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Female in Hull.....too picky?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive been on a few weeks now and struggling to find anyone Im attracted to that is looking for something less hardcore and more softer. It seems dinner drinks and fun isn't the done thing these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure if you had a plenty of fish profile that said dinner drinks and a shag, you would be fighting them off with a stick and have plenty of choice! :

Its your life, you be a picky as you like.

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By *uvtogiveoralMan
over a year ago

hyde

Inboxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on a few weeks now and struggling to find anyone Im attracted to that is looking for something less hardcore and more softer. It seems dinner drinks and fun isn't the done thing these days."

I'm looking for the same but struggling xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking as a bloke, (with no vested interest as i am very happy in a relationship), from the outside looking in, what you are looking for looks like a date more than a swingers meet. Sorry if my reading comprehension is lacking, not trying to troll, but if a guys wants to date, then the ones you are looking for are unlikely to be here? dunno confused but good luck in your search anyway.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria


"Speaking as a bloke, (with no vested interest as i am very happy in a relationship), from the outside looking in, what you are looking for looks like a date more than a swingers meet. Sorry if my reading comprehension is lacking, not trying to troll, but if a guys wants to date, then the ones you are looking for are unlikely to be here? dunno confused but good luck in your search anyway. "

I'd agree that the dating scenario does seem a little more in line with a dating site. I'm sure there are others looking for the same on here but they are going to be fewer than those wanting to meet for a sexual encounter alone.

People will use all sites for their own purposes. But it just means if you are looking for something specific then it will always be harder to find.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

if you do use dating sites i recommend you hide your profile here. otherwise you're likely to get all the guys off fab saying they've seen you on fab, and expecting your fanny to be wet for their cock without any effort on dating sites also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking as a bloke, (with no vested interest as i am very happy in a relationship), from the outside looking in, what you are looking for looks like a date more than a swingers meet. Sorry if my reading comprehension is lacking, not trying to troll, but if a guys wants to date, then the ones you are looking for are unlikely to be here? dunno confused but good luck in your search anyway. "

Been on here before some people like to socialize first. Fab seems full of men who think they can just come around and fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh there's no doubt of that X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pretty sure if you had a plenty of fish profile that said dinner drinks and a shag, you would be fighting them off with a stick and have plenty of choice! :

Its your life, you be a picky as you like."

Oh I intend to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair when I first met Mr .. he always took ladies out from here for a drink and a meal.. but 99% of the time they then thought it was more than a swing meet and caused issues.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Speaking as a bloke, (with no vested interest as i am very happy in a relationship), from the outside looking in, what you are looking for looks like a date more than a swingers meet. Sorry if my reading comprehension is lacking, not trying to troll, but if a guys wants to date, then the ones you are looking for are unlikely to be here? dunno confused but good luck in your search anyway. "
they are here I'm meeting one today

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"if you do use dating sites i recommend you hide your profile here. otherwise you're likely to get all the guys off fab saying they've seen you on fab, and expecting your fanny to be wet for their cock without any effort on dating sites also."
already experienced this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally for me, I like the dinner & drinks bit as I don't just fuck random blokes, I like mental stimulation too & having that pre sex flirt over dinner really brings out the best in me.

I'm too busy for a boyfriend so this site suits me as I can be picky.

If you hang in there, you'll find what you're looking for!

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are none of you ladies in my area ????

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Where were you when I was a student in Hull in the late 80s?! I still visit freinds in the avenues, always up for a drink x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on a few weeks now and struggling to find anyone Im attracted to that is looking for something less hardcore and more softer. It seems dinner drinks and fun isn't the done thing these days."

If this is because of what's on their profiles, concider this - People I've spoken to often tell me that interests they have listed on their profile are just that rather than a criteria. I've had things on mine I'm vaguely curious and open minded about but never done and not committing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...or demanding from anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing as too picky.

You are here for your own benefit, no one elses.

Why would you settle for anything else.

As has been said earlier, oossibly you will find better matches on dating sites, but you haven't really said you are after dating, just a little bit more involvement than a wham bam etc.

Stick with it, and be as fussy as you like, you don't need to answer to anyone else.

Problem with this site is a lot of the 'single' men aren't single, so they run a mile if they think someone is wanting to be seen in public.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Don't think you're being too picky at all OP, having read your profile it's clear you know what you're looking for, and clearly laid out too. There's no reason you shouldn't be able to find that on here at all - sure there are going to be those that are just looking for 'sex meets' but there are plenty of others who are looking for a "Friend With Benefits" to socialise with as well as play.

Either way stick to your guns and your instincts and I'm sure what you're looking for will be along.

Good luck

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"if you do use dating sites i recommend you hide your profile here. otherwise you're likely to get all the guys off fab saying they've seen you on fab, and expecting your fanny to be wet for their cock without any effort on dating sites also.

already experienced this "

drives me mad, especially as my dating profile mentions dating and i am not looking for NSA sex.

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