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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't seem to get a lot of interest on my profile can anyone help me

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

You've only been here 2 weeks fella, give it time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot I could suggest, but I'm going to just say lose the pic where you've got mug written on your forehead for starters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Estella any suggestions would be greatly appreciated so fire away ahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

22 years old, hmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've only been here 2 weeks fella, give it time "
being ignored is melting my head ahha

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Patience young sir

(I keep telling myself that)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a numbers game.

You're one man amongst thousands that outnumber the women and couples. Simply put, you've got to work hard at your profile to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Estella any suggestions would be greatly appreciated so fire away ahah"

Well done for removing the pic. Many don't take advice given. There's a number of threads asking for profile advice where people have given some excellent info. Go to Forum Search and search for a profile advice thread and read. And then apply learning.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Estella any suggestions would be greatly appreciated so fire away ahah

Well done for removing the pic. Many don't take advice given. There's a number of threads asking for profile advice where people have given some excellent info. Go to Forum Search and search for a profile advice thread and read. And then apply learning.

Good luck. "
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Thanks for the help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile never says much...

Me ...i could talk for England

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't know what to write is the problem I have 0 creativity and 0 patience so waiting it out and being unique is like blood from a stone haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Estella any suggestions would be greatly appreciated so fire away ahah

Well done for removing the pic. Many don't take advice given. There's a number of threads asking for profile advice where people have given some excellent info. Go to Forum Search and search for a profile advice thread and read. And then apply learning.

Good luck. .

Thanks for the help "

or simply copy from someone.. just make sure you don't copy the pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like it

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Op you've been here 2 weeks and have already got a meet verification.

I think you need to reevaluate your expectations of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it "

ya i did notice that..

You know what is stealth mode use that next time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thought my meet a week was realistic How much action on here would be concicdered regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile never says much...

Me ...i could talk for England "

Me too

Most of it garbage

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I don't know what to write is the problem I have 0 creativity and 0 patience so waiting it out and being unique is like blood from a stone haha "

In that case you're in the wrong place... Sorry to be blunt but patience is essential on here, 2 weeks is nothing on Fab.

Maybe try clubs.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know what to write is the problem I have 0 creativity and 0 patience so waiting it out and being unique is like blood from a stone haha

In that case you're in the wrong place... Sorry to be blunt but patience is essential on here, 2 weeks is nothing on Fab.

Maybe try clubs.

Will do thank you very much not to many near me tho x

Nita"

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I thought my meet a week was realistic How much action on here would be concicdered regular "

Most women on here want more than just a shag. You maybe need to look at hook up sites.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm looking a regular shag if that counts friends with benefits and all that jazz

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I'm looking a regular shag if that counts friends with benefits and all that jazz "

In that case put some effort into your profile.

As has already been suggested look at profile advice threads and profiles of successful guys.

Showing your personality on the forums can help too.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm looking a regular shag if that counts friends with benefits and all that jazz

In that case put some effort into your profile.

As has already been suggested look at profile advice threads and profiles of successful guys.

Showing your personality on the forums can help too.

Nita"

Okay thanks for the help x

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"I thought my meet a week was realistic How much action on here would be concicdered regular "

A meet a week? Seriously?

Even when I was on here as a single lady receiving 100's of messages a day I wasn't having a meet a week!

Let's be realistic, for most single men on here, they would be over the moon with once a month. Most likely scenario would be once every couple of months.

Fab is saturated with single males and unfortunately it can be a numbers game.

If you're wanting a meet a week maybe clubs would work better for you. You're a good looking fella, if you have the personality to match then you will do really well with the ladies and couples in clubs.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP guessing someone said sign up and you get free sex?

It doesn't work like that at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the odd prolonged period where I get a meet a week on average, usually when I had a lot less work hours to get in the way, but by and large I'm at the mercy of my work hours combined with those of prospective meets, same as anyone.

For that very reason I wouldn't 'expect' to get a meet a week ha! However...

The OP probably can. For the simple fact that I get a minimum of 8 or 9 messages a day from lads wanting to have a suck on my joy department "with nothing in return". In fact such messages probably account for around half of my total messages overall, even though I'm listed as straight.

Given that the OP is listed as Bi he probably not only gets even more of these messages, but may be quite partial to the suggestion. So a meet a week minimum for the entire duration of his time on fab probably isn't beyond the realms of possibility.

As for meeting ladies however, being uncreative and impatient will probably go against him, though him being honest enough to admit this will be considered a plus. Those who seek playmates of 22 however, should anticipate a number of them having these traits, so you never know.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u bi am surprised u don't get lots of attention from tvs cd or whatever they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm looking a regular shag if that counts friends with benefits and all that jazz "

Maybe you should consider getting a real life in the real world with real girls...you might even find someone you like...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm looking a regular shag if that counts friends with benefits and all that jazz

Maybe you should consider getting a real life in the real world with real girls...you might even find someone you like...

