FabSwingers.com forum: Having no luck :(

By *arryt90 OP Man
over a year ago

par

What am I doing wrong? Im never rude or asking for sex straight away. I send a face picture. But just don't seem to get replies. Especially from women. Helppppp x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people look at profiles to check if they are compatable. You may want to ask for specific profile advice or look at the many threads giving advice to single men.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Hey there - I'm with Alice. Unfortunately we can't give profile advice unless specifically requested to due to forum rules, but were you to ask, we'd be happy to give you a few pointers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop waving your cock in people's faces??! Most women won't even look at your profile with your current profile pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's more guys on here than ladies so you have to be patient and it's true woman don't like close up of cocks they want see the whole body. And don't take this site personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many women don't like pubes. You don't accom. And have put no effort in your profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask yourself; would you be inspired to contact you based on what you have presented? If yes, great carry on. If no, maybe make some changes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditch the cock pics.

Extend the profile biog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are doing nothing wrong, it is just that women from here are not interested in meeting you and in all likelihood they never will be.

What I would advise is go to the gym and work out daily for six months then come back with some professional photos. Ditch the dick pic, your dick is nothing special and does you no favours whatsoever. Nobody should have to see that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What am I doing wrong? Im never rude or asking for sex straight away. I send a face picture. But just don't seem to get replies. Especially from women. Helppppp x"

I'm not suprised considering a lot of the ladies on here are Escorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say even i donr look at profiles with cock pics and im a tv. Most important is face pic and admin verified. Why? Saftey. Admin knows what you look like if anything happens and if your not like your pic when we meet well we would not. Also add what you like doing and some pref you look for eg . Slim or big makes a big dif.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the exact same problem myself I always try to give compliments and be polite but just don't seem to get anywhere .

It may be my profile but I've mixed views so not sure if I need to change it or not .

I think it is just that us men are really out numbered so the ladies can pick from loads of guys so they can afford to be perticutar and I guess I'm just not quite good enough .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop waving your cock in people's faces??! Most women won't even look at your profile with your current profile pic."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many women don't like pubes. You don't accom. And have put no effort in your profile text. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never got a chance but waiting! I am sure that ine day will come

be optimistic OP

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

"What am I doing wrong? Im never rude or asking for sex straight away. I send a face picture. But just don't seem to get replies. Especially from women. Helppppp x

I'm not suprised considering a lot of the ladies on here are Escorts

How is this A) Helpful or B) True?

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

"What am I doing wrong? "

swinging site are mostly for couples, try a dating site you might have more luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 17/08/17 17:37:52]

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

A lot of guys here expect rather too much too soon and need to be more realistic. They send a load of one liners accompanied by cock shots then expect to get offers of sex flooding in. It doesn't usually work like that and given the number of single males far exceeds the females/couples here, the odds are against them from the start. We think many of them delude themselves that just because people are members here it follows that they'll jump into bed with any guy who chats them up a bit. Yes that can happen but not often in our experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never got a chance but waiting! I am sure that ine day will come

be optimistic OP"

Not sure why...

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

"Most people look at profiles to check if they are compatable. You may want to ask for specific profile advice or look at the many threads giving advice to single men. "

This

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"What am I doing wrong? Im never rude or asking for sex straight away. I send a face picture. But just don't seem to get replies. Especially from women. Helppppp x"

Be as disrespectful too women as possible trust me they love it

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"What am I doing wrong? Im never rude or asking for sex straight away. I send a face picture. But just don't seem to get replies. Especially from women. Helppppp x

Be as disrespectful too women as possible trust me they love it"

School's out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like fishing with a toothpick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like fishing with a toothpick

Use a bigger maggot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like fishing with a toothpick

Use a bigger maggot

I'm not that small

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"What am I doing wrong? Im never rude or asking for sex straight away. I send a face picture. But just don't seem to get replies. Especially from women. Helppppp x

Be as disrespectful too women as possible trust me they love it"

Trust me, we don't

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"What am I doing wrong? Im never rude or asking for sex straight away. I send a face picture. But just don't seem to get replies. Especially from women. Helppppp x

Be as disrespectful too women as possible trust me they love it

Trust me, we don't

Anyone who's disrespectful to either of us gets blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What am I doing wrong? Im never rude or asking for sex straight away. I send a face picture. But just don't seem to get replies. Especially from women. Helppppp x

I'm not suprised considering a lot of the ladies on here are Escorts

Nice generalisation. I've met plenty of girls who are not on the game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What am I doing wrong? Im never rude or asking for sex straight away. I send a face picture. But just don't seem to get replies. Especially from women. Helppppp x

I'm not suprised considering a lot of the ladies on here are Escorts

*gets popcorn*

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

How many threads like this, get loads of advice but the op never bothers replying??

