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"Not sure what I'm doing wrong and would appreciate some pointers because at the end of the day in here for the same reason most here are and that's to have a good time with good people. But sadly I feel unwanted and that I've made a mistake in signing up Could I have some feed back regarding my profile please Dick pics: am I better to supply on demand so that their not in people's faces or should I just go freeview ? Getting verified: atm I don't have a pc so im only mobile for the time being Can anyone recommend meets socials etc near me ( west London) so I can prove that I am me? or if you have an alternative method " you’ve been given very good advice on other threads op | |||
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"Not sure what I'm doing wrong and would appreciate some pointers because at the end of the day in here for the same reason most here are and that's to have a good time with good people. But sadly I feel unwanted and that I've made a mistake in signing up Could I have some feed back regarding my profile please Dick pics: am I better to supply on demand so that their not in people's faces or should I just go freeview ? Getting verified: atm I don't have a pc so im only mobile for the time being Can anyone recommend meets socials etc near me ( west London) so I can prove that I am me? or if you have an alternative method you’ve been given very good advice on other threads op " This | |||
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"Thanks how ever I'm smiling in my new pics I don't harrase people if I don't get a reply I move on Should my profile contain my fucking life story? " dont start any more threads op as you clearly don’t like the responses, very rude | |||
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"Thanks how ever I'm smiling in my new pics I don't harrase people if I don't get a reply I move on Should my profile contain my fucking life story? dont start any more threads op as you clearly don’t like the responses, very rude " I've followed the advice how ever I'm getting absolutely no where but hey what more can I do | |||
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"Thanks how ever I'm smiling in my new pics I don't harrase people if I don't get a reply I move on Should my profile contain my fucking life story? dont start any more threads op as you clearly don’t like the responses, very rude I've followed the advice how ever I'm getting absolutely no where but hey what more can I do " Take a chill pill op. You are just a mere drop in the ocean full of men in your situation. Seems you are getting a bit frustrated due to lack of responses...perhaps change your attitude of fab swingers? Its not insta shag. And there is no magic 1 size fits all responses. Good luck fella. | |||
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"Thanks how ever I'm smiling in my new pics I don't harrase people if I don't get a reply I move on Should my profile contain my fucking life story? dont start any more threads op as you clearly don’t like the responses, very rude I've followed the advice how ever I'm getting absolutely no where but hey what more can I do " I followed the green arrow, your previous threads all contain good advice, I have no idea what your profile looked like before or if you've followed advice previously given. But from the timing of your posts, all very recent, are you really expecting overnight success? If so, then you're seriously out of luck. Just because you signed up to this site does not guarantee you'll get women throwing themselves at you, the opposite in fact. Sheer ratios dictate that women can be choosy and unless your profile, pics & messages have the wow factor, then you really need to up your game And several of your comments on this thread - not going to win you friends | |||
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"Thanks how ever I'm smiling in my new pics I don't harrase people if I don't get a reply I move on Should my profile contain my fucking life story? dont start any more threads op as you clearly don’t like the responses, very rude I've followed the advice how ever I'm getting absolutely no where but hey what more can I do I followed the green arrow, your previous threads all contain good advice, I have no idea what your profile looked like before or if you've followed advice previously given. But from the timing of your posts, all very recent, are you really expecting overnight success? If so, then you're seriously out of luck. Just because you signed up to this site does not guarantee you'll get women throwing themselves at you, the opposite in fact. Sheer ratios dictate that women can be choosy and unless your profile, pics & messages have the wow factor, then you really need to up your game And several of your comments on this thread - not going to win you friends " This.. | |||
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"Thanks how ever I'm smiling in my new pics I don't harrase people if I don't get a reply I move on Should my profile contain my fucking life story? dont start any more threads op as you clearly don’t like the responses, very rude I've followed the advice how ever I'm getting absolutely no where but hey what more can I do I followed the green arrow, your previous threads all contain good advice, I have no idea what your profile looked like before or if you've followed advice previously given. But from the timing of your posts, all very recent, are you really expecting overnight success? If so, then you're seriously out of luck. Just because you signed up to this site does not guarantee you'll get women throwing themselves at you, the opposite in fact. Sheer ratios dictate that women can be choosy and unless your profile, pics & messages have the wow factor, then you really need to up your game And several of your comments on this thread - not going to win you friends " I followed the yellow brick road but Toto still had to go and I didn't have a pooper scooper | |||
