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"Thank you for the reply... can i ask why you think my profile is a negative one ?.. I've read and the replies of previous posts like this but i guess you're right when you say that I've not really taken notice.. Thanks again "It starts by saying your header is crap then lists all the things you aren't? | |||
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"You've been on here over a year and still can't work it out??? 6 pics... all of your cock! That certainly doesn't help for starters. Try picturing a shop window with a dozen women in view... The 1st one has pics and a profile saying 'cock now 2nd and 3rd have pics of legs and saying then know the score etc 4th 5th and 6th all have body pics and a well written profile... but don't want men 7th to 12th all have variety in their pics, say what they want and what they offer, and have some suitable pics to see, but not spoiling the suprise. Now think.... what numbers are you going to message??" Thank you! I totally see your point I'll take your comments on board .. thanks again | |||
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"Thank you for the reply... can i ask why you think my profile is a negative one ?.. I've read and the replies of previous posts like this but i guess you're right when you say that I've not really taken notice.. Thanks again
It starts by saying your header is crap then lists all the things you aren't? "Thank you .. I'll have a good think about putting a decent introduction on here .. and saying the good things ! | |||
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"If you know your headline is crap change it. Your photos don't show a lot of you . We don't need to know what you aren't but what you are. "Thank you... you're the 2nd person who said to mention the positive things about me ! .. very well noted! I guess if i put as much effort into ordering takeaway or my work life as i did on my profile.. I'd have probably no need to have posted this topic
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"To be honest OP - it needs a lot of work, as Rubi says it's negative (statements like "I'm not ripped and don't have a nine inch cock" are negative - and besides guess what? Nor do most guys on here, even some of the most successful ones!!),it tells a reader nothing about you,what you're looking for or can offer at all. It's all very high level and doesn't provide any details - you say you have fantasies and want to push boundaries - that could mean absolutely anything!! Your pics leave a lot to be desired too - in fact I'd lose all of them with the possible exception of the 13th August one - try taking some that show off your body and not your cock. Is that you sucking a cock in the January pic? If so up to you to post it or not (although a lot of people don't like action shots on single profiles - if it's you being sucked, does the person whose face is visible know you have posted it? " Thank you ! .. I'll take your advice .. it's me sucking cock in that pic...
I will evaluate my pics .. I see what you mean about my profile being high level... it doesn't have much substance to it i guess..
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"I've updated my profile.. is it any better? " Seriously no And it's even worse that you can't recognise it and have the wit to craft your own ? Your profile reflects you , sadly Asking the forum to write it for you reflects them That is deception I'd suggest you continue with your awful profile , you might have luck and find the minority of women looking for a man like you and if they meet you they would not be disappointed If you don't attract anyone then that is your destiny and I'd suggest this is not the site for you | |||
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"I've updated my profile.. is it any better? Seriously no And it's even worse that you can't recognise it and have the wit to craft your own ? Your profile reflects you , sadly Asking the forum to write it for you reflects them That is deception I'd suggest you continue with your awful profile , you might have luck and find the minority of women looking for a man like you and if they meet you they would not be disappointed If you don't attract anyone then that is your destiny and I'd suggest this is not the site for you " Harsh  | |||
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"I'm under know illusions that my profile is not very good at all... and im sorry for asking this question as I know its been asked a million times before... I really would appreciate some constructive criticism and advice regarding my profile... if you don't feel comfortable posting in the forum please feel free to DM.. Thanks all.. " things that stood out about your profile you're bisexual and you have a girlfriend you didn't really say what you're hoping to find here ,you've had a meet 4 weeks ago was that a guy?  | |||
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"I've updated my profile.. is it any better? " I think it actually got worse to be honest - did you not take on board any of the advice given above for a reason?  | |||
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"I've updated my profile.. is it any better? Seriously no And it's even worse that you can't recognise it and have the wit to craft your own ? Your profile reflects you , sadly Asking the forum to write it for you reflects them That is deception I'd suggest you continue with your awful profile , you might have luck and find the minority of women looking for a man like you and if they meet you they would not be disappointed If you don't attract anyone then that is your destiny and I'd suggest this is not the site for you " Thanks for your feedback.. One thing I will say is that I'm not asking this forum to write my profile for me. I'm sorry you don't like my newest attempt.. but ill deffo take your opinion on board | |||
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"I'm under know illusions that my profile is not very good at all... and im sorry for asking this question as I know its been asked a million times before... I really would appreciate some constructive criticism and advice regarding my profile... if you don't feel comfortable posting in the forum please feel free to DM.. Thanks all.. things that stood out about your profile you're bisexual and you have a girlfriend you didn't really say what you're hoping to find here ,you've had a meet 4 weeks ago was that a guy? "Noted! .. I see your point .. Not once does my profile say what o want! .. I'll fix that asap ..
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"Your girlfriend definitely, certainly knows then  "Yep.. she actually does.. which is probably as rare as rocking horse shit so i guess it immediately comes across as... rocking horse shit! . I'm so bloody bad at this! ..thanks for the reply x | |||
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"I've updated my profile.. is it any better? I think it actually got worse to be honest - did you not take on board any of the advice given above for a reason? "It seems not lol.. I'll give it another go! | |||
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"Seems odd that you are "openly bisexual" but not looking to meet men. " I'll change that now ! | |||
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"I've updated my profile.. is it any better? " If this is the updated version I dread to think what the original one said
OP I promise you, no one is going to message asking about your fantasies or wants. Put them in your profile, and put what you can actually offer in return.
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