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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can you help me with any pointers on how to meet people?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You could write a profile to start with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ask the guys who are successful tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say a little more about yourself in your profile.

Toss the bathroom mirror selfies and take pics in a different environment. Preferably not selfies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start by searching the other 53865 what am I doing wrong threads. The answers are always the same.

Put the effort in, you may get some reward out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write a little blog about what you offer and are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Say a little more about yourself in your profile.

Toss the bathroom mirror selfies and take pics in a different environment. Preferably not selfies. "

cheers pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start by searching the other 53865 what am I doing wrong threads. The answers are always the same.

Put the effort in, you may get some reward out."

That just about covers it.x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think most would prefer less tiles, grout and basin and more of you, but you always get some design fetishists, so....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Additionally, it's too mushroomy for me.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

nice pics, nice text, some interests...

most people look at the profile before even looking at the message so you have to sell yourself there!!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

To be honest, since you've been on over a year with no verifications, I'd scrap your profile and start a new one...

I'd recommend a forum search for profile advice.

As for how to meet people?

Try socials and clubs to at least get verified.

That'll help.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest, since you've been on over a year with no verifications, I'd scrap your profile and start a new one...

I'd recommend a forum search for profile advice.

As for how to meet people?

Try socials and clubs to at least get verified.

thanks.ive been off it for Ages only updated pics the other week. I'm not in to selfies etc

That'll help.

Nita"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"[Removed by poster at 17/08/17 19:26:56]"
what do I know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U need alot more info on ya profile . Take a look at mine

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I don't read profiles, I look at pics.

But I'm not someone that really meets through messages, prefer going to clubs or socials, that way I've not wasted part of my day to go and meet someone that looks nothing like their pics.

Some people read profiles, but if guess the first point of call would be pictures, so expand on them.

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By *ot_very_fabMan
over a year ago

London

The gender balance on this site means that only a very small % of men can possibly be successful.

To offer a different "solution":

You might have more luck on conventional dating sites - which almost always leads to sex on the first meeting just the same (literally 80-90% of the time). I've had zero meetings from fab in two years, but around 65 lays from tinder etc in the same time period.

I presume that fab requires some very particular type of approach/style which remains a mystery to most guys. If you've been on tinder etc. before, OP, how did you get on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd get rid of the bit about drugs entirely... I dont usually assume people take drugs in the first place, so it kind of plants the subject in your brain when you read it. Are you hiding a massive ibuprofen stash?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The gender balance on this site means that only a very small % of men can possibly be successful.

To offer a different "solution":

You might have more luck on conventional dating sites - which almost always leads to sex on the first meeting just the same (literally 80-90% of the time). I've had zero meetings from fab in two years, but around 65 lays from tinder etc in the same time period.

I presume that fab requires some very particular type of approach/style which remains a mystery to most guys. If you've been on tinder etc. before, OP, how did you get on?"

You have a point there. Tinder and POF are easier to get laid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you should go out and talk to women like before the internet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U need alot more info on ya profile . Take a look at mine "

but you have a pic on the shitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Additionally, it's too mushroomy for me. "

What does that mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add more in ur write up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say rewrite you profile and change the main photo and adding more photos. i have the same trouble with my profile

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Join in with the forum and cam chat. Good luck!

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By *ak777Man
over a year ago

shaw

buy my book on how to meet people,only £40 plus postage .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"buy my book on how to meet people,only £40 plus postage ."
errr no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile ain't anything to write home about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never send a cock pic in a message. Most of us women are put off by it, well I am. Don't send a dirty or obscene first message either and don't be pushy, or persistent. Nothing worse than a guy who sends the same message over and over again every few days or so, guaranteed to get you blocked x

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"Can you help me with any pointers on how to meet people? "

You need to put some effort into a profile.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Start by searching the other 53865 what am I doing wrong threads. The answers are always the same.

Put the effort in, you may get some reward out."
well said

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Patience is the key lol"
lol wondered when this was coming...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditch the dont do drugs bit. I dont eat cake but i dont put that down lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'd ask the guys who are successful tbh "

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester


"Can you help me with any pointers on how to meet people? "

Google it

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hygiene and safe sex is my priority" doesn't make it sound like it would be an especially erotic and exciting encounter.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above, more than a year with no verifications makes you look like a time waster, maybe consider starting over.

Your profile is short and impersonal and your pictures are the same and, apologies but not very good

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Can you help me with any pointers on how to meet people? "

In my view of you have to ask then you've already lost the game

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

On the interests section of your profile you have not listed any interests? Are you not interested in anything?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

OP was three days ago.

Advice has been given, some of it has been acknowledged, but very little has changed.......

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Additionally, it's too mushroomy for me.

What does that mean?"

He said he was a 'fun guy'

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