FabSwingers.com forum: So don't know where i go wrong

By *igj25 OP Man
over a year ago

So must be goin wrong somewhere as can't seem to find a meet around here anywhere any1 no anywhere I can.find a new reg meet as really wanna find some1 to play with without all the hassle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you haven't asked for profile advice so I can't give it.

No one here knows what approach you take so I don't know how you expect us to know if you're doing something wrong. We can only give generic advice which you can find in the thousands of other threads like this.

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By *igj25 OP Man
over a year ago

Well I see local people near work like look of n just try making light convo but 9 out 10 dnt reply is my profile that bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I see local people near work like look of n just try making light convo but 9 out 10 dnt reply is my profile that bad?"

Your pics are all of your dick-that leads me to think you are a dick or at least think with it. Action shots are not generally appreciated on a single male profile, we don't wanna see where it's been before or to meet a guy who is indescreet enough to share private pics online.

Your "legal warning" which is in fact bullshit is about 4 times as long as your profile text. Your profile says nothing of who you are, what you want or what you can offer.

Finally "close" isn't a place, can't accom and looking for people near work all scream out cheater and a lot around here don't like that.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Some decent grammar and punctuation would help, OP.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

All of the above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So must be goin wrong somewhere as can't seem to find a meet around here anywhere any1 no anywhere I can.find a new reg meet as really wanna find some1 to play with without all the hassle lol"
well I would say in my vast experience of this life that out of 5 pics you have 5 cock pics and not especially attractive ones your profile write up is all about pic warnings to Sydney university etc so any woman reading it gets nothing from it except your kik user ,improve everything pics and write up and treat everyone as if they have an intellect and you may get somewhere hope this helps

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"Well I see local people near work like look of n just try making light convo but 9 out 10 dnt reply is my profile that bad?"

YES!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Best advice i can give ,is women look at whats on offer on your profile before deciding if they will reply....

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I see local people near work like look of n just try making light convo but 9 out 10 dnt reply is my profile that bad?"

Try putting your cock away hun. Show your bodywork, not just your gearstick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" is my profile that bad?"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try updating your profile and make it more interesting! All your pics are dicks ?? We like people that have a good sense of humour, hold a conversation and have fun

You’re just showing you’ve got a dick like all the other guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I see local people near work like look of n just try making light convo but 9 out 10 dnt reply is my profile that bad?"

Yup!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

And yet another one who hasn’t and won’t take on the advice given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And yet another one who hasn’t and won’t take on the advice given

Its only been 10 hours, give him a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I see local people near work like look of n just try making light convo but 9 out 10 dnt reply is my profile that bad?

Your "legal warning" which is in fact bullshit is about 4 times as long as your profile text. Your profile says nothing of who you are, what you want or what you can offer.

Finally "close" isn't a place, can't accom and looking for people near work all scream out cheater and a lot around here don't like that. "

I just love the no bullshit answers you give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WARNING !!! ANY INSTITUTION OR PERSONS USING THIS SITE OR ANY OF IT'S ASSOCIATED SITES OR PROJECTS -- YOU DO NOT HAVE PERMISSION TO USE ANY OF MY PROFILE OR PICTURES IN ANY FORM OR FORUM BOTH CURRENT AND FUTURE. IF YOU HAVE OR DO , IT WILL BE CONSIDERED A SERIOUS VIOLATION OF MY PRIVACY AND WILL BE SUBJECT TO LEGAL RAMIFICATIONS. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice

Its all bullshit fella take it off.. are you going to go to court that's is once you have found the picture stealing culprit and tell the judge that they stole pics form a swinging site of your not so impressive cock..get real dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WARNING !!! ANY INSTITUTION OR PERSONS USING THIS SITE OR ANY OF IT'S ASSOCIATED SITES OR PROJECTS -- YOU DO NOT HAVE PERMISSION TO USE ANY OF MY PROFILE OR PICTURES IN ANY FORM OR FORUM BOTH CURRENT AND FUTURE. IF YOU HAVE OR DO , IT WILL BE CONSIDERED A SERIOUS VIOLATION OF MY PRIVACY AND WILL BE SUBJECT TO LEGAL RAMIFICATIONS. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice

Totally, when I see that on so many profiles I literally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally, when I see that on so many profiles I literally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally, when I see that on so many profiles I literally

You can see it now can't you - hello, yes, is that Lawyers are us? Yes can you help me, someone stole a cock photo of mine on a swingers site and I want to take them to court. Oh you can help, great?!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally, when I see that on so many profiles I literally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally, when I see that on so many profiles I literally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally, when I see that on so many profiles I literally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well now the OP knows exactly where he's going wrong so I will wait for the same thread in a week or so's time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet he wasn’t expecting that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The text talk instantly pissed me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The text talk instantly pissed me off. "

We can’t stand that either. Now we fully understand it’s slowly becoming a new form of communication, however that said it’s suitable for Short Messaging Service, not general chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The text talk instantly pissed me off.

We can’t stand that either. Now we fully understand it’s slowly becoming a new form of communication, however that said it’s suitable for Short Messaging Service, not general chat.

It’s plain lazy

All for the sake of not typing a few extra letters.

I used to delete cock pictures straight away but now it’s text talk messages as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 crappy looking cock pics! No effort at all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The text talk instantly pissed me off. "

Won you here, I tried twice to read the opening statement and failed.

