back space and hit delete in a knee jerk reaction almost every time!!
I actually want to see the goods but as part of a torso/whole body shot, NOT a close up, and the LAST thing I see scrolling through your pics. Men need to understand this - they are putting women off!! Good luck. "Thanks for the advice, cock pic now moved to friends only. Get what your saying about the flasher comment ha will only show people if requested to in future. Will take some full body pics too but in the effort not to look like a flasher will be saved to friends only also  | |||
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"Dont know whats going on lately but really struggling to get conversation out of women which is making it near impossible to meet. Most arnt even bothering to read messages I send. Recently changed my user name, could my name be the reason? Or is there a problem with the message service on here that im not aware of? Are my pictures unappealing maybe? Not had a problem in the past but im getting bored of this now...
Lose the dismembered cock pic and add half a dozen good body pics!! I like your avatar pic but it really irritates me to have a cock pic 'poking my eye out' as the first thing I see on a profile before I've found out anything about the man or decided of I like him. It makes you come across like a flasher, feels like it's been forced upon me, and it makes me back space and hit delete in a knee jerk reaction almost every time!!
I actually want to see the goods but as part of a torso/whole body shot, NOT a close up, and the LAST thing I see scrolling through your pics. Men need to understand this - they are putting women off!! Good luck.
Thanks for the advice, cock pic now moved to friends only. Get what your saying about the flasher comment ha will only show people if requested to in future. Will take some full body pics too but in the effort not to look like a flasher will be saved to friends only also "I wouldn’t worry too much about that as my pics get quite a bit of interest from women and I’m an old codger | |||
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"Dont know whats going on lately but really struggling to get conversation out of women which is making it near impossible to meet. Most arnt even bothering to read messages I send. Recently changed my user name, could my name be the reason? Or is there a problem with the message service on here that im not aware of? Are my pictures unappealing maybe? Not had a problem in the past but im getting bored of this now...
Lose the dismembered cock pic and add half a dozen good body pics!! I like your avatar pic but it really irritates me to have a cock pic 'poking my eye out' as the first thing I see on a profile before I've found out anything about the man or decided of I like him. It makes you come across like a flasher, feels like it's been forced upon me, and it makes me back space and hit delete in a knee jerk reaction almost every time!!
I actually want to see the goods but as part of a torso/whole body shot, NOT a close up, and the LAST thing I see scrolling through your pics. Men need to understand this - they are putting women off!! Good luck.
You feel quite strongly about that don't you!
I don’t mind that particular one in fairness."Ha thanks, in the effort not to apear over keen it has been moved to my friends only album so if you want to see it again we have to be friends | |||
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"Dont know whats going on lately but really struggling to get conversation out of women which is making it near impossible to meet. Most arnt even bothering to read messages I send. Recently changed my user name, could my name be the reason? Or is there a problem with the message service on here that im not aware of? Are my pictures unappealing maybe? Not had a problem in the past but im getting bored of this now... "In my opinion the general quality of the players on here has gone down.....you are too good for this website....so just got to keep on sorting the wheat from the chaff..... | |||
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"Not a lot I can see wrong with your profile OP although perhaps some more pics that show off your body might help - a cock pic is always contentious too, some like them, some don't (especially disembodied ones like yours) so maybe consider hiding that one. Your veris and summary are hidden so not sure when your last meet was, but I guess it may also come down to how you define "lately" - if you're talking the last few weeks then that's sometimes the way Fab works (and also bear in mind with Xmas and January it can sometimes be quiet as people have other things to do) - if it's months or the last year then maybe look at the type of message you are sending and see if any changes might be needed there. Other than that consider getting along to a club or social which are both great ways to get to know people." Was considering going to socials, be nice to make new friends. | |||
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"Nothing particularly wrong with your profile that adding a few more pics wouldn't solve. I like your first one, semi naked on that sofa would be a good look too
I can't really help with the rest of it, it's just the fab way. Either just keep sending out messages or just join in the forums more . "Maybe i will give the semi naked sofa pic a try. Only problem is that that sofa is in France so will be a few months until that pic appears ha im a regular in forums, probably in them more than browsing for women these days. Maybe thats the problem ha | |||
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"Yeah your user name would put me off. I think loads of the guys on here are here to have sex with as many women as possible without having a relationship with them however loads of women don't like to acknowledge that." I wasnt sure the user name was appropriate for me really. Think i will change it. Maybe start a suggestion thread for fun and most suggested user name wins ha | |||
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"Dont know whats going on lately but really struggling to get conversation out of women which is making it near impossible to meet. Most arnt even bothering to read messages I send. Recently changed my user name, could my name be the reason? Or is there a problem with the message service on here that im not aware of? Are my pictures unappealing maybe? Not had a problem in the past but im getting bored of this now...
