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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it so hard to get a meet on here even after your Verified????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to know the answer to this lol.

The site seems to have changed over the years.

Very difficult for a meet on the ickle island I live on

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By *ordan169Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I've been told it depends on how your profile is set. How your pictures have been taken the way you type and the way most men speak to women like they are rubbish can't expect them to reply. And look at the ratio of men to women and you have a answer lol

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By *alkirkbairnMan
over a year ago

Grangemouth

One thing that might confuse people would be your straight yet verified by a TV/ts. Might make people think your being dishonest and put them off

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton


"One thing that might confuse people would be your straight yet verified by a TV/ts. Might make people think your being dishonest and put them off"

May just be a social meet?... just because a veri from a tv/ts is on a profile, shouldnt be a clear indication of play or sexual orientation ( surely not?)

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm finding it hard to get meets as well, it's not just the guys you know!

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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago

tamworth

Darn near impossible at themoment....is everyone hibernating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It helps wen ur fiance joins in with fems ..

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It helps wen ur fiance joins in with fems .."
??

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By *ral DMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"I've been told it depends on how your profile is set. How your pictures have been taken the way you type and the way most men speak to women like they are rubbish can't expect them to reply. And look at the ratio of men to women and you have a answer lol "

I am always polite and good mannered still find it very difficult to find a meet, when ive asked for advice from some of the women they said dont be so polite be more up front and dominant! You cant win on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone finds it hard, i have been looking for a couple all week, just seem to get timewasters xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's better to assume it will be hard work and then plough on investing what you can in improving your approach and learning.

You can be pleasantly surprised if it hits great results. Everyone will fit a different sized group of admirers - based on location, personality, looks and tastes. Do what you can to let others know how well you may fit their tastes and needs.

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By *inakiss64Woman
over a year ago

Near St Albans


"Why is it so hard to get a meet on here even after your Verified???? "
A matter of opinion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been polite, I've been dominant, I've studied profiles and responded the best way possible and even been stood up but I guess that's what guys have to go through. Just a few meets but one-offs for most part due to distance. In fact I resorted to swingers clubs cos I really only have time on weekends anyway so id rather be around genuine like minded people who've made an effort to be there too. You even stand a better chance going to regular night clubs. Nothing beats face-to-face conversation. I do have a feeling ones ethnicity could also be a factor but some might disagree.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"May just be a social meet?... just because a veri from a tv/ts is on a profile, shouldnt be a clear indication of play or sexual orientation ( surely not?)"

Exactly, I'm straight but have met women socially

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By *ancduoCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

It’s just personal taste at the end of the day.

We are listed as a couple but also Play separately. While I (the Mrs) get more attention from the guys, hubby gets feck all. There are more men looking than women. So women can be choosier. Some I have to admit at too choosy. Which is a shame as you don’t know what you’re missing out on if you don’t jump in and go for it.

If more people were open to trying and not be so up their own arse looking for the next Adonis, more people would be happier.

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By *nfinity1Man
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth


"Why is it so hard to get a meet on here even after your Verified???? "

This site has become a victim of its own popularity thanks the newspapers like the Daily Fail, The Sun etc.

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Try parties,clubs and socials I hardly make connection here I mainly use this site to network with my connections...id encourage you to party more,club more and try socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding it hard to get meets as well, it's not just the guys you know! "
well your profile says yiur not meeting so maybe that's a big hint why you cant get a meet?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'm finding it hard to get meets as well, it's not just the guys you know! well your profile says yiur not meeting so maybe that's a big hint why you cant get a meet?"
it say not actively looking but meeting when I post one, I tend to do my own searches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding it hard to get meets as well, it's not just the guys you know! well your profile says yiur not meeting so maybe that's a big hint why you cant get a meet?it say not actively looking but meeting when I post one, I tend to do my own searches "
oh well if it confused me others might get it im not naturally blonde but I'm naturally thick lol xx

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

You've had 6 meets in 4 months, that's better than most

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Try parties,clubs and socials I hardly make connection here I mainly use this site to network with my connections...id encourage you to party more,club more and try socials. "

I've posted the same advice in many similiar threads and couldn't agree more.Most of the quality single guys who I know who've made an effort don't worry about messages on here because they've plenty of meets.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"So women can be choosier. Some I have to admit at too choosy. Which is a shame as you don’t know what you’re missing out on if you don’t jump in and go for it.

If more people were open to trying and not be so up their own arse looking for the next Adonis, more people would be happier. "

This old chestnut

It's called being selective not being up your own arse

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

There's absolutely nothing wrong with being selective.There are quite a few of us single guys who are also selective but beceause we've made the effort to visit socials and clubs where it's a more even playing field we can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though my profile says I'm straight I have far more males looking at my profile. That's to let you know that the proportion of male to female has to be significantly larger. So to get the ladies' attention you have to do things differently but going for socials happen to be the best form of an icebreaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely down to how you lay out your profile and pictures I find on fab. I did wonder what it was going be like after returning as a single guy but no different to when I was on before. Difference for me to others maybe i’m not after meeting loads of women I love the social side of swinging and luckily got lots of great friends now. Definitely recommend getting yourself to organised social events and clubs there great way of meeting people. Be lucky hopefully turns around for you o/p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely down to how you lay out your profile and pictures I find on fab. I did wonder what it was going be like after returning as a single guy but no different to when I was on before. Difference for me to others maybe i’m not after meeting loads of women I love the social side of swinging and luckily got lots of great friends now. Definitely recommend getting yourself to organised social events and clubs there great way of meeting people. Be lucky hopefully turns around for you o/p"
social side is deffinatly how to meet lots of people and get yourself known then it's fun all the way....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Definitely down to how you lay out your profile and pictures I find on fab. I did wonder what it was going be like after returning as a single guy but no different to when I was on before. Difference for me to others maybe i’m not after meeting loads of women I love the social side of swinging and luckily got lots of great friends now. Definitely recommend getting yourself to organised social events and clubs there great way of meeting people. Be lucky hopefully turns around for you o/p social side is deffinatly how to meet lots of people and get yourself known then it's fun all the way...."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've had 6 meets in 4 months, that's better than most"

Lol fancy making it 7 meets for me ?

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