"

I don't think I understand?

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

If you want regular sex then maybe a relationship is better for you.

Thats what they mean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you want regular sex then maybe a relationship is better for you.

Thats what they mean."

That's no fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm looking a regular shag if that counts friends with benefits and all that jazz

Maybe you should consider getting a real life in the real world with real girls...you might even find someone you like...

I don't think I understand?"

I'll type this slowly for you.

You are 22 single and a guy.

Do you really want to meet girls or hide behind a screen

If the latter try bars clubs events or even just saying hello to someone you like..

At 22 Your chances are slim on here and you are younger than many forumites children

Your very is from a TV. If that's your interest then try Kremlin in Belfast...

I hope your taking notes I usually charge for this.

There are people out their your age if you go look for them

And if you still don't get it the sites called fabswingers... Not dialashag

Helpful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't get much interest then there are things you can do, as a man.

The first thing (I believe all men should be doing this) is going to the gym religiously. If you aren't fucking jacked up to shit you're going to be stuck sending messages and twiddling your thumbs waiting for replies that will never come. Don't believe me? Find the hottest woman you can on this site, now look through her verifications and check out the guys she's met. Notice a trend? Yeah, they're all fucking jacked. Now go to the gym and lift as though your life depends on it. Go out, socialise, get your career under your arm and self improve in any which way you can. Maybe even get on gear, I guarantee most jacked up dudes are on juice, and there is nothing wrong with it. Just do your research.

Don't just sit on your arse feeling sorry for yourself as many do. Your a man and that means something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't get much interest then there are things you can do, as a man.

The first thing (I believe all men should be doing this) is going to the gym religiously. If you aren't fucking jacked up to shit you're going to be stuck sending messages and twiddling your thumbs waiting for replies that will never come. Don't believe me? Find the hottest woman you can on this site, now look through her verifications and check out the guys she's met. Notice a trend? Yeah, they're all fucking jacked. Now go to the gym and lift as though your life depends on it. Go out, socialise, get your career under your arm and self improve in any which way you can. Maybe even get on gear, I guarantee most jacked up dudes are on juice, and there is nothing wrong with it. Just do your research.

Don't just sit on your arse feeling sorry for yourself as many do. Your a man and that means something. "

You know I now feel sorry for him

jacked up... Im not sure he can handle irony...

It is irony???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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In that case you're in the wrong place... Sorry to be blunt but patience is essential on here, 2 weeks is nothing on Fab.

Maybe try clubs.

Nita"

I was told some younger guys join clubs and bail after a while because they aren't getting the shag per visit.

Only one way to get a guaranteed shag a week - and that's to pay for it.

I am amazed at the number of 20 something men who swing. Just would never occur to me at that age, it was all about pulling in a nightclub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meant no insult, I'm only sharing something I know to be the truth, anything else is lies. Women will never forgive you for having a lower Sexual Market Value than them, you are invisible, just a number. You don't even show up on their radar.

But as a man you can do things to change this.

Wealth, social status, power, influence, hobbies, interests, physique, fashion etc.

Women have only one thing: appearance. Men don't give a flying fuck how much money a woman earns, if she's in shape he'd stick his dick in her. Simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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In that case you're in the wrong place... Sorry to be blunt but patience is essential on here, 2 weeks is nothing on Fab.

Maybe try clubs.

Nita

I was told some younger guys join clubs and bail after a while because they aren't getting the shag per visit.

Only one way to get a guaranteed shag a week - and that's to pay for it.

I am amazed at the number of 20 something men who swing. Just would never occur to me at that age, it was all about pulling in a nightclub."

They dont 'swing'

They are here because some geezer down the pub told them we're all ugly desperate old bints that'll shag anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are here because they are tired of having to pass female shit tests and anti slut defences.

This site is called fab swingers and it is a social platform for people who want to get laid. Nothing more.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"I am amazed at the number of 20 something men who swing. Just would never occur to me at that age, it was all about pulling in a nightclub."

Whilst I agree in principle, it's a matter of taste. We are in our fouties and look out of place in a nightclub theses days, yet we prefer the younger guy.

We could always give up that wish, but if we did then we would give up swinging also.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Oh, and it's late so we cant spell!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I'm going to need therapy after this thread but Yano youse are all pretty right

Here is easier especially if ur into older

U don't have to pay for dates and shit

U can find people with similar interests with relative ease it's just getting the text back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are here because they are tired of having to pass female shit tests and anti slut defences.

