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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here a week or so spoke to a few people but never comes off as a meet. Any advice would be helpful c

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did you expect they all come flocking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously no. Thanks so much for your advice. Nice"

A good profile explaining what ideally you are after and body snd body shot pics will help

Maybe a club or social

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Dont give up hun ...its early days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week is nothing in Fab land, you need to sell yourself OP, people won't come to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to spice your profile text up a bit XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the worst profile I've seen by far, but you've ruled out couples and your profile text is a little vague. Get some more pics up as well, but not knob shots mind.

And a week is really no time at all on Fab. Some guys wait 6 months for their first meet, some never get them, although if you follow most of the advice you get on this thread you probably won't be waiting that long! Remember there's posssibly about 20 men to every woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. Its good advice. Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here a week or so spoke to a few people but never comes off as a meet. Any advice would be helpful c "

Your profile says you’ve been her 2 months

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By *eothelionMan
over a year ago

chester

I just spat my tea out.

Dude, a week.

Some guys get no contact after months.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Been on here a week or so spoke to a few people but never comes off as a meet. Any advice would be helpful "
Maybe change the bit on your profile that says "can't get out much". It might make people think you have difficulty meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TBH im new too and have the same issue..BUT women do rule here and we just need to play along and hopefully things will fall into place.

Oh, if you have a cock like an anaconda you'll do well no matter what. Face like a bag of spanners? No worries, big cock...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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TBH im new too and have the same issue..BUT women do rule here and we just need to play along and hopefully things will fall into place.

Oh, if you have a cock like an anaconda you'll do well no matter what. Face like a bag of spanners? No worries, big cock..."

How wrong can you be young man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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TBH im new too and have the same issue..BUT women do rule here and we just need to play along and hopefully things will fall into place.

Oh, if you have a cock like an anaconda you'll do well no matter what. Face like a bag of spanners? No worries, big cock..."

Women rule here?

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By *enuineinCambsMan
over a year ago

cambridge

Go to a club. Easier.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


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TBH im new too and have the same issue..BUT women do rule here and we just need to play along and hopefully things will fall into place.

Oh, if you have a cock like an anaconda you'll do well no matter what. Face like a bag of spanners? No worries, big cock...

How wrong can you be young man "

Maybe that’s why he’s having trouble meeting!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still waiting after 3 years!! Had a couple of interesting naughty chats that went on for months is all. I keep rewriting my profile too. Still nothing.

I was thinking it must be where I live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

TBH im new too and have the same issue..BUT women do rule here and we just need to play along and hopefully things will fall into place.

Oh, if you have a cock like an anaconda you'll do well no matter what. Face like a bag of spanners? No worries, big cock..."

Absolute tosh!

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"

TBH im new too and have the same issue..BUT women do rule here and we just need to play along and hopefully things will fall into place.

Oh, if you have a cock like an anaconda you'll do well no matter what. Face like a bag of spanners? No worries, big cock...

Absolute tosh! "

Or as I like to say ....total bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It probably is a load of cobblers but it feels like it. Every other profile is basically if youre not over x inches dont bother. Everyone wants a well endowed man, how about normally endowed?

Anyway, just the feeling I get and im probably being paranoid..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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TBH im new too and have the same issue..BUT women do rule here and we just need to play along and hopefully things will fall into place.

Oh, if you have a cock like an anaconda you'll do well no matter what. Face like a bag of spanners? No worries, big cock..."

Nah, that's bollocks mate, at least for the majority. Whilst I'm happy to have a somewhat thicker than most organ, it's certainly not anaconda-esque in length. About 7 inches which I'm led to believe is about average. Doesn't stop me having fun.

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london


"What did you expect they all come flocking

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

Seeing these type of posts daily. What part dont people get

..theres approx 1500 ladies to each man. So work it out. We play here as a couple and alone ..i meet women of vanilla sites and believe me...theres plenty of women on there who just want nsa sex. Fab is not that good for single Guys unless your patient. Every friggin day you see the same ol shit....guys moaning about not getting meets....that will never change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

TBH im new too and have the same issue..BUT women do rule here and we just need to play along and hopefully things will fall into place.

