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"So if you seen your mates wife on here with a single profile what should you do? " leave well alone and block them. It’s not your circus or monkeys op  | |||
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"So if you seen your mates wife on here with a single profile what should you do? leave well alone and block them. It’s not your circus or monkeys op "Well said | |||
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"So if you seen your mates wife on here with a single profile what should you do? " Keep your nose out of their business. | |||
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"If he’s a very good close mate, he should have no problem talking about his sex life. So tell him. I know if i had a gf and she was on here without my consent and my mate knew about it. I would be fuming at him not telling me. Bros before hoes! " What a load of rubbish. It doesn’t matter how close mates you are, if a guy and his wife want to have an unusual consensual sex life, they are very unlikely to tell even their closest friends. The point is OP, you have no idea if it’s consensual or not, so mind your own business. | |||
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"If he’s a very good close mate, he should have no problem talking about his sex life. So tell him. I know if i had a gf and she was on here without my consent and my mate knew about it. I would be fuming at him not telling me. Bros before hoes! " Best comment so far | |||
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"If he’s a very good close mate, he should have no problem talking about his sex life. So tell him. I know if i had a gf and she was on here without my consent and my mate knew about it. I would be fuming at him not telling me. Bros before hoes! What a load of rubbish. It doesn’t matter how close mates you are, if a guy and his wife want to have an unusual consensual sex life, they are very unlikely to tell even their closest friends. The point is OP, you have no idea if it’s consensual or not, so mind your own business." And if it’s not consensual? And you have known, and he finds out? I would rather spend the 10 mins embarrassment than the lifetime of regret.. | |||
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"If he’s a very good close mate, he should have no problem talking about his sex life. So tell him. I know if i had a gf and she was on here without my consent and my mate knew about it. I would be fuming at him not telling me. Bros before hoes! " I would have a massive problem with my very close mates questioning me about my relationship or my sex life. It's none of their damn business. What goes on between me and my partner is off limits to other people unless I choose to involve them. They're my friends, they come second to my partner and relationship. If they didn't then I would be in the wrong relationship. | |||
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"If your friends don’t really know you, and you can’t tell them anything. Then are they really your friends? " Yes. I don't tell my friends a fraction of what goes on in our marriage, why would I, they're my friends it doesn't give them the automatic right to know everything about my life. | |||
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"If your friends don’t really know you, and you can’t tell them anything. Then are they really your friends? Yes. I don't tell my friends a fraction of what goes on in our marriage, why would I, they're my friends it doesn't give them the automatic right to know everything about my life." Granted everything they don’t need to know, but they do need to know when to have you back and what’s ok. This could be cheating. If I saw my mates Mrs potentially cheating. I would tell him. It’s not on. If it’s fine and agreed by them. Then there is no issue and all can carry on. She can block his mate and they don’t need to cross paths on the issue again? But surely you would want to make sure your mate is not being taken for a mug. I would tell him, every time. | |||
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"If your friends don’t really know you, and you can’t tell them anything. Then are they really your friends? Yes. I don't tell my friends a fraction of what goes on in our marriage, why would I, they're my friends it doesn't give them the automatic right to know everything about my life." | |||
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"If your friends don’t really know you, and you can’t tell them anything. Then are they really your friends? Yes. I don't tell my friends a fraction of what goes on in our marriage, why would I, they're my friends it doesn't give them the automatic right to know everything about my life. Granted everything they don’t need to know, but they do need to know when to have you back and what’s ok. This could be cheating. If I saw my mates Mrs potentially cheating. I would tell him. It’s not on. If it’s fine and agreed by them. Then there is no issue and all can carry on. She can block his mate and they don’t need to cross paths on the issue again? But surely you would want to make sure your mate is not being taken for a mug. I would tell him, every time. " Definitely | |||
