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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well been here a while now and still not had a meet... spoke to some decent people though.

Is it just me or is like 70%of people here just plain arrogant?

Or

I might be going around things the wrong way.

Any tips people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you think they are arrogant? You have no public pics, that won't help my lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your attitude and the lack of photos on your profile probably isn't helping, buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you think they are arrogant? You have no public pics, that won't help my lovely. "

Crossposted!

Great minds think alike

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just mainly with some responses I get .. don't get me wrong I've spoke to some nice people on here.

But does anyone read a profile or messages sent.

But when you get replies like

Lol

Noo

Get fucked

And really

It does make you think.

I don't expect to get replies every time maybe 1 in 5.

Just hard when not many people hold a conversation.

Sorry just ranting now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know private pics won't help but I do say why on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People read profiles, but some do it in stealth mode so don't show on the viewed me page. Some people are rude, some aren't. Brief one word answers would suggest to me no interest in chatting. I really wouldn't worry about it, this is just supposed to be a bit of light hearted fun. Try getting out to some organised social meets. Good luck.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP you ask if anyone reads profiles. Men may not do so but nearly all women and probably more than half of couples do.

When I get a message the first thing I do is look at their profile. No public pics and I delete if they haven't sent a pic in their message - it's not blind date and I don't want to waste my time chatting to someone and find out later I don't fancy them.

If they have pics but can't be bothered to fill out their profile I delete.

If their message is a copy and paste message I delete.

If it is clear they haven't bothered reading my profile I delete.

If they have sent me a friend request before we have even had any kind of conversation I delete and block.

This may all seem a bit harsh but the fact is many women on fab receive so many messages it is a full time job trying to answer them all. We are here for fun and if it becomes too much of an effort to deal with our messages it's not fun anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everytime we log on we get bombarded with messages. So many they run off the page. Never to be seen till some are deleted. It would be a fulltime job to respond to every message. I ignore vulgar and hi as not very original. You need to be inventive and original. Oh and fanciable, I'm let by emotion not my sexual organ, like most women. So a good face pic of yourself is a must x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know private pics won't help but I do say why on my profile "

If you read the rules (or FAQs) it actually states that no reply means not interested...

it really does boil down to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everytime we log on we get bombarded with messages. So many they run off the page. Never to be seen till some are deleted. It would be a fulltime job to respond to every message. I ignore vulgar and hi as not very original. You need to be inventive and original. Oh and fanciable, I'm let by emotion not my sexual organ, like most women. So a good face pic of yourself is a must x"

I think you will find that Most women on here would prefer to see a face pic rather than a cock pic...

Obviously there is also the option of blocking men and searching yourself, a fact that most women overlook

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth


"Everytime we log on we get bombarded with messages. So many they run off the page. Never to be seen till some are deleted. It would be a fulltime job to respond to every message. I ignore vulgar and hi as not very original. You need to be inventive and original. Oh and fanciable, I'm let by emotion not my sexual organ, like most women. So a good face pic of yourself is a must x

I think you will find that Most women on here would prefer to see a face pic rather than a cock pic...

Obviously there is also the option of blocking men and searching yourself, a fact that most women overlook "

Prefer to see a face and bum pic over a cock pic.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP so over all if the nice and intersting guys on here we should pick you based on a virtually black square for a photo and a list of things you want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not quit getting the attention I deserve either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, try popping along to an organised social or a club, trust me it's a thousand times easier to interact with people face-to-face than it is to try to stand out from the comfort of your keyboard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not quit getting the attention I deserve either "

I can't think why! Maybe start your own thread if you want advice my lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you ask if anyone reads profiles. Men may not do so but nearly all women and probably more than half of couples do.

When I get a message the first thing I do is look at their profile. No public pics and I delete if they haven't sent a pic in their message - it's not blind date and I don't want to waste my time chatting to someone and find out later I don't fancy them.

If they have pics but can't be bothered to fill out their profile I delete.

If their message is a copy and paste message I delete.

If it is clear they haven't bothered reading my profile I delete.

If they have sent me a friend request before we have even had any kind of conversation I delete and block.

This may all seem a bit harsh but the fact is many women on fab receive so many messages it is a full time job trying to answer them all. We are here for fun and if it becomes too much of an effort to deal with our messages it's not fun anymore."

This is exactly what I do too!

Makes for an easier inbox clean up

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Put up a body pic chest, bum, in boxers, thighs, it's amazing what we find attractive.

Your profile sounds more like a dating profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But does anyone read a profile or messages sent.

But when you get replies like

Lol

Noo

Get fucked

And really

It does make you think.

I don't expect to get replies every time maybe 1 in 5.

o"
:most will look at your profile first. Then decide if they are going to read or delete your message

If your getting replies like that. What message are you sending them?

If your lucky you might get 1 in 20 messages replied to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know you've not asked for profile advice, but as that's what gets looked at first before reading the message, you might want to read it yourself and correct the obvious mistakes.

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