This site is called fab swingers and it is a social platform for people who want to get laid. Nothing more.

"

Girls test your shit these days?

Blimey

Wasnt like that in my day

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

OP your young and have to accept that some people won't be interested simply because of that. If you think two weeks on here with only one meet is bad, then you'll be suprised that even couples or single female go longer without a meet.

Be proactive and improve your profile and that second meet will come. Then the third. Then the fourth etc. If you sit back and moan no one will care and you'll soon be dismissed as a pessimist.

Anyway, enough of the general advice, her's some advice from a cpl looking for guys just like you.

You seem to have ticked every box for every interest. Really? For example you state no pic collectors lease, but have taking photo's in your interests.

Are you seriously wanting to shag someone in their nineties? Your profile says so.

Add some character to you profile, make yourself worth meeting. Saying your a younger stud means nothing, unless you have proof from verifications etc. Show your personality and make people like us want to meet you.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"but Yano youse are all pretty right"

The word is 'you'. Why add two more letters!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never done too well in school to be honest ahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op you've been here 2 weeks and have already got a meet verification.

I think you need to reevaluate your expectations of the site."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are here because they are tired of having to pass female shit tests and anti slut defences.

This site is called fab swingers and it is a social platform for people who want to get laid. Nothing more.

"

Bollocks....you clearly have not grasped the actual concept nor true point of swinging....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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In that case you're in the wrong place... Sorry to be blunt but patience is essential on here, 2 weeks is nothing on Fab.

Maybe try clubs.

Nita

I was told some younger guys join clubs and bail after a while because they aren't getting the shag per visit.

Only one way to get a guaranteed shag a week - and that's to pay for it.

I am amazed at the number of 20 something men who swing. Just would never occur to me at that age, it was all about pulling in a nightclub.

They dont 'swing'

They are here because some geezer down the pub told them we're all ugly desperate old bints that'll shag anyone"

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I meant no insult, I'm only sharing something I know to be the truth, anything else is lies. Women will never forgive you for having a lower Sexual Market Value than them, you are invisible, just a number. You don't even show up on their radar.

But as a man you can do things to change this.

Wealth, social status, power, influence, hobbies, interests, physique, fashion etc.

Women have only one thing: appearance. Men don't give a flying fuck how much money a woman earns, if she's in shape he'd stick his dick in her. Simple as that. "

There is so much wrong with this post, I don't even know where to start.

All I'm going to say is, whoever taught you about women needs to change their job cos it's all bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you are all going to bicker and fight can you politely fuck of ad do it in private messages

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"If you are all going to bicker and fight can you politely fuck of ad do it in private messages "

Your not helping by saying that, and not showing yourself in a good light either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then feel free to enlighten me as to the concept and true point.

Still, I'm right about why young men are here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'm so wrong but feel free not to explain why. How typical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are all going to bicker and fight can you politely fuck of ad do it in private messages "

Been on and off fab for years they always bicker and fight in the forums lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you are all going to bicker and fight can you politely fuck of ad do it in private messages

Been on and off fab for years they always bicker and fight in the forums lol. "

Can I delete it bc it's doing my scone in x

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"If you are all going to bicker and fight can you politely fuck of ad do it in private messages

Been on and off fab for years they always bicker and fight in the forums lol.

Can I delete it bc it's doing my scone in x"

no you can't. But there is no reason for you to continue to monitor it either, just walk away.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We are the only people to have posted on this thread who's profile the OP meets, and who's profile the OP meets.

That doesn't mean we are right or wrong. It's just dissapointing to see the OP give up because he felt it was 'doing his scone in'.

We live in Devon and know all about scones and we can honestly say that none of the OP's pictures have scones in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nail on head. If someone gives up the option to meet your delightful selves because the rest of the thread doing his scone in then I'd wager the effort of simply ignoring the bickerers and just chatting to those that weren't should be minimal when compared to the effort he should want to put in to pleasuring and being pleasured?

Effort is always one of the key components of meeting, in one way or another. But it's such a delicious effort to make...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I think you have no understanding of what this site is about what so ever.

And this thread you have created is not going to do you any favours in getting interest on your profile. You are showing yourself to be very immature.

If all you are after is a quick shag then you seriously just need to go out on a Saturday night or sign up to Tinder mate.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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Here is easier

U don't have to pay for dates and shit

"

O.P. I think this sums up your attitude

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Here is easier

U don't have to pay for dates and shit

O.P. I think this sums up your attitude"

Oh god, I didn’t read the whole thread *laughs* He didn’t say that, did he? *wanders off chuckling*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get used to being ignored its normal here trust me.

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