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"If your friends don’t really know you, and you can’t tell them anything. Then are they really your friends? Yes. I don't tell my friends a fraction of what goes on in our marriage, why would I, they're my friends it doesn't give them the automatic right to know everything about my life. Granted everything they don’t need to know, but they do need to know when to have you back and what’s ok. This could be cheating. If I saw my mates Mrs potentially cheating. I would tell him. It’s not on. If it’s fine and agreed by them. Then there is no issue and all can carry on. She can block his mate and they don’t need to cross paths on the issue again? But surely you would want to make sure your mate is not being taken for a mug. I would tell him, every time. " Then you and I will have to agree to differ. I'm of the opinion that seeing a profile on here is evidence of nothing other than a certain picture or pictures has been used in conjunction with a set of words. I have my friends back at all times without question, I don't need to know every detail of their life to do that. I won't interfere or tell them things I think I know about their partner though. I don't think loyalty to someone includes telling tales on their partner. | |||
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"If he’s a very good close mate, he should have no problem talking about his sex life. So tell him. I know if i had a gf and she was on here without my consent and my mate knew about it. I would be fuming at him not telling me. Bros before hoes! I would have a massive problem with my very close mates questioning me about my relationship or my sex life. It's none of their damn business. What goes on between me and my partner is off limits to other people unless I choose to involve them. They're my friends, they come second to my partner and relationship. If they didn't then I would be in the wrong relationship. " This is not about you,you are a couple swinging what if you were not a swinger and thought you had a totally vanilla relationship,you don't feel well one day go to the doctor and find out you have some STD your mate hears about this and tells you that he knew your missus was playing away on a sex site but he didn't want to tell you because it wasn't his business how would you feel then? (I know this is a big jump from cheating to STD's by the way) | |||
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"If he’s a very good close mate, he should have no problem talking about his sex life. So tell him. I know if i had a gf and she was on here without my consent and my mate knew about it. I would be fuming at him not telling me. Bros before hoes! I would have a massive problem with my very close mates questioning me about my relationship or my sex life. It's none of their damn business. What goes on between me and my partner is off limits to other people unless I choose to involve them. They're my friends, they come second to my partner and relationship. If they didn't then I would be in the wrong relationship. This is not about you,you are a couple swinging what if you were not a swinger and thought you had a totally vanilla relationship,you don't feel well one day go to the doctor and find out you have some STD your mate hears about this and tells you that he knew your missus was playing away on a sex site but he didn't want to tell you because it wasn't his business how would you feel then? (I know this is a big jump from cheating to STD's by the way) " This whole thing is based on what ifs though. If eveyones so concerned about the guy why don't they advocate talking to the woman? | |||
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"If he’s a very good close mate, he should have no problem talking about his sex life. So tell him. I know if i had a gf and she was on here without my consent and my mate knew about it. I would be fuming at him not telling me. Bros before hoes! I would have a massive problem with my very close mates questioning me about my relationship or my sex life. It's none of their damn business. What goes on between me and my partner is off limits to other people unless I choose to involve them. They're my friends, they come second to my partner and relationship. If they didn't then I would be in the wrong relationship. This is not about you,you are a couple swinging what if you were not a swinger and thought you had a totally vanilla relationship,you don't feel well one day go to the doctor and find out you have some STD your mate hears about this and tells you that he knew your missus was playing away on a sex site but he didn't want to tell you because it wasn't his business how would you feel then? (I know this is a big jump from cheating to STD's by the way) This whole thing is based on what ifs though. If eveyones so concerned about the guy why don't they advocate talking to the woman?" The womans not his mate his mate is his mate,I had a guy I didn't like tell me before that a gf was cheating on me and my mates knew about it but said nothing,it took a guy i didn't like to take me to one side and tell me which I appreciated a hell of a lot more than what my "friends" did. | |||
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"It's interesting also that people who would tell him don't consider speaking to her first." Your loyalties are to your friend first, if you feel that she is being disloyal I would find it hard in trusting her to tel the truth to him. If I was in his shoes I would 100 percent want my friend to tell me. No questioned asked. You are a swinging couple? They might not be. She might be cheating. If you saw her necking on with a different bloke when you were out would you not tell him? | |||
