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"I'll be brutal... You're young, black and you have been here for 7 weeks. Young = some will like that and others will see you as the same age as their children. Black = there are broadly 3 camps here: a) those that fetishise BBC and seek it; b) those that won't meet people of colour (but will claim preference and insist they are not racist); c) those that don't care but you might get paranoid and this they do. Seven weeks = it's a really short time and you've already done better than most at seven weeks. Men outnumber women by a huge amount. It's Christmas and people aren't as available as they are with families. It all gets a bit busier around March. For a lot of people this is a lifestyle and not a swipe left/right site. Your profile is fine. Your pictures are fine. Just be patient. " Oh My God! Such perfect advice and so so honest! Thank you so much. When I get back to London I wanna catch you in a club somewhere and thank you in person, LicketySplits!! As far as the age thing goes, it's such a damn shame because I love and am generally attracted to women who're older than I am. Regarding my race & time spent online there's not really much I can do about that. I guess patience is the only card I can play here. Xx | |||
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"You see a lot if these posts, and often from people who are relatively new. Clearly newbies are under the impression joining Fab is a golden ticket to at least one guilt-free NSA shag every week. You'll soon learn that it ain't the case." That's certainly not where my head is at regarding FAB. Definitely not what I've come here for to begin with. Just seeking advice to avoid being ignored completely. Thanks! | |||
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"You have been here 7 weeks and had a meet... I'd hardly call that being left in the cold "You're right. However, the more I get ignored the more I believe I was struck with beginners luck. It was amazingly fun but I don't ever take it for granted, I know that's rare to meet so soon. Thought I might have started doing something wrong and wanted to avoid doing it in future x | |||
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"Personally mate I see nothing wrong with your profile or pics... It's more likely we are a part of a large majority... But give it time, can't see why you ain't got a queue of ladies personally" Thank you! | |||
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"I find it odd when people say "I swear I'm a nice guy" Fred West wasn't ever going to introduce himself as what he really liked to do in his spare time was he? Get out and meet people go to socials go to clubs" Of course there's that too! You're right, i do need to get to these clubs. Thanks! | |||
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"Join in with the forum and cam chat. Does not have to be of a sexual nature. Plenty of interesting topics and people with a wide range of interests. Music for example. Good luck!" Cheers! I'm on it  | |||
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"You have been here 7 weeks and had a meet... I'd hardly call that being left in the cold "Sorry op but this ^^^^^ It took me over a year to get my 1st meet | |||
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"You have been here 7 weeks and had a meet... I'd hardly call that being left in the cold
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It took me over a year to get my 1st meet "Very insightful and reassuring. Thank you for sharing! | |||
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"I'm confused OP. You have been on here for less than two months and already have a meet under your belt? That's great going on here! Haha. Most of your messages will get ignored, ask any man on here. You just have to keep trying lovely. I'm sure you'll be fine. Your profile seems fine to me "Thank you Dark Angel! It's become very apparent how impatient I've been since I started this forum. Thank you for your words x | |||
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"Dude, it's often ALL about timing. Women get hundreds of messages on here, and you have to send the right message, to the right person at the right time. Put yourself in their shoes - you've had a long day at work, you open Fab, you have 250 messages, 243 of them contain "hi hun" or "u ok babe?" or "fancy a fuck" and 4 photos of an awful looking penis taken in a slightly grubby bathroom, by some guy who lives alone in a bedsit in Scunthorpe... Now, what's your thought process going to be? Yes, it's delete delete delete, and barely bother to read the good ones because it's A) tiring, B) time consuming, and C) utterly pointless in the main. You have to consider it from the other side." I have no doubts about this. You're right, Luke! Must be extremely exhausting, I shouldn't be so selfish. Thank you mate, you've been a massive help! | |||
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"Op, have you knocked any potential meets back? That’s the same as you getting knocked back. Have you looked at someone’s profile and thought, that’s not for me? Fab is a swinging site not an easy shag site where there is a big line of people willing to shag you. Swinging is a hobby/lifestyle to most a lot of new people on here don’t get that point and get mythed off that they haven’t found a guaranteed shag from a super model. Whilst most swingers have a varied and active sex life they can also spot other genuine swinging people and ignore the rest, that is where (in our opinion many single guys/girls get it wrong) This no way an attack on you or your profile. You’re pretty hot to be fair, but like side it’s not tinder. Good luck in your adventures." Really appreciate your help Cleancpl39! You've made perfect sense x | |||
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"Wowee, I've been constantly ignored left, right and centre! I've heard quite a few horror stories about guys on here being complete a-holes and I can wholeheartedly say I'm not that. What's a guy gotta do to get a simple hello back? All advice welcome! Is it my profile? I read all profiles I come across and if I'm interested write with that person in mind. I don't start straight at filthy sex chat and I can swear I'm a nice guy. Any help? Anyone? D.C " "If I'm interested?" All well and good but do you meet what they're looking for? | |||
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"You’ve made a great start. Keep interacting there are plenty of people on here that will find you attractive, it just takes time to get ‘known’. As Lickety says, many on here see this as a lifestyle choice, not just a hookup site, so in the main, building connections is essential to success. I’m sure in a matter of months you’ll be doing fine from what I’ve seen so far. Be careful about the use of labels like BBW and MILF, lots of women don’t like the terms...." How very very interesting. I've used those labels as a shorthand because I thought that's how this site operated. Going to do a BIG review of my profile and take out those labels. Thanks for this, it's much appreciated! | |||
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"One thing worth noting, OP, is that the numbers game you're playing doesn't entirely make you attractive to certain people either. If you're on here to get your numbers up that's fine, but I would warn against promoting yourself as such." A great shout! Thanks again Luke! | |||
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"Wowee, I've been constantly ignored left, right and centre! I've heard quite a few horror stories about guys on here being complete a-holes and I can wholeheartedly say I'm not that. What's a guy gotta do to get a simple hello back? All advice welcome! Is it my profile? I read all profiles I come across and if I'm interested write with that person in mind. I don't start straight at filthy sex chat and I can swear I'm a nice guy. Any help? Anyone? D.C "If I'm interested?" All well and good but do you meet what they're looking for?" Very very true. I don't mean to come across as self centred, I'm sure I don't meet the mark with a lot of women too. Thanks obviously a big factor here too. Thanks Miss_tress x | |||
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"Wowee, I've been constantly ignored left, right and centre! I've heard quite a few horror stories about guys on here being complete a-holes and I can wholeheartedly say I'm not that. What's a guy gotta do to get a simple hello back? All advice welcome! Is it my profile? I read all profiles I come across and if I'm interested write with that person in mind. I don't start straight at filthy sex chat and I can swear I'm a nice guy. Any help? Anyone? D.C "If I'm interested?" All well and good but do you meet what they're looking for? Very very true. I don't mean to come across as self centred, I'm sure I don't meet the mark with a lot of women too. Thanks obviously a big factor here too. Thanks Miss_tress x" I have a feeling you'll do well: you have a positive approach and that in itself is attractive. Good luck. | |||
