FabSwingers.com forum: Been a while

By *akingTheClunge OP Man
over a year ago

Havant

Had a couple meets when I signed up now the only messages I get are from single guys asking if I've had any luck... Please tell me that's normal, tried rewriting my profile a few times now to no avail so 3rd perspective would be appreciated.

Hi by the way ;P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a couple meets when I signed up now the only messages I get are from single guys asking if I've had any luck... Please tell me that's normal, tried rewriting my profile a few times now to no avail so 3rd perspective would be appreciated.

Hi by the way ;P "
your profile is all about what you want not what you can offer do a forum search on profiles x female replying xx

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By *akingTheClunge OP Man
over a year ago

Havant

I don't want to write what I can offer though, or at least don't know how to put it across and not seem like my head's up my ass. I read enough female profiles like that and it's a huge put off.

Catch 22 here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No wonder your getting no meets good luck x

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By *akingTheClunge OP Man
over a year ago

Havant

Charming. Well I added some more info, wrote something that seems more on par with what everyone else is doing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Charming. Well I added some more info, wrote something that seems more on par with what everyone else is doing lol

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Has been said millions times a male profile is his shop window there is far more men than wemon on here and when i had my single female profile i had some terrible meets because they were selfish lovers so if the profile and chat didnt peak my interest it was an imidiate no to a meet let alone play ... you should get yourself to socials or clubs better way to meet ppl xx good luck OP xx female replying xx

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By *akingTheClunge OP Man
over a year ago

Havant

Yeah I can appreciate selfish lovers, I've had a few, I ended a relationship once because of it lol... 4 hours of doing all the work just to cum twice. I mean sure, it's all gravy as long as you spill the beans but sometimes it feels like you're going at it on a corpse, if you'll excuse the tasteless reference

Hopefully my profile's a little better, I struggle writing sometimes, wrote rap and poetry for 9 years too long now everything rhymes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wont meet people who are ' too active?'

Love to know how you determine who is too active. Really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile makes you sound cocky and a little selfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep your profile would out me off instantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profile makes you sound cocky and a little selfish"

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"You wont meet people who are ' too active?'

Love to know how you determine who is too active. Really

This put me off too.

Sally

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I would be put off by your name before I read your message.

Sally

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By *akingTheClunge OP Man
over a year ago

Havant

That's fine, you have your views, I have mine. Ultimately if you're taking offense to it you must be someone who fits into the category of too active. Your problem not mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's fine, you have your views, I have mine. Ultimately if you're taking offense to it you must be someone who fits into the category of too active. Your problem not mine.

I'm assuming that was a reply to my comment? You need the reply and quote button

I didnt say I took offence.

I asked how you determine who is 'too active'

I thought it was quite a straightforward question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow having read profile I wouldn't meet, Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You moan on fab forum O/P about not getting meets yet when people offer you advice you don't take it and get offensive there maybe lies your problem. Won't get anywhere on fab with chip on your shoulder just remember how many guys to women/couples there are. Put effort in and meets will come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for mailing Mrs with such an eloquent message I have returned the favour and reverse blocked, also reported for being abusive to her, Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet you either!

Self-centred and cocky!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way she isn't a cunt and doesn't chase cock, and couldn't care less what you think either, Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By the way she isn't a cunt and doesn't chase cock, and couldn't care less what you think either, Mr"

That's disgusting!! Hope he gets banned for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By the way she isn't a cunt and doesn't chase cock, and couldn't care less what you think either, Mr

That's disgusting!! Hope he gets banned for that! "
I've reported and blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crash and burn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crash and burn"
maybe he thought ours was a single female profile and felt a bit brave lol

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By *unniebee1970Woman
over a year ago

The Hive

Yeah bye...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crash and burnmaybe he thought ours was a single female profile and felt a bit brave lol"

I dont get it. I dont get why these young whippersnappers do this

Ask for advice and then get all lairy. Lol

Guess the raging testosterone and immaturity gets in the way of rational thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crash and burnmaybe he thought ours was a single female profile and felt a bit brave lol

I dont get it. I dont get why these young whippersnappers do this

Ask for advice and then get all lairy. Lol

Guess the raging testosterone and immaturity gets in the way of rational thought"

They are capable of thinking?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP won't meet anyone who is 'too active' and women he doesn't like are 'Cock-chasing cunts'..? Double standards anyone?

I sniff a conflicted user.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

username would be a delete from me instantly, but having read the profile, that would do it anyway..comes across as anything but mature, with a few slightly snide remarks in there..also, no-one is going tell me '100%' what im going to be doing..