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"If he’s a very good close mate, he should have no problem talking about his sex life. So tell him. I know if i had a gf and she was on here without my consent and my mate knew about it. I would be fuming at him not telling me. Bros before hoes! I would have a massive problem with my very close mates questioning me about my relationship or my sex life. It's none of their damn business. What goes on between me and my partner is off limits to other people unless I choose to involve them. They're my friends, they come second to my partner and relationship. If they didn't then I would be in the wrong relationship. This is not about you,you are a couple swinging what if you were not a swinger and thought you had a totally vanilla relationship,you don't feel well one day go to the doctor and find out you have some STD your mate hears about this and tells you that he knew your missus was playing away on a sex site but he didn't want to tell you because it wasn't his business how would you feel then? (I know this is a big jump from cheating to STD's by the way) This whole thing is based on what ifs though. If eveyones so concerned about the guy why don't they advocate talking to the woman? The womans not his mate his mate is his mate,I had a guy I didn't like tell me before that a gf was cheating on me and my mates knew about it but said nothing,it took a guy i didn't like to take me to one side and tell me which I appreciated a hell of a lot more than what my "friends" did." Is guys stick together. No matter what. If it’s fine you get a little banter for it. And crisis averted. | |||
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"If he’s a very good close mate, he should have no problem talking about his sex life. So tell him. I know if i had a gf and she was on here without my consent and my mate knew about it. I would be fuming at him not telling me. Bros before hoes! I would have a massive problem with my very close mates questioning me about my relationship or my sex life. It's none of their damn business. What goes on between me and my partner is off limits to other people unless I choose to involve them. They're my friends, they come second to my partner and relationship. If they didn't then I would be in the wrong relationship. This is not about you,you are a couple swinging what if you were not a swinger and thought you had a totally vanilla relationship,you don't feel well one day go to the doctor and find out you have some STD your mate hears about this and tells you that he knew your missus was playing away on a sex site but he didn't want to tell you because it wasn't his business how would you feel then? (I know this is a big jump from cheating to STD's by the way) This whole thing is based on what ifs though. If eveyones so concerned about the guy why don't they advocate talking to the woman? The womans not his mate his mate is his mate,I had a guy I didn't like tell me before that a gf was cheating on me and my mates knew about it but said nothing,it took a guy i didn't like to take me to one side and tell me which I appreciated a hell of a lot more than what my "friends" did." I think we all see this through the lens of our own experiences. Which is fair enough. | |||
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"It's interesting also that people who would tell him don't consider speaking to her first. Your loyalties are to your friend first, if you feel that she is being disloyal I would find it hard in trusting her to tel the truth to him. If I was in his shoes I would 100 percent want my friend to tell me. No questioned asked. You are a swinging couple? They might not be. She might be cheating. If you saw her necking on with a different bloke when you were out would you not tell him? " No. It's an unlikely scenario for me anyway which I think is what gives you and I different perspectives on this. My life and experiences have shown me that just because a situation appears one way doesn't mean it is. Your life and experiences have shown you differently. Hence we would react differently to this situation. | |||
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"If he’s a very good close mate, he should have no problem talking about his sex life. So tell him. I know if i had a gf and she was on here without my consent and my mate knew about it. I would be fuming at him not telling me. Bros before hoes! I would have a massive problem with my very close mates questioning me about my relationship or my sex life. It's none of their damn business. What goes on between me and my partner is off limits to other people unless I choose to involve them. They're my friends, they come second to my partner and relationship. If they didn't then I would be in the wrong relationship. This is not about you,you are a couple swinging what if you were not a swinger and thought you had a totally vanilla relationship,you don't feel well one day go to the doctor and find out you have some STD your mate hears about this and tells you that he knew your missus was playing away on a sex site but he didn't want to tell you because it wasn't his business how would you feel then? (I know this is a big jump from cheating to STD's by the way) This whole thing is based on what ifs though. If eveyones so concerned about the guy why don't they advocate talking to the woman? The womans not his mate his mate is his mate,I had a guy I didn't like tell me before that a gf was cheating on me and my mates knew about it but said nothing,it took a guy i didn't like to take me to one side and tell me which I appreciated a hell of a lot more than what my "friends" did. Is guys stick together. No matter what. If it’s fine you get a little banter for it. And crisis averted. " Does that mean that if you saw he had a profile on here you wouldn't tell her? | |||