On a different note, I love your shoes!!

MrsK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The text talk instantly pissed me off.

Won you here, I tried twice to read the opening statement and failed.

On a different note, I love your shoes!!

MrsK "

Beauties aren’t they, officially the most expensive shoes I’m ever going to buy

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I can't give feedback upon what I don't know, so other than that you are a young-ish single man of very many - which will mean it's hard - you'd have to give more information op.

Is your swinging life solely from a website or more comprehensive?

Have you found advice on the forum to other single men that is relevant and applied it?

What approaches that you have picked up have you pursued?

Etc

How is your meet success in the general world? How attractive and successfully interactive are you there? what are you missing out on sexually in the wider world that you can't find there or here?

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By *igj25 OP Man
over a year ago

"Well I see local people near work like look of n just try making light convo but 9 out 10 dnt reply is my profile that bad?

Try putting your cock away hun. Show your bodywork, not just your gearstick."

Took all on board hopefully my profile is bit more readable now tried to message u but wouldn't let me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re profile is still difficult to read buddy.

You now have no public photos?

Try breaking your text up and using a bit of punctuation, we are not particularly bothered over spelling and grammar, some ladies however go Bat shit crazy over it. Copy your text into a word document and check it for spag, put a couple of full stops in and add a bit of what you are looking for and what you can offer.

Also add some public pics.

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London

Never saw the profile before you changed it but it would be a no for us.

No pics, one paragraph that does nothing to entice the imagination and nothing that says what you can offer.

Best advice when it comes to writing your profile would be all to honestly ask yourself, why would someone want to meet you?

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By *igj25 OP Man
over a year ago

So hopefully I'll hear back from some of you about my profile and see if it's any better I've took text talk out of it and going to update some of my pics with new be greatful if anyone could give me little feed back as to weather this is a little more of a readable profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So hopefully I'll hear back from some of you about my profile and see if it's any better I've took text talk out of it and going to update some of my pics with new be greatful if anyone could give me little feed back as to weather this is a little more of a readable profile "

The opening line needs to sound more positive too ‘not sure what to put’ could sound negative to some.

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Well I see local people near work like look of n just try making light convo but 9 out 10 dnt reply is my profile that bad?

Your "legal warning" which is in fact bullshit is about 4 times as long as your profile text. Your profile says nothing of who you are, what you want or what you can offer.

Finally "close" isn't a place, can't accom and looking for people near work all scream out cheater and a lot around here don't like that. "
totally agree

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By *igj25 OP Man
over a year ago

"Well I see local people near work like look of n just try making light convo but 9 out 10 dnt reply is my profile that bad?

Your "legal warning" which is in fact bullshit is about 4 times as long as your profile text. Your profile says nothing of who you are, what you want or what you can offer.

Finally "close" isn't a place, can't accom and looking for people near work all scream out cheater and a lot around here don't like that. totally agree

I've updated all now and reason looking for local is due to work I'm on 24hour call out when at work wasn't for fact of cheating lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The text talk instantly pissed me off.

Won you here, I tried twice to read the opening statement and failed.

On a different note, I love your shoes!!

MrsK

Beauties aren’t they, officially the most expensive shoes I’m ever going to buy

Yes but they’re LB’s it’s worth every penny!

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London

Apart from a few spelling and grammar hiccups it's a looooot betyer since we first commented.

I'm curious though, I haven't read the entire thread but who advised you to keep pics private and friends only?

For us, and in many other threads, the advice is to have a good amount of public pics.

Best of luck though, can tell you're open to change and trying which is a plus.

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By *igj25 OP Man
over a year ago

"Apart from a few spelling and grammar hiccups it's a looooot betyer since we first commented.

I'm curious though, I haven't read the entire thread but who advised you to keep pics private and friends only?

For us, and in many other threads, the advice is to have a good amount of public pics.

Best of luck though, can tell you're open to change and trying which is a plus."

Wasn't so much people said keep them private was more change them from cock to body etc so need to take some new photos before can updated that area so I've put naughty pics in friends now and yes I do try and take advice on board thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% better. It’s just missing the photos now.

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By *igj25 OP Man
over a year ago

"100% better. It’s just missing the photos now."

There be taken over next few days got to say loving your profile and some of your pics looking very naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"100% better. It’s just missing the photos now.

There be taken over next few days got to say loving your profile and some of your pics looking very naughty

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The text talk instantly pissed me off.

Won you here, I tried twice to read the opening statement and failed.

On a different note, I love your shoes!!

MrsK

Beauties aren’t they, officially the most expensive shoes I’m ever going to buy

Yes but they’re LB’s it’s worth every penny!

This is true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single male profile it's not great. Better pics will surely grab peoples attention

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"As a single male profile it's not great. Better pics will surely grab peoples attention "

Actually his profile is great now compared with before ! OP just need to add nice pictures which , he said he will soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single male profile it's not great. Better pics will surely grab peoples attention

Actually his profile is great now compared with before ! OP just need to add nice pictures which , he said he will soon! "

Totally agree, it’s informative and reasonable. Does everything it needs to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bit where it say a little bit of what you can offer doesn't say what you can offer, to me at least also you haven't said what kind of person you are looking for

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By *igj25 OP Man
over a year ago

Thanks ladies x

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