FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do i struggle to even get a response from people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't really answer that as I don't know what you are saying in your messages. What I do know is that most will look at a profile before deciding to respond. If it says little or is unappealing, most won't bother replying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do i struggle to even get a response from people?"

maybe because they read the message, then look at the profile to see if that's any better.....decide it isn't and ignore it...

no one has to respond you know, they don't owe you anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard work on here for guys. The women get inundated with messages so they may simply miss yours. My advice would be, first, don't overthink things if you're not getting a response back.

Second, read their profiles, and find something in there to start a conversation. Proves you've read it.

Third, be a gentleman! In the long run, this really makes a difference.

Fourth, if you haven't already, try the socials at the clubs. Face to face is so much easier.

Beyond that, not much I can add. The ones that are worth your time, you'll get your chance with eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's hard work on here for guys. The women get inundated with messages so they may simply miss yours. My advice would be, first, don't overthink things if you're not getting a response back.

Second, read their profiles, and find something in there to start a conversation. Proves you've read it.

Third, be a gentleman! In the long run, this really makes a difference.

Fourth, if you haven't already, try the socials at the clubs. Face to face is so much easier.

Beyond that, not much I can add. The ones that are worth your time, you'll get your chance with eventually. "

Write a comprehensive and informative profile, that always helps to spark an interest.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

" The ones that are worth your time, you'll get your chance with eventually. "

You make it sound like he has to take a ticket and wait in line lol Beetlejuice anyone?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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a lot of people do not reply to all their messages, simple as that.

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