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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm looking. To meet for NAS fun but my age seems to put people off. Or maybe I'm as ugly as I was told I was.

Please let me know if I'm wasting my time here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm looking. To meet for NAS fun but my age seems to put people off. Or maybe I'm as ugly as I was told I was.

Please let me know if I'm wasting my time here"

IMHO ... try elsewhere

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

Try the club scene as it is a good way of meeting a variety of people

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You're not too old and you're not ugly.

Only you can decide if you're wasting your time but single men don't generally find it easy on here.

Is there an organised social near you, could you go to a club?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a lot older than most on here. I'm not drop dead handsome, have an average body shape and nowhere near VWE. I find attending clubs the best way to meet others. The ladies I have had fun with have always appreciated meeting in a safe environment, and after some conversation, and maybe a bit of flirting and banter, fun ensues.

Go to clubs and meet real people who can appreciate you for who you really are.

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

Route 69 is not far from you there and worth a visit as it small but friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try the POF dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm looking. To meet for NAS fun but my age seems to put people off. Or maybe I'm as ugly as I was told I was.

Please let me know if I'm wasting my time here"
no attached strings eh

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


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When are you in Charlestown next?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm looking. To meet for NAS fun but my age seems to put people off. Or maybe I'm as ugly as I was told I was.

Please let me know if I'm wasting my time here"

Think your profile is somewhat misleading. You say that you are straight, but you are willing to meet TS/TV. That would put many people on the back foot to start with.

* NOTE * We are all for live and let live, just not for us!

Your pictures could do with changing.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Well, I am afraid your photos are not great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not alone. It's the Same with me and I'm 52 ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm looking. To meet for NAS fun but my age seems to put people off. Or maybe I'm as ugly as I was told I was.

Please let me know if I'm wasting my time here"

Your pictures aren't the best, at least try and look like you're happy to be here (ie smile!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm looking. To meet for NAS fun but my age seems to put people off. Or maybe I'm as ugly as I was told I was.

Please let me know if I'm wasting my time here"

Your pics. Oh dear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd suggest reading some of the threads on the forums on advice regarding profiles. I think the reality is fab is tough for guys as ALOT more single guys than woman on here. Plus I get the impression from other comments that a lot of woman seem to have a cut off of 45, but I'm sure there are still plenty of us that like older men.

I've not tried clubs myself but that seems to be the consistent message I keep reading as a good play to start for single guys.

Get rid of the old pictures of yourself... no one is interested in what you used to look like but want to know what you look like know. Honestly you could change your photos... smile, relax.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horses for courses. You will appeal to some, and not to others.

Like others have said, try a local club, there are two near you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, I am afraid your photos are not great"

Most people’s pics aren’t great so they work with what they have...

OP was looking for constructive criticism not just criticism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, I am afraid your photos are not great

Most people’s pics aren’t great so they work with what they have...

OP was looking for constructive criticism not just criticism "
ha hey its a tough world here even for half decent looking guys odds are stacked against older not so gorgeous guys but you may have a great personality so if that gets across maybe you will succeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, I am afraid your photos are not great

Most people’s pics aren’t great so they work with what they have...

OP was looking for constructive criticism not just criticism ha hey its a tough world here even for half decent looking guys odds are stacked against older not so gorgeous guys but you may have a great personality so if that gets across maybe you will succeed "

if you wish to respond to the OP please do so on a separate post...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, I am afraid your photos are not great

Most people’s pics aren’t great so they work with what they have...

OP was looking for constructive criticism not just criticism ha hey its a tough world here even for half decent looking guys odds are stacked against older not so gorgeous guys but you may have a great personality so if that gets across maybe you will succeed

if you wish to respond to the OP please do so on a separate post...

"
fence post ??

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