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"If he’s a very good close mate, he should have no problem talking about his sex life. So tell him. I know if i had a gf and she was on here without my consent and my mate knew about it. I would be fuming at him not telling me. Bros before hoes! I would have a massive problem with my very close mates questioning me about my relationship or my sex life. It's none of their damn business. What goes on between me and my partner is off limits to other people unless I choose to involve them. They're my friends, they come second to my partner and relationship. If they didn't then I would be in the wrong relationship. This is not about you,you are a couple swinging what if you were not a swinger and thought you had a totally vanilla relationship,you don't feel well one day go to the doctor and find out you have some STD your mate hears about this and tells you that he knew your missus was playing away on a sex site but he didn't want to tell you because it wasn't his business how would you feel then? (I know this is a big jump from cheating to STD's by the way) This whole thing is based on what ifs though. If eveyones so concerned about the guy why don't they advocate talking to the woman? The womans not his mate his mate is his mate,I had a guy I didn't like tell me before that a gf was cheating on me and my mates knew about it but said nothing,it took a guy i didn't like to take me to one side and tell me which I appreciated a hell of a lot more than what my "friends" did. Is guys stick together. No matter what. If it’s fine you get a little banter for it. And crisis averted. Does that mean that if you saw he had a profile on here you wouldn't tell her?" Unfortunately my loyalties lie towards my friend whether or not they are the guilty party | |||
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"If he’s a very good close mate, he should have no problem talking about his sex life. So tell him. I know if i had a gf and she was on here without my consent and my mate knew about it. I would be fuming at him not telling me. Bros before hoes! I would have a massive problem with my very close mates questioning me about my relationship or my sex life. It's none of their damn business. What goes on between me and my partner is off limits to other people unless I choose to involve them. They're my friends, they come second to my partner and relationship. If they didn't then I would be in the wrong relationship. This is not about you,you are a couple swinging what if you were not a swinger and thought you had a totally vanilla relationship,you don't feel well one day go to the doctor and find out you have some STD your mate hears about this and tells you that he knew your missus was playing away on a sex site but he didn't want to tell you because it wasn't his business how would you feel then? (I know this is a big jump from cheating to STD's by the way) This whole thing is based on what ifs though. If eveyones so concerned about the guy why don't they advocate talking to the woman? The womans not his mate his mate is his mate,I had a guy I didn't like tell me before that a gf was cheating on me and my mates knew about it but said nothing,it took a guy i didn't like to take me to one side and tell me which I appreciated a hell of a lot more than what my "friends" did. Is guys stick together. No matter what. If it’s fine you get a little banter for it. And crisis averted. Does that mean that if you saw he had a profile on here you wouldn't tell her? Unfortunately my loyalties lie towards my friend whether or not they are the guilty party " So for you it's a loyalty issue not a moral one? That's fair enough,we all have different ways of looking at things. I tend to see it as a moral issue but other people's morals are no business of mine. | |||
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"Tell him,if she's a cheating piece of shit he deserves to know." So if a married woman contacts you you'll ignore her because "she's a cheating piece of shit" will you? There is a percentage of married/attached women on here the same as there is of men (though I expect that percentage is higher), accept it it's a sex site. | |||
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"If he’s a very good close mate, he should have no problem talking about his sex life. So tell him. I know if i had a gf and she was on here without my consent and my mate knew about it. I would be fuming at him not telling me. Bros before hoes! " Im with you on this.... if it was a really close freind i would tell and woukd expect the same in return if the situation was reversed x | |||
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"I came across my friends wife on another site ages ago . But I just left it there . She knows I know and nothing ever came of it . I know she still plays away but hey that's her business . " some "friend" you are then. | |||
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"Tell him,if she's a cheating piece of shit he deserves to know. So if a married woman contacts you you'll ignore her because "she's a cheating piece of shit" will you? There is a percentage of married/attached women on here the same as there is of men (though I expect that percentage is higher), accept it it's a sex site." I would bang her but she ain't my mates wife. The question is should he tell his friend and the answer is yes. | |||
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"Tell him,if she's a cheating piece of shit he deserves to know. So if a married woman contacts you you'll ignore her because "she's a cheating piece of shit" will you? There is a percentage of married/attached women on here the same as there is of men (though I expect that percentage is higher), accept it it's a sex site. I would bang her but she ain't my mates wife. The question is should he tell his friend and the answer is yes." So, you'd 'bang' a cheating piece of shit But as long as she isnt your mates wife? Righty ho | |||