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"Wowee, I've been constantly ignored left, right and centre! I've heard quite a few horror stories about guys on here being complete a-holes and I can wholeheartedly say I'm not that. What's a guy gotta do to get a simple hello back? All advice welcome! Is it my profile? I read all profiles I come across and if I'm interested write with that person in mind. I don't start straight at filthy sex chat and I can swear I'm a nice guy. Any help? Anyone? D.C "If I'm interested?" All well and good but do you meet what they're looking for? Very very true. I don't mean to come across as self centred, I'm sure I don't meet the mark with a lot of women too. Thanks obviously a big factor here too. Thanks Miss_tress x I have a feeling you'll do well: you have a positive approach and that in itself is attractive. Good luck." Thank you, thank you! Miss_tress I've tried to contact you privately, not to be a perv. It's just, I see you're actually from roughly the same area as me (I'm East Dulwich) and I'll be back in the new year. Maybe we could connect? Shot in the dark. I'VE NOT SET THIS FORUM UP TO PICK UP WOMEN, I want to make that clear too! x | |||
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"You have been here 7 weeks and had a meet... I'd hardly call that being left in the cold
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It took me over a year to get my 1st meet
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"I'll be brutal... You're young, black and you have been here for 7 weeks. Young = some will like that and others will see you as the same age as their children. Black = there are broadly 3 camps here: a) those that fetishise BBC and seek it; b) those that won't meet people of colour (but will claim preference and insist they are not racist); c) those that don't care but you might get paranoid and this they do. Seven weeks = it's a really short time and you've already done better than most at seven weeks. Men outnumber women by a huge amount. It's Christmas and people aren't as available as they are with families. It all gets a bit busier around March. For a lot of people this is a lifestyle and not a swipe left/right site. Your profile is fine. Your pictures are fine. Just be patient. " This very honest feedback | |||
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"Wowee, I've been constantly ignored left, right and centre! I've heard quite a few horror stories about guys on here being complete a-holes and I can wholeheartedly say I'm not that. What's a guy gotta do to get a simple hello back? All advice welcome! Is it my profile? I read all profiles I come across and if I'm interested write with that person in mind. I don't start straight at filthy sex chat and I can swear I'm a nice guy. Any help? Anyone? D.C "If I'm interested?" All well and good but do you meet what they're looking for? Very very true. I don't mean to come across as self centred, I'm sure I don't meet the mark with a lot of women too. Thanks obviously a big factor here too. Thanks Miss_tress x I have a feeling you'll do well: you have a positive approach and that in itself is attractive. Good luck. Thank you, thank you! Miss_tress I've tried to contact you privately, not to be a perv. It's just, I see you're actually from roughly the same area as me (I'm East Dulwich) and I'll be back in the new year. Maybe we could connect? Shot in the dark. I'VE NOT SET THIS FORUM UP TO PICK UP WOMEN, I want to make that clear too! x" Yes we're neighbours but unfortunately I don't meet anyone young enough to be my son or old enough to be my dad. I like your attitude: I'm positive others will too. Good luck and a fabby new year to you. | |||
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"I love your positive responses on here OP. I hope you'll keep participating in the forums . "Refreshing, isn't it. | |||
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"Wowee, I've been constantly ignored left, right and centre! I've heard quite a few horror stories about guys on here being complete a-holes and I can wholeheartedly say I'm not that. What's a guy gotta do to get a simple hello back? All advice welcome! Is it my profile? I read all profiles I come across and if I'm interested write with that person in mind. I don't start straight at filthy sex chat and I can swear I'm a nice guy. Any help? Anyone? D.C "If I'm interested?" All well and good but do you meet what they're looking for? Very very true. I don't mean to come across as self centred, I'm sure I don't meet the mark with a lot of women too. Thanks obviously a big factor here too. Thanks Miss_tress x I have a feeling you'll do well: you have a positive approach and that in itself is attractive. Good luck. Thank you, thank you! Miss_tress I've tried to contact you privately, not to be a perv. It's just, I see you're actually from roughly the same area as me (I'm East Dulwich) and I'll be back in the new year. Maybe we could connect? Shot in the dark. I'VE NOT SET THIS FORUM UP TO PICK UP WOMEN, I want to make that clear too! x Yes we're neighbours but unfortunately I don't meet anyone young enough to be my son or old enough to be my dad. I like your attitude: I'm positive others will too. Good luck and a fabby new year to you." Uuuugh such a shame but completely understood. Not sure if you do clubs/parties, I plan on checking out the London scene when I get back home. If ever we bump into each other I'll be sure to say hello and thank you! Xx | |||
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"I love your positive responses on here OP. I hope you'll keep participating in the forums . "Absolutely! This is the kind of thing I've been missing and needing. No need to take my frustrations out on the people of FAB. I'll see you in the forums, I hope x  | |||
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"I'll be brutal... You're young, black and you have been here for 7 weeks. Young = some will like that and others will see you as the same age as their children. Black = there are broadly 3 camps here: a) those that fetishise BBC and seek it; b) those that won't meet people of colour (but will claim preference and insist they are not racist); c) those that don't care but you might get paranoid and this they do. Seven weeks = it's a really short time and you've already done better than most at seven weeks. Men outnumber women by a huge amount. It's Christmas and people aren't as available as they are with families. It all gets a bit busier around March. For a lot of people this is a lifestyle and not a swipe left/right site. Your profile is fine. Your pictures are fine. Just be patient. This very honest feedback "Very true and exactly what I needed to read! | |||
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"Good profile OP, we wish you luck on here and stay positive" Thank you gbfun! I really appreciate it. It's also reassuring to know you and others think my profile is ok. At least I'm not in a completely hopeless place. Xx | |||
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"Hmmm.. I'm not quite sure what (at my age I have a short attention span) but your profile has now "lost" something...individuality I think. Your profile is now generic: ergo forgettable. That said...your body isn't, so you may get away with it! "Oh no! I've now fallen into second guessing myself. I firstly went for a natural charming flare but began to think it came across as egotistical. Will have another look. I promise you, it won't be a waste of your time if we connected when I got back. Even if it's just a simple coffe on Lordship Lane. I don't care if you think I'm old enough to be your dad | |||
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"Your profile and pics look fine to me. If you came over and said hello in a club I'd ask you to join us to see how we got on. So as people have previously said, patience and perseverance. If you don't mind being someone's fetish maybe have a look at the BMFC events. " Thank you, Sin! That would be a massive treat to have the op to join you. This is all great, thanks for that. If you're into black men then that's great for me but I'm not looking to be someone's fetish really. Don't want to feel like a dummy. x | |||
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"Your profile and pics look fine to me. If you came over and said hello in a club I'd ask you to join us to see how we got on. So as people have previously said, patience and perseverance. If you don't mind being someone's fetish maybe have a look at the BMFC events. Thank you, Sin! That would be a massive treat to have the op to join you. This is all great, thanks for that. If you're into black men then that's great for me but I'm not looking to be someone's fetish really. Don't want to feel like a dummy. x" I'm not into the idea of BMFC personally, someone's skin colour or ethnicity isn't a fetish for me. I just know some guys who've gone and had good nights at the events. I'd keep a look out for any socials in your area and go along. | |||
