FabSwingers.com forum: Finding It So Hard

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good morning

I'm Ryan. I'm fairly new here and I've had a couple of meets. I'm genuine.

I'm looking for a couple to just watch them. Not intently but just be in the same room as they do thier thing. I'm not really looking to do anything except enjoy the experience of them being intimate in close proximity to me.

I have asked a couple of couples but get rejection. Or as I'm bi curious get told no I won't meet a guy who wants to fuck my husband. The extent I am bi is purely orally and I would always respect another persons sexual orientation and preferences.

If you would consider this request or can help me to achieve it then please do get in contact or message me here. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good morning

I'm Ryan. I'm fairly new here and I've had a couple of meets. I'm genuine.

If you would consider this request or can help me to achieve it then please do get in contact or message me here. Thanks. "

Why not try a club?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have anxiety I'd be terrified I've no one to go with

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By *rVanMan
over a year ago

Lytham

"I have anxiety I'd be terrified I've no one to go with "

Seriously, just take a Deep breath and get on with it.

The club environment is very relaxing, just go with the flow, as long as you are clean and polite you should get what you are looking for. It may take more than one visit but you will get plenty to watch even if you don't get invited.

Just start with a simple Hello, Have you had to travel far to get here?

If you had been lucky enough to meet my play mate you would have got a reply and then it becomes easy.

One to one meetings bring a whole world of pressure for everyone as a perceived obligation to have sex. Particularly as couples very often get jealous.

In a club certainly around here a simple hello will get you off on the right foot.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

If all you want to do is watch a couple then definitely go to a club. You don't even need to talk to anyone. Just sit quietly in the largest playroom.

Sally

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We can't comment specifically on your profile unless you ask, but people will use it to make a decision. If you are wanting straight couples just bear in mind that is part of their decision making process.

Good luck in your search.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Could you advise on my profile

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I think the request to sit and watch a couple is quite niche and straight off you are looking for something difficult.

In terms of your profile, you say you are messaging straight couples but the pics seem much more geared to bi male fun, a lot of straight couples will be put off by them.

Good luck

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Good morning

I'm Ryan. I'm fairly new here and I've had a couple of meets. I'm genuine.

If you would consider this request or can help me to achieve it then please do get in contact or message me here. Thanks. "

You've only been on for one week Ryan, it's not instashag

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