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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, just looking for a bit of advice really. My gf isn't to enthusiastic about having anal sex but loves being rimmed and enjoys me fingering her ass and very recently during sex she has even asked me to gently finger her ass. Does this mean she's leaning more towards the idea of anal? If so how would you approach the subject of anal sex or should I just hold out in the hope that one day she forwardly asks for anal.

Any (sensible) advice would be massively appreciated.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Talk to her, none of us can possibly know what she's thinking and feeling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Talk to her, none of us can possibly know what she's thinking and feeling.

"

Fair point. She didn't enjoy her ass being fingered but then began to enjoy it and now openly says she likes it and asks me to do it so I'm guessing that's a sign...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Talk to her, none of us can possibly know what she's thinking and feeling.

Fair point. She didn't enjoy her ass being fingered but then began to enjoy it and now openly says she likes it and asks me to do it so I'm guessing that's a sign..."

The only thing its a sign of is that she likes her arse being fingered. Why not ask her if she might consider anal sex at some point or have a look at some small anal toys together.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Talk to her, none of us can possibly know what she's thinking and feeling.

Fair point. She didn't enjoy her ass being fingered but then began to enjoy it and now openly says she likes it and asks me to do it so I'm guessing that's a sign...

The only thing its a sign of is that she likes her arse being fingered. Why not ask her if she might consider anal sex at some point or have a look at some small anal toys together."

Yup I agree with what you're saying. I guess I'll have to bite the bullet and talk to her about it. Don't know if I don't ask...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Talk to her, none of us can possibly know what she's thinking and feeling.

Fair point. She didn't enjoy her ass being fingered but then began to enjoy it and now openly says she likes it and asks me to do it so I'm guessing that's a sign...

The only thing its a sign of is that she likes her arse being fingered. Why not ask her if she might consider anal sex at some point or have a look at some small anal toys together.

Yup I agree with what you're saying. I guess I'll have to bite the bullet and talk to her about it. Don't know if I don't ask..."

Its difficult isn't it. You're making yourself vulnerable and opening up to the possibility of rejection. But if you can't do that with your partner...then who?

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

All you can do is talk to her, she knows you want to try it just don't pressure her let her take things at her pace. By the sounds of it she is wanting to experiment more just not that far yet, I agree suggesting toys is a good way forward let her pick some and take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you like it? Maybe start from that angle?

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Hand her a strap on and say 'I will if you will' what good for the goose etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hand her a strap on and say 'I will if you will' what good for the goose etc "

I like it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you use plenty of lube

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Does she know your bi? If so let her fuck your arse first...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does she know your bi? If so let her fuck your arse first... "

Only prob is that I'm top guy

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

You could always use the terribly amusing line...

"It's easier to beg for forgiveness, than ask for permission"...

Just make sure you lube up!

Flames

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could always use the terribly amusing line...

"It's easier to beg for forgiveness, than ask for permission"...

Just make sure you lube up!

Flames"

Lol, I like your style

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We'll guys...going on your advice (most of the advice given) I spoke to my girlfriend over the weekend and high to you advisors...I gave it to her up the back door and it was amazing. So much so that I shot a load up her ass in minutes and she gushed pretty damn quick too. Woop woop

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"You could always use the terribly amusing line...

"It's easier to beg for forgiveness, than ask for permission"...

Just make sure you lube up!

Flames"

Exactly, you can always say "i was aiming for the other hole, they are quite close together you know"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, just looking for a bit of advice really. My gf isn't to enthusiastic about having anal sex but loves being rimmed and enjoys me fingering her ass and very recently during sex she has even asked me to gently finger her ass. Does this mean she's leaning more towards the idea of anal? If so how would you approach the subject of anal sex or should I just hold out in the hope that one day she forwardly asks for anal.

Any (sensible) advice would be massively appreciated.

"
accidentally slide a courgette in one day and see what she says if she objects just say well it is one of yer 5 a day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi all, just looking for a bit of advice really. My gf isn't to enthusiastic about having anal sex but loves being rimmed and enjoys me fingering her ass and very recently during sex she has even asked me to gently finger her ass. Does this mean she's leaning more towards the idea of anal? If so how would you approach the subject of anal sex or should I just hold out in the hope that one day she forwardly asks for anal.

Any (sensible) advice would be massively appreciated.

accidentally slide a courgette in one day and see what she says if she objects just say well it is one of yer 5 a day "

Haha. Superb

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By *eepndarkMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Better to bring it up in conversation. As with everything in life the mood has to be right.