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"You'll do fine on here op, some great advice above and your pics are good. Totally get what you say about not wanting to be someone's fetish - I avoid the "dad-bod and getting on" nights for the same reason
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"If your messages are as positive and well written as your posts here I'm sure your luck will change soon." Hey K.S! I hear ya - It'll be a shame to be anything less than positive one here, no need for all the negativity. Thanks for you message! Xx | |||
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"Your profile and pics look fine to me. If you came over and said hello in a club I'd ask you to join us to see how we got on. So as people have previously said, patience and perseverance. If you don't mind being someone's fetish maybe have a look at the BMFC events. Thank you, Sin! That would be a massive treat to have the op to join you. This is all great, thanks for that. If you're into black men then that's great for me but I'm not looking to be someone's fetish really. Don't want to feel like a dummy. x I'm not into the idea of BMFC personally, someone's skin colour or ethnicity isn't a fetish for me. I just know some guys who've gone and had good nights at the events. I'd keep a look out for any socials in your area and go along. " I'd love to know I'd be confident enough to attend BMFC but I'm not quite there year as I'm still newish to this whole scene. I'm like you, race & colour is by far the most insignificant thing to me. Just be clean is all I say haha! I'm keeping my eyes peeled for local socials. Do you mean individual socials or attending clubs? D.C xx | |||
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"Your profile and pics look fine to me. If you came over and said hello in a club I'd ask you to join us to see how we got on. So as people have previously said, patience and perseverance. If you don't mind being someone's fetish maybe have a look at the BMFC events. Thank you, Sin! That would be a massive treat to have the op to join you. This is all great, thanks for that. If you're into black men then that's great for me but I'm not looking to be someone's fetish really. Don't want to feel like a dummy. x I'm not into the idea of BMFC personally, someone's skin colour or ethnicity isn't a fetish for me. I just know some guys who've gone and had good nights at the events. I'd keep a look out for any socials in your area and go along. I'd love to know I'd be confident enough to attend BMFC but I'm not quite there year as I'm still newish to this whole scene. I'm like you, race & colour is by far the most insignificant thing to me. Just be clean is all I say haha! I'm keeping my eyes peeled for local socials. Do you mean individual socials or attending clubs? D.C xx" Either. But I'd suspect attending a social in a vanilla venue will be less daunting than jumping straight into a club. | |||
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"Your profile and pics look fine to me. If you came over and said hello in a club I'd ask you to join us to see how we got on. So as people have previously said, patience and perseverance. If you don't mind being someone's fetish maybe have a look at the BMFC events. Thank you, Sin! That would be a massive treat to have the op to join you. This is all great, thanks for that. If you're into black men then that's great for me but I'm not looking to be someone's fetish really. Don't want to feel like a dummy. x I'm not into the idea of BMFC personally, someone's skin colour or ethnicity isn't a fetish for me. I just know some guys who've gone and had good nights at the events. I'd keep a look out for any socials in your area and go along. I'd love to know I'd be confident enough to attend BMFC but I'm not quite there year as I'm still newish to this whole scene. I'm like you, race & colour is by far the most insignificant thing to me. Just be clean is all I say haha! I'm keeping my eyes peeled for local socials. Do you mean individual socials or attending clubs? D.C xx Either. But I'd suspect attending a social in a vanilla venue will be less daunting than jumping straight into a club. " That's really sound advice. You've been a saint, Sin! Xx | |||
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"The only thing I can think is missing from your profile is what you can offer the ladies you meet other than that your profile is good and same with your pics" OF COURSE! Perfect. I plan on doing a second review once I finish work. More great advice, thanks C.A.P!! I'd always appreciate your 2 cents once I've done it if you've got the time to have a look x D.C | |||
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"Hmmm.. I'm not quite sure what (at my age I have a short attention span) but your profile has now "lost" something...individuality I think. Your profile is now generic: ergo forgettable. That said...your body isn't, so you may get away with it!
Oh no! I've now fallen into second guessing myself. I firstly went for a natural charming flare but began to think it came across as egotistical. Will have another look.
I promise you, it won't be a waste of your time if we connected when I got back. Even if it's just a simple coffe on Lordship Lane. I don't care if you think I'm old enough to be your dad "Lol...Dulwich Picture house do a nice cappuccino. Make it a Thursday (pensioners rates) and I can catch a movie if you get cold feet and free bikkies!  | |||
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"The only thing I can think is missing from your profile is what you can offer the ladies you meet other than that your profile is good and same with your pics OF COURSE! Perfect. I plan on doing a second review once I finish work. More great advice, thanks C.A.P!! I'd always appreciate your 2 cents once I've done it if you've got the time to have a look x D.C" Of course but it may be a little while after as I have to work tonight lol | |||
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"Hmmm.. I'm not quite sure what (at my age I have a short attention span) but your profile has now "lost" something...individuality I think. Your profile is now generic: ergo forgettable. That said...your body isn't, so you may get away with it!
Oh no! I've now fallen into second guessing myself. I firstly went for a natural charming flare but began to think it came across as egotistical. Will have another look.
I promise you, it won't be a waste of your time if we connected when I got back. Even if it's just a simple coffe on Lordship Lane. I don't care if you think I'm old enough to be your dad
Lol...Dulwich Picture house do a nice cappuccino. Make it a Thursday (pensioners rates) and I can catch a movie if you get cold feet and free bikkies! "Well lucky for you & me I'm a member of Picturehouse cinema so it's cheap cappuccinos on me anytime! Have I cracked it yet or do my eyes deceive me? Is that a quick cheeky cuppa with Miss_Tress when I get back?? If so then by all means take some of my details | |||
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"The only thing I can think is missing from your profile is what you can offer the ladies you meet other than that your profile is good and same with your pics OF COURSE! Perfect. I plan on doing a second review once I finish work. More great advice, thanks C.A.P!! I'd always appreciate your 2 cents once I've done it if you've got the time to have a look x D.C Of course but it may be a little while after as I have to work tonight lol" Oh I don't expect you to do it at an assigned time. Whenever is best for you! Xx | |||
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"The only thing I can think is missing from your profile is what you can offer the ladies you meet other than that your profile is good and same with your pics OF COURSE! Perfect. I plan on doing a second review once I finish work. More great advice, thanks C.A.P!! I'd always appreciate your 2 cents once I've done it if you've got the time to have a look x D.C Of course but it may be a little while after as I have to work tonight lol Oh I don't expect you to do it at an assigned time. Whenever is best for you! Xx" If it's quiet I may be able to have a peek | |||
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"Hmmm.. I'm not quite sure what (at my age I have a short attention span) but your profile has now "lost" something...individuality I think. Your profile is now generic: ergo forgettable. That said...your body isn't, so you may get away with it!