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"Tell him,if she's a cheating piece of shit he deserves to know. So if a married woman contacts you you'll ignore her because "she's a cheating piece of shit" will you? There is a percentage of married/attached women on here the same as there is of men (though I expect that percentage is higher), accept it it's a sex site. I would bang her but she ain't my mates wife. The question is should he tell his friend and the answer is yes. So, you'd 'bang' a cheating piece of shit But as long as she isnt your mates wife? Righty ho" Threads like this always reveal Fab’s ‘thinkers’.  | |||
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"So if you seen your mates wife on here with a single profile what should you do? Keep your nose out of their business." | |||
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"Tell him,if she's a cheating piece of shit he deserves to know. So if a married woman contacts you you'll ignore her because "she's a cheating piece of shit" will you? There is a percentage of married/attached women on here the same as there is of men (though I expect that percentage is higher), accept it it's a sex site. I would bang her but she ain't my mates wife. The question is should he tell his friend and the answer is yes. So, you'd 'bang' a cheating piece of shit But as long as she isnt your mates wife? Righty ho" yup I would and I would hope if her fellas friends found out they would tell him too. Standing cock's got no morals  | |||
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"Tell him,if she's a cheating piece of shit he deserves to know. So if a married woman contacts you you'll ignore her because "she's a cheating piece of shit" will you? There is a percentage of married/attached women on here the same as there is of men (though I expect that percentage is higher), accept it it's a sex site. I would bang her but she ain't my mates wife. The question is should he tell his friend and the answer is yes. So, you'd 'bang' a cheating piece of shit But as long as she isnt your mates wife? Righty ho yup I would and I would hope if her fellas friends found out they would tell him too. Standing cock's got no morals "Or to put it another way ... ‘one rule for the guys, one rule for the girls’ Misogynistic much??!! | |||
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"So if you seen your mates wife on here with a single profile what should you do? " You my friend may have inadvertently stumbled upon the holy grail of fab itself. 'Some' may say (not me of course) that there is a chance for you to cuckold your friend with his lady as your fb thus opening the floodgates to fabs sexual riches with everyone being happy as Larry. Question is do you see this as an opportunity or not? 
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"So if you seen your mates wife on here with a single profile what should you do? Keep your nose out of their business." This  | |||
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"Tell him,if she's a cheating piece of shit he deserves to know. So if a married woman contacts you you'll ignore her because "she's a cheating piece of shit" will you? There is a percentage of married/attached women on here the same as there is of men (though I expect that percentage is higher), accept it it's a sex site. I would bang her but she ain't my mates wife. The question is should he tell his friend and the answer is yes. So, you'd 'bang' a cheating piece of shit But as long as she isnt your mates wife? Righty ho yup I would and I would hope if her fellas friends found out they would tell him too. Standing cock's got no morals
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Misogynistic much??!!"Not really if I saw a male partner of a female friend I'd do the same. Wouldn't bang him though  | |||
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"Arrange to meet her. Why not???? Does it really matter that she may be playing behind his back??? " i disagree. He needs to leave well alone. | |||
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"So if you seen your mates wife on here with a single profile what should you do? " mind your own business! Because sometimes all you do is losing a mate , while they stick together! | |||
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"Id hate to be friends with any of you lot! If hes a good friend id tell him. If he knows about it then all good. If not then better to find out and deal with it then finding out 5 years later that his wifes a cheating slag and his best mate knew about it. 'None of your business' Dont know what kind of friends you lot are. Not very good ones though. " the problem is I saw my ex brother and law with someone else ! I told my sister ! Guess what she believed him! She did not spoke to me for 3 years ! Until she court him herself! I do understand your point but sometimes is best to mind our on business ! That way will not back fire! X | |||
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"I would probably approach the person on here, speak to them and hopefully get a clearer picture. I don't think it's unusual for people to ask stuff like 'Are you single? Is your partner okay with you being on here?' and cheaters usually say something to give themselves away. Then I'd probably just give them an ultimatum - you come clean, or I'll tell them for you. But I really hate cheaters and have no empathy for them at all. " First rule of thumb you learn is if you spot anyone you recognise, you stay well clear and mind your own business. It’s not up to you challenge them. Second rule of thumb you learn is to look at rule number 1. So guys, it’s not your call. Don’t judge them, leave them alone and let them eat their own dog food or drink their own Champaign, whichever it happens to be. | |||
