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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

doing all the right things, but no replies, get fabd on my pics, but no messages..not going too well lol

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

you've been here a while and not been verified, this can often make people think you are only here for wank chat and not to meet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"doing all the right things, but no replies, get fabd on my pics, but no messages..not going too well lol"

What are all the right things in your opinion? If you're doing them what more can we suggest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean no one replies to your messages or no one messages you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i am verified lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am verified lol"

Picture verified yes. No cam or meet veri will put a few off your profile unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am verified lol"

Your photo verified, and that means nothing for a man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how do i verify on cam? im always on chat, but no one replied etc my cam works aswell?

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"i am verified lol"

sorry i meant meet verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cam verified is no better than photo verifed

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

First of tell us what you ARE doing ..

Then maybe we can suggest things to consider

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well id like to be meet verified or cam verified, but how do i do that when no one replies haha the messages are polite and inquisitive...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you could write a profile that encouraged people to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well id like to be meet verified or cam verified, but how do i do that when no one replies haha the messages are polite and inquisitive..."

I've seen people suggest starting a new profile if after a good while having no meets etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the feedback.. just gotta keep putting myself out there i guess haha hopefully someone will meet and verify me!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP send me your opening message and i'll give feedback if you like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

have done lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP send me your opening message and i'll give feedback if you like "

Happy to do the same

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"well id like to be meet verified or cam verified, but how do i do that when no one replies haha the messages are polite and inquisitive..."

exactly, this is why it's hard for guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i would reply but i cant contact you 3sumqueen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bland message. I nothing to interest us or suggest you have even read our profile

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"have done lol"

Not great but you'll get the hang of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have done lol

Not great but you'll get the hang of it "

Well he's got the hang of the block button lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just recieved better feedback from kinky minx thats all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give us a message then. I do love to give feedback

Vixen xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just recieved better feedback from kinky minx thats all. "

We gave feed back on your message, and if you did not want it why ask?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i wouldnt of messaged your profile in the first place though so just realised your feedback would be irrelevant to me, sorry,

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"i wouldnt of messaged your profile in the first place though so just realised your feedback would be irrelevant to me, sorry,"

Do you mean you're not looking for couples?

Any feedback should be welcomed though, as people have spent their time on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wouldnt of messaged your profile in the first place though so just realised your feedback would be irrelevant to me, sorry,"

Our feedback was on your sample message, so is relevant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol im grateful, but i made a mistake messaging that profile, i wouldnt of wanted feedback from it because i wouldt of messaged in the first place. plus, all feedback is different. ive just sent a similar message and got 3 replies... i dont get it lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"ive just sent a similar message and got 3 replies... i dont get it lol "

The mysteries of Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive just sent a similar message and got 3 replies... i dont get it lol

The mysteries of Fab "

We lowered our age range just for you to message us.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"doing all the right things, but no replies, get fabd on my pics, but no messages..not going too well lol"

Get your arse to a club or social

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"i would reply but i cant contact you 3sumqueen x"

yeah i'm struggling to type at times so keeping my blocks on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive just sent a similar message and got 3 replies... i dont get it lol

The mysteries of Fab

We lowered our age range just for you to message us. "

You didnt tell him what he wanted to hear though

Your advice was rejected

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

You smoke, that puts a lot of people off, your profile doesn't say what you're into sexually x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol im grateful, but i made a mistake messaging that profile, i wouldnt of wanted feedback from it because i wouldt of messaged in the first place. plus, all feedback is different. ive just sent a similar message and got 3 replies... i dont get it lol "

People willing to learn would take advice from experienced fabbers irrespective of whether they wanted to meet them, and certainly wouldnt call them 'it'. That's a real live couple who have tried to help you. Whether you act on anyones advice is up to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Constructive criticism or desperately seeking attention - our verdict would be the latter!

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"doing all the right things, but no replies, get fabd on my pics, but no messages..not going too well lol"

I fear your performance on this thread isnt gonna increase your chances of success

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"OP send me your opening message and i'll give feedback if you like "

I'll do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol im grateful, but i made a mistake messaging that profile, i wouldnt of wanted feedback from it because i wouldt of messaged in the first place. plus, all feedback is different. ive just sent a similar message and got 3 replies... i dont get it lol

People willing to learn would take advice from experienced fabbers irrespective of whether they wanted to meet them, and certainly wouldnt call them 'it'. That's a real live couple who have tried to help you. Whether you act on anyones advice is up to you. "

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