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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do I keep attracting weirdos and idiots on here?(and yes, I am fully aware of the fact this site is littered with them).

But seriously, where are the descent men!

Is it my profile that's attracting these sorts of people or what!

Any suggests welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Low underground, they're to ascend in 2020

But on a serious note OP, it's a matter of luck and patience

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

*hides nightvision goggles and flasher mac*

There are decent blokes on here, it is just a case of sifting through the idiots to get to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I keep attracting weirdos and idiots on here?(and yes, I am fully aware of the fact this site is littered with them).

But seriously, where are the descent men!

Is it my profile that's attracting these sorts of people or what!

Any suggests welcome. "

Can't speak for everyone but I consider myself a decent guy (sure some won't agree) but I wouldn't message you because I can't see what you look like and I find your bio off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know...who decides who the weirdos are ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always find people without a avatar picture a bit creepy myself.

Thank God for filters on here able to block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you're the weirdo and they're the normal ones!?

We all have our own perceptions of 'normal' based on our life experiences, values and culture etc don't we?

Everyone thinks that their 'normal' is the definitive normal and everyone else is weird. But maybe it's the other way around!?! Who knows!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some lovely men on here. I have no complaints.

How to attract them? Just be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The reason my pictures are private is only because of what I do for a living.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason my pictures are private is only because of what I do for a living."

It doesn't have to be a face picture you could upload numerous others. I agree with other posters that not having a profile pic is offputting

As for the weirdos, yes there are plenty, but I have met some absolute diamonds

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm perfectly normal.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I think I meet more weirdos outside of Fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've never claimed to be normal lol...and that note I'm closing this post!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Op, put your filters on to block new profiles and unverified ones. That will get rid of lots.

Maybe add some public pics. I think a genuine decent guy would be put off messaging, so you'll get a higher proportion of those who'll message anybody contacting you.

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By *eek12Man
over a year ago

lakenheath


"Always find people without a avatar picture a bit creepy myself.

Thank God for filters on here able to block them."

I don't message ppl without a pic, seems like deception from the start.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'm perfectly normal. "

*spit-take*

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I've never claimed to be normal lol...and that note I'm closing this post! "

Ah if it was only that easy

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"The reason my pictures are private is only because of what I do for a living."

Would your colleagues recognise your ass?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm perfectly normal.

*spit-take*"
Japanese?

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"The reason my pictures are private is only because of what I do for a living.

Would your colleagues recognise your ass?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have no public pictures then you're going to get all kinds of guys messaging you. With public pictures you'll get people messaging you that are the same level of attractiveness.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If you have no public pictures then you're going to get all kinds of guys messaging you. With public pictures you'll get people messaging you that are the same level of attractiveness. "

You might! I don't.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"If you have no public pictures then you're going to get all kinds of guys messaging you. With public pictures you'll get people messaging you that are the same level of attractiveness. "

I don't quite agree with that

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP your profile probably isn't helping.

I would offer you pretty much the same advice as I would give a man asking the same question.

You need some profile pictures - it's not blind date. You don't need to display a face pic publically but you do need to be willing to PM it early on in any chats.

Your profile is very negative and this will put off most of the good guys, hence why you keep getting messages from the people you don't want to meet. Try and focus on positives. Instead of just having a tick list of what you don't want try saying what you do want.

You could also try using your filters effectively. Some ladies block messages from single men so that they don't get overloaded and do the searching themselves.

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By *ermandrMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pictures on display doesn't help, surely anyone making initial contact is a desperate weirdo? after all who contacts anybody without having a peak at pics and saying "who they look nice, I better message her"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm perfectly normal. "
I'm wierd

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