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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know its kind of sad asking but I've been on here years. I don't get responses. What am I doing wrong, is my profile that bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd start again as being here so long without meets may go against you.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see. Yeah I guess it doesn't look good. Thing I I'd be worried it would be the same again. Is there something on my profile that's putting people off?

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By *alkirkbairnMan
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Going off other posts like this. Less cock pics would be a good start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see. Yeah I guess it doesn't look good. Thing I I'd be worried it would be the same again. Is there something on my profile that's putting people off?"

Erm, the action shot

Does the lady in question know her pic is on here?

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By *uriousCouple999Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

To many cock pictures and they look lazy taking a picture with your trousers half way down

It's not rude for people to not reply to your mails some people gets 100s a day and can't possibly reply to them all.

Also would you really meet a 99 year old women to?

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d imagine that you can only accommodate and not travel may put a few off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To many cock pictures and they look lazy taking a picture with your trousers half way down

It's not rude for people to not reply to your mails some people gets 100s a day and can't possibly reply to them all.

Also would you really meet a 99 year old women to?

D"

Chance would be a fine thing. To be fait, I don't think the pics are fantastic. But I keep a face pic to send. I don't want anyone to be able to see it. What makes a good pic for a bloke?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gonna be brutal!

Crap crap crap pics!!

Sorry OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok - apologies if this is a bit brutal, but I don’t see the point in not being 100% honest!

Your profile comes across as lazy. There are not enough photos, & they’re all dick pics, there’s nothing about yourself, what you like, what your interests are. Age range 18-99?! I’m guessing that’s not the case, so set it accordingly! Also what does “get on me” mean?!

You slate girls for not replying because “It takes like two minutes” - so for 100 ‘no thanks’ a day, you think it’s acceptable for girls to spend 200 minutes (over 3 hours) per day, every day just so your feelings don’t get hurt?!

You mention a PhD but the tone of your text is sulky teenage boy. You can’t travel - but can accommodate, but don’t say why.

Basically, you want a girl to travel to you without knowing anything about you, what you bring to a meet, what you’re interested in, what you’re looking for or even what you look like!

Also, you have a choice of clubs pretty much on your doorstep in Clitheroe. Sort out your travel issues & get to a club. You’ll get veri’s from that, meet people etc ...

Like I said, I’m sorry if that’s a bit harsh - but no point in pussyfooting about it. I’m sure you’re a much nicer person than your profile suggests - you just need to make it reflect who you are!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No thanks for the honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see. Yeah I guess it doesn't look good. Thing I I'd be worried it would be the same again. Is there something on my profile that's putting people off?

Erm, the action shot

Does the lady in question know her pic is on here?"

was thinking that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To many cock pictures and they look lazy taking a picture with your trousers half way down

It's not rude for people to not reply to your mails some people gets 100s a day and can't possibly reply to them all.

Also would you really meet a 99 year old women to?

D

Chance would be a fine thing. To be fait, I don't think the pics are fantastic. But I keep a face pic to send. I don't want anyone to be able to see it. What makes a good pic for a bloke?"

Do a forum search; there are tonnes of threads on ‘what a good profile looks like’ and check out some of the guys profiles that post on there.

Torso shots, in the bath with a well placed loofah, cheeky bum shot, wearing a towel, in a nice pair of boxers ...

Do some research & use a bit of imagination!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok - apologies if this is a bit brutal, but I don’t see the point in not being 100% honest!

Your profile comes across as lazy. There are not enough photos, & they’re all dick pics, there’s nothing about yourself, what you like, what your interests are. Age range 18-99?! I’m guessing that’s not the case, so set it accordingly! Also what does “get on me” mean?!

You slate girls for not replying because “It takes like two minutes” - so for 100 ‘no thanks’ a day, you think it’s acceptable for girls to spend 200 minutes (over 3 hours) per day, every day just so your feelings don’t get hurt?!

You mention a PhD but the tone of your text is sulky teenage boy. You can’t travel - but can accommodate, but don’t say why.

Basically, you want a girl to travel to you without knowing anything about you, what you bring to a meet, what you’re interested in, what you’re looking for or even what you look like!

Also, you have a choice of clubs pretty much on your doorstep in Clitheroe. Sort out your travel issues & get to a club. You’ll get veri’s from that, meet people etc ...

Like I said, I’m sorry if that’s a bit harsh - but no point in pussyfooting about it. I’m sure you’re a much nicer person than your profile suggests - you just need to make it reflect who you are!! "

Again, solid stuff no need to worry about being harsh. Really gave me a lot to think about. I suppose I don't know what makes a good pic. Its something I could perhaps lean off users with verifications? I didn't realise travel was so massive an issue. I can travel as well. I worry about my age, I feel that goes against me a bit.

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London


"Ok - apologies if this is a bit brutal, but I don’t see the point in not being 100% honest!

Your profile comes across as lazy. There are not enough photos, & they’re all dick pics, there’s nothing about yourself, what you like, what your interests are. Age range 18-99?! I’m guessing that’s not the case, so set it accordingly! Also what does “get on me” mean?!

You slate girls for not replying because “It takes like two minutes” - so for 100 ‘no thanks’ a day, you think it’s acceptable for girls to spend 200 minutes (over 3 hours) per day, every day just so your feelings don’t get hurt?!

You mention a PhD but the tone of your text is sulky teenage boy. You can’t travel - but can accommodate, but don’t say why.

Basically, you want a girl to travel to you without knowing anything about you, what you bring to a meet, what you’re interested in, what you’re looking for or even what you look like!

Also, you have a choice of clubs pretty much on your doorstep in Clitheroe. Sort out your travel issues & get to a club. You’ll get veri’s from that, meet people etc ...

Like I said, I’m sorry if that’s a bit harsh - but no point in pussyfooting about it. I’m sure you’re a much nicer person than your profile suggests - you just need to make it reflect who you are!! "

This 100%, take heed of all the advice because it's all really good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asked an hour ago and still made no charges OP I do hope the advise given hasn't fallen on deaf ears.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You asked an hour ago and still made no charges OP I do hope the advise given hasn't fallen on deaf ears. "

Not at all, I'm having a go with pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pic, cock pic, cock pic.

Text isn't particularly interesting either. Look at the many, many, many profile advice threads and apply the advice given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Black and white pics torso shots shots in boxer women like to see men’s arses but keep something for the imagination. Maybe delete your profile start again with some good photos and text about you and your interest what kind of women are you looking for. Effort equals success. Like someone else said don’t just expect fab to work for you go out to socials and clubs. If your profile comes across as lazy then that’s what people are going to think about you. Also best to act sooner rather than ask for advice and do nothing. That also shows your willing to put effort in. Good look

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Black and white pics torso shots shots in boxer women like to see men’s arses but keep something for the imagination. Maybe delete your profile start again with some good photos and text about you and your interest what kind of women are you looking for. Effort equals success. Like someone else said don’t just expect fab to work for you go out to socials and clubs. If your profile comes across as lazy then that’s what people are going to think about you. Also best to act sooner rather than ask for advice and do nothing. That also shows your willing to put effort in. Good look "

With everything in mind, I'm going to start again. I get it a bit more now and a fresh start might be for the best. There's too many fundamental changes to make.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What is your new name?

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