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"What am I doing wrong? Im never rude or asking for sex straight away. I send a face picture. But just don't seem to get replies. Especially from women. Helppppp x

I'm not suprised considering a lot of the ladies on here are Escorts

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you've had personal experience then have you? How rude!

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By *arumcoupleCouple
over a year ago

salisbury

Ah yet another "Look at my profile" to try a lure a lady rather than write a decent profile and send a lady a well written message.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Ah yet another "Look at my profile" to try a lure a lady rather than write a decent profile and send a lady a well written message."
I'll consider myself not lured lol

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By *arumcoupleCouple
over a year ago

salisbury

"Ah yet another "Look at my profile" to try a lure a lady rather than write a decent profile and send a lady a well written message. I'll consider myself not lured lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Was going to message OP with some advice but he's not currently online, hopefully he'll post again

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

Nice Guy TM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New here and looking in and reading carefully. Any advice welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh look, 3 days later nothing has changed

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

"Oh look, 3 days later nothing has changed

Just read your status update. Well played.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"What am I doing wrong? Im never rude or asking for sex straight away. I send a face picture. But just don't seem to get replies. Especially from women. Helppppp x"

Can you pull in the real world ?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What am I doing wrong? Im never rude or asking for sex straight away. I send a face picture. But just don't seem to get replies. Especially from women. Helppppp x

I'm not suprised considering a lot of the ladies on here are Escorts

Do you have proof to back this up? You said 'a lot of ladies on here are escorts'!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"What am I doing wrong? Im never rude or asking for sex straight away. I send a face picture. But just don't seem to get replies. Especially from women. Helppppp x

I'm not suprised considering a lot of the ladies on here are Escorts

Do you have proof to back this up? You said 'a lot of ladies on here are escorts'! "

It's a self defence mechanism, can't get a meet so blame the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What am I doing wrong? Im never rude or asking for sex straight away. I send a face picture. But just don't seem to get replies. Especially from women. Helppppp x

I'm not suprised considering a lot of the ladies on here are Escorts

Do you have proof to back this up? You said 'a lot of ladies on here are escorts'! "

I never liked Fords myself..except for Capris

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What am I doing wrong? Im never rude or asking for sex straight away. I send a face picture. But just don't seem to get replies. Especially from women. Helppppp x

I'm not suprised considering a lot of the ladies on here are Escorts

Do you have proof to back this up? You said 'a lot of ladies on here are escorts'!

It's a self defence mechanism, can't get a meet so blame the ladies"

Yes and attention seeking.....look at me look at me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a lot of passive agressive pisstake on forums. Is this the normal sort of exchange on here?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Seems a lot of passive agressive pisstake on forums. Is this the normal sort of exchange on here?"

We are fed up of these kinds of threads. There is plenty o advice if OP wants it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What am I doing wrong? Im never rude or asking for sex straight away. I send a face picture. But just don't seem to get replies. Especially from women. Helppppp x

I'm not suprised considering a lot of the ladies on here are Escorts

Do you have proof to back this up? You said 'a lot of ladies on here are escorts'!

I never liked Fords myself..except for Capris

Never had a capri like the mondeo and loved my old granada

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same, not having any luck I keep checking to make sure I have the correct settings etc. I missing something but not sure what ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems a lot of passive agressive pisstake on forums. Is this the normal sort of exchange on here?

We are fed up of these kinds of threads. There is plenty o advice if OP wants it."

Where is the piss taking on this thread? I see none

As above. There is shedloads of advice on here. Many people ask for it

Few take it

Six months down the line, they are STILL moaning they cant get layed.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Seems a lot of passive agressive pisstake on forums. Is this the normal sort of exchange on here?

We are fed up of these kinds of threads. There is plenty o advice if OP wants it.

Where is the piss taking on this thread? I see none

As above. There is shedloads of advice on here. Many people ask for it

Few take it

Six months down the line, they are STILL moaning they cant get layed. "

And here speaks the voice of reason..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been on here long and joined on a recommendation. You say there are no nasty comments well I beg to differ. After reading this thread I've got to say there are some not nice people replying.....just like this one I've copied and pasted from and earlier replie.

You are doing nothing wrong, it is just that women from here are not interested in meeting you and in all likelihood they never will be.

Very judgemental and nasty no need to be like that.

I must say the recommendation from a friend wasn't a good one.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Not been on here long and joined on a recommendation. You say there are no nasty comments well I beg to differ. After reading this thread I've got to say there are some not nice people replying.....just like this one I've copied and pasted from and earlier replie.

You are doing nothing wrong, it is just that women from here are not interested in meeting you and in all likelihood they never will be.

Very judgemental and nasty no need to be like that.

I must say the recommendation from a friend wasn't a good one. "
I don't think this was meant in a nasty way at all, forum banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have your opinion and I have mine. Fair enough I'll move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are doing nothing wrong, it is just that women from here are not interested in meeting you and in all likelihood they never will be.

Very judgemental and nasty no need to be like that.

