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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure what I'm doing wrong and would appreciate some pointers because at the end of the day in here for the same reason most here are and that's to have a good time with good people.

But sadly I feel unwanted and that I've made a mistake in signing up

Could I have some feed back regarding my profile please

Dick pics: am I better to supply on demand so that their not in people's faces or should I just go freeview ?

Getting verified: atm I don't have a pc so im only mobile for the time being

Can anyone recommend meets socials etc near me ( west London) so I can prove that I am me? or if you have an alternative method

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Not sure what I'm doing wrong and would appreciate some pointers because at the end of the day in here for the same reason most here are and that's to have a good time with good people.

But sadly I feel unwanted and that I've made a mistake in signing up

Could I have some feed back regarding my profile please

Dick pics: am I better to supply on demand so that their not in people's faces or should I just go freeview ?

Getting verified: atm I don't have a pc so im only mobile for the time being

Can anyone recommend meets socials etc near me ( west London) so I can prove that I am me? or if you have an alternative method

"

you’ve been given very good advice on other threads op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure what I'm doing wrong and would appreciate some pointers because at the end of the day in here for the same reason most here are and that's to have a good time with good people.

But sadly I feel unwanted and that I've made a mistake in signing up

Could I have some feed back regarding my profile please

Dick pics: am I better to supply on demand so that their not in people's faces or should I just go freeview ?

Getting verified: atm I don't have a pc so im only mobile for the time being

Can anyone recommend meets socials etc near me ( west London) so I can prove that I am me? or if you have an alternative method

you’ve been given very good advice on other threads op "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks how ever

I'm smiling in my new pics

I don't harrase people if I don't get a reply I move on

Should my profile contain my fucking life story?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to get arsey!

Maybe it's your bloody attitude that is holding you back! You've posted 4 of these threads with so much help given to you and nothing!

If you can't take the advise given then stop asking as your clearly not using it!

Very horrible attitude to have!

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Thanks how ever

I'm smiling in my new pics

I don't harrase people if I don't get a reply I move on

Should my profile contain my fucking life story? "

dont start any more threads op as you clearly don’t like the responses, very rude

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks how ever

I'm smiling in my new pics

I don't harrase people if I don't get a reply I move on

Should my profile contain my fucking life story? dont start any more threads op as you clearly don’t like the responses, very rude "

I've followed the advice how ever I'm getting absolutely no where but hey what more can I do

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston


"Thanks how ever

I'm smiling in my new pics

I don't harrase people if I don't get a reply I move on

Should my profile contain my fucking life story? dont start any more threads op as you clearly don’t like the responses, very rude

I've followed the advice how ever I'm getting absolutely no where but hey what more can I do "

Take a chill pill op. You are just a mere drop in the ocean full of men in your situation.

Seems you are getting a bit frustrated due to lack of responses...perhaps change your attitude of fab swingers? Its not insta shag. And there is no magic 1 size fits all responses.

Good luck fella.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok ok my apologies to everyone

I was never expecting anything instantly especially a "Shag" I'm not that mad

I guess I just have to be patient and eventually I will get accepted by others till then happy fabbing

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Thanks how ever

I'm smiling in my new pics

I don't harrase people if I don't get a reply I move on

Should my profile contain my fucking life story? dont start any more threads op as you clearly don’t like the responses, very rude

I've followed the advice how ever I'm getting absolutely no where but hey what more can I do "

I followed the green arrow, your previous threads all contain good advice, I have no idea what your profile looked like before or if you've followed advice previously given.

But from the timing of your posts, all very recent, are you really expecting overnight success?

If so, then you're seriously out of luck. Just because you signed up to this site does not guarantee you'll get women throwing themselves at you, the opposite in fact.