Oh, if you have a cock like an anaconda you'll do well no matter what. Face like a bag of spanners? No worries, big cock..."

Utter bollocks. Maybe ladies just don't want guys who put more effort into bitching and whinging on forums, than their efforts in the quality of their profiles.

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london


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TBH im new too and have the same issue..BUT women do rule here and we just need to play along and hopefully things will fall into place.

Oh, if you have a cock like an anaconda you'll do well no matter what. Face like a bag of spanners? No worries, big cock...

i have an average cock with no pics of it here and i get meets...mate your not doing your self any favours. Be nice and friendly

Utter bollocks. Maybe ladies just don't want guys who put more effort into bitching and whinging on forums, than their efforts in the quality of their profiles. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeing these type of posts daily. What part dont people get

..theres approx 1500 ladies to each man. So work it out. We play here as a couple and alone ..i meet women of vanilla sites and believe me...theres plenty of women on there who just want nsa sex. Fab is not that good for single Guys unless your patient. Every friggin day you see the same ol shit....guys moaning about not getting meets....that will never change"

I think you meant 1500 men for each lady

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Advice on my profile for newbies and no meets, also search forum for other threads giving advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advice on my profile for newbies and no meets, also search forum for other threads giving advice "

Sage points for any newb from Msgivesadvicewithwood

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Advice on my profile for newbies and no meets, also search forum for other threads giving advice

Sage points for any newb from Msgivesadvicewithwood "

Lol is that my new name on here??!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be careful, bro, asking things like that on the forum just enrages them to the point they feel the need to leave an angry opinion on the matter.

Just nod and smile. Nod and smile, my good man - things will come good in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advice on my profile for newbies and no meets, also search forum for other threads giving advice

Sage points for any newb from Msgivesadvicewithwood

Lol is that my new name on here??!! "

From my own perspective it would be highly appropriate at least. I've just checked through your profile to substantiate this and for one regarding the advice you give whilst obvious to myself would be sage counsel to those just joining Fab and not used to the dynamics. For two I've read the lot and looked through your visual imagery and let me check... Yes, you've gave me superb wood!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Advice on my profile for newbies and no meets, also search forum for other threads giving advice

Sage points for any newb from Msgivesadvicewithwood

Lol is that my new name on here??!!

From my own perspective it would be highly appropriate at least. I've just checked through your profile to substantiate this and for one regarding the advice you give whilst obvious to myself would be sage counsel to those just joining Fab and not used to the dynamics. For two I've read the lot and looked through your visual imagery and let me check... Yes, you've gave me superb wood!"

Excellent news.. Keep up the good work.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Be careful, bro, asking things like that on the forum just enrages them to the point they feel the need to leave an angry opinion on the matter.

Just nod and smile. Nod and smile, my good man - things will come good in the end. "

Perhaps instead of leaving a negative comment which has nothing to do with his original post, you could offer some advice to the OP. People have taken time on here to give him advice. Some good, some not so good. However it is an open forum and people are free to post what they wish within forum rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be careful, bro, asking things like that on the forum just enrages them to the point they feel the need to leave an angry opinion on the matter.

Just nod and smile. Nod and smile, my good man - things will come good in the end. "

Blimey, you’re a bundle of fun today,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why my comment is getting people worked up - relax!

It was just an observation, perhaps just in my neck of the woods? Its all bbc this and big knob that.

However, I do know that is NOT the case but for a newcomer the slow start and seeing all of that can make you lose hope a little.

As I said, it should all work out if you stay postive, calm and polite..dont expect hoards of women to come knocking..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the same been on here 10 months and can’t seem to get a meet had a couple of replies but it’s never come to anything, any advice would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be careful, bro, asking things like that on the forum just enrages them to the point they feel the need to leave an angry opinion on the matter.

Just nod and smile. Nod and smile, my good man - things will come good in the end. "

Spot on .

