FabSwingers.com forum: Feedback welcomed

By *wheels4fun OP Man
over a year ago

colchester

Hi everyone, I have been on the site for a while with a little success in getting meets. I have seen other threads stating that age is a problem. Any and all help gratefully received. Pxx

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi everyone, I have been on the site for a while with a little success in getting meets. I have seen other threads stating that age is a problem. Any and all help gratefully received. Pxx"

Hi OP,

I would suggest having a photo that is for public viewing. No pics are a turn off. It doesn't have to be of your face.

The doesn't accommodate/discretion bit may be offputting as to me it screams attached.

You may not be, just my opinion

By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I agree with redfox34.

Sally

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one wants to meet a silhouette.

Think about it, if you looked at someones profile and they had no pictures would you know whether you wanted to meet them or not, especially as there are numerous other profiles out there with pictures on display.

It's one thing to have an air of mystery about you, but we single men vastly outnumber the ladies and couples and so you really need to be looking to stand out - not blend into the background.

You make a point of mentioning that you can not accommodate, but you don't explain why. That's fine, but just consider that the majority of people looking at your profile will jump to the conclusion that you are married and playing away - cheating on a partner. Some may be OK with this, but a lot of people won't. As you will be told, cheating is NOT swinging.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Redfox34 says it all. Public pics are important.

Age isn't everything, however the fact you can't accommodate at your age, will put people off, most will assume(rightly or wrongly) it's because you have a partner at home.

Poppy