Sheer ratios dictate that women can be choosy and unless your profile, pics & messages have the wow factor, then you really need to up your game

And several of your comments on this thread - not going to win you friends

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Thanks how ever

I'm smiling in my new pics

I don't harrase people if I don't get a reply I move on

Should my profile contain my fucking life story? dont start any more threads op as you clearly don’t like the responses, very rude

I've followed the advice how ever I'm getting absolutely no where but hey what more can I do

I followed the green arrow, your previous threads all contain good advice, I have no idea what your profile looked like before or if you've followed advice previously given.

But from the timing of your posts, all very recent, are you really expecting overnight success?

If so, then you're seriously out of luck. Just because you signed up to this site does not guarantee you'll get women throwing themselves at you, the opposite in fact.

Sheer ratios dictate that women can be choosy and unless your profile, pics & messages have the wow factor, then you really need to up your game

And several of your comments on this thread - not going to win you friends

"

This..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men can be on here for months- even years- without meeting anyone. Men far outnumber women. Realistically, the chance of meeting is very low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks how ever

I'm smiling in my new pics

I don't harrase people if I don't get a reply I move on

Should my profile contain my fucking life story? dont start any more threads op as you clearly don’t like the responses, very rude

I've followed the advice how ever I'm getting absolutely no where but hey what more can I do

I followed the green arrow, your previous threads all contain good advice, I have no idea what your profile looked like before or if you've followed advice previously given.

But from the timing of your posts, all very recent, are you really expecting overnight success?

If so, then you're seriously out of luck. Just because you signed up to this site does not guarantee you'll get women throwing themselves at you, the opposite in fact.

Sheer ratios dictate that women can be choosy and unless your profile, pics & messages have the wow factor, then you really need to up your game

And several of your comments on this thread - not going to win you friends

"

I followed the yellow brick road but Toto still had to go and I didn't have a pooper scooper

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men can be on here for months- even years- without meeting anyone. Men far outnumber women. Realistically, the chance of meeting is very low."

Why is everyone going on about me wanting to meet people right away ... I've asked about social meets i.e at pubs clubs etc not one2one

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Maybe a new set of photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men can be on here for months- even years- without meeting anyone. Men far outnumber women. Realistically, the chance of meeting is very low.

Why is everyone going on about me wanting to meet people right away ... I've asked about social meets i.e at pubs clubs etc not one2one "

Then look in the meets section all socials are posted on there and tbh there are some very fit lads on here and if your profile dont stand out then you wont even get looked at

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks people sorry for being a twat

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Not sure what I'm doing wrong and would appreciate some pointers because at the end of the day in here for the same reason most here are and that's to have a good time with good people.

But sadly I feel unwanted and that I've made a mistake in signing up

Could I have some feed back regarding my profile please

Dick pics: am I better to supply on demand so that their not in people's faces or should I just go freeview ?

Getting verified: atm I don't have a pc so im only mobile for the time being

Can anyone recommend meets socials etc near me ( west London) so I can prove that I am me? or if you have an alternative method

"

1) Attitude is wrong, lots of ladies read the forums and will find your tone unattractive.

2) Dick pics for most women are a no no, we see enough on here.

3) Your photos are not good, you look like you have been photographed from ‘a line up’ get my drift?

I wish you all the luck, you’re gonna need it. If I was looking which I’m not then you would’nt be my cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *dventurous fellaMan
over a year ago

where

To be fair fella you’ve been here two weeks I’ve been here for a few months this time and a few months on an old profile and not really gotten anywhere ! Accept that men are abundant in this place and women have the pick of the litter!

They can afford to be fussy and why shouldn’t they be? I was told to attend a few clubs and see how it went ive not managed this as yet but will be doing then maybe this place will seem less daunting less alien and more enjoyable! Failing that log off and hire yourself a brass because you’re clearly not as attractive as you believed ! And these women just won’t fall at your feet or dick!

Sorry to be blunt and a c&nt but I get the feeling that attitudes like yours make it harder for the fellas here !

Good luck either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why you still asking OP

We can't hold your hand! It's your profile, take the advice given and leave it at that.

