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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been here a while have been a little hesitant and also busy with family and work so finding the time for all this has been difficult..nevertheless getting any interest has been slim is there anythi g we can do to change this..many thanks in advance

K & M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi guys,

Obviously you're not looking for single guys, so I can't judge what a couple would be looking for, but a point I would make is that a large proportion of your pics are of Mr's cock.

That could quite easily put a lot of people off.

I'd also try and take some pics showing you both together, not necessarily naked, but full length.

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

Certainly don't think there is anything wrong with your profile. It's honest and well written and you have lots of very sexy pictures. Maybe look for couples for social hang outs and chat first. If anything develops it will do so naturally.

Good luck and we hope you find what you're looking for.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'd suggest getting a meet veri. There are plenty of great clubs in the NW. They are friendly relaxed places, you'll get verified by the staff and that can make fab meets easier.

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I seen wrong with your profile is the word "fantasies".

A lot of ladies don't like being put into that position of being a guinea pig.

Try changing it to sexual experiences.

Like someone has stated, get along to some clubs or social meet parties.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone who has comented we will take all the advice on board x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) move to Worcester

2) include single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to clubs bs for meets use fab to keep in contact with people you meet there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of 3 cam veris...1 is enough....

Cam veris do not mean you actually meet anyone...

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By *orny222Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We're going Malaga June 7th is there any good swinging there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

invite me round lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have been to Atlantis but had no verification from them but will follow up on that ..thanks everyone..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to an organised social. There is one in Leeds soon

But for us your smokers and that would stop us meeting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing I seen wrong with your profile is the word "fantasies".

A lot of ladies don't like being put into that position of being a guinea pig.

Try changing it to sexual experiences.

Like someone has stated, get along to some clubs or social meet parties. "

I've noticed this comment a few times on my time in the forums.. what exactly do the people who think this way assume this site is all about? Very few of us know anyone on here before we join.. so everyone is a potential fantasy yet to be fulfilled. Most of us join to experience something we've not tried before. So to think you're not someone's fantasy is a little bizarre if you ask me.

If I can make friends with people in the process (I usually do, as that's the kind of profilesI search for and the way I prefer things as I'm quite social) then awesome.. but I'd be lying that having sex with the profile I'm looking at isn't a fantasy I'm trying to turn into a reality.

Also fantasy refers to the acts themselves or scenarios you've 'fantasized' about but never tried.

It doesn't imply the other person is a guineapig or a piece of meat surely? Personally I'd be honoured if someone was considering me to fulfill a fantasy of theirs. Not upset or offended.

OP your profile looks fine to me, pictures are clear and you've written enough to Gove people an idea. Mind you that's a single man's perspective, so I can't vouch for what couples are searching for.. I wouldn't fret too much about what people say.. everyone is so different and particular on here.

Personally if I was in a couples profile I'd have one clear picture of us together without our faces showing. With a brief bit of text explaining what we were looking for. Then I'd search for the types of people we both were attracted to.

Too much hassle from single men, needy couples and fake couple profiles to give too much information away. I'd even consider blocking most people till I was actively searching. I've seen the bloated inboxes of females and couples profiles and it seems way more hassle than it's worth to be honest. But that's just my view and we're all different.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"We're going Malaga June 7th is there any good swinging there"

Maybe start your own thread in the Spain forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like a good profile to us... Love that you enjoy soft swing too. The only thing that puts me off personally (and this isn't just regarding your profile) but when the majority of verifications are by webcam, I find that they're people who are reluctant to meet.

That's not an insult to anyone that prefers to play like that, each to their own but it's something that would make us a bit hesitant x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been to Atlantis but had no verification from them but will follow up on that ..thanks everyone..x"

Did you guys enjoy Atlantis? Did you chat to your host? I'm sure they would leave you a veri and you could return the favour

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Looks like a good profile to us... Love that you enjoy soft swing too. The only thing that puts me off personally (and this isn't just regarding your profile) but when the majority of verifications are by webcam, I find that they're people who are reluctant to meet.

That's not an insult to anyone that prefers to play like that, each to their own but it's something that would make us a bit hesitant x"

Yes, agree. If someone has all or mostly cam veris, we tend to assume they are either a fake or a fantasist.

We are obviously wrong in that assumption on many occasions, but that's what we assume nevertheless.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well were definately not fake thats for sure ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting up for a drink or even a brew is our preferred method of meeting new peeps. And you're probably quite local to us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Awaiting a veri from our clib meet

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We like you two are soft swap and never know with the right people could go further. Not interested in single guys. We have no problem meeting people. Your profile and pictures have tempted us to put you both on our hotlist of people who paths we hope to cross. Unlike you two we have no ties and we are a very sociable couple so clubs and socials are our way of meeting like minded people. Met some wonderful people and made some great friends. We do put our success, if you can call it that, down to plenty of networking and getting out there. We always say life is not going to knock on your door, have to get out and live it

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Go to clubs bs for meets use fab to keep in contact with people you meet there "

This works for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks were hoping to attend more clibs and socials private meets in the coming weeks and months after our hols so looking for plenty of excitement...mmmm hotlist we like the sound of that lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here a while have been a little hesitant and also busy with family and work so finding the time for all this has been difficult..nevertheless getting any interest has been slim is there anythi g we can do to change this..many thanks in advance

K & M x"
I checked your profile pics were ok I thought some of guy but most of woman who looks very sexy ,couples are as it says two people so the chat in chatroom should be lead by both of you not just the guy ,more info in your write up helps ,just getting more involved yourselves messaging people who interest you ,can't really see why youre getting so little interest really

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

It is difficult as a couple, solely looking for couples and single girls , plus you have to put yourself out there in clubs , party groups and socials, show people you like what you are about and what you have to offer, you can't sell any product by locking it indoors.

If you were looking for single guys then your profile is enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks...getting verified and going to clubs and private meets is what we are about ..meeting couples and females is top of our list at the moment .not ruling out meeting males if the feeling was on our mind

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