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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wanted to say Hi now we have been on here long enough to post on the forums.

We are a couple in our early thirties looking to dip our toes in the swinging scene. We've played once before as a couple but found it wasn't for us. Now I am to play solo and share the stories to fuel her new erotica novella.

Theres a link to some of her writing on our profile so have a look and tell us what you think.

Xx

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Just wanted to say Hi now we have been on here long enough to post on the forums.

We are a couple in our early thirties looking to dip our toes in the swinging scene. We've played once before as a couple but found it wasn't for us. Now I am to play solo and share the stories to fuel her new erotica novella.

Theres a link to some of her writing on our profile so have a look and tell us what you think.

Xx

"
a couple? your profile is a single male op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are a couple but only Mr Goneunder will be playing. Didn't think it woukd be right to list ourselves as a couple if only one half is playing.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"We are a couple but only Mr Goneunder will be playing. Didn't think it woukd be right to list ourselves as a couple if only one half is playing."
your profile does refer to ‘we’ and the female my join socially or watch. Maybe change this if it’s only the male playing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not sure I understand the confusion. We have listed ourselves as a single man because Mrs Goneunder isn't going to play. We have also made it very clear in our profile that she won't be playing but may be involved socially or to watch.

Do you think we should set up a new profile to list ourselves as a couple instead?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds an interesting proposition and we will be keeping an eye.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'm not sure I understand the confusion. We have listed ourselves as a single man because Mrs Goneunder isn't going to play. We have also made it very clear in our profile that she won't be playing but may be involved socially or to watch.

Do you think we should set up a new profile to list ourselves as a couple instead?

Thanks"

Yes I think you could just ask admin to change it for you x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Single men seem to find it hard to get meets on here and you have the added complication of finding people happy to let your wife watch and take notes. Good luck.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP if you are meeting on your own a single profile is fine.

If your wife will be there, even if she is only watching, you need a couples profile.

If you are planning on doing both then perhaps you need both a single and a couples profile. This is allowed and you can put the profile name of couple on your single profile and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I think you could just ask admin to change it for you x"

Thanks, any idea how to get in touch with the Admin? They make it clear they don't offer tech support

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

If your missus enjoys watching, then you’d come under the category of a cuck-quean couple. I’d definitely set up as a couple rather than a single male!!

Not sure if you can change it, you may need to start again, but try the ‘contact us’ or ‘FAQ’s first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have now been told we would need to set up a new account. Bit of a pain as we have just paid for 4 months on this account

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It’s your call OP ... but I think the consensus of opinion is that continuing with this profile when you are meeting as a couple will be a hindrance.

People searching for single guys would likely be put off by the discovery of a female partner not only watching but making notes - I know I certainly would! Same would apply if I was reading a message you sent. Most women will read the profile before reading a message, so no matter how well crafted it is, there’s a chance it’ll be deleted.

If you want to persevere with it, up to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have now been told we would need to set up a new account. Bit of a pain as we have just paid for 4 months on this account "

Been told to set up a couples account for what specific reason?

If you've paid for for months as a single account run with that as a trial. Can't see your breaking any rules by having a potential watcher along for the ride. Don't be put off by the negativity here, suspect there will plenty who are up for the intriguing and innovative scenario.

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