FabSwingers.com forum: Why do woman presume where all the same?

By *enuineGuy420fan1986 OP Man
over a year ago

northwest

Plain profiles and hidden pictures can be for loads of reasons make a male profile n try get somwhere with a woman see how difficult it is lol

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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on other sites, where the guys have profiles, i do look for guys and it's easy to find who i think might be compatible with me.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

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There are many profiles like yours OP so on the face of it many people are the same. The only way to stand out is to be different from the crowd.

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

"Plain profiles and hidden pictures can be for loads of reasons make a male profile n try get somwhere with a woman see how difficult it is lol "

Ok...

Let's flip the question the other way....

If you were looking for women and looked at the profiles, which would you choose?

A profile which had a picture showing their face/torso/or other parts of the body, dependant on the level of privacy they want to display; and a descriptive profile explaining what they had to offer and what they desired,

A profile with a shadow picture and a promise that they'll answer any questions?

Your profile is your shop window. Fabbers use it to window shop. If there is nothing in the shop window, they'll just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above - well said

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I have a car for sale. No photo of it, a very vague description of what it's like and an invitation for you to get in touch for more details.

Will you go for that one or go for the ones right next to my ad that have great photos and a detailed write up?

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"Plain profiles and hidden pictures can be for loads of reasons make a male profile n try get somwhere with a woman see how difficult it is lol

Ok...

Let's flip the question the other way....

If you were looking for women and looked at the profiles, which would you choose?

A profile with a shadow picture and a promise that they'll answer any questions?

Your profile is your shop window. Fabbers use it to window shop. If there is nothing in the shop window, they'll just move on.

Nail.....Head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plain profiles and hidden pictures can be for loads of reasons make a male profile n try get somwhere with a woman see how difficult it is lol

Ok...

Let's flip the question the other way....

If you were looking for women and looked at the profiles, which would you choose?

A profile with a shadow picture and a promise that they'll answer any questions?

Your profile is your shop window. Fabbers use it to window shop. If there is nothing in the shop window, they'll just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op I know you are not looking for men so this is just my view.

I get my fair share of messages.

When it's a profile like yours I completely loss interest, as from past experiences it's hard work dragging any information out of the guy. Yes some want to be discreet but words on profile are not going to out you

I'm sure loads will be itching to tell you this lol

"Where not all the same" should be

"We're not all the same"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unfortunately,having a blank profile pic, and virtually no profile makes you exactly the same as a massive proportion of men on here...it's pretty stupid to give no information about yourself whatsoever, then whinge that you're not the same as other guys...how exactly do you imagine anyone is supposed to know what you're like?

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By *avsam1Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

Completely loss interest should be completely lose!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Completely loss interest should be completely lose!"

if one is to correct a grammatical error one should not make such errors themselvelves

oopsies

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Because if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck,then it's a duck .If you're actually a Flamingo then how would anyone know when there is zero on your profile to make you different to the flock .

More effort you make more reward you may get . If your different to all the rest then why aren't you showing that . Make your profile individual if you don't want to just blend in the grey of the masses .

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

"I have a car for sale. No photo of it, a very vague description of what it's like and an invitation for you to get in touch for more details.

Will you go for that one or go for the ones right next to my ad that have great photos and a detailed write up?"

I would go for the one with the great pics and write up,there are loads to see,so why bother asking about blank adverts

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Plain profiles and hidden pictures can be for loads of reasons make a male profile n try get somwhere with a woman see how difficult it is lol "

Well you won't get anywhere with a threadbare profile, no photos or verifications..

A bit of a no-brainier this one....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plain profiles and hidden pictures can be for loads of reasons make a male profile n try get somwhere with a woman see how difficult it is lol

Well you won't get anywhere with a threadbare profile, no photos or verifications..

A bit of a no-brainier this one...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plain profiles and hidden pictures can be for loads of reasons make a male profile n try get somwhere with a woman see how difficult it is lol

Ok...

Let's flip the question the other way....

If you were looking for women and looked at the profiles, which would you choose?

A profile with a shadow picture and a promise that they'll answer any questions?

Your profile is your shop window. Fabbers use it to window shop. If there is nothing in the shop window, they'll just move on.

Here Here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Completely loss interest should be completely lose!

if one is to correct a grammatical error one should not make such errors themselvelves

oopsies"

Haha Touché

In my defence, I could not read and write when I left school at 15 and them later found out I am dyslexic.

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By *he mile high jinks clubMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I am a relative newbie to the site but not to swinging and I say this in the politest way possible but if you are apprehensive about putting up at least one picture and a bit about yourself any liaisons, if they happen, won’t be very much fun for you. If you wish to remain this anonymous you best develop an extra thick skin and hope someone is eventually willing to see past your profile, or lack of.

You could embrace your profile, tell all the lovely men and women on FAB why they should be meeting up with you. Put a photo up, it doesn’t have to be face, so others can get some idea of you, peoples types come in all shape and sizes

Finally, don’t take it all so seriously. Swinging is about having fun with other likeminded people and also never take it to heart if people say no. You have to be right for them as much as they have to be right for you.

If you do I can’t guarantee anyone will get in touch, but I will guarantee you will have a darn better chance of interest than being one of FABs long list of mystery men.

have a rethink but good luck chap, TC

(Feel free to mark my spelling and grammar

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Why do men presume women are all the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos we're all shit obvs lol

All women Don't assume anything, if they did this place would be no fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a car for sale. No photo of it, a very vague description of what it's like and an invitation for you to get in touch for more details.

Will you go for that one or go for the ones right next to my ad that have great photos and a detailed write up?"

Hey what kind of car are you selling ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a relative newbie to the site but not to swinging and I say this in the politest way possible but if you are apprehensive about putting up at least one picture and a bit about yourself any liaisons, if they happen, won’t be very much fun for you. If you wish to remain this anonymous you best develop an extra thick skin and hope someone is eventually willing to see past your profile, or lack of.

If you do I can’t guarantee anyone will get in touch, but I will guarantee you will have a darn better chance of interest than being one of FABs long list of mystery men.

have a rethink but good luck chap, TC

(Feel free to mark my spelling and grammar

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Most succinct

I would not presume to mark your grammar.

I have dyspepsia you know that word blindness thingy

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