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"I would probably approach the person on here, speak to them and hopefully get a clearer picture. I don't think it's unusual for people to ask stuff like 'Are you single? Is your partner okay with you being on here?' and cheaters usually say something to give themselves away. Then I'd probably just give them an ultimatum - you come clean, or I'll tell them for you. But I really hate cheaters and have no empathy for them at all. " What’s this, moral police? | |||
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"Id hate to be friends with any of you lot! If hes a good friend id tell him. If he knows about it then all good. If not then better to find out and deal with it then finding out 5 years later that his wifes a cheating slag and his best mate knew about it. 'None of your business' Dont know what kind of friends you lot are. Not very good ones though. " You really need to have absolute water tight proof IMHO before you take the next step. Watch “Heat” (not the porno version!) lol | |||
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"If he’s a very good close mate, he should have no problem talking about his sex life. So tell him. I know if i had a gf and she was on here without my consent and my mate knew about it. I would be fuming at him not telling me. Bros before hoes! I would have a massive problem with my very close mates questioning me about my relationship or my sex life. It's none of their damn business. What goes on between me and my partner is off limits to other people unless I choose to involve them. They're my friends, they come second to my partner and relationship. If they didn't then I would be in the wrong relationship. This is not about you,you are a couple swinging what if you were not a swinger and thought you had a totally vanilla relationship,you don't feel well one day go to the doctor and find out you have some STD your mate hears about this and tells you that he knew your missus was playing away on a sex site but he didn't want to tell you because it wasn't his business how would you feel then? (I know this is a big jump from cheating to STD's by the way) This whole thing is based on what ifs though. If eveyones so concerned about the guy why don't they advocate talking to the woman?" Mmm, hello chupa chops, not that its any of my business but I was just wondering if Charlie's aware you are having an extra cuckatoo  is that what you are advocating? Is this some form of feminist stance? | |||
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"I am not your best mates wife read my verifications/ profile " ??? | |||
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"Arrange to meet her. Why not???? Does it really matter that she may be playing behind his back??? i disagree. He needs to leave well alone." If it was me then i would arrange to meet and fuck her. After all she is on here, if it is her, to have fun. Does it really matter that it is his mate's wife or a strangers wife? Go for it and enjoy it. | |||
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"If he’s a very good close mate, he should have no problem talking about his sex life. So tell him. I know if i had a gf and she was on here without my consent and my mate knew about it. I would be fuming at him not telling me. Bros before hoes! I would have a massive problem with my very close mates questioning me about my relationship or my sex life. It's none of their damn business. What goes on between me and my partner is off limits to other people unless I choose to involve them. They're my friends, they come second to my partner and relationship. If they didn't then I would be in the wrong relationship. This is not about you,you are a couple swinging what if you were not a swinger and thought you had a totally vanilla relationship,you don't feel well one day go to the doctor and find out you have some STD your mate hears about this and tells you that he knew your missus was playing away on a sex site but he didn't want to tell you because it wasn't his business how would you feel then? (I know this is a big jump from cheating to STD's by the way) This whole thing is based on what ifs though. If eveyones so concerned about the guy why don't they advocate talking to the woman? The womans not his mate his mate is his mate,I had a guy I didn't like tell me before that a gf was cheating on me and my mates knew about it but said nothing,it took a guy i didn't like to take me to one side and tell me which I appreciated a hell of a lot more than what my "friends" did. Is guys stick together. No matter what. If it’s fine you get a little banter for it. And crisis averted. Does that mean that if you saw he had a profile on here you wouldn't tell her?" Of course he wouldn't | |||
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"Tell him,if she's a cheating piece of shit he deserves to know. So if a married woman contacts you you'll ignore her because "she's a cheating piece of shit" will you? There is a percentage of married/attached women on here the same as there is of men (though I expect that percentage is higher), accept it it's a sex site. I would bang her but she ain't my mates wife. The question is should he tell his friend and the answer is yes. So, you'd 'bang' a cheating piece of shit But as long as she isnt your mates wife? Righty ho yup I would and I would hope if her fellas friends found out they would tell him too. Standing cock's got no morals
Or to put it another way ... ‘one rule for the guys, one rule for the girls’
Misogynistic much??!!"Revealing though. Lol | |||