You come across as woe is me and it's so unattractive!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men can be on here for months- even years- without meeting anyone. Men far outnumber women. Realistically, the chance of meeting is very low.

Why is everyone going on about me wanting to meet people right away ... I've asked about social meets i.e at pubs clubs etc not one2one "

Sorry it was just a general comment, my fault. Try the Meets section of the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say a profile re write, some new pics less the last one which is fine to keep.

There are a lot of women and couples that are only looking for hot muscley "studs" but equally there are many that would rather meet a normal but genuine and nice guy.

I get you are frustrated from your posts but even if you dont intend it to some have come across badly which is going to be a bigger bar to anyone to meet than even poor pictures or a badly written profile.

(dont copy mine as it was just thrown together this time around)

The best way to get verified and meet is clubs for a single guy tbh.

And id let these posts get lost in time.

Will

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By *ustkeith123Man
over a year ago

Bolton upon dearne

I've been here a few months not yet had a meet whatsoever the verifications I've had are from people I've met at clubs it's just having patience and what will be will be merry Xmas all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for the advice I will take this and act upon it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say a profile re write, some new pics less the last one which is fine to keep.

There are a lot of women and couples that are only looking for hot muscley "studs" but equally there are many that would rather meet a normal but genuine and nice guy.

I get you are frustrated from your posts but even if you dont intend it to some have come across badly which is going to be a bigger bar to anyone to meet than even poor pictures or a badly written profile.

(dont copy mine as it was just thrown together this time around)

The best way to get verified and meet is clubs for a single guy tbh.

And id let these posts get lost in time.

Will"

Thanks Bill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say a profile re write, some new pics less the last one which is fine to keep.

There are a lot of women and couples that are only looking for hot muscley "studs" but equally there are many that would rather meet a normal but genuine and nice guy.

I get you are frustrated from your posts but even if you dont intend it to some have come across badly which is going to be a bigger bar to anyone to meet than even poor pictures or a badly written profile.

(dont copy mine as it was just thrown together this time around)

The best way to get verified and meet is clubs for a single guy tbh.

And id let these posts get lost in time.

Will

Thanks Bill "

drop me a pm and ill give you some specific pointers about the pictures, its basically just how you market yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pm sent

I've updated my profile

Now I just want to drop the subject so if anyone replies your eating your time

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

It's swinging not insta shag, you've been here two weeks, that's nothing. Getting arsey with people trying to help will do you no favours apart to get put on people's block lists. Loads of threads on cock pics, me personally...I know what they look like, never been persuaded by one. If I wanted to see one I'd ask to. Before you say but women have pics with bits out, women think very, very differently to men.

I don't know why, probably because I think dirty water but I really dislike bath pictures. I don't see the point either...to me it's boring everyday task like putting the kettle on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's swinging not insta shag, you've been here two weeks, that's nothing. Getting arsey with people trying to help will do you no favours apart to get put on people's block lists. Loads of threads on cock pics, me personally...I know what they look like, never been persuaded by one. If I wanted to see one I'd ask to. Before you say but women have pics with bits out, women think very, very differently to men.

I don't know why, probably because I think dirty water but I really dislike bath pictures. I don't see the point either...to me it's boring everyday task like putting the kettle on"

Fine I'll take pic whilst making tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're the master of your own destiny. Standing out is pretty much the only thing you can do. You have to put the leg work in to get even a glimmer of a hope.

Message people that suite you, don't pester, reference something in their profile which shows you have read it and how you meet their requirements. Treat the recipient of your message as you would treat them in a local bar, by this i mean you wouldn't walk up to someone with your cock out and tell them how you're going to smash their back doors in as an intro. Don't bank on replies, as stated in the rules it probably means "thanks but no thanks". Get yourself verified at a local event if you can't get an organised one to one.

Personally i think your photos are rather plain. Get a few filters crop out the crap in the background show your personality a bit.

Profile text don't put negative one liners in there, woe is me doesn't go down well. Major on your good points, tell other users what you can offer.