Oh no! I've now fallen into second guessing myself. I firstly went for a natural charming flare but began to think it came across as egotistical. Will have another look.
I promise you, it won't be a waste of your time if we connected when I got back. Even if it's just a simple coffe on Lordship Lane. I don't care if you think I'm old enough to be your dad
Lol...Dulwich Picture house do a nice cappuccino. Make it a Thursday (pensioners rates) and I can catch a movie if you get cold feet and free bikkies! "Blimey! I never thought I'd see that. OP, you've charmed the one person I expected to remain resolute. That says a lot. Join in other threads so more people can get to know you. | |||
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"The only thing I can think is missing from your profile is what you can offer the ladies you meet other than that your profile is good and same with your pics OF COURSE! Perfect. I plan on doing a second review once I finish work. More great advice, thanks C.A.P!! I'd always appreciate your 2 cents once I've done it if you've got the time to have a look x D.C Of course but it may be a little while after as I have to work tonight lol Oh I don't expect you to do it at an assigned time. Whenever is best for you! Xx If it's quiet I may be able to have a peek" Gosh I hope work isn't too stressful tonight. Want you to bring in the New Year with ease. All the best, I'll keep you posted about my profile but it really isn't that important. You can take your time with it x | |||
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"The only thing I can think is missing from your profile is what you can offer the ladies you meet other than that your profile is good and same with your pics OF COURSE! Perfect. I plan on doing a second review once I finish work. More great advice, thanks C.A.P!! I'd always appreciate your 2 cents once I've done it if you've got the time to have a look x D.C Of course but it may be a little while after as I have to work tonight lol Oh I don't expect you to do it at an assigned time. Whenever is best for you! Xx If it's quiet I may be able to have a peek Gosh I hope work isn't too stressful tonight. Want you to bring in the New Year with ease. All the best, I'll keep you posted about my profile but it really isn't that important. You can take your time with it x" Feel free to drop me a message if you like | |||
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"Hmmm.. I'm not quite sure what (at my age I have a short attention span) but your profile has now "lost" something...individuality I think. Your profile is now generic: ergo forgettable. That said...your body isn't, so you may get away with it!
Oh no! I've now fallen into second guessing myself. I firstly went for a natural charming flare but began to think it came across as egotistical. Will have another look.
I promise you, it won't be a waste of your time if we connected when I got back. Even if it's just a simple coffe on Lordship Lane. I don't care if you think I'm old enough to be your dad
Lol...Dulwich Picture house do a nice cappuccino. Make it a Thursday (pensioners rates) and I can catch a movie if you get cold feet and free bikkies!
Blimey! I never thought I'd see that. OP, you've charmed the one person I expected to remain resolute. That says a lot.
Join in other threads so more people can get to know you.
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"The only thing I can think is missing from your profile is what you can offer the ladies you meet other than that your profile is good and same with your pics OF COURSE! Perfect. I plan on doing a second review once I finish work. More great advice, thanks C.A.P!! I'd always appreciate your 2 cents once I've done it if you've got the time to have a look x D.C Of course but it may be a little while after as I have to work tonight lol Oh I don't expect you to do it at an assigned time. Whenever is best for you! Xx If it's quiet I may be able to have a peek Gosh I hope work isn't too stressful tonight. Want you to bring in the New Year with ease. All the best, I'll keep you posted about my profile but it really isn't that important. You can take your time with it x Feel free to drop me a message if you like " Now you're spoiling me! I'll definitely drop you a message Xx | |||
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"Something we find is that we often get messages just for being online, and we aren't available to meet.... Then we are called timewasters !!! I'd maybe just message the people who are actively seeking a meet, rather than just online. I dunno why youve not been inundated tbh x Fb" Haha thank you, that's a massive compliment and I'm taking it!! It would be so shallow of me to think the same way, everybody has their likes and dislikes, I can't expect to be everybody's cup of tea. Great advice too, I often do go for people who seem as though they're up for meets. Thanks Xx | |||
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"Nice pics OP, only thing I would say is would you really meet a 99yr old ? " If they're beautiful then I don't see why not!! Haha! I should probably have a look at that and make it more realistic. Thank you S.S Xx | |||
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"I find it odd when people say "I swear I'm a nice guy" Fred West wasn't ever going to introduce himself as what he really liked to do in his spare time was he? Get out and meet people go to socials go to clubs Of course there's that too! You're right, i do need to get to these clubs. Thanks!" Townhouse is only about 15 miles away from you & there are loads of great nights coming up in the next few months. There’s a Newbies night every Wednesday, so if you fancy trying it out, it’s a great way to start - it’s a really social, laid back event so you can find your feet & get to know the club & the people! I buddy some of the newbienights, so if you want to know anything, feel free to shout!! | |||
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"I find it odd when people say "I swear I'm a nice guy" Fred West wasn't ever going to introduce himself as what he really liked to do in his spare time was he? Get out and meet people go to socials go to clubs Of course there's that too! You're right, i do need to get to these clubs. Thanks! Townhouse is only about 15 miles away from you & there are loads of great nights coming up in the next few months. There’s a Newbies night every Wednesday, so if you fancy trying it out, it’s a great way to start - it’s a really social, laid back event so you can find your feet & get to know the club & the people! I buddy some of the newbienights, so if you want to know anything, feel free to shout!! "Amazing, amazing, amazing!!! Morticia, Townhouse has been on the top of my list for about half a year now and I'll finally be attending NEXT WEEK at MILF Monday. Will I see you there for a hello and some advice by any chance? If not, I certainly plan of going more often and I think a Newbies Night on Wednesday will be my next visit soon after. Ugh I'm now beaming! Townhouse had always looked the most appealing to me so I'm taking this as a sign to GO! HAPPY NEW YEAR! Xx D.C | |||
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"Wow, what a refreshing change on this type of thread! 0P, well done for acting on advice and responding to people who have posted on here for you! Keep up the good work, best of luck, Ms x" Thank you so much, Ms! I'm taking as much luck as I can get - I'm going to need it x | |||
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"Wow, what a refreshing change on this type of thread! 0P, well done for acting on advice and responding to people who have posted on here for you! Keep up the good work, best of luck, Ms x Thank you so much, Ms! I'm taking as much luck as I can get - I'm going to need it x" | |||
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"Wow, what a refreshing change on this type of thread! 0P, well done for acting on advice and responding to people who have posted on here for you! Keep up the good work, best of luck, Ms x Thank you so much, Ms! I'm taking as much luck as I can get - I'm going to need it x "Happy New Year to you, Woody!! Xx | |||
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Amazing, amazing, amazing!!! Morticia, Townhouse has been on the top of my list for about half a year now and I'll finally be attending NEXT WEEK at MILF Monday. Will I see you there for a hello and some advice by any chance? If not, I certainly plan of going more often and I think a Newbies Night on Wednesday will be my next visit soon after.
