FabSwingers.com forum: Nobody wants to meet ????

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's a man gotta do? ????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you gonna tell him, or shall I?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"What's a man gotta do? ????????"

Well a man can pay for it.

A man can have a long hard think about why no one wants meet him.

A man can have a wank.

There are many, many options available to a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a wank whilst crying?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In regards to what exactly? ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

??????????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't believe nobody has told him yet.

Come on guys don't be evil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send women dick pics. They love it. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a man gotta do? ????????

Well a man can pay for it.

A man can have a long hard think about why no one wants meet him.

A man can have a wank.

There are many, many options available to a man."

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Can't believe nobody has told him yet.

Come on guys don't be evil."

Wait till the 174th post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send women dick pics. They love it. ??"

With a subject line say "want to fuck"

It's that easy.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Perhaps they don't want to meet you but are meeting who they want to OP?

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By *lue9753Man
over a year ago

Oldham

You know men cannot multi task

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"What's a man gotta do? ????????"

For what??

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

for fucks sake just tell him someone? put the poor guy out his wonder.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Ok...

I'll be nice...

You are one of hundreds of men on here and your profile is your shop window, so to speak.

If you had hundreds to chose from would you stand out?

Please feel free top do a forum search for profile advice for more detailed information.

Nita

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"What's a man gotta do? ????????"

Okay we will say it.

Show a little effort.

Write a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When looking for people to meet, we like a good amount of photos that show us what kind of body type you are and couldn't care less how a guy's dick looks from seven different angles. Face photos are always good but body shots are too if you're comfortable enough.

We also like to read about what that person is looking for and what they can offer from their bio.

The number one rule of Fab is not to expect anything and you won't be disappointed.

Good luck OP x

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Guys get fucking belittled on here and it's only the guys it fucking pisses me off....it's fucking cowardly bullying

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By *pforit78Man
over a year ago

nor

What you will find on here is the majority of females are pretentious and will only reply or message based on your looks. Doesn't matter if you have a great personality or are a sex god.

Also females receive lots of messages and will bulk delete so don't even get chance to see your message. Keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a wank whilst crying?"

Lol

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"What's a man gotta do? ????????

Well a man can pay for it.

A man can have a long hard think about why no one wants meet him.

A man can have a wank.

There are many, many options available to a man."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a man gotta do? ????????

Well a man can pay for it.

A man can have a long hard think about why no one wants meet him.

A man can have a wank.

There are many, many options available to a man."
I'm quite fond of the wanking option

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

You mean it's not enough just being a guy with a cock, a beard and an empty profile? I'm staggered...

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By *elshguy999Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"What's a man gotta do? ????????"

A mans gotta do, what a mans gotta do.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"Guys get fucking belittled on here and it's only the guys it fucking pisses me off....it's fucking cowardly bullying "

Some guys just don't seem to be bothered about putting effort into a decent profile.

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By *allypWoman
over a year ago

Bricket Wood

"Guys get fucking belittled on here and it's only the guys it fucking pisses me off....it's fucking cowardly bullying

Some guys just don't seem to be bothered about putting effort into a decent profile. "

A smiley face, whit and charm. One cock pic, intersting body pics. But most of all a gosh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a man gotta do? ????????"

I know, after all your hard work as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a man gotta do? ????????"
Grow up maybe x female replying x

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

... and what are those women supposed to judge guys on when most of them have profiles which barely extend to a couple of sentences and some cock shots? What could they conclude about the OP for example based on his profile? It's nothing to do with being pretentious. If guys want to be judged on stuff other than their looks then they should ensure their profiles allow that. You've made the effort with your profile, why don't they? It's a numbers game and the fact is that the guys here vastly outnumber the females. Females tend to get loads of messages every day and guys simply don't. It gets very tiresome replying to countless messages from guys who not only haven't written a half decent profile themselves but haven't even bothered to find out what you're looking for first.

"What you will find on here is the majority of females are pretentious and will only reply or message based on your looks. Doesn't matter if you have a great personality or are a sex god.

Also females receive lots of messages and will bulk delete so don't even get chance to see your message. Keep trying"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys get fucking belittled on here and it's only the guys it fucking pisses me off....it's fucking cowardly bullying "

And girls get treated like free prostitutes. With little or no respect.

How do you suggest we redress the balance?

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By *pforit78Man
over a year ago

nor

"... and what are those women supposed to judge guys on when most of them have profiles which barely extend to a couple of sentences and some cock shots? What could they conclude about the OP for example based on his profile? It's nothing to do with being pretentious. If guys want to be judged on stuff other than their looks then they should ensure their profiles allow that. You've made the effort with your profile, why don't they? It's a numbers game and the fact is that the guys here vastly outnumber the females. Females tend to get loads of messages every day and guys simply don't. It gets very tiresome replying to countless messages from guys who not only haven't written a half decent profile themselves but haven't even bothered to find out what you're looking for first.