One last thing, no poetry! That's my shtick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've deleted all pics apart from 1 and profile text has been changed

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I've deleted all pics apart from 1 and profile text has been changed "

I still think your profile needs work.

Sulky looking and nothing to say.

Good luck OP.

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Wow, i was expecting to click on the profile and it be that of a 20 year old! You're 41 man! Behave like you are!

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton


"I've deleted all pics apart from 1 and profile text has been changed "

You may have changed the profile, but your not smiling in your picture!

Think about what women want in a man away from the swinging scene.

The bit about I want to get into the social / club scene, that may put people off as your scared of going to event and it seems you want someone to hold your hand.

A social is not much different than going into a pub.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you mention 'likeminded', and 'similar interests' but give no idea about what you like or are interested, its all very vague...needs a bit of relevant information

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 26/12/17 12:51:47]"

I like your new profile pic much better more sexier x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Profile again updates new pics with me smiling now added and one of me jelly belly torso too ???? don't complain you asked for it

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Profile again updates new pics with me smiling now added and one of me jelly belly torso too ???? don't complain you asked for it "

1) the jelly belly pic has put me off my dinner.

2) the first 3 pics, I’d that a hospital gown you are wearing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile is still unappealing & the photos do nothing to help.

Try doing a forum search on profile advice & look at the profiles of the guys who comment - or the guys in this thread - as they have got decent profiles that stand out

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By *candalariaMan
over a year ago

Greater Manchester

You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I am very sorry can't be issue now be dropped please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise. "

I've taken people's advice I've changed my profile about 5 times, removed and changed pics

But hey look I can't and nor can anyone else provide a profile or pics that keeps everyone happy it's just not possible.

I didnt sign up for this I joined to find nice fun friendly people who like to have a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise. "

I think he's fully aware of that now and has apologised, no need to labour the point hun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you much appreciated

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise.

I've taken people's advice I've changed my profile about 5 times, removed and changed pics

But hey look I can't and nor can anyone else provide a profile or pics that keeps everyone happy it's just not possible.

I didnt sign up for this I joined to find nice fun friendly people who like to have a good time

"

For a single Male on here changing his profile is an ongoing challenge. Remember the amount of Male members outweigh female members so female members have lots of choice so you need a profile which sells yourself. Do not expect women to fall at your feet! Women on this site are not desperate for any man they want a man who appeals to them. Take a look around the site, see the men who are impressing women, look at their profiles, think like them. ‘Hospital gown’ type pics definitely will not attract a woman neither will sulky faced pics posing at the side of a wall mounted clock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise.

I've taken people's advice I've changed my profile about 5 times, removed and changed pics

But hey look I can't and nor can anyone else provide a profile or pics that keeps everyone happy it's just not possible.

I didnt sign up for this I joined to find nice fun friendly people who like to have a good time

For a single Male on here changing his profile is an ongoing challenge. Remember the amount of Male members outweigh female members so female members have lots of choice so you need a profile which sells yourself. Do not expect women to fall at your feet! Women on this site are not desperate for any man they want a man who appeals to them. Take a look around the site, see the men who are impressing women, look at their profiles, think like them. ‘Hospital gown’ type pics definitely will not attract a woman neither will sulky faced pics posing at the side of a wall mounted clock "

Are you smiling in your shoes?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise.

I've taken people's advice I've changed my profile about 5 times, removed and changed pics

But hey look I can't and nor can anyone else provide a profile or pics that keeps everyone happy it's just not possible.

I didnt sign up for this I joined to find nice fun friendly people who like to have a good time

For a single Male on here changing his profile is an ongoing challenge. Remember the amount of Male members outweigh female members so female members have lots of choice so you need a profile which sells yourself. Do not expect women to fall at your feet! Women on this site are not desperate for any man they want a man who appeals to them. Take a look around the site, see the men who are impressing women, look at their profiles, think like them. ‘Hospital gown’ type pics definitely will not attract a woman neither will sulky faced pics posing at the side of a wall mounted clock

Are you smiling in your shoes?"