Ugh I'm now beaming! Townhouse had always looked the most appealing to me so I'm taking this as a sign to GO! HAPPY NEW YEAR! Xx
D.C "Sadly, I’m working on Monday, but Charlotte, the hostess for Milf Monday will look after you & it’s a great afternoon! If you do plan to go again, let me know & I’ll keep an eye out for you | |||
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"I find it odd when people say "I swear I'm a nice guy" Fred West wasn't ever going to introduce himself as what he really liked to do in his spare time was he? Get out and meet people go to socials go to clubs Of course there's that too! You're right, i do need to get to these clubs. Thanks! Townhouse is only about 15 miles away from you & there are loads of great nights coming up in the next few months. There’s a Newbies night every Wednesday, so if you fancy trying it out, it’s a great way to start - it’s a really social, laid back event so you can find your feet & get to know the club & the people! I buddy some of the newbienights, so if you want to know anything, feel free to shout!!
Amazing, amazing, amazing!!! Morticia, Townhouse has been on the top of my list for about half a year now and I'll finally be attending NEXT WEEK at MILF Monday. Will I see you there for a hello and some advice by any chance? If not, I certainly plan of going more often and I think a Newbies Night on Wednesday will be my next visit soon after.
Ugh I'm now beaming! Townhouse had always looked the most appealing to me so I'm taking this as a sign to GO! HAPPY NEW YEAR! Xx
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Sadly, I’m working on Monday, but Charlotte, the hostess for Milf Monday will look after you & it’s a great afternoon! If you do plan to go again, let me know & I’ll keep an eye out for you "Such a shame but you know you'll be the first person to know when I next visit! Very sweet of you, thank you Xx | |||
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"The only thing I can think is missing from your profile is what you can offer the ladies you meet other than that your profile is good and same with your pics OF COURSE! Perfect. I plan on doing a second review once I finish work. More great advice, thanks C.A.P!! I'd always appreciate your 2 cents once I've done it if you've got the time to have a look x D.C Of course but it may be a little while after as I have to work tonight lol Oh I don't expect you to do it at an assigned time. Whenever is best for you! Xx If it's quiet I may be able to have a peek Gosh I hope work isn't too stressful tonight. Want you to bring in the New Year with ease. All the best, I'll keep you posted about my profile but it really isn't that important. You can take your time with it x Feel free to drop me a message if you like " Hey Candy! I've done a little update of my bio with your advice in mind. Hope it comes across well, let me know what you think whenever you get a minute Xx D.C | |||
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"OP, you have done well in the short time you've been here and will get more meets. Top marks for replying to the posts in this thread. 90% of guys who post these don't bother or only reply to the odd one in a flirt. That in itself bodes well for you. Have fun." Thanks Bunandbuck. I guess because I had zero context one meet seemed poor to me, especially seeing how much fun everybody else seemed to be having. I understand now that I've actually started on a good foot! Happy New Year & thanks for the kind words Xx D.C | |||
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"Wowee, I've been constantly ignored left, right and centre! I've heard quite a few horror stories about guys on here being complete a-holes and I can wholeheartedly say I'm not that. What's a guy gotta do to get a simple hello back? All advice welcome! Is it my profile? I read all profiles I come across and if I'm interested write with that person in mind. I don't start straight at filthy sex chat and I can swear I'm a nice guy. Any help? Anyone? D.C " Its plain and simple and that is if your message and profile interests someone they will reply. If it disn't or puts them off it won't. In general for a woman its better not to reply with a "no thanks" as some pester why not some get abusive and so on. Just take it no reply is no for now wait a month and try again with a different message. x | |||
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"Its plain and simple and that is if your message and profile interests someone they will reply. If it disn't or puts them off it won't. In general for a woman its better not to reply with a "no thanks" as some pester why not some get abusive and so on. Just take it no reply is no for now wait a month and try again with a different message. x" This is true - it's also worth noting that people are busy, and just because you don't get an immediate response to a message that' been read, it doesn't mean you won't get one - some people can take days or weeks to reply, and that's OK... It would be nice to have some sort of limit on emails men can send before they get a response on here - that would at least limit the idiots that bombard women, and send dick pic after dick pic and a stupid short response. fancy a fuck? u ok hun? awrite babe? wot u up 2? Etc... | |||
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"Wowee, I've been constantly ignored left, right and centre! I've heard quite a few horror stories about guys on here being complete a-holes and I can wholeheartedly say I'm not that. What's a guy gotta do to get a simple hello back? All advice welcome! Is it my profile? I read all profiles I come across and if I'm interested write with that person in mind. I don't start straight at filthy sex chat and I can swear I'm a nice guy. Any help? Anyone? D.C Its plain and simple and that is if your message and profile interests someone they will reply. If it disn't or puts them off it won't. In general for a woman its better not to reply with a "no thanks" as some pester why not some get abusive and so on. Just take it no reply is no for now wait a month and try again with a different message. x" Again, so right! I did at first think I was quite rude to not at the very least reply to a message that's clearly been acknowledged, but your point is exactly on the nose. I blame all the gross Neanderthals that have no clue how to address a woman!