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"Men can be on here for months- even years- without meeting anyone. Men far outnumber women. Realistically, the chance of meeting is very low." Why is everyone going on about me wanting to meet people right away ... I've asked about social meets i.e at pubs clubs etc not one2one | |||
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"Men can be on here for months- even years- without meeting anyone. Men far outnumber women. Realistically, the chance of meeting is very low. Why is everyone going on about me wanting to meet people right away ... I've asked about social meets i.e at pubs clubs etc not one2one " Then look in the meets section all socials are posted on there and tbh there are some very fit lads on here and if your profile dont stand out then you wont even get looked at | |||
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"Not sure what I'm doing wrong and would appreciate some pointers because at the end of the day in here for the same reason most here are and that's to have a good time with good people. But sadly I feel unwanted and that I've made a mistake in signing up Could I have some feed back regarding my profile please Dick pics: am I better to supply on demand so that their not in people's faces or should I just go freeview ? Getting verified: atm I don't have a pc so im only mobile for the time being Can anyone recommend meets socials etc near me ( west London) so I can prove that I am me? or if you have an alternative method " 1) Attitude is wrong, lots of ladies read the forums and will find your tone unattractive. 2) Dick pics for most women are a no no, we see enough on here. 3) Your photos are not good, you look like you have been photographed from ‘a line up’ get my drift? I wish you all the luck, you’re gonna need it. If I was looking which I’m not then you would’nt be my cup of tea | |||
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"Men can be on here for months- even years- without meeting anyone. Men far outnumber women. Realistically, the chance of meeting is very low. Why is everyone going on about me wanting to meet people right away ... I've asked about social meets i.e at pubs clubs etc not one2one " Sorry it was just a general comment, my fault. Try the Meets section of the forum. | |||
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"I'd say a profile re write, some new pics less the last one which is fine to keep. There are a lot of women and couples that are only looking for hot muscley "studs" but equally there are many that would rather meet a normal but genuine and nice guy. I get you are frustrated from your posts but even if you dont intend it to some have come across badly which is going to be a bigger bar to anyone to meet than even poor pictures or a badly written profile. (dont copy mine as it was just thrown together this time around) The best way to get verified and meet is clubs for a single guy tbh. And id let these posts get lost in time. Will" Thanks Bill | |||
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"I'd say a profile re write, some new pics less the last one which is fine to keep. There are a lot of women and couples that are only looking for hot muscley "studs" but equally there are many that would rather meet a normal but genuine and nice guy. I get you are frustrated from your posts but even if you dont intend it to some have come across badly which is going to be a bigger bar to anyone to meet than even poor pictures or a badly written profile. (dont copy mine as it was just thrown together this time around) The best way to get verified and meet is clubs for a single guy tbh. And id let these posts get lost in time. Will Thanks Bill " drop me a pm and ill give you some specific pointers about the pictures, its basically just how you market yourself | |||
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"It's swinging not insta shag, you've been here two weeks, that's nothing. Getting arsey with people trying to help will do you no favours apart to get put on people's block lists. Loads of threads on cock pics, me personally...I know what they look like, never been persuaded by one. If I wanted to see one I'd ask to. Before you say but women have pics with bits out, women think very, very differently to men. I don't know why, probably because I think dirty water but I really dislike bath pictures. I don't see the point either...to me it's boring everyday task like putting the kettle on" Fine I'll take pic whilst making tea | |||
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"I've deleted all pics apart from 1 and profile text has been changed " I still think your profile needs work. Sulky looking and nothing to say. Good luck OP. | |||
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"I've deleted all pics apart from 1 and profile text has been changed " You may have changed the profile, but your not smiling in your picture! Think about what women want in a man away from the swinging scene. The bit about I want to get into the social / club scene, that may put people off as your scared of going to event and it seems you want someone to hold your hand. A social is not much different than going into a pub. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 26/12/17 12:51:47]" I like your new profile pic much better more sexier x | |||
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"Profile again updates new pics with me smiling now added and one of me jelly belly torso too ???? don't complain you asked for it " 1) the jelly belly pic has put me off my dinner. 2) the first 3 pics, I’d that a hospital gown you are wearing? | |||
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"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise. " I've taken people's advice I've changed my profile about 5 times, removed and changed pics But hey look I can't and nor can anyone else provide a profile or pics that keeps everyone happy it's just not possible. I didnt sign up for this I joined to find nice fun friendly people who like to have a good time | |||
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"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise. " I think he's fully aware of that now and has apologised, no need to labour the point hun. | |||
