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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is everyone so up tight? Try to have conversations n get ignored.. try to be dirty n get ignored am I doing summit wrong ? Lol

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

The problem is there are too many wankers ,tosspots,and fantasists on here .if you can ignore all those then maybe you will find the genuine ones .good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women will look at your profile before even opening your message so if there's nothing to attract them they'll not go further. Is it the best it can be to stand out from the other 50 or so messages they have in their inbox?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might be helpful if you put some public photos on your profile and expanded your profile a bit to explain what you are looking for, when you are available and what you can offer by way of experience, likes and dislikes etc. Instead of just saying ..ask for more info. Just be upfront and give information in your profile. I know im not the contact you are seeking, but i ignore and delete messages from people with no public photos and very little information. Hope this helps

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It might be helpful if you put some public photos on your profile and expanded your profile a bit to explain what you are looking for, when you are available and what you can offer by way of experience, likes and dislikes etc. Instead of just saying ..ask for more info. Just be upfront and give information in your profile. I know im not the contact you are seeking, but i ignore and delete messages from people with no public photos and very little information. Hope this helps"
exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It might be helpful if you put some public photos on your profile and expanded your profile a bit to explain what you are looking for, when you are available and what you can offer by way of experience, likes and dislikes etc. Instead of just saying ..ask for more info. Just be upfront and give information in your profile. I know im not the contact you are seeking, but i ignore and delete messages from people with no public photos and very little information. Hope this helps exactly this "

If you can't be bothered to write it, why should I bother to ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women will look at your profile before even opening your message so if there's nothing to attract them they'll not go further. Is it the best it can be to stand out from the other 50 or so messages they have in their inbox?"

Or 300 i bet lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why is everyone so up tight? Try to have conversations n get ignored.. try to be dirty n get ignored am I doing summit wrong ? Lol"

If lots of people are ignoring you after talking, then the common denominator is you. Just be yourself but think about your approach. Imagine fab is a nightclub - yeah, you might get lucky chatting with a woman about sex a couple of minutes in but you're more likely to get lucky, by talking normally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is everyone so up tight? Try to have conversations n get ignored.. try to be dirty n get ignored am I doing summit wrong ? Lol"

I've currently got 607 unread messages, a full time job and a life off of FAB so that's my reason for not always replying to messages..

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Don't know why we bother commenting on these particular threads, all advice is ignored anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is everyone so up tight? Try to have conversations n get ignored.. try to be dirty n get ignored am I doing summit wrong ? Lol"

1. People have lives and you're just some random - no offense. So, you aren't high on the list of priorities.

2. Go to clubs and parties: use that as your primary means of first introductions.

3. Stay calm, be patient and be respectful.

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