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"Its plain and simple and that is if your message and profile interests someone they will reply. If it disn't or puts them off it won't. In general for a woman its better not to reply with a "no thanks" as some pester why not some get abusive and so on. Just take it no reply is no for now wait a month and try again with a different message. x This is true - it's also worth noting that people are busy, and just because you don't get an immediate response to a message that' been read, it doesn't mean you won't get one - some people can take days or weeks to reply, and that's OK... It would be nice to have some sort of limit on emails men can send before they get a response on here - that would at least limit the idiots that bombard women, and send dick pic after dick pic and a stupid short response. fancy a fuck? u ok hun? awrite babe? wot u up 2? Etc..." Well you know part of my initial frustration came from knowing I wasn't one of those guys who had little to nothing to actually say but would rather make an effort and was still a victim of being ignored. But, as it's been mentioned in various forms in this forum, patience is a virtue! If I haven't got that point by now then I'm clearly hopeless. You're right, Luke! | |||
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"I think your profile is good. I like your pics I like your age and having read your comments on this thread you seem like a nice guy. I think the pint that has been made is that us females are just simply overwhelmed with messages and that could be more than likely why you’re ignored Good luck OP I really think you would be an asset to a club and this should help you to meet on here xx" Why thank you, D! I have no doubts now that ALL women on FAB have got tons and tons of messages - I'm sure all the messages I've set out have been a needle in a hey stack of dick 'ed's and crappy one liners. Really appreciate you having a look too and thank you for the compliment! Lovely lovely pictures you've got there yourself x D.C | |||
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"Just stay patient. It took me several weeks to even get near a meet. Before that I had several no shows and a number of long convos that lead to nothing. The ratios are heavily against men as the ladies get absolutely bombarded. I have many female friends on here now and they have messages in the hundreds per day apparently. So you can't even expect a simple hi as a reply really. In all fairness to ladies on here It's far too time consuming and probably longer hours than a full time job. My expectation is fairly low when it comes to meets and message replies despite my veris and profile etc. That way I'm not disappointed. Just stay patient i guess and don't expect to be meeting every day/week/month. Good luck." I feel like the BEST point you made was about you keeping your expectations low. That's gonna be me from now on I think, there's no point in keeping my hopes up, it'll only frustrate me in the end. If it hits then it hits and if not then that's fine too. Alex, you're a gent, mate! Cheers | |||
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"Dude, it's often ALL about timing. Women get hundreds of messages on here, and you have to send the right message, to the right person at the right time. Put yourself in their shoes - you've had a long day at work, you open Fab, you have 250 messages, 243 of them contain "hi hun" or "u ok babe?" or "fancy a fuck" and 4 photos of an awful looking penis taken in a slightly grubby bathroom, by some guy who lives alone in a bedsit in Scunthorpe... Now, what's your thought process going to be? Yes, it's delete delete delete, and barely bother to read the good ones because it's A) tiring, B) time consuming, and C) utterly pointless in the main. You have to consider it from the other side." Wow that's extremely insightful of you Lukethighwalker... And very true too. Timing is key. Plus you need to be in the moment... What's for you wont pass you. Well that's my perception only of course | |||
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"Dude, it's often ALL about timing. Women get hundreds of messages on here, and you have to send the right message, to the right person at the right time. Put yourself in their shoes - you've had a long day at work, you open Fab, you have 250 messages, 243 of them contain "hi hun" or "u ok babe?" or "fancy a fuck" and 4 photos of an awful looking penis taken in a slightly grubby bathroom, by some guy who lives alone in a bedsit in Scunthorpe... Now, what's your thought process going to be? Yes, it's delete delete delete, and barely bother to read the good ones because it's A) tiring, B) time consuming, and C) utterly pointless in the main. You have to consider it from the other side. Wow that's extremely insightful of you Lukethighwalker... And very true too. Timing is key. Plus you need to be in the moment... What's for you wont pass you. Well that's my perception only of course" It was great advice and yours is all the same too! I've always been in the moment with whoever it is I contact but not every moment is for me! Thanks Shewolf11 | |||
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"Dude, it's often ALL about timing. Women get hundreds of messages on here, and you have to send the right message, to the right person at the right time. Put yourself in their shoes - you've had a long day at work, you open Fab, you have 250 messages, 243 of them contain "hi hun" or "u ok babe?" or "fancy a fuck" and 4 photos of an awful looking penis taken in a slightly grubby bathroom, by some guy who lives alone in a bedsit in Scunthorpe... Now, what's your thought process going to be? Yes, it's delete delete delete, and barely bother to read the good ones because it's A) tiring, B) time consuming, and C) utterly pointless in the main. You have to consider it from the other side.this "I know, right?! Very insightful x | |||
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"I'll be brutal... You're young, black and you have been here for 7 weeks. Young = some will like that and others will see you as the same age as their children. Black = there are broadly 3 camps here: a) those that fetishise BBC and seek it; b) those that won't meet people of colour (but will claim preference and insist they are not racist); c) those that don't care but you might get paranoid and this they do. Seven weeks = it's a really short time and you've already done better than most at seven weeks. Men outnumber women by a huge amount. It's Christmas and people aren't as available as they are with families. It all gets a bit busier around March. For a lot of people this is a lifestyle and not a swipe left/right site. Your profile is fine. Your pictures are fine. Just be patient. Oh My God! Such perfect advice and so so honest! Thank you so much. When I get back to London I wanna catch you in a club somewhere and thank you in person, LicketySplits!! As far as the age thing goes, it's such a damn shame because I love and am generally attracted to women who're older than I am. Regarding my race & time spent online there's not really much I can do about that. I guess patience is the only card I can play here. Xx" That brutal post was exactly what you needed to know. I am sure you will get your fair share of Fab fun. Don't be greedy though... Festive season is over | |||
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"I think your profile is good. I like your pics I like your age and having read your comments on this thread you seem like a nice guy. I think the pint that has been made is that us females are just simply overwhelmed with messages and that could be more than likely why you’re ignored Good luck OP I really think you would be an asset to a club and this should help you to meet on here xx Why thank you, D! I have no doubts now that ALL women on FAB have got tons and tons of messages - I'm sure all the messages I've set out have been a needle in a hey stack of dick 'ed's and crappy one liners. Really appreciate you having a look too and thank you for the compliment! Lovely lovely pictures you've got there yourself x D.C " Not all women on fab get a ton of messages every day but even a few can take up quite a bit of time when you're trying to get to know the people at the other end. For what it's worth I think your profile is fine, it's short and to the point (could be longer but maybe that's just my preference) your photos are good, you have a very nice body and most of all you come across as a positive and friendly person. I'm sure you don't need it but good luck anyway | |||
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"Damn D.C very impressive! It is rare for newbies or new'ish forum users to keep things real and be cool. I'll be brutal... You're young, black and you have been here for 7 weeks. Young = some will like that and others will see you as the same age as their children. Black = there are broadly 3 camps here: a) those that fetishise BBC and seek it; b) those that won't meet people of colour (but will claim preference and insist they are not racist); c) those that don't care but you might get paranoid and this they do. Seven weeks = it's a really short time and you've already done better than most at seven weeks. Men outnumber women by a huge amount. It's Christmas and people aren't as available as they are with families. It all gets a bit busier around March. For a lot of people this is a lifestyle and not a swipe left/right site. Your profile is fine. Your pictures are fine. Just be patient. Oh My God! Such perfect advice and so so honest! Thank you so much. When I get back to London I wanna catch you in a club somewhere and thank you in person, LicketySplits!! As far as the age thing goes, it's such a damn shame because I love and am generally attracted to women who're older than I am. Regarding my race & time spent online there's not really much I can do about that. I guess patience is the only card I can play here. Xx That brutal post was exactly what you needed to know. I am sure you will get your fair share of Fab fun. Don't be greedy though... Festive season is over "Cheers Adam. Keeping it chilled because if there is any place that really shouldn't be stressful it's here! This should all be fun, right? Thanks for your kind words. I do have a massive appetite though so being greedy is a necessity for me
