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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have never had any luck on here and I don't know why I get told I'm a good looking lad so why do I seem to be no ones type ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read your own profile. Imagine you are a single woman on here. If you were reading your profile, would you meet you ? If that helps

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Because your profile makes you look like a Columbian drug lord lol?

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

I would lose the oldest picture of yours, it looks like your on a prison stairwell. Perhaps also rewrite your profile and concentrate on the grammar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try smiling in your pics!

Agree about the last pics, definitely looks like a prison stairwell!

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never had any luck on here and I don't know why I get told I'm a good looking lad so why do I seem to be no ones type ??"

they probably prefer people who know how old they are...

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Happy fanning"

Sally

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have never had any luck on here and I don't know why I get told I'm a good looking lad so why do I seem to be no ones type ??"

You have 2 different ages, you look miserable as fuck, you can't spell or couldn't be bothered to change it ordinary notice or something and your profile sucks worse than I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the profile advise sorted OP

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Does Hazel know you have her eyes?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

The backgrounds in your other pics are just as rubbish as your prison pic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you've been on here before and know what to expect; how did you fair on your last fab profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overhaul your profile dude.

Stand out from the crowd and let the girls know what your looking for and what you have to offer. Good luck

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"Because your profile makes you look like a Columbian drug lord lol?"

You're terrible!

J

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"I have never had any luck on here and I don't know why I get told I'm a good looking lad so why do I seem to be no ones type ??"

Being attractive to people is subjective and not always the only feature people are looking for. Previous posters have suggested improvements to improved your chances on here and it's advisable to take note from objective comments. Good luck.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh fuck!

Here goes...

1. Your name is essexboy16 which immediately conjures up images of a 16 year old boy.

2. Doesn't help that your profile age is 26 but in your write up you say you're 24.

3. About that write up.. write something about yourself that isn't already in your details.

4. Your photos.... sigh! You look like you're being held hostage, beaten, starved, drugged and forced to snap grainy ass selfies at gunpoint. Is that a prison?

5. Happy fanning?

I can't anymore....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does Hazel know you have her eyes?"

LMFAO HAHAAAA Jeepers creepers, where'd you get those peepers!

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"Oh fuck!

Here goes...

1. Your name is essexboy16 which immediately conjures up images of a 16 year old boy.

2. Doesn't help that your profile age is 26 but in your write up you say you're 24.

3. About that write up.. write something about yourself that isn't already in your details.

4. Your photos.... sigh! You look like you're being held hostage, beaten, starved, drugged and forced to snap grainy ass selfies at gunpoint. Is that a prison?

5. Happy fanning?

I can't anymore....

"

Nothing more to say......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never had any luck on here and I don't know why I get told I'm a good looking lad so why do I seem to be no ones type ??"

Only message those people who's profile you match

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I have never had any luck on here and I don't know why I get told I'm a good looking lad so why do I seem to be no ones type ??"

Stop messaging people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on here are toxic.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford


"People on here are toxic. "

Agreed

oh go on then i'll do ya? lol

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

You need to have a pretty thick skin on here. Women & couples get in excess of 50-100+ messages a day. I don't know about you but, i'd have a pretty tough time trying to reply to everyone.

The chat rooms & forums are one good way of getting to know people.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Go ugly early?

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By *arkandEm14Couple
over a year ago

dublin


"Does Hazel know you have her eyes?"
ha ha cracker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's the profile advise sorted OP "

Shame he didn't ask for profile advice. Not directly anyhow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never had any luck on here and I don't know why I get told I'm a good looking lad so why do I seem to be no ones type ??"

I always delete send messages if i get a reply then its a bonus, concentrate on your inbox works for me. Billy

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

Your profile says profile update, if it has been I don't want to see the last one!! As been said before "Hazel's eyes" prison stairwell, incorrect age, plus you can't accommodate & don't give a reason, the only redeeming factor is you haven't got loads of cock shots.

Have a serious look at your profile & spelling, more to the point look at other single male profiles & get some tips.

You're a tiny minnow in a huge ocean of single men, you need to go that extra mile to stand out!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"That's the profile advise sorted OP

Shame he didn't ask for profile advice. Not directly anyhow "

This is where people seem to be confused.As he was asking why he wasn't having any luck then it is fine to give profile advice as explained in the forum rules.

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

No nit-picking please

Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's the profile advise sorted OP

Shame he didn't ask for profile advice. Not directly anyhow

This is where people seem to be confused.As he was asking why he wasn't having any luck then it is fine to give profile advice as explained in the forum rules.

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

No nit-picking please

Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

On the subject of advice...if you are going to give advice don't be nasty when doing it as it isn't pleasant at all and you will end up banned if you carry on.

If threads like this piss you off ( it is so obvious that for some of you it does going by the comments or how the posts are worded ) then AVOID the threads that are asking for help.

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