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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not really sure how to approach women on this never done anything like this so if the men could tell me the how use do it and also if females could also tell me on how they like to be approached

Much appreciated

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Not really sure how to approach women on this never done anything like this so if the men could tell me the how use do it and also if females could also tell me on how they like to be approached

Much appreciated "
approach women as you would away from Fab. Use manners and be polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really sure how to approach women on this never done anything like this so if the men could tell me the how use do it and also if females could also tell me on how they like to be approached

Much appreciated "

Woman like to see public pics first, so they can decide if they want to reply to a message.

As for what to put in a message, every woman is different, so you may never know!!

What I can say, is most don't like cock pics attached to messages inless asked for (not saying you do that)

I suggest keeping it simple and polite, but more than a "hi how are you" or "fancy a fuck" etc.

Unfortunately your age may play apart in your struggle, obviously there nothing you can do about that.

Good luck

Poppy

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

As above, and we tend not to fancy the standard silhouette look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have also had issues with meeting people or getting replies .

I have tried lots of different approaches but all seem to fail .

I have modified my profile and changed pics .

I am very polite and kind to everyone I message but I hardly get anything positive back .

# kinda confused

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There is no "magic formula" that is guaranteed to work for everyone but if you remember the three P's you are at least giving yourself a fighting chance:

- Profile: Write one that helps you stand out from the crowd, give details about what you like and don't like, what you're looking for and most importantly what you think you can offer.

- Pictures: Have a decent set of pics on your profile that show off your body but not necessarily your cock - they don't have to be face pictures or reveal anything that might identify you. Try and make them tasteful and teasing though. Would also suggest having an avatar pic rather than the standard silhouette OP, again it helps you stand out.

- Patience: Remember that men outnumber women by about 15:1 on here, so you're part of a very big crowd and you might have to wait a while before finding someone. That's not to say that's always the case though.

Other than that try getting more involved in the forums, they're a great way of getting to know people, and you'd be amazed at how a conversation can spark as a result of using them. Virtually everyone I chat to has been through the forums.

Other things to consider are getting along to organised socials or going to a club, it's a lot easier to get to know people there.

Good luck

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By *ob the builder2010Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Not really sure how to approach women on this never done anything like this so if the men could tell me the how use do it and also if females could also tell me on how they like to be approached

Much appreciated "
on my first meet . . Just be yourself talk to them about life work or things nothing dirty. Get them a drink or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so hard to try to talk to people without it sounding cheep lol what's the best way to takle the subject lol IV been on and off of here for a bit and never actualy met up with any1 would I be best going to a club and meeting people that way ?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"There is no "magic formula" that is guaranteed to work for everyone but if you remember the three P's you are at least giving yourself a fighting chance:

- Profile: Write one that helps you stand out from the crowd, give details about what you like and don't like, what you're looking for and most importantly what you think you can offer.

- Pictures: Have a decent set of pics on your profile that show off your body but not necessarily your cock - they don't have to be face pictures or reveal anything that might identify you. Try and make them tasteful and teasing though. Would also suggest having an avatar pic rather than the standard silhouette OP, again it helps you stand out.

- Patience: Remember that men outnumber women by about 15:1 on here, so you're part of a very big crowd and you might have to wait a while before finding someone. That's not to say that's always the case though.

Other than that try getting more involved in the forums, they're a great way of getting to know people, and you'd be amazed at how a conversation can spark as a result of using them. Virtually everyone I chat to has been through the forums.

Other things to consider are getting along to organised socials or going to a club, it's a lot easier to get to know people there.

Good luck "

Good advice x

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