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"I think your profile is good. I like your pics I like your age and having read your comments on this thread you seem like a nice guy. I think the pint that has been made is that us females are just simply overwhelmed with messages and that could be more than likely why you’re ignored Good luck OP I really think you would be an asset to a club and this should help you to meet on here xx Why thank you, D! I have no doubts now that ALL women on FAB have got tons and tons of messages - I'm sure all the messages I've set out have been a needle in a hey stack of dick 'ed's and crappy one liners. Really appreciate you having a look too and thank you for the compliment! Lovely lovely pictures you've got there yourself x D.C Not all women on fab get a ton of messages every day but even a few can take up quite a bit of time when you're trying to get to know the people at the other end. For what it's worth I think your profile is fine, it's short and to the point (could be longer but maybe that's just my preference) your photos are good, you have a very nice body and most of all you come across as a positive and friendly person. I'm sure you don't need it but good luck anyway"It's worth A LOT so thank you for sharing your opinion. Seems as though I've managed to clearly articulate my personality & character without sounding like someone I'm not - fantastic! I always have kept in the back of my mind to not bore the reader by writing up my whole memoir in my bio. I'll now give it another review and see if there's room for a little beefing up. You're so kind, thanks for the compliments Highland_Rose!! Also (silly thought) because you're from Scotland and you have the word highland in your username I automatically think of the scotch whisky Highland Park - you've kicked my alcoholic brain into overdrive, IT'S TOO EARLY IN THE MORNING FOR THESE THOUGHTS!! | |||
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"Dude, it's often ALL about timing. Women get hundreds of messages on here, and you have to send the right message, to the right person at the right time. Put yourself in their shoes - you've had a long day at work, you open Fab, you have 250 messages, 243 of them contain "hi hun" or "u ok babe?" or "fancy a fuck" and 4 photos of an awful looking penis taken in a slightly grubby bathroom, by some guy who lives alone in a bedsit in Scunthorpe... Now, what's your thought process going to be? Yes, it's delete delete delete, and barely bother to read the good ones because it's A) tiring, B) time consuming, and C) utterly pointless in the main. You have to consider it from the other side." dontslag Scunthorpe off mate lol we don't all live in bedsits | |||
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"Dude, it's often ALL about timing. Women get hundreds of messages on here, and you have to send the right message, to the right person at the right time. Put yourself in their shoes - you've had a long day at work, you open Fab, you have 250 messages, 243 of them contain "hi hun" or "u ok babe?" or "fancy a fuck" and 4 photos of an awful looking penis taken in a slightly grubby bathroom, by some guy who lives alone in a bedsit in Scunthorpe... Now, what's your thought process going to be? Yes, it's delete delete delete, and barely bother to read the good ones because it's A) tiring, B) time consuming, and C) utterly pointless in the main. You have to consider it from the other side.dontslag Scunthorpe off mate lol we don't all live in bedsits" Haha! this made me laugh. Funny enough, I've actually been to Scunthorpe and had quite a nice time so I can vouch for the place. Very fond memories! | |||
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"Cheers Adam. Keeping it chilled because if there is any place that really shouldn't be stressful it's here! This should all be fun, right? Thanks for your kind words. I do have a massive appetite though so being greedy is a necessity for me
All the best and HAPPY NEW YEAR!
D.C"Well I never... massive appetite you know. Being on here can certainly help you with that. Haha I like the way you think! No doubt our paths will cross at some point in the club/social scene. Fab has the fun factor all over it especially in the forums. Please do explore all the different sections of site. You will discover many hidden gems to get what you joined for... | |||
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"Cheers Adam. Keeping it chilled because if there is any place that really shouldn't be stressful it's here! This should all be fun, right? Thanks for your kind words. I do have a massive appetite though so being greedy is a necessity for me
All the best and HAPPY NEW YEAR!
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Well I never... massive appetite you know. Being on here can certainly help you with that.
Haha I like the way you think!
No doubt our paths will cross at some point in the club/social scene. Fab has the fun factor all over it especially in the forums.
Please do explore all the different sections of site. You will discover many hidden gems to get what you joined for..."Well hopefully our paths do cross. I'll be sure to have a deeper dive into Fab! This forum also has shown me new depth. You're a legend, mate! D.C | |||
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"Belated happy new year, OP. If you were local, I'd meet you. So lovely you have such a positive attitude and good manners xxx "Indeed Makes a bloomin' change | |||
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"Belated happy new year, OP. If you were local, I'd meet you. So lovely you have such a positive attitude and good manners xxx "Happy Belated to to you too, MsGivsWood! Maybe, JUST maybe, we could connect. I'm originally from down south (South East to be exact) and will be headin back home in a couple weeks time. I'll certainly give you a shout to see if we could make this happen drop me a message anytime.
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"Belated happy new year, OP. If you were local, I'd meet you. So lovely you have such a positive attitude and good manners xxx
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"Wowee, I've been constantly ignored left, right and centre! I've heard quite a few horror stories about guys on here being complete a-holes and I can wholeheartedly say I'm not that. What's a guy gotta do to get a simple hello back? All advice welcome! Is it my profile? I read all profiles I come across and if I'm interested write with that person in mind. I don't start straight at filthy sex chat and I can swear I'm a nice guy. Any help? Anyone? D.C " Hi lovely! There are great events on at clubs in the forth west! I’d suggest particularly events at the Townhouse in Birkenhead and Cupids - which I see you’ve already been to? I lot of people play mainly at clubs rather than going through the hassle of arranging meets and possibly getting let down - so that may be the way forward for you Hun! | |||
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"Wowee, I've been constantly ignored left, right and centre! I've heard quite a few horror stories about guys on here being complete a-holes and I can wholeheartedly say I'm not that. What's a guy gotta do to get a simple hello back? All advice welcome! Is it my profile? I read all profiles I come across and if I'm interested write with that person in mind. I don't start straight at filthy sex chat and I can swear I'm a nice guy. Any help? Anyone? D.C Hi lovely! There are great events on at clubs in the forth west! I’d suggest particularly events at the Townhouse in Birkenhead and Cupids - which I see you’ve already been to? I lot of people play mainly at clubs rather than going through the hassle of arranging meets and possibly getting let down - so that may be the way forward for you Hun! "..... and the North West too! | |||
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"Belated happy new year, OP. If you were local, I'd meet you. So lovely you have such a positive attitude and good manners xxx
Happy Belated to to you too, MsGivsWood!
Maybe, JUST maybe, we could connect. I'm originally from down south (South East to be exact) and will be headin back home in a couple weeks time. I'll certainly give you a shout to see if we could make this happen drop me a message anytime.
Happy Friday! Xx
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"Wowee, I've been constantly ignored left, right and centre! I've heard quite a few horror stories about guys on here being complete a-holes and I can wholeheartedly say I'm not that. What's a guy gotta do to get a simple hello back? All advice welcome! Is it my profile? I read all profiles I come across and if I'm interested write with that person in mind. I don't start straight at filthy sex chat and I can swear I'm a nice guy. Any help? Anyone? D.C " Well, i can see one problem.. You can't accommodate. This is seen by others, enough evidence that your a cheat, and should be executed forthwith.. You fuckin evil, horrid cheating bastard!