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"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise. I've taken people's advice I've changed my profile about 5 times, removed and changed pics But hey look I can't and nor can anyone else provide a profile or pics that keeps everyone happy it's just not possible. I didnt sign up for this I joined to find nice fun friendly people who like to have a good time " For a single Male on here changing his profile is an ongoing challenge. Remember the amount of Male members outweigh female members so female members have lots of choice so you need a profile which sells yourself. Do not expect women to fall at your feet! Women on this site are not desperate for any man they want a man who appeals to them. Take a look around the site, see the men who are impressing women, look at their profiles, think like them. ‘Hospital gown’ type pics definitely will not attract a woman neither will sulky faced pics posing at the side of a wall mounted clock | |||
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"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise. I've taken people's advice I've changed my profile about 5 times, removed and changed pics But hey look I can't and nor can anyone else provide a profile or pics that keeps everyone happy it's just not possible. I didnt sign up for this I joined to find nice fun friendly people who like to have a good time For a single Male on here changing his profile is an ongoing challenge. Remember the amount of Male members outweigh female members so female members have lots of choice so you need a profile which sells yourself. Do not expect women to fall at your feet! Women on this site are not desperate for any man they want a man who appeals to them. Take a look around the site, see the men who are impressing women, look at their profiles, think like them. ‘Hospital gown’ type pics definitely will not attract a woman neither will sulky faced pics posing at the side of a wall mounted clock " Are you smiling in your shoes? | |||
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"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise. I've taken people's advice I've changed my profile about 5 times, removed and changed pics But hey look I can't and nor can anyone else provide a profile or pics that keeps everyone happy it's just not possible. I didnt sign up for this I joined to find nice fun friendly people who like to have a good time For a single Male on here changing his profile is an ongoing challenge. Remember the amount of Male members outweigh female members so female members have lots of choice so you need a profile which sells yourself. Do not expect women to fall at your feet! Women on this site are not desperate for any man they want a man who appeals to them. Take a look around the site, see the men who are impressing women, look at their profiles, think like them. ‘Hospital gown’ type pics definitely will not attract a woman neither will sulky faced pics posing at the side of a wall mounted clock Are you smiling in your shoes?" Of course! | |||
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"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise. I've taken people's advice I've changed my profile about 5 times, removed and changed pics But hey look I can't and nor can anyone else provide a profile or pics that keeps everyone happy it's just not possible. I didnt sign up for this I joined to find nice fun friendly people who like to have a good time " Just ignore the 'advice' & bitchiness and have the pics and text that *you* want. As you've already found, no matter what pics or text you have on your profile, someone will say it's shit. You could be here forever changing your profile trying to please people that just love to put people down on the forums! Your idea of going to a social sounds like a good plan. | |||
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"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise. I've taken people's advice I've changed my profile about 5 times, removed and changed pics But hey look I can't and nor can anyone else provide a profile or pics that keeps everyone happy it's just not possible. I didnt sign up for this I joined to find nice fun friendly people who like to have a good time For a single Male on here changing his profile is an ongoing challenge. Remember the amount of Male members outweigh female members so female members have lots of choice so you need a profile which sells yourself. Do not expect women to fall at your feet! Women on this site are not desperate for any man they want a man who appeals to them. Take a look around the site, see the men who are impressing women, look at their profiles, think like them. ‘Hospital gown’ type pics definitely will not attract a woman neither will sulky faced pics posing at the side of a wall mounted clock Are you smiling in your shoes? Of course! " They look like orthopaedic shoes | |||
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"Honest opinion here op and I think a lot of women think the same I read forums and when I see someone ask for help but get the arse when given good advice, it makes me wanna block them. You are doing yourself no favours " What is it that people want me to say ? I've apologised for my manner now all I want to do is get on with enjoying the site and it's fab people | |||
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"Honest opinion here op and I think a lot of women think the same I read forums and when I see someone ask for help but get the arse when given good advice, it makes me wanna block them. You are doing yourself no favours What is it that people want me to say ? I've apologised for my manner now all I want to do is get on with enjoying the site and it's fab people " So do it then, get yourself to socials clubs etc x | |||
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"Honest opinion here op and I think a lot of women think the same I read forums and when I see someone ask for help but get the arse when given good advice, it makes me wanna block them. You are doing yourself no favours What is it that people want me to say ? I've apologised for my manner now all I want to do is get on with enjoying the site and it's fab people " Sending an inbox to ppl because they give an opinion, don't win you friends either | |||
