FabSwingers.com forum: What am i doing wrong?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello folks..

As per the title really. I could do with some pointers or advice.. I may be new to the site, but i'm not naive as to how things work. I joined in the hopes of finding like minded people, and those of a mindset/lifestyle that's slightly different from your average joe on the street. I never seem to meet anyone that isn't vanilla, which is, let's face it, boring.. And frankly i just want to meet nice, genuine folk who can bring some excitement to the table..

Yes, I realise i'm only new and should probably give it time but even so, i would expect more responses or views than i've had.. I'm not stuck up, i'm not pushy, i read profiles and don't contact anyone that doesn't want to be, i'm respectful of what people are after, i never send dick pics and i think of myself as nice, laid back guy. I'm not a model, but not exactly quasimodo either.. So why is it i'm struggling to even get views, let alone messages? All pics are verified and i'm as genuine as they come.. What's the deal?

Cheers in advance.

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Are you getting involved in the community? Forums, chat? Be really active and get to know people. Always the best way to get noticed and meet people

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Do a forum search for 'Profile Advice' and read the good bits

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Your profile reads OK to me, but I'd add some more pics, the ones you have are all very similar.

Add a body shot sonething not too blatant, but a little teaser!

And socialise, here on the forums, look for events or clubs in your area

Good luck x

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Your profile reads OK to me, but I'd add some more pics, the ones you have are all very similar.

Add a body shot sonething not too blatant, but a little teaser!

And socialise, here on the forums, look for events or clubs in your area

Good luck x"

Everything that's been said so far is sound advice.

But you don't accommodate but can't say why? That can be off putting to some sort be straight out honest and tell people why!

You've only been on a couple of weeks but the truth is it takes time, patience, even more patience and perseverance!

Sell yourself well and it can work.

Good Luck!

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

No way I cant believe them boxers aren't bring the girls to the yard

You know the old saying about all good things and that.

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