In my opinion the general quality of the players on here has gone down.....you are too good for this website....so just got to keep on sorting the wheat from the chaff....."Thanks | |||
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"Dont know whats going on lately but really struggling to get conversation out of women which is making it near impossible to meet. Most arnt even bothering to read messages I send. Recently changed my user name, could my name be the reason? Or is there a problem with the message service on here that im not aware of? Are my pictures unappealing maybe? Not had a problem in the past but im getting bored of this now...
Lose the dismembered cock pic and add half a dozen good body pics!! I like your avatar pic but it really irritates me to have a cock pic 'poking my eye out' as the first thing I see on a profile before I've found out anything about the man or decided of I like him. It makes you come across like a flasher, feels like it's been forced upon me, and it makes me back space and hit delete in a knee jerk reaction almost every time!!
I actually want to see the goods but as part of a torso/whole body shot, NOT a close up, and the LAST thing I see scrolling through your pics. Men need to understand this - they are putting women off!! Good luck.
You feel quite strongly about that don't you!
I don’t mind that particular one in fairness.
Ha thanks, in the effort not to apear over keen it has been moved to my friends only album so if you want to see it again we have to be friends "Ok  | |||
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"Not a lot I can see wrong with your profile OP although perhaps some more pics that show off your body might help - a cock pic is always contentious too, some like them, some don't (especially disembodied ones like yours) so maybe consider hiding that one. Your veris and summary are hidden so not sure when your last meet was, but I guess it may also come down to how you define "lately" - if you're talking the last few weeks then that's sometimes the way Fab works (and also bear in mind with Xmas and January it can sometimes be quiet as people have other things to do) - if it's months or the last year then maybe look at the type of message you are sending and see if any changes might be needed there. Other than that consider getting along to a club or social which are both great ways to get to know people. Was considering going to socials, be nice to make new friends." Socials are always a great way to meet people | |||
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"Yeah your user name would put me off. I think loads of the guys on here are here to have sex with as many women as possible without having a relationship with them however loads of women don't like to acknowledge that. I wasnt sure the user name was appropriate for me really. Think i will change it. Maybe start a suggestion thread for fun and most suggested user name wins ha" Unless you want to be called Fabby McFabface I wouldn't | |||
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"Dont know whats going on lately but really struggling to get conversation out of women which is making it near impossible to meet. Most arnt even bothering to read messages I send. Recently changed my user name, could my name be the reason? Or is there a problem with the message service on here that im not aware of? Are my pictures unappealing maybe? Not had a problem in the past but im getting bored of this now...
Lose the dismembered cock pic and add half a dozen good body pics!! I like your avatar pic but it really irritates me to have a cock pic 'poking my eye out' as the first thing I see on a profile before I've found out anything about the man or decided of I like him. It makes you come across like a flasher, feels like it's been forced upon me, and it makes me back space and hit delete in a knee jerk reaction almost every time!!
I actually want to see the goods but as part of a torso/whole body shot, NOT a close up, and the LAST thing I see scrolling through your pics. Men need to understand this - they are putting women off!! Good luck.
Thanks for the advice, cock pic now moved to friends only. Get what your saying about the flasher comment ha will only show people if requested to in future. Will take some full body pics too but in the effort not to look like a flasher will be saved to friends only also
I wouldn’t worry too much about that as my pics get quite a bit of interest from women and I’m an old codger "Love an old codger and your pics are very sexy | |||
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"Yeah your user name would put me off. I think loads of the guys on here are here to have sex with as many women as possible without having a relationship with them however loads of women don't like to acknowledge that. I wasnt sure the user name was appropriate for me really. Think i will change it. Maybe start a suggestion thread for fun and most suggested user name wins ha Unless you want to be called Fabby McFabface I wouldn't "Well it will be what it will be, started a thread now called whats my user name! So far one guy has suggested lady marmalade | |||
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"The site seems to be quite cyclical - I find I’ll have an influx of people who interest me one week. We’ll get chatting, some will progress to getting a coffee. Some will naturally fall away to the point where there’s only a couple of serious potentials then the next week I’ll have a busy inbox again of people I want to reply to. If that makes sense. " Ye i get you. Seems like a full time job for you women. Should be flattered to get replies really ha x | |||
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"Dont know whats going on lately but really struggling to get conversation out of women which is making it near impossible to meet. Most arnt even bothering to read messages I send. Recently changed my user name, could my name be the reason? Or is there a problem with the message service on here that im not aware of? Are my pictures unappealing maybe? Not had a problem in the past but im getting bored of this now...
Lose the dismembered cock pic and add half a dozen good body pics!! I like your avatar pic but it really irritates me to have a cock pic 'poking my eye out' as the first thing I see on a profile before I've found out anything about the man or decided of I like him. It makes you come across like a flasher, feels like it's been forced upon me, and it makes me back space and hit delete in a knee jerk reaction almost every time!!
I actually want to see the goods but as part of a torso/whole body shot, NOT a close up, and the LAST thing I see scrolling through your pics. Men need to understand this - they are putting women off!! Good luck.
You feel quite strongly about that don't you!
I don’t mind that particular one in fairness.
