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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I put thought into it but don't seem to get anywhere, sent messages are either deleted or have not been read when the peep's in question have been online. can anyone help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile text has poor punctuation, no capital letters, and you have no public pics.

Face pic for the profile is a big plus though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol"

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By *ecretEscapes2Woman
over a year ago

worcester


"Patience is the key lol"

Oi .

that's my phrase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being able to accommodate, being a smoker and still a very limited and negative profile.

BUT youve only been here 4 weeks!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Do you really think your profile blurb is the best it can be?

It's not very exciting or enticing is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol"

patience and haribo plenty of them kitty is back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile text is negative and badly written, you have no public pics, your interests are pretty niche and youd meet women 99 years old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have you tried putting a stud 25 year old with ripped muscles and a 12 inch cock as your profile pic lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I haven't really looked at ages,didn't think about it to be honest

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By *andsome_Chef88Man
over a year ago

London

Messages come like London busses. I was on here 6 months without a meet. As soon as I got that first veri I got women responding to my messages. Your best bet is parties and clubs. Bound to get on with people there.

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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

I'd definitely rejig the punctuation.

It currently reads as if you're looking to lose your inhibitions, debauchery and sensual times. Two of those you probably don't want to lose!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile text is negative and badly written, you have no public pics, your interests are pretty niche and youd meet women 99 years old? "

i draw the line at 82 as they forget you had sex if they are older

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

have you tried putting a stud 25 year old with ripped muscles and a 12 inch cock as your profile pic lol

I would rather be honest and not lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not being able to accommodate, being a smoker and still a very limited and negative profile.

BUT youve only been here 4 weeks! "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put thought into it but don't seem to get anywhere, sent messages are either deleted or have not been read when the peep's in question have been online. can anyone help?"

What profile?

- Mrs. J -

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I'd agree with the others on the profile text... That alone would put me off. The rest to me is fine... Lots don't mind smokers, and not everyone can accommodate, etc., the only negative I see there is the badly constructed profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try messaging FAF then attach a picture of your cock. That really gets the girls going

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"have you tried putting a stud 25 year old with ripped muscles and a 12 inch cock as your profile pic lol"

Behave kitty!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're up against it , have you seen the competition on this site ? It's a massive sweet shop sure someone will pick you . Have a gander at what other single guys put on their profile to get some ideas , but best of luck and yes patience is required

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I put thought into it but don't seem to get anywhere, sent messages are either deleted or have not been read when the peep's in question have been online. can anyone help?"

your profile is honest fella and shows you don't take yourself to seriously but its a bit short in my opinion .

if you have a female friend ask her for some advice and maybe add something to it about what your into ether sexual or not sexual as that helps to enable people to strike up a conversations with you .

never message as a random act would be my main advice only message in response to forum status and meet requests as that way you have a ready made conversation starter with someone who is open to chat and possibly more.

like so much in life the timing of a action is the most important thing to it being a successful action leading to a successful out come .

good luck fella ,

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No publics pics

Can't accommodate

Fat and hairy (your words)

Start again maybe?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"No publics pics

Can't accommodate

Fat and hairy (your words)

Start again maybe? "

you having a bad day miss lick your normally kinder that this in the fact you normally offer a constructive positive to go with any negative .

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Bro don't listen to these nay sayers.

I would maybe add some cock shots but that's it.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"No publics pics

Can't accommodate

Fat and hairy (your words)

Start again maybe?

you having a bad day miss lick your normally kinder that this in the fact you normally offer a constructive positive to go with any negative . "

My constructive + was to start again! And like I said in my post the not so kind things are taken from his profile.

I could ask if you're having a bad day also taking a little dig like that, but I won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you tried putting a stud 25 year old with ripped muscles and a 12 inch cock as your profile pic lol

Behave kitty!! "

That thread was very funny

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will definitely change everything then lol

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"No publics pics

Can't accommodate

Fat and hairy (your words)

Start again maybe?

you having a bad day miss lick your normally kinder that this in the fact you normally offer a constructive positive to go with any negative .

My constructive + was to start again! And like I said in my post the not so kind things are taken from his profile.

I could ask if you're having a bad day also taking a little dig like that, but I won't "

oh dear there was no dig

the guy was honest said he was over weight and hairy he obviously did this because those are what he considers to be two off putting things about himself in my opinion you normally pick up on that sort of thing and post accordingly .

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I will definitely change everything then lol"

fella write your profile for yourself by all means listen to any criticism but don't take it to heart would be my advice .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bro don't listen to these nay sayers.

I would maybe add some cock shots but that's it."

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

changed profile now see if it's any better

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"changed profile now see if it's any better"

The write up bit is much more positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit bland and negative, it needs more life and humour.

If you were in a bookshop, and you were trying to choose between a plain book with a boring title, a blurb that didn't tell you much and which had 'well it's alright but not that good' reviews, compared to a bold book with a thought provoking title, an intriguing blurb and good reviews, which one would interest you more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nit picking, but a sentence always starts with a capital letter, never starts with "and" and a paragraph never ends with a comma.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"It's a bit bland and negative, it needs more life and humour.

If you were in a bookshop, and you were trying to choose between a plain book with a boring title, a blurb that didn't tell you much and which had 'well it's alright but not that good' reviews, compared to a bold book with a thought provoking title, an intriguing blurb and good reviews, which one would interest you more?"

this good advice fella but keep is fictional and down to earth truthful not fantastical or full of lies your never going to live up to in reality .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems ok, if a little short, probably have to change and update mine XD Use this site as a bit of fun,. If you're not into swingers clubs (I'm not either) or adult party's I would expect months with no play, stay active on the forums, message those you actually think would get on, and eventually you will meet someone and have a blast.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's not much of an improvement to be honest. You still don't have any public pics and whilst your profile isn't negative it doesn't tell a prospective meet much. You are unlikely to find a bushcraft or fishing buddy on here, most of us are after sex .

Try saying more about what attracts you to a person. What are you looking for on here? Is there anything that really turns you on or you are keen to try?

You are one of many thousands of single men on fab - why should should someone choose to meet you instead of one of the others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in response to your thread question...

everything!!

delete and start again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

started again hope it's better this time .

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By *ordan169Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Who can tell me what is wrong with my profile. Message me in a personal message if you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"started again hope it's better this time ."

Much better, OP

But leave the part of being married and then getting bored with marriage; just my opinion

- Mrs. J -

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Who can tell me what is wrong with my profile. Message me in a personal message if you can "

Start your own thread. It is generally considered to be rude hijacking someone else's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who can tell me what is wrong with my profile. Message me in a personal message if you can

Start your own thread. It is generally considered to be rude hijacking someone else's "

thank you

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

It's a life story not a profile and you've only been here 4 weeks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will definitely change everything then lol"
just be yourself pal, it's never a good start to try and be something your not... just give it time if people don't respond or even say no thanks.... it's not worth worrying about...people say go clubs but it's not so easy for people that are new to this to just turn up at a club, maybe try jumping in the east mids chat to talk to people or cam with a few people... my profile isn't the best because I simply don't care I'm young enough to go meet people the normal was aswell as the odd time on here... but if you need help just message me I'll try direct you the best ways I can..... not by simply saying you should change

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