What you will find on here is the majority of females are pretentious and will only reply or message based on your looks. Doesn't matter if you have a great personality or are a sex god.

Also females receive lots of messages and will bulk delete so don't even get chance to see your message. Keep trying"

Good job I do alright then lol. It doesn't take much effort to have a half decent profile.

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By *issyClarissaWoman
over a year ago

Nr Dorchester

"What's a man gotta do? ????????"

I always wonder why such young guys are even on here.... but maybe that's another thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a man gotta do? ????????

I always wonder why such young guys are even on here.... but maybe that's another thread

yep i think it will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile comes across as lazy. You are probably better looking than alot of blokes on here but im confident others would be more successful due to their profile. You reap what you sow as the saying goes.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Two days later after a ton of helpful advice and comments.....and guess what?

No change.

Quelle surprise....

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By *ornysxguyMan
over a year ago

Maldon, Essex

Give it 24hrs an another post will go up asking the same thing. Seems to be the trend on here ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His forum post is longer than his profile

Let's hope he 'lasts' longer than both

Make an effort man !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys get fucking belittled on here and it's only the guys it fucking pisses me off....it's fucking cowardly bullying

And girls get treated like free prostitutes. With little or no respect.

How do you suggest we redress the balance?"

good example is I had a meet and then suddenly the demands came flooding in...including one that said he would pay....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What you will find on here is the majority of females are pretentious and will only reply or message based on your looks. Doesn't matter if you have a great personality or are a sex god.

Also females receive lots of messages and will bulk delete so don't even get chance to see your message. Keep trying"

So you fuck people you don't find physically attractive, as long as they have a nice personallity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two days later after a ton of helpful advice and comments.....and guess what?

No change.

Quelle surprise...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its simple there is to many guys and not enough single ladies or couples that are gen

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By *ornysxguyMan
over a year ago

Maldon, Essex

"its simple there is to many guys and not enough single ladies or couples that are gen "

This is why a single guy has to go that extra mile an stand out, a few words on a profile an bad pictures rarely goes anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People need to treat others as they would like to be treated and all the nice things they like and show and please send face pics not a cock as we all know what one looks like .some like small some like larger just finding the right type of person is the thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took me nearly a year for my first meet need to build your profile and speak to people it aint a takeaway .... go to clubs socials etc just trying to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send them a message saying do you want to flmeey for a fuck now

It works everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet

My phone can't spell

I'm sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are the banter kings who occupy this thread happy with my profile change? Hahahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the banter kings who occupy this thread happy with my profile change? Hahahah"

" ready to meet someone who can please me?"

What would you think if you read that on a profile OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are the banter kings who occupy this thread happy with my profile change? Hahahah

" ready to meet someone who can please me?"

What would you think if you read that on a profile OP?"

Is that better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the banter kings who occupy this thread happy with my profile change? Hahahah

" ready to meet someone who can please me?"

What would you think if you read that on a profile OP?

Is that better?

Read your profile text to yourself

Tell me, if you were chattin' up someone in a bar. You know, like real people do?

Would you say " I'd like you to meet me when I'm free?"

What do you think the response would be?

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

May I say that the removal of your beard, makes you look much more your age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is that a compliment or an insult? Hahahah

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Meet

My phone can't spell

I'm sorry"
mine carnt buy a round of drinks.but does know the tempriture in bancock fuck it carnt spell iether ha ha

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Are the banter kings who occupy this thread happy with my profile change? Hahahah

" ready to meet someone who can please me?"

What would you think if you read that on a profile OP?

Is that better?

Read your profile text to yourself

Tell me, if you were chattin' up someone in a bar. You know, like real people do?

Would you say " I'd like you to meet me when I'm free?"

What do you think the response would be?"

A slap?!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Get meet verified asap. Plenty of clubs close by to you. Fun and easy to do.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"What's a man gotta do? ????????"

A man needs to know how old he is.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the banter kings who occupy this thread happy with my profile change? Hahahah

" ready to meet someone who can please me?"

What would you think if you read that on a profile OP?

Is that better?

Read your profile text to yourself

Tell me, if you were chattin' up someone in a bar. You know, like real people do?

Would you say " I'd like you to meet me when I'm free?"

What do you think the response would be?

A slap?!

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a man gotta do? ????????"

Meet real women in clubs. They will meet the real you and not make a judgement on a profile.

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

I have to be sexually attracted, if I'm not in not interested, how amazing his personality is a secondary criteria. Of course I wouldn't meet a man i was attracted to but had the personality of a dead fish (that was being married)

Don't care if he thinks he's a sex god either if I'm not attracted its a no.

"What you will find on here is the majority of females are pretentious and will only reply or message based on your looks. Doesn't matter if you have a great personality or are a sex god.