Of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise.

I've taken people's advice I've changed my profile about 5 times, removed and changed pics

But hey look I can't and nor can anyone else provide a profile or pics that keeps everyone happy it's just not possible.

I didnt sign up for this I joined to find nice fun friendly people who like to have a good time

"

Just ignore the 'advice' & bitchiness and have the pics and text that *you* want.

As you've already found, no matter what pics or text you have on your profile, someone will say it's shit. You could be here forever changing your profile trying to please people that just love to put people down on the forums!

Your idea of going to a social sounds like a good plan.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise.

I've taken people's advice I've changed my profile about 5 times, removed and changed pics

But hey look I can't and nor can anyone else provide a profile or pics that keeps everyone happy it's just not possible.

I didnt sign up for this I joined to find nice fun friendly people who like to have a good time

For a single Male on here changing his profile is an ongoing challenge. Remember the amount of Male members outweigh female members so female members have lots of choice so you need a profile which sells yourself. Do not expect women to fall at your feet! Women on this site are not desperate for any man they want a man who appeals to them. Take a look around the site, see the men who are impressing women, look at their profiles, think like them. ‘Hospital gown’ type pics definitely will not attract a woman neither will sulky faced pics posing at the side of a wall mounted clock

Are you smiling in your shoes?

Of course! "

They look like orthopaedic shoes

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Get out to Clubs and meet people there. Chat and get to know people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Final profile change those who don't like it can kiss my left ball sack. ?????? Now let's stop fighting cos I love you all really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest opinion here op and I think a lot of women think the same

I read forums and when I see someone ask for help but get the arse when given good advice, it makes me wanna block them.

You are doing yourself no favours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honest opinion here op and I think a lot of women think the same

I read forums and when I see someone ask for help but get the arse when given good advice, it makes me wanna block them.

You are doing yourself no favours "

What is it that people want me to say ?

I've apologised for my manner now all I want to do is get on with enjoying the site and it's fab people

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Honest opinion here op and I think a lot of women think the same

I read forums and when I see someone ask for help but get the arse when given good advice, it makes me wanna block them.

You are doing yourself no favours

What is it that people want me to say ?

I've apologised for my manner now all I want to do is get on with enjoying the site and it's fab people "

So do it then, get yourself to socials clubs etc x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How long ago was the photo with the clock taken?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op you can't help those who won't listen and you clearly won't listen to all the advise given and obviously you don't get that the advise given isn't a slight on your manliness but given so you can reach the point you want to reach and that's a meet with a lady who will appreciate your efforts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honest opinion here op and I think a lot of women think the same

I read forums and when I see someone ask for help but get the arse when given good advice, it makes me wanna block them.

You are doing yourself no favours

What is it that people want me to say ?

I've apologised for my manner now all I want to do is get on with enjoying the site and it's fab people "

Sending an inbox to ppl because they give an opinion, don't win you friends either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How long ago was the photo with the clock taken?"

A night or so ago Christmas drink makes head go fussy

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Final profile change those who don't like it can kiss my left ball sack. ?????? Now let's stop fighting cos I love you all really "

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Final profile change those who don't like it can kiss my left ball sack. ?????? Now let's stop fighting cos I love you all really

"

oh dear..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Btw I don't and never in my life expected woman to fall at my feet and for people to say that I do with out getting to know is uncalled for

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Btw I don't and never in my life expected woman to fall at my feet and for people to say that I do with out getting to know is uncalled for "

Tra la la tra la la

OP I think is now attention seeking....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your happy with the profile go with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw I don't and never in my life expected woman to fall at my feet and for people to say that I do with out getting to know is uncalled for "

Just ignore them. They don't know you so who gives a fuck what they think?

