FabSwingers.com forum: Message advice?..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Struggling on meeting and sending a first message. Any advice? x

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Read a profile

Make sure you meet their requirements

Approach a message as you would a person

Be friendly

Pick up something they mentioned ( evidence you read)

Be nice not crude (unless the tone of the profile suggests they would like that kind of response)

Be a mature adult if you get deleted /no thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Read a profile

Make sure you meet their requirements

Approach a message as you would a person

Be friendly

Pick up something they mentioned ( evidence you read)

Be nice not crude (unless the tone of the profile suggests they would like that kind of response)

Be a mature adult if you get deleted /no thanks

I do try to be as polite as possible, once i get chatting im lovely. Its just the approach/opening of conversation i struggle with x

Thankyou x

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

What are you sending now in a message

v's

Talking to a person in real life

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

"Struggling on meeting and sending a first message. Any advice? x"

Im in a good mood so il give you this for free...just simply try this- hi, bit of a silly question but do you know how much a polar bear weighs ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What are you sending now in a message

v's

Talking to a person in real life

I usually just say heyy, introduce myself, tell them thier profile sparked my insterest so i thought id send a message. And also compliment the pics.

In real life, id introduce myself and maybe see what we had in common, try and make them laugh at least xx

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

So why do you think it's different here than in real life !?

Strangely enough we are human beings even though we are behind s screen

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So why do you think it's different here than in real life !?

Strangely enough we are human beings even though we are behind s screen

I think it may be to do with when youre reading a message, you cant really sense the tone of what is being said. Some people may get offended, simply by bad wording or misunderstanding x

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