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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi ive not long joined this website.

I am an asian guy who is predominately into caucasian women.

Any advise on finding my first decent meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes. try making your profile a bit less rude and aggressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi ive not long joined this website.

I am an asian guy who is predominately into caucasian women.

Any advise on finding my first decent meet?"

Be less rude and arrogant. With a profile like that, it's no wonder your not getting any meets.

Poppy

Ps, if you get lots of messages (which I highly doubt) they why are none of them leading to meets? Stop kidding yourself.

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By *alkirkbairnMan
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Profile looks like a piss take tbh and not genuine at all.

Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile looks like a piss take tbh and not genuine at all.

Just my opinion "

yes,last couple of paragraphs...'tonne of messages' etc looks like its directly lifted from a woman's profile!

and the stuff before that is just plain rude and arrogant....not very attractive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think definitely change your profile if i was interested i wouldn't be after reading that.

It does look like youve taken what youve seen on a womans profile and changed it for yourself. Not that theres anything wrong with that its more that there are so so many men on here weve literally got the pick of the litter so we wouldnt go for someone who came across rude like that.

Instead just put what youre looking for and a little about yourself and i think that will help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you copied and pasted the second half from a woman's profile.

First half makes you sound like a dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be delete and start again. Probably the worst profile I’ve ever seen.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

not with that profile and attitude you won't!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice and yes you are right i was laxy and copied and pasted someone else's profile.

The thing that really grinds my gears though are the racist messages and rants i get.

If someone could be kind enough to lay out a good profile layout. Tjat would be awesome!

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Search the forums for profile advice.... there is loads!! And do your own profile...... if you can’t even be bothered to do that then I would just give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice and yes you are right i was laxy and copied and pasted someone else's profile.

The thing that really grinds my gears though are the racist messages and rants i get.

If someone could be kind enough to lay out a good profile layout. Tjat would be awesome!"

Well, at least you admitted it

Have you reported the racist messages?

If not, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Search the forums for profile advice.... there is loads!! And do your own profile...... if you can’t even be bothered to do that then I would just give up "

My thoughts exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice and yes you are right i was laxy and copied and pasted someone else's profile.

The thing that really grinds my gears though are the racist messages and rants i get.

If someone could be kind enough to lay out a good profile layout. Tjat would be awesome!"

It's your profile, you have to write it yourself, inject your personality into it, sell yourself. No one can write it for you.

Write about what your looking for and what you can offer...you also need to have public pics, don't have to be your face, but not just your cock either, we all know what they look like.

Not much you can go about getting racist messages, it's unfortunate but you'll just have to block, report, delete and ignore.

Good luck

Poppy

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you can't be bothered to write your own profile I would assume you wouldn't be bothered about satisfying me in bed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice and yes you are right i was laxy and copied and pasted someone else's profile.

The thing that really grinds my gears though are the racist messages and rants i get.

If someone could be kind enough to lay out a good profile layout. Tjat would be awesome!

Well, at least you admitted it

Have you reported the racist messages?

If not, why not?

"

I did report them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you guys suggest for photos that are not face or cock pics then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to see you reported the racist messages.

Id go along the lines of

Who are you?

Why have you joined fab?

Have you done anything like this before?

What are you looking for on here? I.e. fwb

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good to see you reported the racist messages.

Id go along the lines of

Who are you?

Why have you joined fab?

Have you done anything like this before?

What are you looking for on here? I.e. fwb "

Thank you. I have now taken this onbord and added this to my profile.

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By *alkirkbairnMan
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"What do you guys suggest for photos that are not face or cock pics then?"

The cartoonish face blockers look a little silly but rule one is steer clear or cock pics, toilets and messy rooms lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still needs loads of work, drop the racism stuff, and drop the demands, getting better though OP.

PS - Go on, shave that beard off!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Still needs loads of work, drop the racism stuff, and drop the demands, getting better though OP.

PS - Go on, shave that beard off! "

Thanks For the advice but the beard stays.

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

Over use of the word 'I'

Replace it with your user name

Makes you instantly sound interesting.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Over use of the word 'I'

Replace it with your user name

Makes you instantly sound interesting. "

you think so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be to buy a smaller hat!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"

PS - Go on, shave that beard off! "

Could lead to awkward questions from his wife

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs


"Over use of the word 'I'

Replace it with your user name

Makes you instantly sound interesting.

you think so?"

Yes The Ringmaster does

(see what I did there?)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

PS - Go on, shave that beard off!

Could lead to awkward questions from his wife "

Hahahaha its a personal preference and i dont have a wife ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My advice would be to buy a smaller hat! "

Ah no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like you! You've listened to advise and made changes.

And don't shave your beard some ladies like a bit of facial

Has for pics, I like black and white pictures and bum and torso pics. Don't need to show a cock!!

Just be yourself and ignore the racist bigots on here!

Good luck!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Hi ive not long joined this website.

I am an asian guy who is predominately into caucasian women.

Any advise on finding my first decent meet?"

Yes go to a club

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

I sow you have changed profile - is that result of advices given to you in this thread?

You truly have an interesting perception.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP you need to add an "a". It is polyamorous.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you im dyslexic of it wasnt for autocorrect i would be lost.

Many thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP you need to add an "a". It is polyamorous."

Fyi your previous message made me laugh sooo hard ??

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

I am Dyslexic and I hate Autocorrect!

Your 2 photos one has such a big star out on your face it makes the photo pointless.

Have some better photos taken they dont have to be rude ones so a mate can do some. Or use mirrors. The ubiquitious cock shot well I leave you to decide if you want one of those i have a couple.

Love your bit about Racists i have something similar on mine too right!

Final advice get yourself to some organised Socials and perhaps a club or two good way to meet people.

Good luck and happy Swinging.

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