Be gentle and she be begging you for it.

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By *eepndarkMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Woah, I didn't pick that up. Goose and Gander fella let her do the honours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Woah, I didn't pick that up. Goose and Gander fella let her do the honours "

Nice pics pal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Still enjoying the anal fun with my GF. Highly recommended to all the curious anal virgins out there

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By *incsmannow4uMan
over a year ago

A52 between Boston and Skeg

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Does she know your bi? If so let her fuck your arse first...

Only prob is that I'm top guy

"

No lovely...if you want to give a female in my opinion you should experience it too. Our arseholes are the same.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

So when is she coming on fab for some 3 way fun?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So when is she coming on fab for some 3 way fun?"

I wish hun. She's not open to that idea at all

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness


"So when is she coming on fab for some 3 way fun?

I wish hun. She's not open to that idea at all "

Have you asked? Similar to the anal fun maybe it just needs that open conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So when is she coming on fab for some 3 way fun?

I wish hun. She's not open to that idea at all

Have you asked? Similar to the anal fun maybe it just needs that open conversation. "

I've brought it up in conversation a number of times and she really doesn't like the idea. I love the idea but she really doesn't. Lol

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"So when is she coming on fab for some 3 way fun?

I wish hun. She's not open to that idea at all

Have you asked? Similar to the anal fun maybe it just needs that open conversation.

I've brought it up in conversation a number of times and she really doesn't like the idea. I love the idea but she really doesn't. Lol"

Maybe you are just not suited

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So when is she coming on fab for some 3 way fun?

I wish hun. She's not open to that idea at all

Have you asked? Similar to the anal fun maybe it just needs that open conversation.

I've brought it up in conversation a number of times and she really doesn't like the idea. I love the idea but she really doesn't. Lol

Maybe you are just not suited"

I'm pretty sure we're suited but there's some things I would like in the bedroom which she isn't keen on. I wouldn't say that means we're not suit.

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By *eepndarkMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"So when is she coming on fab for some 3 way fun?

I wish hun. She's not open to that idea at all "

Same here. We are a mixed race couple and F is sexy as...we would have lot's of fun

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By *eepndarkMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"So when is she coming on fab for some 3 way fun?

I wish hun. She's not open to that idea at all

Have you asked? Similar to the anal fun maybe it just needs that open conversation. "

Candy some women are just not interested. No porn,photos, lingerie and never bought a sex toy themselves etc. I was promised the shyness would relax. 16 years later I tap my fingers with waiting lol. There is more to life than sex, but not much more lol

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

Just take it slow bud..talk and play...let her peg u...then u will know her fear..lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We'll since I created this post me and my gf have been having regular anal sex, a few times a week now. At first I thought she was doing it to make me happy but she's forwardly asking me to give it her. Lesson learnt, if you don't talk openly then you'll never know.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"We'll since I created this post me and my gf have been having regular anal sex, a few times a week now. At first I thought she was doing it to make me happy but she's forwardly asking me to give it her. Lesson learnt, if you don't talk openly then you'll never know. "

If you don't put pictures on your profile then it didn't happen bro

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We'll since I created this post me and my gf have been having regular anal sex, a few times a week now. At first I thought she was doing it to make me happy but she's forwardly asking me to give it her. Lesson learnt, if you don't talk openly then you'll never know.

If you don't put pictures on your profile then it didn't happen bro"

Haha fair point, give me a chance though lol...only just got her to have anal sex, taking pics is then next thing on the list haha

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"We'll since I created this post me and my gf have been having regular anal sex, a few times a week now. At first I thought she was doing it to make me happy but she's forwardly asking me to give it her. Lesson learnt, if you don't talk openly then you'll never know.

If you don't put pictures on your profile then it didn't happen bro

Haha fair point, give me a chance though lol...only just got her to have anal sex, taking pics is then next thing on the list haha "

Sharing is caring

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We'll since I created this post me and my gf have been having regular anal sex, a few times a week now. At first I thought she was doing it to make me happy but she's forwardly asking me to give it her. Lesson learnt, if you don't talk openly then you'll never know.

If you don't put pictures on your profile then it didn't happen bro

Haha fair point, give me a chance though lol...only just got her to have anal sex, taking pics is then next thing on the list haha

Sharing is caring "

True say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman has a pussy for a reason. The fact that you are attracted to analyse makes you a closet gay. Be brave and cum out of the closet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A woman has a pussy for a reason. The fact that you are attracted to analyse makes you a closet gay. Be brave and cum out of the closet!"