Also females receive lots of messages and will bulk delete so don't even get chance to see your message. Keep trying"

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

I'd say go to clubs is the best way.....yes you can get to meet by not going to clubs I'm my opinion it's hard to do as your finding bear in mind we all been where you are also.....????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send women dick pics. They love it. ??

With a subject line say "want to fuck"

It's that easy."

And the dick pic should feature a sky remote.

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By *andyPhuckerMan
over a year ago

normandy france

Just chill and be your self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Search for men looking for women that have been verified by a meet. For the majority of these will have written good and interesting profiles with good pictures.

I get 100+ messages each day and more if I update my status or add a new picture. Your personality really is a secondary factor on here as it doesn't always come across in a message.

It has been suggested before but join a club, have fun and ask if they can verify you on here. Women are more likely to respond to someone who is verified.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, you are up against stiff competition on here. A woman can have nothing on her profile and get hundreds of messages while a man can have a decent profile and get very little response. If you want lots of responses, join a dating/hookup website or use tinder where the odds are in your favour and the women probably just as eager to have sex as they are on here. If I was young and unattached I wouldn't waste my time on here.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

There are 3 ways you can guarantee to improve your chances 1000%*.

1. Go to socials.

2. Go to socials.

3. Go... ffs, if you haven't figured it out by now, I'm not going to tell you a third time lol!

(*Disclaimer... this figure may have been randomly plucked from the ether by the OP, and has no actual verifiable merit, apart from looking good!)

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By *othcpluk1Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"What's a man gotta do? ????????"

Get a Girlfriend and ask her if she would like to have sex with single men.

If you're lucky she Will say yes and get on fab with a couples profile.

Easy isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make yourself stand out more make your self appealing to the women and couples on here so they want to know more about you instead of just putting fancy a fuck which will get you zero responses

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Guys get fucking belittled on here and it's only the guys it fucking pisses me off....it's fucking cowardly bullying "
I know right.thing is the guy who is posting in real life would be out of the league of most of the people who are belittling him.it's almost like they know that and therefore be nasty as off the internet they have never been able to do so lol.internet does crazy shit to peoples frame of mind and egos on here.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

I would say any man on here under 25 is wasting their time. There are very few women on here under thirty and those over thirty will generally not consider meeting someone in their early twenties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And girls get treated like free prostitutes. With little or no respect.

Amen to that!!!!

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I would say any man on here under 25 is wasting their time. There are very few women on here under thirty and those over thirty will generally not consider meeting someone in their early twenties. "
Mrs is 26 so they are here.tottally understand your point though as we have learned that around the age of 40 is the sweet spot for meeting guys as we have found around that age they seem to understand the dynamics of swinging better with a couple.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP, have you got a beard?

2 very different pics, appealing and off-putting to different people. You might just put both sets off???

Remove the irrelevant one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys get fucking belittled on here and it's only the guys it fucking pisses me off....it's fucking cowardly bullying "

I'd be silly to think this doesn't go on, but a lot of the guys who get this stick hardly help themselves. OK, everyone is new on here at some time and I remember naively having no pics and a lot less text on my first profile but after getting zilch interest in the first 3 or 4 weeks or so I made drastic changes and have been enjoying regular dalliances ever since. Whereas for a guy who had been on here say a year or two with a rubbish profile/messages to simply bleat on the forums about how crap the site is/how the women on site are unfriendly/what the hell does he have to do to get a meet etc, etc, really does put himself in the firing line of the gunners. And there's plenty of them...

It's not only the guys that receive this to be fair, but they will get belittled more (as those doing the perceived "bullying" have nothing to lose from doing so as single guys are plentiful on this site), but most of the single guys at least have thicker skins and can brush off insults and abuse by either using them as motivation or merely disregarding them altogether.

Whereas more women will take these insults to heart when aimed at them and they can potentially do more damage to the insulted party.

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By *ornysxguyMan
over a year ago

Maldon, Essex

"And girls get treated like free prostitutes. With little or no respect.

Amen to that!!!!

Not all are free, I got propositioned within 1hr of a new member being on. Soon gone once reported, not my cup of tea, but I do wonder how many slip through an actually do get business from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone fancy va club tonight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had two no shows already...one deleted profile and blocked me on kik at agreed meeting place. Messaged I arrived and got a message...."hahahaha sucker" and next thing kik was blocked. I looked at their profile and it was deleted.

I now understand why guys post in forums so synically. I'm hoping to go to townhouse when I'm over but not sure if they allow unverified single guys in.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"What's a man gotta do? ????????"

Become a woman; a single female profile within 20 miles of me appeared this morning, and she had her first meet at lunchtime today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What you will find on here is the majority of females are pretentious and will only reply or message based on your looks. Doesn't matter if you have a great personality or are a sex god.

Also females receive lots of messages and will bulk delete so don't even get chance to see your message. Keep trying"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a wank whilst crying?

Why crying and why wank when on Fab lots of beautiful !!!

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