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Perhaps you should maybe lose the attitude a bit on your profile, maybe a bit more of what you can offer instead of what you want, just comes across as being a bit arrogant to be honest. Just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By the way she isn't a cunt and doesn't chase cock, and couldn't care less what you think either, Mr"

That's horrible, the abuse on this site can really grind you down sometimes

For the OP, interesting comments about being "too active?" Is there a definitive number on this? Maybe you could put that on your profile so people know at what point they will be judged?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"By the way she isn't a cunt and doesn't chase cock, and couldn't care less what you think either, Mr

That's horrible, the abuse on this site can really grind you down sometimes

For the OP, interesting comments about being "too active?" Is there a definitive number on this? Maybe you could put that on your profile so people know at what point they will be judged?

It's tricky as what some class as too active others may not, don't think it's ever possible to define, and I agree I was shocked that that was sent to our couples profile as well!

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By *akingTheClunge OP Man
over a year ago

Havant

You criticise people for writing what they can offer in a way that's quite light-hearted after suggesting doing so and you wonder why you're given the same treatment. It's funny to be honest.

Couples can't talk much considering they're unsatisfied enough in their sex life to look elsewhere to spice it up.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"You criticise people for writing what they can offer in a way that's quite light-hearted after suggesting doing so and you wonder why you're given the same treatment. It's funny to be honest.

Couples can't talk much considering they're unsatisfied enough in their sex life to look elsewhere to spice it up.

It's not about being "unsatisfied" and needing to "spice things up" it's also about the social side, it's a bit difficult to have a couple's profile on other vanilla sites. I am also part of a couple on here, it's our choice to meet others, absolutely nothing wrong with our sex lives at all, this profile is mainly for forums and keeping up with old friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You criticise people for writing what they can offer in a way that's quite light-hearted after suggesting doing so and you wonder why you're given the same treatment. It's funny to be honest.

Couples can't talk much considering they're unsatisfied enough in their sex life to look elsewhere to spice it up.

why did you join the site? im genuinely curious?..if you think the couples are here because they are unsatisfied why would that attract you? surely you'd then be better of on a site where there are just singles?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"You criticise people for writing what they can offer in a way that's quite light-hearted after suggesting doing so and you wonder why you're given the same treatment. It's funny to be honest.

Couples can't talk much considering they're unsatisfied enough in their sex life to look elsewhere to spice it up.

Yes I'm a little bit confused as the OP states on his profile he is..

Not looking for single guys. Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women aged 18 to 99.

Why would he want to meet people who are unsatisfied with their sex lives? I'm really confused now!

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By *andCforfunCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

"You criticise people for writing what they can offer in a way that's quite light-hearted after suggesting doing so and you wonder why you're given the same treatment. It's funny to be honest.

Couples can't talk much considering they're unsatisfied enough in their sex life to look elsewhere to spice it up.

Hardly unsatisfied we have a great sex life. You don't seem to have a grasp of what swinging is for most people. It takes a lot of trust and a lot of understanding and maturity.

But you are young I'm sure you will learn a thing or two at some point.

Also sending abuse to people that say things you don't agree with is just childish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still want to know how he decides people are " too active"

Does he have them followed?

Its imperative I find out. Dont want no one finkin' I'm sum kinda tart or nuffink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I still want to know how he decides people are " too active"

Does he have them followed?

Its imperative I find out. Dont want no one finkin' I'm sum kinda tart or nuffink"

Shhh don't tell anyone, it's 6...

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By *akingTheClunge OP Man
over a year ago

Havant

Updated to make things perhaps clearer and less formal.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Updated to make things perhaps clearer and less formal."

That's a lot better.

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By *infulSandyCouple
over a year ago

London

Wow, we aren't even local or have had contact with this guy and we are blocking him already.

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By *akingTheClunge OP Man
over a year ago

Havant

That's why I don't pay any attention to the criticism, just the advice.

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By *akingTheClunge OP Man
over a year ago

Havant

Hashtags on Fab. I've seen it all now.

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

"Hashtags on Fab. I've seen it all now.

I really doubt that you have...

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Updated to make things perhaps clearer and less formal.

That's a lot better. "

I just read this and I thought that this was what everyone was up in arms about. Can't imagine what the unmodified one was like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi by the way ;P "

You could try putting your profile back to how it was when you had them couple of meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's why I don't pay any attention to the criticism, just the advice.

So, you only want people to say positive things, and agree with you?