As they say, every hole and all that. So you trying to say that if a guy wants to give a woman anal sex then he's bi/gay. Ok then mate, if you say so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bang that ass sensible. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bang that ass sensible. .

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Suzie likes to have her clit stroked with a vibe while she is analled, turns her into an anal slut and makes her cum hard

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"A woman has a pussy for a reason. The fact that you are attracted to analyse makes you a closet gay. Be brave and cum out of the closet!

As they say, every hole and all that. So you trying to say that if a guy wants to give a woman anal sex then he's bi/gay. Ok then mate, if you say so "

Yeah women have a pussy for a reason, to make babies. When you want good sex you go for the nearby hole.

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

p.s. I am bi and have been analled many times too.... first time at Suzie's suggestion!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A woman has a pussy for a reason. The fact that you are attracted to analyse makes you a closet gay. Be brave and cum out of the closet!

As they say, every hole and all that. So you trying to say that if a guy wants to give a woman anal sex then he's bi/gay. Ok then mate, if you say so

Yeah women have a pussy for a reason, to make babies. When you want good sex you go for the nearby hole. "

Exactly. We'll said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A woman has a pussy for a reason. The fact that you are attracted to analyse makes you a closet gay. Be brave and cum out of the closet!"

Next you'll be saying wanking makes you a closet gay as it involves playing with a cock!

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

You could also ask whether she wants to be part of a couple on this site too? Or does she not know you are on here?.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could also ask whether she wants to be part of a couple on this site too? Or does she not know you are on here?..... "

Some secrets are best left uncovered haha

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

She seemed to be loving it when we saw her in the Attic being banged up the ass by a few guys...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She seemed to be loving it when we saw her in the Attic being banged up the ass by a few guys..."

Think you've got the wrong person there lol. We were in Spain for the past 10 days

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"She seemed to be loving it when we saw her in the Attic being banged up the ass by a few guys...

Think you've got the wrong person there lol. We were in Spain for the past 10 days"

Has she got a sister?

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London


"We'll guys...going on your advice (most of the advice given) I spoke to my girlfriend over the weekend and high to you advisors...I gave it to her up the back door and it was amazing. So much so that I shot a load up her ass in minutes and she gushed pretty damn quick too. Woop woop "

What does she think of your Fab profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We'll guys...going on your advice (most of the advice given) I spoke to my girlfriend over the weekend and high to you advisors...I gave it to her up the back door and it was amazing. So much so that I shot a load up her ass in minutes and she gushed pretty damn quick too. Woop woop

What does she think of your Fab profile? "

What she doesn't know cannot hurt her, surely

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Classy... bet she will be over the moon when she reads that! And it will happen... one day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'll since I created this post me and my gf have been having regular anal sex, a few times a week now. At first I thought she was doing it to make me happy but she's forwardly asking me to give it her. Lesson learnt, if you don't talk openly then you'll never know.

If you don't put pictures on your profile then it didn't happen bro"

Cheeky

And if you don't invite me when you are doing it, it was all a fantasy only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'll since I created this post me and my gf have been having regular anal sex, a few times a week now. At first I thought she was doing it to make me happy but she's forwardly asking me to give it her. Lesson learnt, if you don't talk openly then you'll never know.

If you don't put pictures on your profile then it didn't happen bro

Haha fair point, give me a chance though lol...only just got her to have anal sex, taking pics is then next thing on the list haha "

First, invite me for a pro massage.

I won't touch her inappropriately,I promise!

But you'll get to observe her reaction to another man's touch...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Classy... bet she will be over the moon when she reads that! And it will happen... one day!"

Cheers hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does she know your bi? If so let her fuck your arse first... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does she know your bi? If so let her fuck your arse first... "

Haha.

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By *r.gambinoMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

think you need a lesson on how to grow a set of balls

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"think you need a lesson on how to grow a set of balls "

Obviously you've not read the whole thread have you mate. Perhaps you ought to learn to read

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By *ackdorf2Man
over a year ago

north walsham

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By *ackdorf2Man
over a year ago

north walsham

I was under the impression that all girls like anal...some of them just don't know it yet?!

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By *ockman3858Man
over a year ago

didcot

Try a Vibro first c if she that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was under the impression that all girls like anal...some of them just don't know it yet?!"

Actually I hate anal and I do know that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was under the impression that all girls like anal...some of them just don't know it yet?!"

Lol, like my gf. We gave it a try and now I get to give her a regular ass fuck

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