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By *imlane76 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ok..been in this since Jan

Had 2 meets, with girls I was already talking to before joining this....

How do people get forward on this site, I feel im getting no where...

Ive tried messaging girls..

Ive tried winking..

Ive tried fabbing photos..

Nothing seems to work...

Just want to chat to women from my area abd take it from there....theres no harm in that surely ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without directly critiquing your profile. Take a look at it and ask yourself 'does it reflect the best me I can be?' 'Does it say the right things to a woman?' 'Does it show a woman why she should meet me above all the other 1000's of men?'

If the answers are yes then carry on as you are.

It the answer's no, change something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See your pro as a shop window. Click on it...would you go onto your shop?

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get out to a local swingers club or party , get to be socialable , its a way to get on the scene , swinging isnt just about sex it has a social element as well

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

Try adding some pictures

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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Been doing all the above. Even been verified. Messages aren't even being read.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Maybe no photos and canmot accomodate give the impression you are hiding from someone

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish


"Been doing all the above. Even been verified. Messages aren't even being read."

Your status doesn't say volumes for you, does it ?

You have been on here for 6 weeks with 2 meets, i would say you are doing quite well.

Not sure why your messages are not being read ? or is it they are not being replied to ?

Are you fully reading profiles, that interest you, or just skipping 90% of it.

We only get to meet 4-5 times a year if we are lucky and it not for the want of trying. Hang in there and No you dont need to be a "prick" (your status) to achieve on here

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Been doing all the above. Even been verified. Messages aren't even being read."
handsome man arent cha? why do you have to live so far away.....grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're hot and far away too though

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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Been doing all the above. Even been verified. Messages aren't even being read.

Your status doesn't say volumes for you, does it ?

You have been on here for 6 weeks with 2 meets, i would say you are doing quite well.

Not sure why your messages are not being read ? or is it they are not being replied to ?

Are you fully reading profiles, that interest you, or just skipping 90% of it.

We only get to meet 4-5 times a year if we are lucky and it not for the want of trying. Hang in there and No you dont need to be a "prick" (your status) to achieve on here "

Not my first time here. The meets were prior to rejoining. And no, I don't skip reading a bio. Messages aren't getting read. Which equals no replies. My status implies that being polite, friendly, saying something about what I've read in the bio (no point messaging otherwise) doesn't seem to work. I was being facetious lol. Apart from the status though, is there anything else wrong with my bio?

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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Been doing all the above. Even been verified. Messages aren't even being read.handsome man arent cha? why do you have to live so far away.....grrrr"

Me? It's you who lives so far away lol. I've not moved...... Oh, you're quite atteactive yourself.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Been doing all the above. Even been verified. Messages aren't even being read.handsome man arent cha? why do you have to live so far away.....grrrr

Me? It's you who lives so far away lol. I've not moved...... Oh, you're quite atteactive yourself."
sorry i dont live mearby...but thank you xx

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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Been doing all the above. Even been verified. Messages aren't even being read.handsome man arent cha? why do you have to live so far away.....grrrr

Me? It's you who lives so far away lol. I've not moved...... Oh, you're quite atteactive yourself.sorry i dont live mearby...but thank you xx"

I'm sorry I don't live closer to you also.

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish


"Been doing all the above. Even been verified. Messages aren't even being read.

Your status doesn't say volumes for you, does it ?

You have been on here for 6 weeks with 2 meets, i would say you are doing quite well.

Not sure why your messages are not being read ? or is it they are not being replied to ?

Are you fully reading profiles, that interest you, or just skipping 90% of it.

We only get to meet 4-5 times a year if we are lucky and it not for the want of trying. Hang in there and No you dont need to be a "prick" (your status) to achieve on here

Not my first time here. The meets were prior to rejoining. And no, I don't skip reading a bio. Messages aren't getting read. Which equals no replies. My status implies that being polite, friendly, saying something about what I've read in the bio (no point messaging otherwise) doesn't seem to work. I was being facetious lol. Apart from the status though, is there anything else wrong with my bio?"

Having read your profile it seems concise and structured, so i am not sure why you are not getting any replies or why folks are simply not reading your messages.

I know it sounds daft, but one thing that just popped into my mind and excuse the potential stupidity, but you are not messaging some people that have not actually opened their profile for a few months are you?

I dont believe you are not getting any replies at all. Not even a couple ?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Too many men join this site with high expectations, thinking they don't need to put any effort in, SURPRISE lol

Crap profiles, no public pictures with a decent array for women to peruse, yet men wonder why? Surely they aren't really that stupid? Are they/you?

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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Been doing all the above. Even been verified. Messages aren't even being read.

Your status doesn't say volumes for you, does it ?

You have been on here for 6 weeks with 2 meets, i would say you are doing quite well.

Not sure why your messages are not being read ? or is it they are not being replied to ?

Are you fully reading profiles, that interest you, or just skipping 90% of it.

We only get to meet 4-5 times a year if we are lucky and it not for the want of trying. Hang in there and No you dont need to be a "prick" (your status) to achieve on here

Not my first time here. The meets were prior to rejoining. And no, I don't skip reading a bio. Messages aren't getting read. Which equals no replies. My status implies that being polite, friendly, saying something about what I've read in the bio (no point messaging otherwise) doesn't seem to work. I was being facetious lol. Apart from the status though, is there anything else wrong with my bio?

Having read your profile it seems concise and structured, so i am not sure why you are not getting any replies or why folks are simply not reading your messages.

I know it sounds daft, but one thing that just popped into my mind and excuse the potential stupidity, but you are not messaging some people that have not actually opened their profile for a few months are you?

I dont believe you are not getting any replies at all. Not even a couple ?"

No you are not being stupid, legit comment. I do take note of when they're on line when I message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get out to a local swingers club or party , get to be socialable , its a way to get on the scene , swinging isnt just about sex it has a social element as well"

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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Thank you, I tried to say thank you for the like on my pic but not allowed but thank you.

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