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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on here 3 weeks with not one meet.. what am I doing wrong??

Please women of Plymouth help me out here!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like is it worded wrong or not having a profile picture my biggest downfall?

I would put a picture up but a girl I met in Plymouth is on here and she stalked me for ages and wouldn't leave me alone

Please help girls and guys!!!

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By *eneathTheDiamondSkyWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia

A picture doesn't have to be your face.

I chat regularly to three lovely chaps with no profile pics. It's really hard to separate them in my mind. Put up something anonymous but distinctive.

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By *eneathTheDiamondSkyWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia

Also, just double check your profile for typos. You use "too" throughout when you mean "to". I'd ditch the bit about the stalker too.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you know what her profile name is you can block her even if she's already blocked you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha yeah I think it's my predictive text that does that.

I only put the bit with the stalker tonlet people know that's the reason I don't have a picture up

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port


"Haha yeah I think it's my predictive text that does that.

I only put the bit with the stalker tonlet people know that's the reason I don't have a picture up "

If you put a picture up, you won't have to mention the stalker...2 birds with 1 stone.

The photos will make a difference. A clothed one with even cover your tattoos , but give women an idea of your shape.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

You don't have a face pic and cannot accomodate. To most people that immediately screams of someone playing away from home, and rightly or wrongly it will put many people off. Many people comment on why they cannot put a pic online, or why they can't accomodate. It's up to you whether you want to do that, but I would shy away from using the word stalker if you do so.

Word to the wise, three weeks is nothing. Most people join the site thinking they will get as much sex as they can handle, and are sadly mistaken when they realise just how many single guys are doing the same. That doesn't mean it won't happen, but it might take more effort than what you originally thought. Chin up

As you are looking for a FWB, perhaps you should try the chatrooms to get to know local people in a more social context. I recommend the south west room as it's your geographic area and is usually very friendly.

Your original post asked what you are 'doing wrong' and to be honest it's hard to tell as no one knows how your going about it. In general terms though search the site for people that match your profile, and whose profile you also match. Aproach them with an opening message that is engaging, 'Hi how are you' is not likely to get you anywhere. Don't forget to attach a face pic.

Offline, you could attend an organised social or a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post a public pic ( not your cock ) , if your gonna post a face pic then smile

If your gonna post a torso pic then you may want to look at my profile to get some ideas. Realistically pictures won't really get you noticed, I suggest you take part in the chat forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't accommodate, no photos = playing away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You want a woman who knows how to satisfy her man?

'Nuff said really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right I have changed the profile text to highlight that I stay on base as I'm in the military hence why I can't accommodate.

How is my profile looking now?

I can't post a picture cause of the job

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"Post a public pic ( not your cock ) , if your gonna post a face pic then smile

If your gonna post a torso pic then you may want to look at my profile to get some ideas. Realistically pictures won't really get you noticed, I suggest you take part in the chat forums "

Pics won't get you noticed?? I beg to differ sir! *off to have a cold shower*

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

3 weeks hahaha come back and complain in 3+ months!

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