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"I would probably approach the person on here, speak to them and hopefully get a clearer picture. I don't think it's unusual for people to ask stuff like 'Are you single? Is your partner okay with you being on here?' and cheaters usually say something to give themselves away. Then I'd probably just give them an ultimatum - you come clean, or I'll tell them for you. But I really hate cheaters and have no empathy for them at all. What’s this, moral police? " Just the fab police .. wonder how many of the "fab police" have had thoughts of banging a mates girl or wife..with or without their mate knowing | |||
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"I am not your best mates wife read my verifications/ profile " Are you who he's talking about?? | |||
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"Tell your mate don't listen to none of your business brigade you have a Bro's before Ho's duty to uphold. Might sound horrible but dude I guarantee if it were women spotting their friends partner on here 99% of them would spill the beans." If it was a woman posting she'd get the same none of your business advice too | |||
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"Tell your mate don't listen to none of your business brigade you have a Bro's before Ho's duty to uphold. Might sound horrible but dude I guarantee if it were women spotting their friends partner on here 99% of them would spill the beans. If it was a woman posting she'd get the same none of your business advice too" Would she bollix the misandrists and sir galahads would be insisting that the evil male be outed. | |||
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"Tell your mate don't listen to none of your business brigade you have a Bro's before Ho's duty to uphold. Might sound horrible but dude I guarantee if it were women spotting their friends partner on here 99% of them would spill the beans. If it was a woman posting she'd get the same none of your business advice too Would she bollix the misandrists and sir galahads would be insisting that the evil male be outed. " They really wouldn't. These threads come up from time to time and the opinions are the same regardless of the gender of the alledged offender. | |||
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"I am not your best mates wife read my verifications/ profile Are you who he's talking about??" Yes he messaged saying I looked liked his mates wife | |||
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"I am not your best mates wife read my verifications/ profile Are you who he's talking about?? Yes he messaged saying I looked liked his mates wife " How could he tell from your photos? He must know his mates wife's feet very well! | |||
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"I am not your best mates wife read my verifications/ profile Are you who he's talking about?? Yes he messaged saying I looked liked his mates wife " I sincerely hope he didn't take the advice of the "tell him" camp. Imagine the trouble caused in relationship  | |||
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"Classic. This thread should be linked to in EVERY other thread on this topic. " This man has really spent a lot if time studying his mates wife's boobs,feet,and shoes x | |||
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"Classic. This thread should be linked to in EVERY other thread on this topic. This man has really spent a lot if time swatudying his mates wife's boobs,feet,and shoes x " My thoughts exactly. And to think that he was going to tell him! | |||
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"sClassic. This thread should be linked to in EVERY other thread on this topic. This man has really spent a lot if time swatudying his mates wife's boobs,feet,and shoes x My thoughts exactly. And to think that he was going to tell him! "He's just messaged me and a few other people I know on this post.so it could be attention bait to lure people in for him to message x | |||
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"sClassic. This thread should be linked to in EVERY other thread on this topic. This man has really spent a lot if time swatudying his mates wife's boobs,feet,and shoes x My thoughts exactly. And to think that he was going to tell him!
He's just messaged me and a few other people I know on this post.so it could be attention bait to lure people in for him to message x "Ahhhhhh, sneaky | |||
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"Drop her a cheeky message, who knows she might of been wanting to bang you for ages "Might become better friend | |||
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"sClassic. This thread should be linked to in EVERY other thread on this topic. This man has really spent a lot if time swatudying his mates wife's boobs,feet,and shoes x My thoughts exactly. And to think that he was going to tell him!
He's just messaged me and a few other people I know on this post.so it could be attention bait to lure people in for him to message x "We got messaged without contributing! An early look at his friends list told us all we needed to know... | |||
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"I am not your best mates wife read my verifications/ profile Are you who he's talking about?? Yes he messaged saying I looked liked his mates wife " Wow! If you're not then this is the perfect example of why you should say nowt when it's not 100%. Op, if you're not 100% sure and there's clearly some dispute here then you should stay the hell out of it!!! How the hell can any of us be certain as to give an opinion? I'm out! | |||
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Maybe they are just extremely happy, open and swing. I'd have a little chuckle to yourself and not say anything. Good luck. | |||
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