That's why I posted - it even looks like a good cock, but I just didn't want to see it before my morning cuppa and before I've seen a couple of body pics that make me think 'ooh hello' and want to see more!! They shoot themselves in the foot! If I were a fella I doubt I'd want to see close up pussy shots first either! "I'd want a damp wet dripping moist gapping pussy with my morning coffee as I'm browsing fab fannys, every day. Maybe I'm just different | |||
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"Nothing particularly wrong with your profile that adding a few more pics wouldn't solve. I like your first one, semi naked on that sofa would be a good look too
I can't really help with the rest of it, it's just the fab way. Either just keep sending out messages or just join in the forums more .
Maybe i will give the semi naked sofa pic a try. Only problem is that that sofa is in France "Ha, I thought it looked French, that's why I ended up with Sofa sapeur... It's a fabulous prop. | |||
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"Dont know whats going on lately but really struggling to get conversation out of women which is making it near impossible to meet. Most arnt even bothering to read messages I send. Recently changed my user name, could my name be the reason? Or is there a problem with the message service on here that im not aware of? Are my pictures unappealing maybe? Not had a problem in the past but im getting bored of this now...
Lose the dismembered cock pic and add half a dozen good body pics!! I like your avatar pic but it really irritates me to have a cock pic 'poking my eye out' as the first thing I see on a profile before I've found out anything about the man or decided of I like him. It makes you come across like a flasher, feels like it's been forced upon me, and it makes me back space and hit delete in a knee jerk reaction almost every time!!
I actually want to see the goods but as part of a torso/whole body shot, NOT a close up, and the LAST thing I see scrolling through your pics. Men need to understand this - they are putting women off!! Good luck.
You feel quite strongly about that don't you!
I don’t mind that particular one in fairness.
That's why I posted - it even looks like a good cock, but I just didn't want to see it before my morning cuppa and before I've seen a couple of body pics that make me think 'ooh hello' and want to see more!! They shoot themselves in the foot! If I were a fella I doubt I'd want to see close up pussy shots first either!
I'd want a damp wet dripping moist gapping pussy with my morning coffee as I'm browsing fab fannys, every day. Maybe I'm just different "I'll bear that in mind.....perhaps I could download a nice gooey one off the internet for you?? | |||
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"Dont know whats going on lately but really struggling to get conversation out of women which is making it near impossible to meet. Most arnt even bothering to read messages I send. Recently changed my user name, could my name be the reason? Or is there a problem with the message service on here that im not aware of? Are my pictures unappealing maybe? Not had a problem in the past but im getting bored of this now...
Lose the dismembered cock pic and add half a dozen good body pics!! I like your avatar pic but it really irritates me to have a cock pic 'poking my eye out' as the first thing I see on a profile before I've found out anything about the man or decided of I like him. It makes you come across like a flasher, feels like it's been forced upon me, and it makes me back space and hit delete in a knee jerk reaction almost every time!!
I actually want to see the goods but as part of a torso/whole body shot, NOT a close up, and the LAST thing I see scrolling through your pics. Men need to understand this - they are putting women off!! Good luck.
Thanks for the advice, cock pic now moved to friends only. Get what your saying about the flasher comment ha will only show people if requested to in future. Will take some full body pics too but in the effort not to look like a flasher will be saved to friends only also "I don't think they do offend if they're not close up, and I actually do like to see one or two tasteful ones on public pics so I don't have to ask lol! One on that sofa would be fabulous I think, that deep red would contrast wonderfully with skin!! | |||
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"Dont know whats going on lately but really struggling to get conversation out of women which is making it near impossible to meet. Most arnt even bothering to read messages I send. Recently changed my user name, could my name be the reason? Or is there a problem with the message service on here that im not aware of? Are my pictures unappealing maybe? Not had a problem in the past but im getting bored of this now...
Lose the dismembered cock pic and add half a dozen good body pics!! I like your avatar pic but it really irritates me to have a cock pic 'poking my eye out' as the first thing I see on a profile before I've found out anything about the man or decided of I like him. It makes you come across like a flasher, feels like it's been forced upon me, and it makes me back space and hit delete in a knee jerk reaction almost every time!!
I actually want to see the goods but as part of a torso/whole body shot, NOT a close up, and the LAST thing I see scrolling through your pics. Men need to understand this - they are putting women off!! Good luck.
You feel quite strongly about that don't you!
I don’t mind that particular one in fairness.
That's why I posted - it even looks like a good cock, but I just didn't want to see it before my morning cuppa and before I've seen a couple of body pics that make me think 'ooh hello' and want to see more!! They shoot themselves in the foot! If I were a fella I doubt I'd want to see close up pussy shots first either!
I'd want a damp wet dripping moist gapping pussy with my morning coffee as I'm browsing fab fannys, every day. Maybe I'm just different
I'll bear that in mind.....perhaps I could download a nice gooey one off the internet for you?? "And I thought they were real... bugger  | |||
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