Another, is theres shit loads of guys on here, so your messages are just 1 of hundreds and just not read.
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"You have only been on 8 weeks and you have a verification already. That's pretty good in my book. Your profile and pics look fine to me. Thingy Xx" Wow thanks for having a look, Paula! I love your profile & photos so it means a lot coming from you. Like I've said before, everybody so far has put this sight into amazing context for me, so I now know that 8 weeks is actually rather quick as opposed to having no hope. Thanks for taking the time out to give me a shout.
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"Wowee, I've been constantly ignored left, right and centre! I've heard quite a few horror stories about guys on here being complete a-holes and I can wholeheartedly say I'm not that. What's a guy gotta do to get a simple hello back? All advice welcome! Is it my profile? I read all profiles I come across and if I'm interested write with that person in mind. I don't start straight at filthy sex chat and I can swear I'm a nice guy. Any help? Anyone? D.C Hi lovely! There are great events on at clubs in the forth west! I’d suggest particularly events at the Townhouse in Birkenhead and Cupids - which I see you’ve already been to? I lot of people play mainly at clubs rather than going through the hassle of arranging meets and possibly getting let down - so that may be the way forward for you Hun!
..... and the North West too! "Peachy, I'M ON IT! Yes you're right, I have been to Cupids! It was my very first time at a club and extremely insightful & memorable. AND I'll be heading to Townhouse next week for MILF Monday which I'm really looking forward to. So when I say I'm on it, I really mean I'M ON IT! Haha taking in all the advice I can get. Funny enough, you were actually one of the people I dropped a message to to say hey and it fell on deaf ears, I'm clearly not your type which is ok. Great to connect with you on this level! Hopefully I'll catch you in a club sometime Xx D.C | |||
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"Belated happy new year, OP. If you were local, I'd meet you. So lovely you have such a positive attitude and good manners xxx
Happy Belated to to you too, MsGivsWood!
Maybe, JUST maybe, we could connect. I'm originally from down south (South East to be exact) and will be headin back home in a couple weeks time. I'll certainly give you a shout to see if we could make this happen drop me a message anytime.
Happy Friday! Xx
D.Chow strange so am I lol. Surrey and Hampshire "How very strange indeed! I can do Surry, I've very fond memories of Kingston and all the surrounding areas. Unless you're from further out? Let's connect! I'll drop you a message later this eve after work Xx D.C | |||
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"Wowee, I've been constantly ignored left, right and centre! I've heard quite a few horror stories about guys on here being complete a-holes and I can wholeheartedly say I'm not that. What's a guy gotta do to get a simple hello back? All advice welcome! Is it my profile? I read all profiles I come across and if I'm interested write with that person in mind. I don't start straight at filthy sex chat and I can swear I'm a nice guy. Any help? Anyone? D.C Well, i can see one problem.. You can't accommodate. This is seen by others, enough evidence that your a cheat, and should be executed forthwith.. You fuckin evil, horrid cheating bastard!
Another, is theres shit loads of guys on here, so your messages are just 1 of hundreds and just not read.
"You know what, AfterHrs, you've touched on a very good point which I've never considered! Thanks so much. I need to be very clear about by marital status. Not being able to accommodate can definitely be a handicap and it's not doing me any favours but not saying I DON'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND/WIFE! Will certainly be making another rewrite. You're very right and thanks again
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"Wowee, I've been constantly ignored left, right and centre! I've heard quite a few horror stories about guys on here being complete a-holes and I can wholeheartedly say I'm not that. What's a guy gotta do to get a simple hello back? All advice welcome! Is it my profile? I read all profiles I come across and if I'm interested write with that person in mind. I don't start straight at filthy sex chat and I can swear I'm a nice guy. Any help? Anyone? D.C Hi lovely! There are great events on at clubs in the forth west! I’d suggest particularly events at the Townhouse in Birkenhead and Cupids - which I see you’ve already been to? I lot of people play mainly at clubs rather than going through the hassle of arranging meets and possibly getting let down - so that may be the way forward for you Hun!
..... and the North West too!
Peachy, I'M ON IT! Yes you're right, I have been to Cupids! It was my very first time at a club and extremely insightful & memorable. AND I'll be heading to Townhouse next week for MILF Monday which I'm really looking forward to. So when I say I'm on it, I really mean I'M ON IT! Haha taking in all the advice I can get.
Funny enough, you were actually one of the people I dropped a message to to say hey and it fell on deaf ears, I'm clearly not your type which is ok. Great to connect with you on this level! Hopefully I'll catch you in a club sometime Xx
D.C "No idea until I see/chat to you whether you’re my type or not Hun. Currently got over 1500 messages so rarely get to keep in top of them sadly. Suggest you message again in a few weeks? Or stick around on the forums as I’m on here occasionally! Xx | |||
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"Wowee, I've been constantly ignored left, right and centre! I've heard quite a few horror stories about guys on here being complete a-holes and I can wholeheartedly say I'm not that. What's a guy gotta do to get a simple hello back? All advice welcome! Is it my profile? I read all profiles I come across and if I'm interested write with that person in mind. I don't start straight at filthy sex chat and I can swear I'm a nice guy. Any help? Anyone? D.C Hi lovely! There are great events on at clubs in the forth west! I’d suggest particularly events at the Townhouse in Birkenhead and Cupids - which I see you’ve already been to? I lot of people play mainly at clubs rather than going through the hassle of arranging meets and possibly getting let down - so that may be the way forward for you Hun!
..... and the North West too!
Peachy, I'M ON IT! Yes you're right, I have been to Cupids! It was my very first time at a club and extremely insightful & memorable. AND I'll be heading to Townhouse next week for MILF Monday which I'm really looking forward to. So when I say I'm on it, I really mean I'M ON IT! Haha taking in all the advice I can get.
Funny enough, you were actually one of the people I dropped a message to to say hey and it fell on deaf ears, I'm clearly not your type which is ok. Great to connect with you on this level! Hopefully I'll catch you in a club sometime Xx
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No idea until I see/chat to you whether you’re my type or not Hun. Currently got over 1500 messages so rarely get to keep in top of them sadly.
Suggest you message again in a few weeks? Or stick around on the forums as I’m on here occasionally! Xx"By saying you've currently got 1500 messages you've summed up the exact reason WHY I NEED TO CHILL!! 1500?! That's insane! ^^^ Let this be a lesson to us all haha
I'll be sure to drop you a message again soon but who's to say it won't get lost again? I'll try none the less. Xx | |||
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if you could HELP ME make that happen I'd be forever indebted to you all HAHA! Someone drop her a message for me!)
BUT I do plan on making Townhouse, Cupids and other northern clubs my regulars when it comes to play so I'll be sure to keep you all posted somehow.
Essay over!
Much Love & Respect X
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