Plenty of people on threads like these just love to take the piss while being utterly oblivious that they come across in a dreadful way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not far from Heathrow, get in touch with the organiser and see if there's any single guy places left and get along there, it's chilled relaxed with no pressure from anyone. 2 weeks here in the grand scheme of things really is a very very short time, but maybe take solid well meaning advice without snapping back ??????

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw I don't and never in my life expected woman to fall at my feet and for people to say that I do with out getting to know is uncalled for

Tra la la tra la la

OP I think is now attention seeking....

"

I love those shoes!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Btw I don't and never in my life expected woman to fall at my feet and for people to say that I do with out getting to know is uncalled for

Tra la la tra la la

OP I think is now attention seeking....

I love those shoes! "

Thank you Kitty Kat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise.

I've taken people's advice I've changed my profile about 5 times, removed and changed pics

But hey look I can't and nor can anyone else provide a profile or pics that keeps everyone happy it's just not possible.

I didnt sign up for this I joined to find nice fun friendly people who like to have a good time

For a single Male on here changing his profile is an ongoing challenge. Remember the amount of Male members outweigh female members so female members have lots of choice so you need a profile which sells yourself. Do not expect women to fall at your feet! Women on this site are not desperate for any man they want a man who appeals to them. Take a look around the site, see the men who are impressing women, look at their profiles, think like them. ‘Hospital gown’ type pics definitely will not attract a woman neither will sulky faced pics posing at the side of a wall mounted clock

Are you smiling in your shoes?

Of course! and wemon who take pics of their shoes are you ashamed of your face .... hmmm also hid profile lol don't judge him when you cant even show yours "

But he asked for judgement

Indeed, he has been actively courting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw I don't and never in my life expected woman to fall at my feet and for people to say that I do with out getting to know is uncalled for

Just ignore them. They don't know you so who gives a fuck what they think?

Plenty of people on threads like these just love to take the piss while being utterly oblivious that they come across in a dreadful way. "

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"You’ve only been on two weeks and this is your attitude? seriously! There are far more younger and better looking men on here and even they have a hard time finding a meet. Your pics do nothing for you. Your attitude stinks and from the looks of it, you’re unwilling to take anyones advise.

I've taken people's advice I've changed my profile about 5 times, removed and changed pics

But hey look I can't and nor can anyone else provide a profile or pics that keeps everyone happy it's just not possible.

I didnt sign up for this I joined to find nice fun friendly people who like to have a good time

For a single Male on here changing his profile is an ongoing challenge. Remember the amount of Male members outweigh female members so female members have lots of choice so you need a profile which sells yourself. Do not expect women to fall at your feet! Women on this site are not desperate for any man they want a man who appeals to them. Take a look around the site, see the men who are impressing women, look at their profiles, think like them. ‘Hospital gown’ type pics definitely will not attract a woman neither will sulky faced pics posing at the side of a wall mounted clock

Are you smiling in your shoes?

Of course! and wemon who take pics of their shoes are you ashamed of your face .... hmmm also hid profile lol don't judge him when you cant even show yours

She wasn't asking for profile advise.

And if she's hidden her profile it's nobody's else's business why. Perhaps she's had crap in her inbox because of posting on here which is frequently the case?!

Thank you honey, you’re on the right lines but it’s nothing to do with the trolls on here if my profile is hidden. They just confirm what trolls are! Making nasty comments then checking out profiles to comment on here about what’s in the profile. I’m reporting her so she’ll get a ban! "

glad you're OK xxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Btw I don't and never in my life expected woman to fall at my feet and for people to say that I do with out getting to know is uncalled for

Just ignore them. They don't know you so who gives a fuck what they think?

Plenty of people on threads like these just love to take the piss while being utterly oblivious that they come across in a dreadful way. "

I agree with Steels, so OP I would ignore the people who labour a point over and over.The forum is only used by a small number of members so what they say on it is not gospel

Your profile looks fine, you will attract someone with it from the many members who use the site just for meeting so I am sure they will find you. In the meantime maybe stick around the forum while you wait

Good luck ( I will shut it for you now )

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