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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

morning all

I'm Dan

been on here a while now but finding it hard to get replys

anything i can do

I'm polite in messages

and send a nice face pic

cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve had 3 meets in the last two months. Many would cut off their nose for that return

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

one was a social and one was an old friend verifying me lol

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Hi speaking as for me, us single guys are not in much demand and sadly not getting a reply is the norm on here. The site is really good but its the people on it that aren't. There are very few genuine on here but finding them is very hard work.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Your pics are quite unsmily I don’t think they are bad just very serious looking

The old 420 comment will put people off too

Apart from that it looks a good profile. You have only been here for 8 weeks. In fab time this is literally no time at all.

Maybe you should try some clubs or events?

Hang in there it will get better! Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the advice guys

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Your pics are quite unsmily I don’t think they are bad just very serious looking

The old 420 comment will put people off too

Apart from that it looks a good profile. You have only been here for 8 weeks. In fab time this is literally no time at all.

Maybe you should try some clubs or events?

Hang in there it will get better! Good luck OP "

I agree - profile is fine & pics are ok apart from you not smiling. Some people might see it as aggressive. I’d change them but keep the style

of them!

Other than that, clubs or socials is a great way to start meeting people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The new photo made me laugh lots - bloody good effort and high fives to you OP.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Hi speaking as for me, us single guys are not in much demand and sadly not getting a reply is the norm on here. The site is really good but its the people on it that aren't. There are very few genuine on here but finding them is very hard work."

A few genuine what?? Maybe there are alot of genuine people but the site is over run with men with over realistic expectations.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Hi speaking as for me, us single guys are not in much demand and sadly not getting a reply is the norm on here. The site is really good but its the people on it that aren't. There are very few genuine on here but finding them is very hard work."

Another moaner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi speaking as for me, us single guys are not in much demand and sadly not getting a reply is the norm on here. The site is really good but its the people on it that aren't. There are very few genuine on here but finding them is very hard work."

Plenty of genuine people but maybe they don't want to meet you with the attitude you displayed here

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Your pics are quite unsmily I don’t think they are bad just very serious looking

The old 420 comment will put people off too

Apart from that it looks a good profile. You have only been here for 8 weeks. In fab time this is literally no time at all.

Maybe you should try some clubs or events?

Hang in there it will get better! Good luck OP

I agree - profile is fine & pics are ok apart from you not smiling. Some people might see it as aggressive. I’d change them but keep the style

of them!

Other than that, clubs or socials is a great way to start meeting people x"

Absolutely right and there are lots of nice genuine ladies and couples who wish to meet single guys

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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago

Nearly

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Sadly swingers site have become over loaded with single guys in the past years. Fabs is a good site but also very easy for everyone to look and apear genuine. I use to be part of a couple and it was a different ball game. Nearly always got a reply but now a single guy im luck to get 1 in 5 that even bother a polite no thanks. Certainly changed alot over the past 13yrs. Just got to stick with it and be yourself. Chatrooms can be a good help just dont be one of those " get ya tits and pussy out" guys. Having a laugh and joke can work better sometimes.

Good luck

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By *eothelionMan
over a year ago

chester

I think you look pretty good. Are you a doorman? Take a pic in your suit. It’ll get allot of ladies going.

Manage your expectations down, relax and enjoy. And look through other guys like you. What do they write. Copy what looks good. No shame in that to me it shows your putting the effort in.

And take the time to send a decent friendly message. You won’t get replies each time but you won’t getting any with crap one liners.

So what I did. Go to clubs. It’s a mad experience as a single guy but behave well and women will give you respect.

Good luck.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

LOVE the new pics OP, brilliant!!

Aside from anything else, it shows your sense of humour!

Happy fabbing! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers guys hope the new pics help x

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By *eothelionMan
over a year ago

chester

The second of you suited and smiling looks really good. Your personality comes through really well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say loving the Thor 's hammer tattoo on you hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've had 3 meets in 2 months you're not doing that bad. I haven't had 1 meet in 3 months.

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