FabSwingers.com forum: Right or wrong?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im new to the site & i am unsure if to send a wink or a message first?

I appreciate that you ladies get a lot of messaages but a bit of advice would help?

Bad manners & rudeness are my pet hates, why don't people reply even if its a no thank you?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

welcome to fab, my advice would be to read each profile and make a choice from there.......... some might say send a wink, some might hate them and ignore them

send a nice polite, friendly message and wait and see, your half way there if you can follow instructions and ne ready for lots of deleted messages, just the way of the world im afraid x

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No right or wrong answer its down to the individual, just read the profile first to see if they have a preference and its not rude not to receive a reply, have a look at the faq to see fabs views on this.

By *andcCouple
over a year ago

London and Cheshire

depends on who you ask!

We don't like winks we prefer a message telling us something about themselves and also you can tell if they have actually looked at your profile and your like/dislikes/requirements.

But other like winks saying that they can quickly look back at your profile and decide whether to make contact.

Both valid reasons while winks are liked and disliked.

Try both ways and see what works for you.

On the no answer to messages, best not to take it to seriously, if they don't answer move on. We usually(but not always) answer people who while we are not interested in meeting with them, they do actually meet our stated requirements(as on our profile) if they fall out side these i.e too young, not W/E etc we just igorn them.

Good luck in your search