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire


"Thanks everyone. Its good advice. Cheers"

Hiding your profile won't help you get meets! A week is nothing, I wouldn't even waste my time arranging anything with someone here less than a month because people join and leave so fast...been there, done that

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By *ovkid66Man
over a year ago

Warwick

I have been on here a few years now on and off. Yes it can be disheartening at times but you need to imagine the odds of a meet. For every 100 messages a woman or couple gets and believe me most get more than that in a day. 80 will be from complete idiots. At least 50 will have no pic attached. At least 50 will just say something like fancy your misses can i s--- her or similar. Probably 40 or more will have no pics in their profile. A lot will come from single guys on a couples profile. In the end they will maybe have 2 or 3 out if the hundred that they look at. So say your not there type. That could mean they have 1 message that they reply to. Just be yourself. Dont push it and if you dont get a reply or it seems its just deleted dont get shirty. Don't keep messaging. Just be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m the same been on here 10 months and can’t seem to get a meet had a couple of replies but it’s never come to anything, any advice would be appreciated "

yes, remember most women will look at your profile before deciding to bother with the message...

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By *oblovesyouMan
over a year ago

poole

Oh dear Losing the will after a week or so! Welcome to fab. Patience is a virtue OP. If you haven't got any you may as well quit now. If you hang on in there, I wish you luck

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Seeing these type of posts daily. What part dont people get

..theres approx 1500 ladies to each man. So work it out. We play here as a couple and alone ..i meet women of vanilla sites and believe me...theres plenty of women on there who just want nsa sex. Fab is not that good for single Guys unless your patient. Every friggin day you see the same ol shit....guys moaning about not getting meets....that will never change"

1500 ladies to each man???

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


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TBH im new too and have the same issue..BUT women do rule here and we just need to play along and hopefully things will fall into place.

Oh, if you have a cock like an anaconda you'll do well no matter what. Face like a bag of spanners? No worries, big cock..."
Maybe you speaking for yourself ! Do you think is the cock size make succeful meetings ? Not for me love !

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By *oblovesyouMan
over a year ago

poole


"Seeing these type of posts daily. What part dont people get

..theres approx 1500 ladies to each man. So work it out. We play here as a couple and alone ..i meet women of vanilla sites and believe me...theres plenty of women on there who just want nsa sex. Fab is not that good for single Guys unless your patient. Every friggin day you see the same ol shit....guys moaning about not getting meets....that will never change

1500 ladies to each man???"

haha, you wish! other way round me thinks!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still waiting after 3 years!! Had a couple of interesting naughty chats that went on for months is all. I keep rewriting my profile too. Still nothing.

I was thinking it must be where I live."

Mu Mu Land? No ice cream vans to help you?

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

The ratio is ten men to a woman. So a blank profile pic is going to get you nowhere . I put this on another thred

Give up on mailing people on here. It’s a non starter.

The sure fire way to be knee deep in klunge before you can say “spunk on her tits” is.....

1 chirp along in here and always say nice things and never expect anything in return

2 look out for socials (I mean big ones like 5-500 people) offer to help the organiser (carry a watermelon give a lift) and never expect anything in return.

3 go to socials chat to lots of women and couples with smiles and laughs don’t drink at all and don’t get mugged into buying lots of of drinks. Don’t expect anything in return.

4 don’t be pushy pushy in the swinging world = r@pey in the vanilla world. Be mega flirty and a twinkle toes.

Doing that makes you a good guy at the Center of everything who is in control of his faculties and very popular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your losing it

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By *oblovesyouMan
over a year ago

poole


"The ratio is ten men to a woman. So a blank profile pic is going to get you nowhere . I put this on another thred

Give up on mailing people on here. It’s a non starter.

The sure fire way to be knee deep in klunge before you can say “spunk on her tits” is.....

1 chirp along in here and always say nice things and never expect anything in return

2 look out for socials (I mean big ones like 5-500 people) offer to help the organiser (carry a watermelon give a lift) and never expect anything in return.

3 go to socials chat to lots of women and couples with smiles and laughs don’t drink at all and don’t get mugged into buying lots of of drinks. Don’t expect anything in return.

4 don’t be pushy pushy in the swinging world = r@pey in the vanilla world. Be mega flirty and a twinkle toes.

Doing that makes you a good guy at the Center of everything who is in control of his faculties and very popular."

thinks 'knee deep in klunge' & groans / salivates / drools Homer Simpson style...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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