Methinks you may have missed a huge point here

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By *akingTheClunge OP Man
over a year ago

Havant

Not at all, Sappy, feeding forum trolls isn't the focus of my time. You should reconsider your own if you can't see that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's why I don't pay any attention to the criticism, just the advice.

Well keep getting the results you deserve then x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not at all, Sappy, feeding forum trolls isn't the focus of my time. You should reconsider your own if you can't see that.

Keep doing what you're doing. You are clearly super successful

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"That's why I don't pay any attention to the criticism, just the advice.

So, you only want people to say positive things, and agree with you?

Methinks you may have missed a huge point here"

Clearly you are a troll sappy, as you don't have the same opinion as our lovely OP lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's why I don't pay any attention to the criticism, just the advice.

So, you only want people to say positive things, and agree with you?

Methinks you may have missed a huge point here

Clearly you are a troll sappy, as you don't have the same opinion as our lovely OP lol

Yeah, Ive been accused of being a troll before. Lol

That thread spontaneously combusted

Not before about a dozen men had replied to a clearly fake profile though. A man pretending to be a woman

I'm a shit hot and sexy troll

And I'm long enough in the tooth, to know bullshit when I read it

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"That's why I don't pay any attention to the criticism, just the advice.

So, you only want people to say positive things, and agree with you?

Methinks you may have missed a huge point here

Clearly you are a troll sappy, as you don't have the same opinion as our lovely OP lol

Yeah, Ive been accused of being a troll before. Lol

That thread spontaneously combusted

Not before about a dozen men had replied to a clearly fake profile though. A man pretending to be a woman

I'm a shit hot and sexy troll

And I'm long enough in the tooth, to know bullshit when I read it

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just read your bio, had me creased up! Shame you're not local o think we'd have a laugh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's why I don't pay any attention to the criticism, just the advice.

So, you only want people to say positive things, and agree with you?

Methinks you may have missed a huge point here

Clearly you are a troll sappy, as you don't have the same opinion as our lovely OP lol

Yeah, Ive been accused of being a troll before. Lol

That thread spontaneously combusted

Not before about a dozen men had replied to a clearly fake profile though. A man pretending to be a woman

I'm a shit hot and sexy troll

And I'm long enough in the tooth, to know bullshit when I read it

just read your bio, had me creased up! Shame you're not local o think we'd have a laugh x"

Oh, the stories I could tell

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"That's why I don't pay any attention to the criticism, just the advice.

So, you only want people to say positive things, and agree with you?

Methinks you may have missed a huge point here

Clearly you are a troll sappy, as you don't have the same opinion as our lovely OP lol

Yeah, Ive been accused of being a troll before. Lol

That thread spontaneously combusted

Not before about a dozen men had replied to a clearly fake profile though. A man pretending to be a woman

I'm a shit hot and sexy troll

And I'm long enough in the tooth, to know bullshit when I read it

just read your bio, had me creased up! Shame you're not local o think we'd have a laugh x

Oh, the stories I could tell"
there were a few of us that met on the beach a while ago it was hilarious talking about Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's why I don't pay any attention to the criticism, just the advice.

So, you only want people to say positive things, and agree with you?

Methinks you may have missed a huge point here

Clearly you are a troll sappy, as you don't have the same opinion as our lovely OP lol

Yeah, Ive been accused of being a troll before. Lol

That thread spontaneously combusted

Not before about a dozen men had replied to a clearly fake profile though. A man pretending to be a woman

I'm a shit hot and sexy troll

And I'm long enough in the tooth, to know bullshit when I read it

just read your bio, had me creased up! Shame you're not local o think we'd have a laugh x

Oh, the stories I could tellthere were a few of us that met on the beach a while ago it was hilarious talking about Fab"

Trouble is, if I ever DID write it down, I would probably be sectioned. People would think I was making it up

Would have loved to have joined you!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"That's why I don't pay any attention to the criticism, just the advice.

So, you only want people to say positive things, and agree with you?

Methinks you may have missed a huge point here

Clearly you are a troll sappy, as you don't have the same opinion as our lovely OP lol

Yeah, Ive been accused of being a troll before. Lol

That thread spontaneously combusted

Not before about a dozen men had replied to a clearly fake profile though. A man pretending to be a woman

I'm a shit hot and sexy troll

And I'm long enough in the tooth, to know bullshit when I read it

just read your bio, had me creased up! Shame you're not local o think we'd have a laugh x

Oh, the stories I could tellthere were a few of us that met on the beach a while ago it was hilarious talking about Fab

Trouble is, if I ever DID write it down, I would probably be sectioned. People would think I was making it up

Would have loved to have joined you! "
shout if ever you get to Cornwall x

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