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"How long ago was the photo with the clock taken?" A night or so ago Christmas drink makes head go fussy | |||
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"Final profile change those who don't like it can kiss my left ball sack. ?????? Now let's stop fighting cos I love you all really " | |||
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"Final profile change those who don't like it can kiss my left ball sack. ?????? Now let's stop fighting cos I love you all really " oh dear.. | |||
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"Btw I don't and never in my life expected woman to fall at my feet and for people to say that I do with out getting to know is uncalled for " Tra la la tra la la OP I think is now attention seeking.... | |||
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"Btw I don't and never in my life expected woman to fall at my feet and for people to say that I do with out getting to know is uncalled for " Just ignore them. They don't know you so who gives a fuck what they think? Plenty of people on threads like these just love to take the piss while being utterly oblivious that they come across in a dreadful way. | |||
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"Btw I don't and never in my life expected woman to fall at my feet and for people to say that I do with out getting to know is uncalled for Tra la la tra la la OP I think is now attention seeking.... " I love those shoes! | |||
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"Btw I don't and never in my life expected woman to fall at my feet and for people to say that I do with out getting to know is uncalled for Tra la la tra la la OP I think is now attention seeking.... I love those shoes! " Thank you Kitty Kat x | |||
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"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise. I've taken people's advice I've changed my profile about 5 times, removed and changed pics But hey look I can't and nor can anyone else provide a profile or pics that keeps everyone happy it's just not possible. I didnt sign up for this I joined to find nice fun friendly people who like to have a good time For a single Male on here changing his profile is an ongoing challenge. Remember the amount of Male members outweigh female members so female members have lots of choice so you need a profile which sells yourself. Do not expect women to fall at your feet! Women on this site are not desperate for any man they want a man who appeals to them. Take a look around the site, see the men who are impressing women, look at their profiles, think like them. ‘Hospital gown’ type pics definitely will not attract a woman neither will sulky faced pics posing at the side of a wall mounted clock Are you smiling in your shoes? Of course! and wemon who take pics of their shoes are you ashamed of your face .... hmmm also hid profile lol don't judge him when you cant even show yours " But he asked for judgement Indeed, he has been actively courting it | |||
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"Btw I don't and never in my life expected woman to fall at my feet and for people to say that I do with out getting to know is uncalled for Just ignore them. They don't know you so who gives a fuck what they think? Plenty of people on threads like these just love to take the piss while being utterly oblivious that they come across in a dreadful way. " | |||
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"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise. I've taken people's advice I've changed my profile about 5 times, removed and changed pics But hey look I can't and nor can anyone else provide a profile or pics that keeps everyone happy it's just not possible. I didnt sign up for this I joined to find nice fun friendly people who like to have a good time For a single Male on here changing his profile is an ongoing challenge. Remember the amount of Male members outweigh female members so female members have lots of choice so you need a profile which sells yourself. Do not expect women to fall at your feet! Women on this site are not desperate for any man they want a man who appeals to them. Take a look around the site, see the men who are impressing women, look at their profiles, think like them. ‘Hospital gown’ type pics definitely will not attract a woman neither will sulky faced pics posing at the side of a wall mounted clock Are you smiling in your shoes? Of course! and wemon who take pics of their shoes are you ashamed of your face .... hmmm also hid profile lol don't judge him when you cant even show yours She wasn't asking for profile advise. And if she's hidden her profile it's nobody's else's business why. Perhaps she's had crap in her inbox because of posting on here which is frequently the case?! Thank you honey, you’re on the right lines but it’s nothing to do with the trolls on here if my profile is hidden. They just confirm what trolls are! Making nasty comments then checking out profiles to comment on here about what’s in the profile. I’m reporting her so she’ll get a ban! " glad you're OK xxx | |||
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"Btw I don't and never in my life expected woman to fall at my feet and for people to say that I do with out getting to know is uncalled for Just ignore them. They don't know you so who gives a fuck what they think? Plenty of people on threads like these just love to take the piss while being utterly oblivious that they come across in a dreadful way. " I agree with Steels, so OP I would ignore the people who labour a point over and over.The forum is only used by a small number of members so what they say on it is not gospel Your profile looks fine, you will attract someone with it from the many members who use the site just for meeting so I am sure they will find you. In the meantime maybe stick around the forum while you wait Good luck ( I will shut it for you now ) | |||
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