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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on the site a while now. Not had any luck though. So any tips gratefully received. I am quite cautious with pics etc due to my career. Is that what's holding me back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me yes. I don't like wasting my time or other peoples, leading people on with lots of chat and knowing I won't be meeting them.

If I can't see what someone looks like to see if the person is someone I'd be interested in, then I don't even open the message.

Doesn't have to be face shots, but give us something to be able to make a choice from.

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I agree with sin-derella

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"Been on the site a while now. Not had any luck though. So any tips gratefully received. I am quite cautious with pics etc due to my career. Is that what's holding me back?"

The pics thing is one thing, and another is that your legal warning is longer than your profile so you should put some effort into the quality of that.

Thing is, will you pay any attention to the advice given??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me yes. I don't like wasting my time or other peoples, leading people on with lots of chat and knowing I won't be meeting them.

If I can't see what someone looks like to see if the person is someone I'd be interested in, then I don't even open the message.

Doesn't have to be face shots, but give us something to be able to make a choice from. "

Thanks. I do usually include a body shot just no face. At first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I'm pretty good at taking advice.

My profile is short and sweet as I don't have a massive list of specifics, and am wide open to suggestion. So maybe a bit more beef and bin some if legal cobblers?

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"Yeah I'm pretty good at taking advice.

My profile is short and sweet as I don't have a massive list of specifics, and am wide open to suggestion. So maybe a bit more beef and bin some if legal cobblers?"

Yes.

The legal bollocks is absolutely worthless crap.

It amazes us that people add it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ta. I've tweaked slightly, removed legal conkers. Will keep playing and adding info. Thanks once again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Made a few tweaks, is this any better? Your help is really appreciated

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Irritating when people use the job as a reason for no avatars or public photos...

I'm sure lots if people on here have jobs and careers they want to keep!

You have whole body... put your brain to work and get some photos done as I certainly wouldn't bother with a shadow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Irritating when people use the job as a reason for no avatars or public photos...

I'm sure lots if people on here have jobs and careers they want to keep!

You have whole body... put your brain to work and get some photos done as I certainly wouldn't bother with a shadow

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exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just me or do these threads get a bit boring.

I'm not being negative to you op in any way but there must be a million of these type of threads in the forums.

Show some personality try a few cheeky pictures and put some effort in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sick to death of these posts. Think problem is loads of single guys join thinking there going be inundated with women wanting sex with them. Sadly what they don't realise is how many single guys there are to women and couples, I might be way off but could be 50-1. I had a single blokes profile for years had face pictures on no cock pics and did ok. Believe tho if you treat your profile like a cv you'll be better off. Little effort no pictures equals no meets. Best advance for single guys is put the effort in get yourself to organised social events and stop moaning

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By *relanddirectMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"Been on the site a while now. Not had any luck though. So any tips gratefully received. I am quite cautious with pics etc due to my career. Is that what's holding me back?

The pics thing is one thing, and another is that your legal warning is longer than your profile so you should put some effort into the quality of that.

The legal thing has no bearing in law whatsoever

Thing is, will you pay any attention to the advice given??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sick to death of these posts. Think problem is loads of single guys join thinking there going be inundated with women wanting sex with them. Sadly what they don't realise is how many single guys there are to women and couples, I might be way off but could be 50-1. I had a single blokes profile for years had face pictures on no cock pics and did ok. Believe tho if you treat your profile like a cv you'll be better off. Little effort no pictures equals no meets. Best advance for single guys is put the effort in get yourself to organised social events and stop moaning "

Well said

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"Sick to death of these posts. Think problem is loads of single guys join thinking there going be inundated with women wanting sex with them. Sadly what they don't realise is how many single guys there are to women and couples, I might be way off but could be 50-1. I had a single blokes profile for years had face pictures on no cock pics and did ok. Believe tho if you treat your profile like a cv you'll be better off. Little effort no pictures equals no meets. Best advance for single guys is put the effort in get yourself to organised social events and stop moaning "

Couldn't agree more.

Strangely enough, the guy has gone Unlos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooops hope nothing I said. Gather he didn't like advice on his profile after all

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