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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We were talking and wondered what peoples preferences were on meeting at a club to private meets from home or a hotel..

So far we prefer club meets as no pressure or expectations but think at some point we would like to try meets away from the Club ..Any thoughts you sexy lot??

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We primarily meet at club's but for those we click with it Is really nice to do a private meet when circumstances allow. A more private setting allows for people to let their guard down that little bit more and relax.

Though those opportunities for us could do with being a few more lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We primarily meet at club's but for those we click with it Is really nice to do a private meet when circumstances allow. A more private setting allows for people to let their guard down that little bit more and relax.

Though those opportunities for us could do with being a few more lol "

We prefer the club meet scenario too but with the right people wouldn't rule out meeting in a more relaxed atmosphere ..but as you say finding those would be nice lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer club meets, we’ve tried private meets and they’ve never gone quite as well as hoped either there is no attraction, the other people don’t show up or something else. We get limited free time so at least with a club meet if people are no shows the night is not wasted and if there is no attraction then both couples are able to move on and find someone more suitable if they wish. It’s worked well for us so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

House meets great as relaxed

Hotel brill as drinks and flirts in the bar first

Club meets ok but not a preference of mine ...

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

Club or social meet first work best for me. That’s mainly because things have cropped up at the last minute and then I’m not in limbo without a playmate.

Happy to visit couples or singles at home, never on a first meet unless someone I trust confirms / vouches for them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We prefer club meets, we’ve tried private meets and they’ve never gone quite as well as hoped either there is no attraction, the other people don’t show up or something else. We get limited free time so at least with a club meet if people are no shows the night is not wasted and if there is no attraction then both couples

are able to move on and finsomeone more suitable if they wish. It’s worked well for us so far "

Totally agree with that another reason why we are put off by private meets no shows no attraction etc. The awkwardness and the wasted night not good when you have to plan and turns out not like you envisaged . ..so clubs work better for us too at the moment. .x

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"We prefer club meets, we’ve tried private meets and they’ve never gone quite as well as hoped either there is no attraction, the other people don’t show up or something else. We get limited free time so at least with a club meet if people are no shows the night is not wasted and if there is no attraction then both couples

are able to move on and finsomeone more suitable if they wish. It’s worked well for us so far

Totally agree with that another reason why we are put off by private meets no shows no attraction etc. The awkwardness and the wasted night not good when you have to plan and turns out not like you envisaged . ..so clubs work better for us too at the moment. .x"

The trick is to arrange the private meet with those you met on the club scene whom you know you click with already. We've had some great times doing that.

Though meeting new people privately straight off the bat having not previously met in person.... not so much

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Just clubs for me. I enjoy making a night of it... Dancing, socialising and if it gets intimate, then fabulous, if not... Well, also fabulous...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember feeling really horny one night so arranged a quick meet got inundated with messages saying how hard they will make me cum..how they would please me etc etc sone guy came lasted 2 min left me frustrated now if I had been in a club could have had new x lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remember feeling really horny one night so arranged a quick meet got inundated with messages saying how hard they will make me cum..how they would please me etc etc sone guy came lasted 2 min left me frustrated now if I had been in a club could have had new x lol"

Aww lol that would have been disastrous what a waste if a night poor you xx in guessing you haven't done that since x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just clubs for me. I enjoy making a night of it... Dancing, socialising and if it gets intimate, then fabulous, if not... Well, also fabulous... "

Socialising is a big part for us ..getting to know people and having a laugh is just as important ..many great nights been had by dancing the night away in a club with some sexy people. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember feeling really horny one night so arranged a quick meet got inundated with messages saying how hard they will make me cum..how they would please me etc etc sone guy came lasted 2 min left me frustrated now if I had been in a club could have had new x lol

Aww lol that would have been disastrous what a waste if a night poor you xx in guessing you haven't done that since x"
deffo not lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remember feeling really horny one night so arranged a quick meet got inundated with messages saying how hard they will make me cum..how they would please me etc etc sone guy came lasted 2 min left me frustrated now if I had been in a club could have had new x lol

You should meet us at a club were sure we would have a great night xx

Aww lol that would have been disastrous what a waste if a night poor you xx in guessing you haven't done that since x deffo not lol "

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Clubs for us, its the whole night out of fun and meeting new sexy people xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Clubs for us, its the whole night out of fun and meeting new sexy people xx"

Well so far looks like the club's have it lol...couldn't agree more x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs for us

We always did the social first thing but In a club you meet so many more people in one night with an option for fun on the night or a future contact away from the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We prefer club meets, we’ve tried private meets and they’ve never gone quite as well as hoped either there is no attraction, the other people don’t show up or something else. We get limited free time so at least with a club meet if people are no shows the night is not wasted and if there is no attraction then both couples

are able to move on and finsomeone more suitable if they wish. It’s worked well for us so far

Totally agree with that another reason why we are put off by private meets no shows no attraction etc. The awkwardness and the wasted night not good when you have to plan and turns out not like you envisaged . ..so clubs work better for us too at the moment. .x

The trick is to arrange the private meet with those you met on the club scene whom you know you click with already. We've had some great times doing that.

Though meeting new people privately straight off the bat having not previously met in person.... not so much "

We’ve no problem with meeting the same people more than once if we all happen to be in the same place at the same time but a massive part of the fun for us is playing with different people, I’m not sure we would quite get the same thrill once there is too much familiarity, maybe we need to try it out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Different people lots to choose from is certainly a huge turn on for us mmn

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Clubs for us, its the whole night out of fun and meeting new sexy people xx

Well so far looks like the club's have it lol...couldn't agree more x"

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Club meets as a first then always an option to meet them again at a hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private meets for us, tried clubs and found it not really our thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t mind either as we usually do socials first to see if we Gel. Seems to work well for us. We have had hotel meets although this is either after a social or in contact a fair bit on here first suppose we’ve been fortunate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are good but also enjoy private parties and socials get to meet new people in person and find that spark without pressure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done most meets except their house due to safety. I prefer club meets you can be direct about your preferences without being pushy.

Socials are a good start in public but I did have a delicious social n see with a couple and we moved to their hotel. That was quite relaxed and general rule is if the chat is still flowing after 1 hour and no one leaves, it's fairly open to let's move to hotel x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

One person I know from here has the best private parties. So would prefer those. Unfortunately they're off the calendar now though. But if you find the right people who have a good bunch of people coming around to their private parties it's the best.

Had some fantastic times at clubs as well. Think people are more friendly and easier to chat to compared to normal clubs x

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By *iercedCplCouple
over a year ago

Greater Manchester

We prefer club meets (and even do socials in clubs), no pressure, we still get a night out, and if there is no chemistry, the night isn't ruined for all involved, everyone can just go there seperate ways.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Club meets as a first then always an option to meet them again at a hotel "

We may have to try it at some I'm sure x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Private parties as intrigued us but also a little dated by my them too..lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Always a social for us and chat on the phone and take it from there. .That's a must for us x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We've done both and had great ones at both.

Club meets are best for reducing awkwardness if things aren't as expected.

But house and hotel meets have been fun too, maybe better when you already know the people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Clubs are definitely our favourite lots of choice plenty if people to talk to ...I'm sure and hope we findustry many more friends and playmates in here too

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