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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, I'm quite new to this. Have recently filled out my profile a bit but could you guys could have a look and give me some advice of how to get more interest? Don't know if I'm doing the right things! Thanks x

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By *nysladMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

Hi it's looks more them fine to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi it's looks more them fine to me."

Thanks! Maybe I'm just impatient!

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By *nysladMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

Give it time you'll soon be taking that back ??

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By *nysladMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

Give it time you'll soon be taking that back lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Give it time you'll soon be taking that back lol"

Haha fingers crossed

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By *nysladMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

Aye and toes dont't worry you will be fine.

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By *nysladMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

Also the chat room are a good place to make friends etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks so much I'll have a look

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By *nysladMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

Let me know how it goes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I'm quite new to this. Have recently filled out my profile a bit but could you guys could have a look and give me some advice of how to get more interest? Don't know if I'm doing the right things! Thanks x"

Your looking to attract a single bi fem, you will need patience. Your profile is not very clear on who will actually be playing? Is it all 3 of you or just fem on fem? The fact that all the public pics are of just you, may put some woman off as there's none of the male half, yet you'll both be meeting!

Good luck.

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your looking to attract a single bi fem, you will need patience. Your profile is not very clear on who will actually be playing? Is it all 3 of you or just fem on fem? The fact that all the public pics are of just you, may put some woman off as there's none of the male half, yet you'll both be meeting!

Good luck.

Poppy"

Oh thankyou! I thought I'd made it clear that it would be the three of us playing together but it probably doesn't read that way, do you think there's a better way I could word it? I'll upload a picture of him too thankyou!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your looking to attract a single bi fem, you will need patience. Your profile is not very clear on who will actually be playing? Is it all 3 of you or just fem on fem? The fact that all the public pics are of just you, may put some woman off as there's none of the male half, yet you'll both be meeting!

Good luck.

Poppy

Oh thankyou! I thought I'd made it clear that it would be the three of us playing together but it probably doesn't read that way, do you think there's a better way I could word it? I'll upload a picture of him too thankyou!"

It might read a little better if you say 'we' and not 'I' it's the 'I' that makes it look like it's just you meeting/playing and not both of you. Obviously other people might read it differently. Yes definitely get some pictures of male half up, you won't get anywhere without them. If a woman is meeting/playing with you both, she will want to see pics of you both. X

Poppy

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Like the changes. It reads better (to me) than before.

Seeking a female though you are a couple like a lot of others so you do need patience ..

Perhaps look at the club's and their couples nights or bi nights ?

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys! Just updated again which hopefully makes it read better, let me know what you think! xx

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

You look great, which obviously helps. Things that will make it trickier are, you aren't meet verified, that is really important to sort out.

The other tricky issue might be soft swap only. It means you are really asking a lady to come just for ff play and to pleasure the man. Some might if they are really into just the fem half of the couple and are sufficiently into 'just' ff play. It might put lots off as it can red flag female jealousy issues, which lots of single girls worry about.

You could also consider soft swap with couples or just playing alongside couples and only doing girl/girl - more likely in a club.

Good luck, have fun x

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