FabSwingers.com forum: Do women not find me attractive in here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been on here for over a year now had my fair share or meets parties etc. I've gotten to the point where i realise that most women don't even acknowledge that i have even messaged them or they read and delete so i just would like to know thanks. Ps have a good day everyone its nice and hot

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

If they aren't replying it might be due to women not liking your profile or finding you attractive on here. If you're doing well in clubs and parties, why not attend more events? I think it can be easier for men to come across well face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your right. You've had your fair share. The party is over,

I think your doing alright op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe something to do with your attitude towards the women on here?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Sorry to hear they don't find you attractive bro. Sad.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

You've had meets so not unsure what you're problem is.

If you've changed your profile since then, well, people read the profile before the message. Most are here to meet fun, chilled people. Unfortunately, that's not how you come across.

Lighten up: there are zillions of fit looking men on site...you have to compete with that, so...hot and fun...hot and uptight...who do you think gets picked?

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fishing...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See for us guys I think the whole face to face deal works better ,some guys really know how to sell themselves on here and some of us are to be blunt ..rubbish at it

Seems your doing alright anyway op ....just keep it real and don't really worry about who doesn't reply

Even I don't get 100% reply rate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advise everyone i don't have problems getting women off the site whats so ever 2.ino im not for everyone 3. Im never rude always polite and your not interested i dont be immature and and start slagging them off i apologise for messaging them and keep it moving any way happy swinging everyone have a good day

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Sorry to hear they don't find you attractive bro. Sad."

Are you suggesting a mask?!

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

With 24 verifications I'd say your doing just fine

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Sorry to hear they don't find you attractive bro. Sad.

Are you suggesting a mask?!

Well at the very least a hat at a jaunty angle.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"With 24 verifications I'd say your doing just fine

Its weird isn't it?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Sorry to hear they don't find you attractive bro. Sad.

Are you suggesting a mask?!

Well at the very least a hat at a jaunty angle."

With or without a decorative flower?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

OP, as others have said; you're doing pretty well by yourself already, but fair play to you for generating a 'Look at me' thread (we all do at some point lol).

As far as your profile goes mate; drop the lines about gay men Fabbing your pics, it makes you look a bit ranty. You have men blocked from messaging you, so they can't, and it clearly says you are straight on your profile. Take Fabs on your pics as compliments

All the best

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Op do you think that every woman SHOULD fancy you? What exactly is the problem? Do you think you should be getting multiple meets per week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I looked at your first photo and just thought

If it works for you then don't change a thing but I would think that pic alone would put many off.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I looked at your first photo and just thought

Oh, I missed that!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Another profile that leaves you wondering why your photo wasn't allowed..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, and it reads very negative and a bit ranty, lighten up sweetie

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Sorry to hear they don't find you attractive bro. Sad.

Are you suggesting a mask?!

Well at the very least a hat at a jaunty angle."

A Fez, perhaps?

OP, you are over thinking this. Some will like you, others won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another profile that leaves you wondering why your photo wasn't allowed.."

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Sorry to hear they don't find you attractive bro. Sad.

Are you suggesting a mask?!

Well at the very least a hat at a jaunty angle.

With or without a decorative flower? "

Yes or a cravat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its really a look at me post . x Your doing ok here really.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Another profile that leaves you wondering why your photo wasn't allowed.."

Hmmm...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Sorry to hear they don't find you attractive bro. Sad.

Are you suggesting a mask?!

Well at the very least a hat at a jaunty angle.

With or without a decorative flower?

Yes or a cravat."

Quite the Burlington Bertie! *impressed*

I haven't got a cravat but the caveat (get that Latin joke!) is that I do have a kipper tie from the 70's which I could use. Would the ladies notice?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Hmm sounds and looks very arrogant to me

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Sorry to hear they don't find you attractive bro. Sad.

Are you suggesting a mask?!

Well at the very least a hat at a jaunty angle.

With or without a decorative flower?

Yes or a cravat.

Quite the Burlington Bertie! *impressed*

I haven't got a cravat but the caveat (get that Latin joke!) is that I do have a kipper tie from the 70's which I could use. Would the ladies notice?"

Is it a comedy one?

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

"look at me"

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Sorry to hear they don't find you attractive bro. Sad.

Are you suggesting a mask?!

Well at the very least a hat at a jaunty angle."

Who needs hats?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That top photo of yours is the most offensive thing towards women that anyone can come up with.

I haven't read your profile...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"look at me""

Are you as helpless as a kitten up a tree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I looked at your first pic and its not a pic just a thing saying woman don't make a lot of money to be like ?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think any physical attraction would soon go after reading your profile, it portrays you as somewhat unnatractive so maybe there lies your problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That top photo of yours is the most offensive thing towards women that anyone can come up with.

