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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone, hope youre doing well Ive had an account here for a bit but just wanted to ask you lovely people for some feedback on my profile. Any advice or tips on how to improve it at all?

Im very polite and all the messages I send on here are friendly and nice, but I rarely get a reply. I know the females get swamped with messages and I dont exactly have model looks or body, is that maybe all it is? Maybe being too nice is getting me nowhere

I know as well im at a disadvantage because I dont show my face due to my work and I notice a lot of females ask for face pics. I avoid them females but after I get to know people im happy to show my face.

Any help at all will help, thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one will know what you look like as you have no photos worth looking at,

Try reading some of the many same threads, most of the replies will be the same

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Discretion is a must due to my job". Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Discretion is a must due to my job". Are you the Archbishop of Canterbury?"

I told you to be discreet!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP without face pictures you will find it very difficult to get anyone to engage in conversation on here.

You can keep them private but be prepared to send them pretty early on in any message exchange. If you want to wait a while before sending them many people will choose not to talk to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP without face pictures you will find it very difficult to get anyone to engage in conversation on here.

You can keep them private but be prepared to send them pretty early on in any message exchange. If you want to wait a while before sending them many people will choose not to talk to you."

Thanks for the tip, I do realise that I disadvantage myself that way. Ive noticed that 9/10 times a girl im messaging will ask for face pics straight away. I will show my face, its not as if im gonna keep it a secret for years. After a day or so of talking and getting to know eachother and confirming that we dont know eachother, ill do a reveal no problem. Some people ask what have Ive got to hide, but the reality is, not much! I just dont want to bump into someone I know in the real world through my job etc

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It would look much better if you had some pics of your body rather than your blanked out face.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It would look much better if you had some pics of your body rather than your blanked out face. "

I have 2 pics of my body in friends only images, ill maybe make them available for public to see Good advice Sally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look and sound a nice guy.

You should have no trouble x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like your profile, there's enough in there to get a sense of you and I'd happily chat to found out more as you have me slightly intrigued. However a few more pics like the body one would be good.

I totally understand what you are saying about face pics, we are the same and like to chat a little and start to get a feel for whether we would actually want to meet someone before sending face pics. While appearance matters there's more to attraction than that for us so I'm fine with getting to know people a bit first.

Maybe consider your first message, does it tell the recipient why you think they would want to meet you?

Tx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really like your profile, there's enough in there to get a sense of you and I'd happily chat to found out more as you have me slightly intrigued. However a few more pics like the body one would be good.

I totally understand what you are saying about face pics, we are the same and like to chat a little and start to get a feel for whether we would actually want to meet someone before sending face pics. While appearance matters there's more to attraction than that for us so I'm fine with getting to know people a bit first.

Maybe consider your first message, does it tell the recipient why you think they would want to meet you?

Tx"

Brilliant feedback, thanks for taking the time to read through Ill definately have a think about what to write in the opening bit.Its also good to hear you are both the same with pictures, I was beginning to think I was the only one with that attitude lol. Im glad that ive intrigued you a bit, thats good to know

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

As far as the profile text goes it's very good.

Tiny point is that you say how old and how tall you are. The profile already shows that. I'm sure height won't change but your age will. So you'll need to come back and change your text each year or it will look sloppy

No face pic until you've chatted is perfectly understandable. However, from the woman's point of view, why chat with a faceless guy? You may get on and then have to say you're not for me. And we'll be chatting to lots of other guys who have sent a face pic.

Though having said that, your pics give a sense of what you look like, hairstyle, facial hair so it's not a total mystery.

And if you read a woman's profile before messaging you'll get an idea of whether you'd match or not.

If you messaged me, without a face pic, but your message was polite etc. I would chat a bit. Based on the fact I like what I see so far. But I would want an actual face pic fairly quickly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As far as the profile text goes it's very good.

Tiny point is that you say how old and how tall you are. The profile already shows that. I'm sure height won't change but your age will. So you'll need to come back and change your text each year or it will look sloppy

No face pic until you've chatted is perfectly understandable. However, from the woman's point of view, why chat with a faceless guy? You may get on and then have to say you're not for me. And we'll be chatting to lots of other guys who have sent a face pic.

Though having said that, your pics give a sense of what you look like, hairstyle, facial hair so it's not a total mystery.

And if you read a woman's profile before messaging you'll get an idea of whether you'd match or not.

If you messaged me, without a face pic, but your message was polite etc. I would chat a bit. Based on the fact I like what I see so far. But I would want an actual face pic fairly quickly

"

Good point on the age/height thing, ill take that out! You make a good point about women chatting to guys and knowing what they look like facially. Im always polite and friendly in my messages, manners cost nothing! Thanks for the feedback

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