I must say the recommendation from a friend wasn't a good one. "

Problem is my love, quite a few men seem to be under the impression that the ladies on here will fuck anyone. That we have no standards. All they have to do, is show us a pic of their todger, and we'll run round at lightening speed. No effort required on their part at all

If you look at all the " i need help with my profile" threads, you will probably notice that alot of people take alot of time pointing newbies in the right direction

And explaining what swinging is about

Very often that advice falls on deaf ears. In fact, invariably the OP doesnt even come back to say "thanks"

We know what a cock looks like. We dont need to see endless pics of them

Alot of us ladies get a little frustrated at the lack of effort and respect shown to us

So we get sarky. Its all we have left. Lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

You are doing nothing wrong, it is just that women from here are not interested in meeting you and in all likelihood they never will be.

Very judgemental and nasty no need to be like that.

I must say the recommendation from a friend wasn't a good one.

If you look at all the " i need help with my profile" threads, you will probably notice that alot of people take alot of time pointing newbies in the right direction

And explaining what swinging is about

Very often that advice falls on deaf ears. In fact, invariably the OP doesnt even come back to say "thanks"

We know what a cock looks like. We dont need to see endless pics of them

Alot of us ladies get a little frustrated at the lack of effort and respect shown to us

So we get sarky. Its all we have left. Lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have your opinion and I have mine. Fair enough I'll move on. "

Has the OP come back? After three days? Has he changed anything?

Ask yourself "why not?"

Because, from where im standing, asking for advice and then disappearing is a rather bizarre thing to do

Is it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha I'm sure you ladies have more left. I get what you're saying and agree with you. I guess I like people to be nice where needed. Have a nice Saturday night??

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Haha I'm sure you ladies have more left. I get what you're saying and agree with you. I guess I like people to be nice where needed. Have a nice Saturday night??"
you too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems a lot of passive agressive pisstake on forums. Is this the normal sort of exchange on here?

We are fed up of these kinds of threads. There is plenty o advice if OP wants it."

If you're fed up with a thread adking for advice surely the mature thing to do is to ignore rather than be sarcastic, nasty or take the piss. Non of which seem to actually help IMO... but then again I'm new here obviously hold little weight as some more experienced members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha I'm sure you ladies have more left. I get what you're saying and agree with you. I guess I like people to be nice where needed. Have a nice Saturday night??"

But thats just my point! People on here ARE nice! They dont need to spend their free time, 'showing' people how to get layed. But they do

Most of the time, the help is ignored

My theory is that some people dont actually want help. They just want to complain that the ladies arent throwing themselves at them, like their mate in the pub told them they would

Coming back and acknowledging that they may have to change their approach, is just a little too much like hard work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs loves cock

But she absolutely hates being messaged by guys with just cock pics and no face pic attached. It is disturbing tbh.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Me neither? It's a hard not life.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Seems a lot of passive agressive pisstake on forums. Is this the normal sort of exchange on here?

We are fed up of these kinds of threads. There is plenty o advice if OP wants it.

I was not being sarcastic, nasty or taking the proverbial. Seems you have the same problem as the OP. Men on here expect ladies to just drop their knickers for them, sadly for the guys this is not what most of the ladies here do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't you assume what I'm like. You don't know me. You sound like someone I'd give a wide berth to if I saw you on the street.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Don't you assume what I'm like. You don't know me. You sound like someone I'd give a wide berth to if I saw you on the street. "

Hilarious...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't you assume what I'm like. You don't know me. You sound like someone I'd give a wide berth to if I saw you on the street.

Hilarious...! "

I'm confused. To be fair, I'm easily confused these days

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Some men think they will be covered in pussy just by joining. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men think they will be covered in pussy just by joining. Ms"

That's exactly what happens isn't it?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Some men think they will be covered in pussy just by joining. Ms

That's exactly what happens isn't it?"

lol I'm saying nothing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men think they will be covered in pussy just by joining. Ms

That's exactly what happens isn't it?"

My cats say yes. They cover me in chuffing cat hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't you assume what I'm like. You don't know me. You sound like someone I'd give a wide berth to if I saw you on the street. "
I certainly give you a wide bearth you been on here a week,think you know how this site works and claim in your profile your happily married yet here you are trying to spice up your life without your wife wonder if she will be joining or does she not know yet

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I'm the same, not having any luck I keep checking to make sure I have the correct settings etc. I missing something but not sure what ??"

You're missing that it's not instant shag and that the lady's aren't easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup it's a tricky one

hello out there Thoe

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Didn't see if the OP came back to ask for advice but...

Having a profile that one expects women to look for, find and message, yet has no effort put into is never going to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being married I know females are not easy in the way you say I earn it. And I don't think women are their just for a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear came across a sad one

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Being married I know females are not easy in the way you say I earn it. And I don't think women are their just for a shag. "
have you thought of spicing things up with your wife on a couple's profile, it would help both of you surely?

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