I haven't read your profile... "

Photo now taken off. Good decision but don't say the same with your attitude.

Good luck

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Sorry to hear they don't find you attractive bro. Sad.

Are you suggesting a mask?!

Well at the very least a hat at a jaunty angle.

Who needs hats?"

Hatastic!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I looked at your first pic and its not a pic just a thing saying woman don't make a lot of money to be like ?."

Who accepted that when it was submitted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

youve got a very good body OP. I'm sure your meets have told you that. Bare in mind many females are deeply insecure about their bodies and may feel intimidated and out classed by you. Feeling that way is a passion killer. I know because I won't even message the most attractive females because if I did meet them I'd feel insecure and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I looked at your first pic and its not a pic just a thing saying woman don't make a lot of money to be like ?.

Who accepted that when it was submitted? "
Yes I found that weird... Why would that get passed as a pic .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to hear they don't find you attractive bro. Sad.

Are you suggesting a mask?!

Well at the very least a hat at a jaunty angle.

Who needs hats?

Hatastic!!!

Da, da da, da-dum

You can leave your hat on...

Ear worm deployed

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Sorry to hear they don't find you attractive bro. Sad.

Are you suggesting a mask?!

Well at the very least a hat at a jaunty angle.

Who needs hats?

Hatastic!!!

Da, da da, da-dum

You can leave your hat on...

Ear worm deployed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"look at me"

Are you as helpless as a kitten up a tree?

Just a ""misty" viewpoint

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

You've had mor meets than me op.

I'm on 0 still.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I'm assuming that the profile text has been updated since this thread was posted?

What's written now, doesn't come across as arrogant etc to me.

As to people finding you attractive, some will and some won't. Which is the same for everyone.

It's often easier coming across well and striking up conversations in person, than online. We have far better success at parties than through sending messages on here.

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

different women like different things in a man so you wont tick the boxes for everybody, the world would be a boring place if everybody liked the same thing.

But hope you got the extra views you were looking for.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Standard practice is to delete messages where no interest exists, for whatever reason.

Attending clubs is a better way to get feedback on how attractive others find you Imo, as users here have many reasons not to respond. Quality of profile and pics compared to others is a key element

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm assuming that the profile text has been updated since this thread was posted?

What's written now, doesn't come across as arrogant etc to me.

As to people finding you attractive, some will and some won't. Which is the same for everyone.

It's often easier coming across well and striking up conversations in person, than online. We have far better success at parties than through sending messages on here."

It has been!

Well done to the op for taking the constructive criticism on board.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

26 meets - doing something right

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

"With 24 verifications I'd say your doing just fine

with 24 verifications I would say TOO much, not a concept guys grasp easily!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Sorry to hear they don't find you attractive bro. Sad.

Are you suggesting a mask?!

Well at the very least a hat at a jaunty angle.

With or without a decorative flower?

Yes or a cravat.

Quite the Burlington Bertie! *impressed*

I haven't got a cravat but the caveat (get that Latin joke!) is that I do have a kipper tie from the 70's which I could use. Would the ladies notice?

Is it a comedy one?

Of course not. It's very stylish and sophisticated and pulls the birds no problemo. I can give you some sartorial hints and tips if you like.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Sorry to hear they don't find you attractive bro. Sad.

Are you suggesting a mask?!

Well at the very least a hat at a jaunty angle.

With or without a decorative flower?

Yes or a cravat.

Quite the Burlington Bertie! *impressed*

I haven't got a cravat but the caveat (get that Latin joke!) is that I do have a kipper tie from the 70's which I could use. Would the ladies notice?

Is it a comedy one?

Of course not. It's very stylish and sophisticated and pulls the birds no problemo. I can give you some sartorial hints and tips if you like. "

I have a Fez (thanks, Tina Titz) and heels. Need I say more?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm assuming that the profile text has been updated since this thread was posted?

What's written now, doesn't come across as arrogant etc to me.

As to people finding you attractive, some will and some won't. Which is the same for everyone.

It's often easier coming across well and striking up conversations in person, than online. We have far better success at parties than through sending messages on here.

It has been!

Well done to the op for taking the constructive criticism on board.

Good luck!

What she said.

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By *woforone2025Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Dublin

"Thanks for the advise everyone i don't have problems getting women off the site whats so ever 2.ino im not for everyone 3. Im never rude always polite and your not interested i dont be immature and and start slagging them off i apologise for messaging them and keep it moving any way happy swinging everyone have a good day "

It's just fantasy fabland for most.

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

Looked!! Didn't like! So blocked !! Simple !!

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